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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Here goes .... apologies in advance if I (tray) come across as a tit for asking this 
I'm fully bisexual and love getting down and dirty with a woman. We had an experience Saturday whereby we as a couple were getting it on and we were being watched closely by a single female. We signalled she could join us which she happily did. But during play it became obvious that she wanted to take but was reluctant in giving back. This wasn't just with us as we saw her in the same situation later in the night with other couples. Anyone else experienced this? This was not our only play that night as we also had an amazing fully bi experience with a friend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As with any sort of play some people have their limits and preferences as to how far they like to go. This is why communication is so important and not assuming certain things will be reciprocated. As you were already playing in assuming you didn't stop to chat about what you were all happy with. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But yes, I have seen this before, but never questioned it  "
Had it just been with us I wouldn't have questioned it but saw her do the same with several couples |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But yes, I have seen this before, but never questioned it
Had it just been with us I wouldn't have questioned it but saw her do the same with several couples"
Well, that's just how she prefers to play. You know not to play with her again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we dont mind this so long as we know her boundaries - if someone is just invited in and no pre chat has happened those limits are unknown - just the way it is |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"we dont mind this so long as we know her boundaries - if someone is just invited in and no pre chat has happened those limits are unknown - just the way it is"
Part of our learning curve. It was enjoyable but strange |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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L gets nervous of women who only receive, she wonders if they are forced bi, especially in a 4 some but also with single females in clubs.
I think no matter what gender any hesitation to be fully involved is a worry, as you question if the person is enjoying the sex, or is hesitant because they feel a social preasure to be involved. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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Sometimes women can like the feeling of receiving but nervous of how to reciprocate.....maybe new to it and unsure of herself and how it would be received....or maybe she is a pillow princess and loves receiving and won't ever give  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes women can like the feeling of receiving but nervous of how to reciprocate.....maybe new to it and unsure of herself and how it would be received....or maybe she is a pillow princess and loves receiving and won't ever give "
Have to clarify, L does love a Pillow Princess once she knows the person well enough to know that is what is happening. Just makes her nervous if a woman claims bi, but doesn't act it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm more than happy to give all night to lovely ladies. However, once played with a woman at a party who suddenly announced she was bi selfish so I definitely wouldn't get anything in return. Kinda put me off and I lost interest, surprisingly! Lol Don't like selfish people for any reason so now avoid anybody that's declaring that on their profile because I have seen it occasionally.
Saying that, everyone is here doing this for a variety of reasons. Your lady could be very new to this and I remember how nervous I would get beforehand! It's a learning curve and we've all got the right to pleasure ourselves however we want.
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Sometimes women can like the feeling of receiving but nervous of how to reciprocate.....maybe new to it and unsure of herself and how it would be received....or maybe she is a pillow princess and loves receiving and won't ever give
Have to clarify, L does love a Pillow Princess once she knows the person well enough to know that is what is happening. Just makes her nervous if a woman claims bi, but doesn't act it."
I am a bit of a pillow princess but it's mostly nerves....I do get into it but sometimes it takes me a few kisses before I work my way down |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This was no kissing, no fingers, no tongues, just tit play. Although she wanted it all & tried to position herself onto jay several times but that's not our thing. Oh well onwards and upwards |
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"This was no kissing, no fingers, no tongues, just tit play. Although she wanted it all & tried to position herself onto jay several times but that's not our thing. Oh well onwards and upwards "
Tbh it sounds like maybe she was after male fun rather than female fun if she tried to position herself with male. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"This was no kissing, no fingers, no tongues, just tit play. Although she wanted it all & tried to position herself onto jay several times but that's not our thing. Oh well onwards and upwards "
Ohhhhhhhhh no that's completely different to someone getting licked and not licking back.....I do the whole kissing, biting, fingers and work up to giving major licks |
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