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Would u as a str8 guy consider a CD/TV
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I regularly join a cpl off here and we meet guys for sex either at theirs or in clubs and groups etc. Most of the men are curious if its a first with a CD and they happily allow me to suck them and rim them and on occasion have fucked me.
However, when the other male makes an attempt to suck etc they more than often decline and either lose interest or certainly their nether regions lose interest lol.
Whilst i am not complaining, i wonder what it is about a CD or TV that either turns the guy on or makes it more acceptable to have sex with.
I should point out i am always in panties, sussies, basque and fishnets during sex so i wonder if that has any infleuence but i am in no way convincing and i do tell guys that beforehand but that never matters. I get alot of str8 guys messaging me on here too for meets and the same applies, they only want to meet if im in 'dress'
Could anyone, particularly the genuine str8 guys shed some light on the matter please? Would u as a str8 guy consider a CD if they were only gonna give u head? And why? Or if u have been with a CD or thought about it would they have to be totally fem looking or doesnt that matter? What is it that makes u take that leap?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting thread, I'd like to know the answer too. Although I do struggle to understand how a "straight" man can be aroused by another man whether he's wearing Calvin's or chamies!
I'm a straight woman and do not find other women sexually attractive. I don't want to touch them or be touched: no ambiguity regarding my sexuality, so yes, looking forward to the responses. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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probably the same thought process as a str8 guy popping his cock thro a glory hole: he visualises Angelina sucking her heart out, in reality, it's Roy the trucker from Wigan.
No offence to CD's, TV's, Truckers and the good folk of Wigan. |
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i think a lot of guys who are straight are actually curious so want to actually try it. i also think a lot are looking for a free bj as well to be honest and they dont understand the CD/TV/TS type world or the people and some may even assume they are an easy lay. they say straight because they like and prefer womem but not got the balls to put bi or thet they are curiuos about men or CD/tv/ts etc.
mainly i think the men that are messaging you are mainly looking to take advantage and think most wouldnt verify you or make "wow what a great meet" comments. but i do think EVERY man has thought about it at some point even if they dont admit it. i certainly have but never taken it further than that. i think mainly tho a lot of the men are either not true to themselfs and scared to show it on profile or taking advantage. hope this sheds some light x (note this is just my opinion and point of _iew and eveyone is different and i know some people wont agree) x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"again brightbabe thats just my honest opioion as it was asked for. but i am expecting people to come on and say, oh no thats not true, or thats not me. hence why i note my opinion lol x"
Well, I agree with you are saying.... here comes my disclaimer... that's just my opinion lol!! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"probably the same thought process as a str8 guy popping his cock thro a glory hole: he visualises Angelina sucking her heart out, in reality, it's Roy the trucker from Wigan.
No offence to CD's, TV's, Truckers and the good folk of Wigan."
No thought for poor Angelina   x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think a lot of guys who are straight are actually curious so want to actually try it. i also think a lot are looking for a free bj as well to be honest and they dont understand the CD/TV/TS type world or the people and some may even assume they are an easy lay. they say straight because they like and prefer womem but not got the balls to put bi or thet they are curiuos about men or CD/tv/ts etc.
mainly i think the men that are messaging you are mainly looking to take advantage and think most wouldnt verify you or make "wow what a great meet" comments. but i do think EVERY man has thought about it at some point even if they dont admit it. i certainly have but never taken it further than that. i think mainly tho a lot of the men are either not true to themselfs and scared to show it on profile or taking advantage. hope this sheds some light x (note this is just my opinion and point of _iew and eveyone is different and i know some people wont agree) x"
Wow!!! You think EVERY man has thought about it. That statement is rubbish as there's not an activity on the planet that EVERY one will be into/agree on! |
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Whilst trying to avoid sweeping generalisation, the fact of the matter is that most guys would regards being sucked off by a TV/Cd as less 'gay' than being sucked off by a guy.
Let's not get into a debate about what constitutes straight/bi-curious/bisexual and gay, or we'll be here all day.
Keeping in mind as well, that in the scenario described by the OP, our straight guy is already in an adult sexual situation, where there are sexual favours on offer and nobody there is going to judge anybody for what they get up to (we're assuming that half this site isnt present).
Under those circumstances, your straight guy has the opportunity of a no-strings blow job from someone who may well not be the least attractive person in the room to be wearing heels and stockings(!), so he'll think 'what the hell' and go for it.
In his mind this is totally different from him seeking out and arranging to meet a man/TV./Cd for sex.
Let me be clear - all the above describes an average guy in an average situation, and is in no way definitive.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most str8 guys I know that have been sucked off by a tranny do not class themselves as bi. They think in their tiny little minds that cause a blokes in a dress it means they can't be bi.
So srt8 guy you are bi and that is why I do not meet str8 guys who have str8 on their ptofile
if you suck suck or suck a tvs cock your bi |
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I guess a lot comes down to labels, and of course the label you give yourself may be different to the label others give you.
We all lie on the straight-bi-gay spectrum somewhere, but it is just that, a spectrum and not a clear cut thing in my mind.
Some people might even consider straight blokes who do DP or DVP to be bi or bi-curious perhaps. *shrugs*
Personally I don't feel the need to get hung up on it, peoples sexuality can change with time and experience and I know my own sexuality, so I'm happy with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If that's the case why hide it
Example yesterday all str8 guys mesages me all profiles say srt8 some even said I don't play with bi men etc
Confused or what? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think men see the sexy gear and thats what it is, same as if you see woman in gear, you get frisky, it all in mind, the brain is the sex organ as well  |
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There has been some great responses here thanks to all.
I agree with the last post totally about labels but sadly for some reason on most of these sites u have to label urself something whether it be str8 gay curious or bi.
That is one of my bug bears in a way cos if im getting predominently str8 guys accorsing to the profile (and once again dont get me wrong im not complaining, a guy is a guy as far as im concerned regardless of the 'label') doesnt that kind of make it obsolete?
Keep the answers comin tho cos im still unsure what makes u str8 guys like me on me knees but glad u do just wish it wasnt such a hassle gettin ready for ya. God i dont envy u ladies lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sweets I'll send all my str8 guys your way.
I blame all the ladies on here for deleting and blocking these poor mens messages so they go to the next best thing a tranny. Only joking ladies |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
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The answer is no and I can honestly say I never considered it. I know some will partake and fantasise it’s a woman or whatever but that to me is an any hole is a goal attitude. I have nothing against cross dressers but they are not women as I see it and have yet to see a convincing one.
The allure of a sexual partner starts with the base femininity, the curves, the smell, skin and all the small attributes that make up a woman. I personally I just wouldn’t be turned on by a cross dresser but that’s me I just think stimulation starts in the mind.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a straight guy I can say that I wouldn't let another guy intentionally touch me sexually.
I'm not the least bit curious "what it would be like" to be sucked by a bloke.
I am/would be comfortable in the company of gay or bi guys, or cd's tv's ts's for that matter and would have no problems having a platonic friendship with either, but that is as far as it goes.  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"probably the same thought process as a str8 guy popping his cock thro a glory hole: he visualises Angelina sucking her heart out, in reality, it's Roy the trucker from Wigan.
No offence to CD's, TV's, Truckers and the good folk of Wigan."
wouldn't mess with the people of wigan.... last time I did that the "Wigan Liberation Front" paid me a visit... tied me up and threatened me with pies....
"sorry for the hi-jack"
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"Sweets I'll send all my str8 guys your way.
I blame all the ladies on here for deleting and blocking these poor mens messages so they go to the next best thing a tranny. Only joking ladies "
There's probably a lot of truth in that to be honest!
Maybe the site needs a 'profile sexuality scale' where you can slide a little pointer across instead of feeling obliged to put some other label.
Ones I've seen are: 110% straight, straight, bi-curious, bi with couples, orally-bi, bi, gay and het exible.
I'm amazed any of us get a shag!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sweets I'll send all my str8 guys your way.
I blame all the ladies on here for deleting and blocking these poor mens messages so they go to the next best thing a tranny. Only joking ladies "
Thanks for that...cappuccino out my nose! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sweets I'll send all my str8 guys your way.
I blame all the ladies on here for deleting and blocking these poor mens messages so they go to the next best thing a tranny. Only joking ladies "
I'd fuck a hole in a door before I'd fuck a blokes arse  |
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"Sweets I'll send all my str8 guys your way.
I blame all the ladies on here for deleting and blocking these poor mens messages so they go to the next best thing a tranny. Only joking ladies
I'd fuck a hole in a door before I'd fuck a blokes arse "
I'm with you on that.
...now where's my drill. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a straight male - To me what someones wearing shouldnt make a difference, if I didn't fancy someone in their normal day to day clothes (e.g. a man in workboots), I wouldn't be any more willing to engage in sex with them if they were wearing a basque, or hotpants.
Maybe these blokes just have gay fantasies and think by having sex with someone dressed as a woman, its somehow more acceptable and less gay - insecurity maybe.
But there are plenty of people on here will fuck anyone, so who knows? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If that's the case why hide it
Example yesterday all str8 guys mesages me all profiles say srt8 some even said I don't play with bi men etc
Confused or what?"
Yes, it is that "old chestnut" again...he he!!  |
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over a year ago
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"Sweets I'll send all my str8 guys your way.
I blame all the ladies on here for deleting and blocking these poor mens messages so they go to the next best thing a tranny. Only joking ladies
I'd fuck a hole in a door before I'd fuck a blokes arse "
but a lot of guys would fuck a barbers floor as it has hairs on it! |
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"WTF is orally bi ?  your bi, gay or orally bi WTF
* sits on coffin *"
It's a plain as your face.
It means guys will indulge in oral, but not anal cock play.
Which part were you having difficulty with?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"WTF is orally bi ? your bi, gay or orally bi WTF
* sits on coffin *"
It’s just another label made up for people who don’t like labels
Still trying to find someone who describes themselves are orally gay, maybe one day?
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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago
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i really dont get it at all yer either str8 bi or curious , guys who have str8 on their profile then engage in sexual activities with another guy whether dressed up in girlie outfits or not is not a str8 man imo they just scared to admit anything else
Str8 = only interested in sexual activity with people from the opposite sex
Bi curious = only had sexual activity with people from the opposite sex but is having thoughts and desires to try sexual activity with people from same sex
bi sexual = people who engage in sexual activities with both same sex and opposite sex
Just the honest opinion of this str8 man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sweets I'll send all my str8 guys your way.
I blame all the ladies on here for deleting and blocking these poor mens messages so they go to the next best thing a tranny. Only joking ladies
Thanks for that...cappuccino out my nose! "
You and your cappuccino Sassy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we were once messaged on here by a guy that described himself as a bicurious str8 guy........ confused the hell out of me that 1 lol "
Musta enjoyed the avatar and wanted to take things further |
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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago
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"we were once messaged on here by a guy that described himself as a bicurious str8 guy........ confused the hell out of me that 1 lol
Musta enjoyed the avatar and wanted to take things further "
Lol maybe...... i would change it but its my best feature lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Presumably someone who was orally gay would not perform cunnilingus on a girl.
Never heard of a gay woman sensual? you're slipping
I've heard of a gay woman.
But not an orally gay woman."
I've not heard of an orally gay man either, that was the initial point i made just think when you hear things like orally bi man it assumes that anyone who describes themselves as bisexual or gay must do anal  |
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"Presumably someone who was orally gay would not perform cunnilingus on a girl.
Never heard of a gay woman sensual? you're slipping
I've heard of a gay woman.
But not an orally gay woman.
I've not heard of an orally gay man either, that was the initial point i made just think when you hear things like orally bi man it assumes that anyone who describes themselves as bisexual or gay must do anal "
Which is why they use the caveat of 'orally bi'.
Nobody, straight, bi or gay, male or female, wants someone slipping an unexpected cock in their ass...
...which seems fair enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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".........Would u as a str8 guy consider a CD if they were only gonna give u head? And why? ..........."
No. It would never enter my head to play with a CD even if they were only gonna give head.
Why? 'Cos a CD, regardless of how he's dressed, is still a guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Presumably someone who was orally gay would not perform cunnilingus on a girl.
Never heard of a gay woman sensual? you're slipping
I've heard of a gay woman.
But not an orally gay woman.
I've not heard of an orally gay man either, that was the initial point i made just think when you hear things like orally bi man it assumes that anyone who describes themselves as bisexual or gay must do anal
Which is why they use the caveat of 'orally bi'.
Nobody, straight, bi or gay, male or female, wants someone slipping an unexpected cock in their ass...
...which seems fair enough."
Well that was a mouthful |
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"WTF is orally bi ? your bi, gay or orally bi WTF
* sits on coffin *
It's a plain as your face.
It means guys will indulge in oral, but not anal cock play.
Which part were you having difficulty with?
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.....Maybe i should have added the person that said on his profile he was orally bi only and he states on his profile he's a stright guy oops missed that bit out, so in answer to your Q Which part were you having difficulty with? all of it a guess.
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"Presumably someone who was orally gay would not perform cunnilingus on a girl.
Never heard of a gay woman sensual? you're slipping
I've heard of a gay woman.
But not an orally gay woman.
I've not heard of an orally gay man either, that was the initial point i made just think when you hear things like orally bi man it assumes that anyone who describes themselves as bisexual or gay must do anal
Which is why they use the caveat of 'orally bi'.
Nobody, straight, bi or gay, male or female, wants someone slipping an unexpected cock in their ass...
...which seems fair enough.
Well that was a mouthful "
I'm sure most people would prefer to state the 'mouthful' than unexpectedly take an 'assfull'.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've not heard of an orally gay man either, that was the initial point i made just think when you hear things like orally bi man it assumes that anyone who describes themselves as bisexual or gay must do anal
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yes, we are both Bi, but no one should assume that either myself or R want penetrative sex with anyone if we don't want to.
Anyway, there are always those Bi and Gay males who only do the penetrating (giving) but do not like to receive!
Not all Gay and Bi males want a cock up their arse anyway! |
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By *hsweetCouple
over a year ago
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"probably the same thought process as a str8 guy popping his cock thro a glory hole: he visualises Angelina sucking her heart out, in reality, it's Roy the trucker from Wigan.
No offence to CD's, TV's, Truckers and the good folk of Wigan."
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"Sweets I'll send all my str8 guys your way.
I blame all the ladies on here for deleting and blocking these poor mens messages so they go to the next best thing a tranny. Only joking ladies
Thanks for that...cappuccino out my nose!
You and your cappuccino Sassy"
My daughter bought me a Tassimo two years ago...not got bored with it yet. They even have free cappuccino at work...I'm addicted to the bean!  |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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They even have free cappuccino at work...I'm addicted to the bean!
I'm addicted to my bean too...lol!! "
I know it's on another thread, but "Bean" is the name we gave to girly bits when we were kids!! |
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They even have free cappuccino at work...I'm addicted to the bean!
I'm addicted to my bean too...lol!!
I know it's on another thread, but "Bean" is the name we gave to girly bits when we were kids!! "
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I'm anally and orally straight, but only with ladies, I am orally open to suggestions on alcohol, but I am a hardened whiskeyist - I hate it, I'm also lesbian, a Libran and a Midlander, last time I checked I was Caucasian, but confusingly I am also European, British and English, I was also once a nun, but only for an evening, and I frequently have thoughts about pirates and highwaymen, but not in a gay way, I rarely watch TV, but I am happy listening to the radio and also playing CD's and DVD's...
....I hope that's clarified that for you all, 'cause I haven't got a bleedin' clue any more!
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"I'm anally and orally straight, but only with ladies, I am orally open to suggestions on alcohol, but I am a hardened whiskeyist - I hate it, I'm also lesbian, a Libran and a Midlander, last time I checked I was Caucasian, but confusingly I am also European, British and English, I was also once a nun, but only for an evening, and I frequently have thoughts about pirates and highwaymen, but not in a gay way, I rarely watch TV, but I am happy listening to the radio and also playing CD's and DVD's...
....I hope that's clarified that for you all, 'cause I haven't got a bleedin' clue any more!
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Make your bloody mind up.
(as the straight people say...) |
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"i think a lot of guys who are straight are actually curious so want to actually try it. i also think a lot are looking for a free bj as well to be honest and they dont understand the CD/TV/TS type world or the people and some may even assume they are an easy lay. they say straight because they like and prefer womem but not got the balls to put bi or thet they are curiuos about men or CD/tv/ts etc.
mainly i think the men that are messaging you are mainly looking to take advantage and think most wouldnt verify you or make "wow what a great meet" comments. but i do think EVERY man has thought about it at some point even if they dont admit it. i certainly have but never taken it further than that. i think mainly tho a lot of the men are either not true to themselfs and scared to show it on profile or taking advantage. hope this sheds some light x (note this is just my opinion and point of _iew and eveyone is different and i know some people wont agree) x
Wow!!! You think EVERY man has thought about it. That statement is rubbish as there's not an activity on the planet that EVERY one will be into/agree on!"
as i said, thats my opinion and not a matter of fact. i still believe every man has at least thought about it to himself at lest once in his life. not tried it or acted on it or wanted too. just thought. and im pretty sure its true because as a male i think we have all thought about different things wether we liked the thought or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had to have a think if i'd ever had a think about it.
I can honestly say I don't think i've ever considered oral sex with another man..
and if he had a dress on?
I'd still say no..
just don't float my boat |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Would I, as a straight guy, consider a blow job off a CD/TV?
Well in all honesty I wouldn't consider myself straight if I considered it with a _iew to doing it.
I could never get the idea that its another guy out of my head, no matter what he was dressed in.
Believe me, we know a T girl who is an absolute stunner, who I'd probably chat up if I didn't know better but I do, so no way.
As for so called "straight" guys who have sex with CD/TV's, they most likely don't want to admit to themselves that they're bi, so appease their conscience by having sex with a man dressed as a woman. R
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By (user no longer on site)
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They even have free cappuccino at work...I'm addicted to the bean!
I'm addicted to my bean too...lol!!
I know it's on another thread, but "Bean" is the name we gave to girly bits when we were kids!! "
My aunt, a right goer, told my sisters and I we had peanuts in our pum pums! The hours we spent trying to find our dry roasted! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm not curious at all and I don't get how someone can claim to be straight yet has blatant bi-curious tendencies.
What's that about? Nothing wrong with being gay or bi so why insist on being straight when you're not? |
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"I'm not curious at all and I don't get how someone can claim to be straight yet has blatant bi-curious tendencies.
What's that about? Nothing wrong with being gay or bi so why insist on being straight when you're not? "
You're not alone in your confusion: don't get it either! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i think a lot of guys who are straight are actually curious so want to actually try it. i also think a lot are looking for a free bj as well to be honest and they dont understand the CD/TV/TS type world or the people and some may even assume they are an easy lay. they say straight because they like and prefer womem but not got the balls to put bi or thet they are curiuos about men or CD/tv/ts etc.
mainly i think the men that are messaging you are mainly looking to take advantage and think most wouldnt verify you or make "wow what a great meet" comments. but i do think EVERY man has thought about it at some point even if they dont admit it. i certainly have but never taken it further than that. i think mainly tho a lot of the men are either not true to themselfs and scared to show it on profile or taking advantage. hope this sheds some light x (note this is just my opinion and point of _iew and eveyone is different and i know some people wont agree) x
Wow!!! You think EVERY man has thought about it. That statement is rubbish as there's not an activity on the planet that EVERY one will be into/agree on!
as i said, thats my opinion and not a matter of fact. i still believe every man has at least thought about it to himself at lest once in his life. not tried it or acted on it or wanted too. just thought. and im pretty sure its true because as a male i think we have all thought about different things wether we liked the thought or not."
I asked the hubby, who is 100% straight, this question...
"have you ever thought about having any kind of sex with a guy dressed in sexy underwear/dress etc?
His answer.. "yes, I thought about it and the thought didn't do anything for me at all, it's still a bloke at the end of the day so it won't be happening!!!"
I get what you are saying Cornwall. |
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