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Can men and women be 'just friends'?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After a big fall out with an fb, I've realised that I don't have any male friends (apart from gay guys) where the relationship hasn't been sexual at some point, either at my instigation or theirs.
Made me feel a little sad...
So just as devils advocate, can men and women have a purely platonic friendship? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obviously, just be friends with ugly guys or ugly girls, problem solved. Although the ugly girls might still not be a problem for most of the straight male population of the planet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally. My best mate of 9 years were male. We did absolutely everything together, even gossip.. But sadly he passed away several years ago!
I tend to form better friendships with guys if honest. Probably stems back to being young and hanging out with my brothers n their mates! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a number of good female friends are are just friends. When I was 19 I had a very good and close female friend but one night we went out after both having ended a relationship and ended up in bed and it pretty much killed our friendship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a good friend and he always said to me " women can have male friends, men have women they haven't fucked yet" I don't know if that is true or not but going on my instinct I think there is some truth in that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely. I have loads of guy friends. Who aren't gay and I have never slept with them. Purely platonic. It's wonderful. "
So the ones with GF's are happy that you both pop out to the movies together alone on a Friday night - and roll back home Saturday morning ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This question always makes me smile. When men try the cant just be friends with me routine i ask im bi does that mean i want to shag all my (older) friends lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went to an all girls school and then a state sixth form college so talking to The Boys aged 16 was quite hard for me: I've always had female friends. But guys are also cool, and now I work with a few I can say yes, I can be friends without it being sexual. Of course there is the odd innuendo but I definitely don't want to fuck any of them!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After a big fall out with an fb, I've realised that I don't have any male friends (apart from gay guys) where the relationship hasn't been sexual at some point, either at my instigation or theirs.
Made me feel a little sad...
So just as devils advocate, can men and women have a purely platonic friendship? "
Impossible - how many hot hunks do you see with ugly girls as they are just "friends"
Ugly girl - hot Hunk friend can you pop round with a DVD and a bottle of wine, it's my period and I need cheering up
Hot hunk - sure I will bring over Bridget Jones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yup but when the lines do blur it gets messy....."
have had mixed experience with this over the years when lines get blurred - the good friends stay as friend+, others may not and others the lines have never been blurred! |
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