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Banter or Crass???
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theyre welcome to smash my door,its old made of wood and leads into a barn.. not much to find in there anyway.
Why someone would want to smash my back door in in the middle of nowhere is beyond me.. genitals on the other hand..
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"What's your opinion of the first message from someone being along the lines of destroying your genitalia or smashing back door ?
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I find it pretty hateful actually. Some guys are clearly being pretty misogynistic with that kind of message too.
I usually ask them if they think permanent deformities are funny, or if they think sexual assault if a good chat up line. |
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"What's your opinion of the first message from someone being along the lines of destroying your genitalia or smashing back door ?
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But you already know the answer... |
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It's rude, crass and usually a jolly reliable indicator of someone either not reading my profile at all or being incapable of judging what may or may not illicit a response. |
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Depends what mood I'm in. If I'm tired I say no thank you,if I'm having a mental day I'll play along. Quite often we end up having a funny conversation. |
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"What's your opinion of the first message from someone being along the lines of destroying your genitalia or smashing back door ?
But you already know the answer..."
No actually I don't. I know my feelings towards it .But as said some may enjoy it |
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Depends on my mood! Most of the time just raise an eyebrow and delete (like most of my messages) or if I'm up for it, I'll retaliate with something equally as crass!!
Had a message convo with someone like that before. We started off normal chit chat and when I said I wasn't really interested he sent me a torrent of abuse, calling me all sorts. I was bored so took it as a challenge and the "banter" ensued. It was brilliant!! He was gobsmaked. We had a good laugh but decided not meet!! |
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"In what world is that "banter"?
Yes, I though that too.
Lol sorry banter is a Scots term ... joke ,jest ,playful repartee
I know what banter means.....  "
Lol sorry I clearly need more caffeine lol!!
It's certainly not in my world but they have meets so must of worked lol.
I'd just hope a guy would not assume what's going to interested me and that type of approach will get a gals gusset gushing lol . Suss us out ..we are individuals Thankful there are lovely guys who do realise that . |
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"What's your opinion of the first message from someone being along the lines of destroying your genitalia or smashing back door ?
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Crass, ignorant and indicative of the type of person we wouldn't want to meet. |
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There are all sorts in this world, personally I prefer Seduction to destruction. So would view them as crass threat type messages, but others may enjoy them. |
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Instant delete from me, those kind of messages are up there with the organised fun messages, you know the ones where they say I'm gonna stick my massive throbbing dick in your pussy and tweak on them nipples and clap on them cheeks! Or words to that effect. Hate organised fun messages! |
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I reckon very few women would welcome that sort of message as an opener.
It almost pains me to say this but I, on this rare occasion, find myself in agreement with Wasp Hunter.
It's conception is more likely from hate and misogyny than anything else. |
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"What's your opinion of the first message from someone being along the lines of destroying your genitalia or smashing back door ?
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Banter is with friends not strangers. |
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"Who in their right mind would meet someone who wrote such a message  . Massive red flag to me. Delete and ignore. "
I am convinced guys who write these sorts of messages are not actually bothered if they get rejected.
The knowledge that their vile message to a woman has actually been read gives them their sexual thrill. The pathetic wretches likely see it as a bigger success if they feel they have offended somebody enough to be blocked. |
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"Who in their right mind would meet someone who wrote such a message . Massive red flag to me. Delete and ignore.
I am convinced guys who write these sorts of messages are not actually bothered if they get rejected.
The knowledge that their vile message to a woman has actually been read gives them their sexual thrill. The pathetic wretches likely see it as a bigger success if they feel they have offended somebody enough to be blocked."
Can only imagine what their sad little lives are like   |
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