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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"No im not feeling down on myself. Grey adores the way I am but I just thought I'd post a thread on this subject as I don't consider im curvy  "
As long as grey adores you, that is all that should matter  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No im not feeling down on myself. Grey adores the way I am but I just thought I'd post a thread on this subject as I don't consider im curvy "
And the winner of the most pointless 'look at us' thread goes to...... |
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By *manda63 OP Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"No im not feeling down on myself. Grey adores the way I am but I just thought I'd post a thread on this subject as I don't consider im curvy
And the winner of the most pointless 'look at us' thread goes to......"
Me but it wasn't one, I was just airing my feelings, I didn't ask anyone to look at me but if you did, then thank you |
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I would be worried about anyone who based their feelings about themselves on someone else's opinion ... because its all good when that someone finds you attractive but what happens when they don't? Does your sense of self worth go out of the window? Not aimed at anyone personally, just a discussion point ... I live in my body so the choices I make with it are mine |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
I'm a fatty. Some days I can dress it up and say I'm curvy but others I just see it for what it is.
That said being on here has shown me that size doesn't define who you are.
It's hard to break a cycle of self loathing. I've done it for so long but it's important to try as much as you can to put it into perspective. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a fatty. Some days I can dress it up and say I'm curvy but others I just see it for what it is.
That said being on here has shown me that size doesn't define who you are.
It's hard to break a cycle of self loathing. I've done it for so long but it's important to try as much as you can to put it into perspective. "
Some good advice/opinion right there  |
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"No im not feeling down on myself. Grey adores the way I am but I just thought I'd post a thread on this subject as I don't consider im curvy "
If you're not happy (and it sounds like you're not), then change. If there's one thing that a person is truly in control of, it is themselves.
There's loads of ways to get started, and there's loads of help available. Ultimately though, it's actions which make the difference, choose something and then DO-IT... tell everyone you're going to do it and they'll support you.
Cal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wonders if anyone will actually try looking for one?
For those lacking in humour It was tounge in cheek.
Meaning who is anyone else to judge what we are?
There are so many blurred lines and descriptions these day's no wonder everyone has some sort of complex about one thing or another.
Usually based on looks or wealth.
Take myself for example.
By definition I could not be described as a gym fit guy.
However I go to the gym 4/5day's a week, watch my diet and train very hard.
But to some I am fat.
To others I am just big built.
Point being everyone views us differently, it's how we view ourselves that matters.
If you are happy with yourself then who cares.
But honestly have you ever met anyone these day's who are happy with their bodies?
Being healthy is far more important in how you look.
You can be stick thin and be very unhealthy.
Also you can be overweight and be healthy.
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"I would be worried about anyone who based their feelings about themselves on someone else's opinion ... because its all good when that someone finds you attractive but what happens when they don't? Does your sense of self worth go out of the window? Not aimed at anyone personally, just a discussion point ... I live in my body so the choices I make with it are mine"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well from the one clear body pic I can see, you go in at the waist which makes you look curvy.
I wouldn't worry about fab definitions for body types it's a crock of shite. If you're happy with you, then that's all that really matters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And the winner of the most pointless 'look at us' thread goes to......"
A bit "below the belt" this comment. Kinda reflects the kind of guy you are really 
As to the OP, if someone is loving you why worry  and from what I see your definitely getting what makes our world go around!!! xxx |
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By *manda63 OP Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"No im not feeling down on myself. Grey adores the way I am but I just thought I'd post a thread on this subject as I don't consider im curvy
If you're not happy (and it sounds like you're not), then change. If there's one thing that a person is truly in control of, it is themselves.
There's loads of ways to get started, and there's loads of help available. Ultimately though, it's actions which make the difference, choose something and then DO-IT... tell everyone you're going to do it and they'll support you.
Cal"
I'm trying to lose weight but I do have a sweet tooth and things are a bit stressful just lately, the sweet things are my thing I lean on but we've had a great time tonight and I'm feeling good |
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By *manda63 OP Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"Well from the one clear body pic I can see, you go in at the waist which makes you look curvy.
I wouldn't worry about fab definitions for body types it's a crock of shite. If you're happy with you, then that's all that really matters."
The dress he brought me helped with the curve but thank you for the comments and support |
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By *manda63 OP Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"And the winner of the most pointless 'look at us' thread goes to......
A bit "below the belt" this comment. Kinda reflects the kind of guy you are really
As to the OP, if someone is loving you why worry and from what I see your definitely getting what makes our world go around!!! xxx "
I did respond to his post. He says he adores me and yes I'm definitely getting whst makes our world go around. Thank you |
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By *manda63 OP Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"No im not feeling down on myself. Grey adores the way I am but I just thought I'd post a thread on this subject as I don't consider im curvy
You look curvy to me and incredible sexy "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course you have curves...OK, so they may be bigger curves than some peoples. That's no reason to get down though! Many men prefer larger curves...Grey certainly seems to do so, enjoy your own body shape and don't feel you need to change to fit in with somebody else's "norm"! |
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By *manda63 OP Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"Of course you have curves...OK, so they may be bigger curves than some peoples. That's no reason to get down though! Many men prefer larger curves...Grey certainly seems to do so, enjoy your own body shape and don't feel you need to change to fit in with somebody else's "norm"!"
Thank you but as I said, I wasn't down, was just posting in here. I know he does but I need to change for myself and other reasons, not to fit in with the "norm" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No im not feeling down on myself. Grey adores the way I am but I just thought I'd post a thread on this subject as I don't consider im curvy "
What's the question?? |
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By *manda63 OP Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"No im not feeling down on myself. Grey adores the way I am but I just thought I'd post a thread on this subject as I don't consider im curvy
What's the question?? "
There was no question, just a statement. I wasn't after replies either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No im not feeling down on myself. Grey adores the way I am but I just thought I'd post a thread on this subject as I don't consider im curvy
What's the question??
There was no question, just a statement. I wasn't after replies either "
What was the point of it so? |
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"Decent knockers, no arse, no hips, huge tummy.
Non curvy fatty here
Snap. I'm like a ribena berry as have skinny arms and legs too "
Ha!! All my weight goes to my belly. Would quite like a curvy arse but isn't to be |
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