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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Condoms.... Bring your own to a meet or should the lady have them... Discuss xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have differing opinions Jay believes the guy should always have them and I believe it should be both who have them xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't care as long as someone has some

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By *idseysCouple over a year ago

redditch

Both.

Always good to have a choice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

all responsible adults should have them, sadly not everyone is!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In normal circumstances, I feel the onus is on the man, in the same way that the onus is on the man to buy the drinks. Though a sensible woman should always have some just in case.

However I only use latex free condoms, so I do except that if I want a particular type, I have to provide my own. Gets a bit awkward in clubs having to stop men, and give him my own condoms to use.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i have plenty because i like to sort myself out but he should bring his own really because it's his dick being wrapped and he's gonna know which condoms are best for him.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Seriously asking that?!

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By *udistnorthantsMan over a year ago

Desborough

When I am hosting a party I provide a selection but it is hoped the guys will bring their own favourite ones

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Condoms.... Bring your own to a meet or should the lady have them... Discuss xx"

Both people should bring their own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Personally I always carry .. It's only polite too.... And just in case things advance and she's not prepared

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Personally I always carry .. It's only polite too.... And just in case things advance and she's not prepared "

Sorry I'm not getting this,it's only polite to,you are the one with the cock you know!

I have a drawer full as well for anyone that accidentally forgets to bring condoms for their own cock!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone should carry supplies we believe, however I'm (jane) latex intolerant so usually prefer to use my own x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd expect nothing more than Both really

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm sure many of us have been there when the conversation goes "have you got anything?".. "Errr no have you?"

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Once had a meet with my ex where none of us had anything on us.....

Bit of a fail but we did all have some 'fun' since that day I always have at least one - preferably more!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personally I always carry .. It's only polite too.... And just in case things advance and she's not prepared

Sorry I'm not getting this,it's only polite to,you are the one with the cock you know!

I have a drawer full as well for anyone that accidentally forgets to bring condoms for their own cock!"

If someone 'accidentally' forgets, we simply don't have sex. I've had that one pulled too many times when the guy actually wanted unprotected sex.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman over a year ago

stourbridge area

Both .... but I usually find guys moan like hell about the condoms I have as they dont like them and their "Performance"

Isnt as good with condoms ...

So I say guys bring your own ... so as you feel comfortable .... and if you need a bigger size ..... please feel free to buy some ......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would prefer they bring their own as they know what is most comfortable for them but I always have some with me anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Take your own... always.

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By *horehouseCouple over a year ago

dissatisfied

We discus before a meet ..if condoms req we only meet for a social thanks .....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm sure many of us have been there when the conversation goes "have you got anything?".. "Errr no have you?""

Nope. Not if I've arranged to meet someone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing to discuss, I look after my own protection needs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always carries his own as thiers maybe the wrong size!

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I usually let the guy take care of that, but I prefer latex free so keep some Skyns with me. It really annoys me if the meet forgets - you are going to have SEX, how many things do you have to remember?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If a guy is fortunate enough to be invited along to a meet, he should most definitely supply his own rubbers.

It would be rather naive, careless and disrespectful if he showed up empty handed.

Wouldn't you say?

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

You are responsible for your own sexual health ,so both parties should have them in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We take our own as we're protective of our sexual health. However, we reckon that the other party should have some on standby just in case. That said most of the parties we've been to have had more than ample condom supplies.

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"You are responsible for your own sexual health ,so both parties should have them in my opinion."

true, and the amount the gum clinic give you is amazing

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
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My Own Little World

Both should have their own.

I do wonder at times when I hear women complain that the bloke doesn't have latex free condoms as they are the only ones she can use, but doesn't have them herself.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS over a year ago

Horsham

If you take an interest in your own health then you should bring them, regardless wether the person you are meeting has them.

Especially if you have a problem with sensitisation, due to being allergic to latex.

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By *rightonfranceMan over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

I always bring my own, out of politeness and my own sexual health.

It also helps if you have a hair trigger like me.. lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always bring my own as I much prefer the non latex types.

Wouldn't wish to be presumptious and expect the other party to provide them.

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By *erfectman122Man over a year ago

from somewhere nice

I always bring my own would not expect the lady to supply through me forgetting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I bring my own, too.

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Both. We bring our own as I'm allergic to latex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both - better to have too many than not enough ! Mr thought I was being overly ambitious as I had 10 with me last weekend.....

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If we have them great! if not we will ask the other party to bring some.

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By *llie RoseWoman over a year ago

By the seaside

As I prefer latex free I always have my own little stash.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both ... then you can't have the guy say " I haven't got any , bareback ok ?"

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By *horehouseCouple over a year ago

dissatisfied

"Both ... then you can't have the guy say " I haven't got any , bareback ok ?" "
and we say its the only way to play

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Both ... then you can't have the guy say " I haven't got any , bareback ok ?" and we say its the only way to play "

That's your choice which is perfectly fine and you're happy with it so fair play to you

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By *eakcoupleCouple over a year ago

peak district

We always bring our own as G uses magnums. We also always provide condoms by each bed when we're having people here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If the profile says "safe sex only" and you turn up without, securely that makes you a chancer or someone with Alzheimer's

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Were someone to turn up without condoms, it would be Bye Bye. Of course we have them but chancers can feck off.

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By *horehouseCouple over a year ago

dissatisfied

"Were someone to turn up without condoms, it would be Bye Bye. Of course we have them but chancers can feck off."
bring out the the rubbers and we'd run for the hills lol ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have an array of condoms. Large small latex polyurethane. I am very well prepared.

But I like a man who brings his own.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think everyone should look after their own health.

So both. Just to be sure.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bring your own. Problem solved.

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