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"Have been keen to meet a couple for a while but I am put off by the amount of messages I receive + reading between the lines basically looking for a female to provide the entertainment and service them both before having to leave by a certain time. I thought it was supposed to be a three way thing so I have declined. A few years ago I DID meet a couple and it transpired in the bedroom of their hotel that I was there as a birthday present for her hubby and she wanted me to leave after an hour once he had came. I told them to phone a hooker and I walked out as I am not on the site to be used. Any other ladies had similar experiences? " Do you really think that the couples who swing are looking for someone to be emotionally attached to? A polygamous relationship? The single female/male that go with a couple that are in a proper relationship, not just fuck buddies who play as a couple, are no more than flesh and blood sex toys. Accept and enjoy, or don't. | |||
"Have been keen to meet a couple for a while but I am put off by the amount of messages I receive + reading between the lines basically looking for a female to provide the entertainment and service them both before having to leave by a certain time. I thought it was supposed to be a three way thing so I have declined. A few years ago I DID meet a couple and it transpired in the bedroom of their hotel that I was there as a birthday present for her hubby and she wanted me to leave after an hour once he had came. I told them to phone a hooker and I walked out as I am not on the site to be used. Any other ladies had similar experiences? " Yes so now if I am looking for an ffm I make it 3 singles | |||
"Do you really think that the couples who swing are looking for someone to be emotionally attached to? A polygamous relationship? The single female/male that go with a couple that are in a proper relationship, not just fuck buddies who play as a couple, are no more than flesh and blood sex toys. Accept and enjoy, or don't." That's the other extreme. There are couples who treat a bi-fem as their sex toy, and there (may be) couples who want a female to join them in an ongoing polyamorous relationship. But there are couples who are somewhere in between... who are willing to treat a single bi-fem as a valuable member of a threesome. Who will put the single bi-fem in the middle and put as much emphasis on her pleasure as they do on their own pleasure. The right couple can achieve this, without there being any intention to have an ongoing relationship with the lady. This is the type of couple which most single bi-fems are looking to meet. | |||
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"Do you really think that the couples who swing are looking for someone to be emotionally attached to? A polygamous relationship? The single female/male that go with a couple that are in a proper relationship, not just fuck buddies who play as a couple, are no more than flesh and blood sex toys. Accept and enjoy, or don't. That's the other extreme. There are couples who treat a bi-fem as their sex toy, and there (may be) couples who want a female to join them in an ongoing polyamorous relationship. But there are couples who are somewhere in between... who are willing to treat a single bi-fem as a valuable member of a threesome. Who will put the single bi-fem in the middle and put as much emphasis on her pleasure as they do on their own pleasure. The right couple can achieve this, without there being any intention to have an ongoing relationship with the lady. This is the type of couple which most single bi-fems are looking to meet." Some people look after their toys a lot better than others. | |||
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"I am not remotely interested in forming relationships with any couple! I do believe however everyone's needs should be considered. I have met single males with.my male fb but always like to have a good drink and chat first without putting time limits and making sure the other guy has a brilliant time! "  | |||
"I am not remotely interested in forming relationships with any couple! I do believe however everyone's needs should be considered. I have met single males with.my male fb but always like to have a good drink and chat first without putting time limits and making sure the other guy has a brilliant time! " Oh...well...why don't you meet a couple with your fb...just putting it out there! | |||
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"Do you really think that the couples who swing are looking for someone to be emotionally attached to? A polygamous relationship? The single female/male that go with a couple that are in a proper relationship, not just fuck buddies who play as a couple, are no more than flesh and blood sex toys. Accept and enjoy, or don't. That's the other extreme. There are couples who treat a bi-fem as their sex toy, and there (may be) couples who want a female to join them in an ongoing polyamorous relationship. But there are couples who are somewhere in between... who are willing to treat a single bi-fem as a valuable member of a threesome. Who will put the single bi-fem in the middle and put as much emphasis on her pleasure as they do on their own pleasure. The right couple can achieve this, without there being any intention to have an ongoing relationship with the lady. This is the type of couple which most single bi-fems are looking to meet." Great post , saved me the trouble of saying anything | |||
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"Have been keen to meet a couple for a while but I am put off by the amount of messages I receive + reading between the lines basically looking for a female to provide the entertainment and service them both before having to leave by a certain time. I thought it was supposed to be a three way thing so I have declined. A few years ago I DID meet a couple and it transpired in the bedroom of their hotel that I was there as a birthday present for her hubby and she wanted me to leave after an hour once he had came. I told them to phone a hooker and I walked out as I am not on the site to be used. Any other ladies had similar experiences? " I've just been blocked by a couple who's stipulations were ridiculous and just because I couldn't meet them(the day they could meet is the day I can't) they threw a hissy fit! | |||
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"Have been keen to meet a couple for a while but I am put off by the amount of messages I receive + reading between the lines basically looking for a female to provide the entertainment and service them both before having to leave by a certain time. I thought it was supposed to be a three way thing so I have declined. A few years ago I DID meet a couple and it transpired in the bedroom of their hotel that I was there as a birthday present for her hubby and she wanted me to leave after an hour once he had came. I told them to phone a hooker and I walked out as I am not on the site to be used. Any other ladies had similar experiences? I've just been blocked by a couple who's stipulations were ridiculous and just because I couldn't meet them(the day they could meet is the day I can't) they threw a hissy fit!" View it as a lucky escape ! | |||
"Your post shows the main reasons I don't meet couples privately. I've played in clubs with couples and have found that there it has been more of a threesome rather than a bit of a spare part. Of course couples look for singles, male or female, for their own enjoyment but the messages I get for private meets are very much, we want the male half to watch, he can then maybe join in etc. It can, and does, make me feel like I'm there to be a performing seal, whereas I would look for an entanglement of bodies, all touching and playing with each other. Personally when I have the opportunity to meet I like to make a night of it ,I don't mind receiving messages stating what a couple wants as stated above if The couple is looking to fulfill some specific fantacy or have a specific scenario in mind.I think what matters most is that intentions are honest & clear from the start so that all are happy.It doesn't sound like this happend for you OP so I can understand you being miffed at that point in time! " | |||
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"Have been keen to meet a couple for a while but I am put off by the amount of messages I receive + reading between the lines basically looking for a female to provide the entertainment and service them both before having to leave by a certain time. I thought it was supposed to be a three way thing so I have declined. A few years ago I DID meet a couple and it transpired in the bedroom of their hotel that I was there as a birthday present for her hubby and she wanted me to leave after an hour once he had came. I told them to phone a hooker and I walked out as I am not on the site to be used. Any other ladies had similar experiences? " Just come from a racism sexism etc thread.... But why a question specifically to ladies?, seems like all could be involved in discussion? | |||
"Have been keen to meet a couple for a while but I am put off by the amount of messages I receive + reading between the lines basically looking for a female to provide the entertainment and service them both before having to leave by a certain time. I thought it was supposed to be a three way thing so I have declined. A few years ago I DID meet a couple and it transpired in the bedroom of their hotel that I was there as a birthday present for her hubby and she wanted me to leave after an hour once he had came. I told them to phone a hooker and I walked out as I am not on the site to be used. Any other ladies had similar experiences? Just come from a racism sexism etc thread.... But why a question specifically to ladies?, seems like all could be involved in discussion? " Sorry! Arse of a post..... Because it was your choice, you typed it and it was your question !! | |||
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"When we first joined the site our aim was for ffm fun, but our first proper experience was with another couple, after this we started to reconsider our options and 4 or more are definitley the way forward for us, it also made us think that the dynamics of a 3some must be harder to get right as we want everyone to have fun. We wouldn't rule out ffm in future but won't rush it either. Ginger " Best way , nothing worse than the entitled single bi female judging you as a couple , and expecting you to behave like performing seals for her delectation
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"When we first joined the site our aim was for ffm fun, but our first proper experience was with another couple, after this we started to reconsider our options and 4 or more are definitley the way forward for us, it also made us think that the dynamics of a 3some must be harder to get right as we want everyone to have fun. We wouldn't rule out ffm in future but won't rush it either. Ginger Best way , nothing worse than the entitled single bi female judging you as a couple , and expecting you to behave like performing seals for her delectation
"if I was still looking for, or indeed meeting couples again I would expect for all 3 of us to play, either all together or with each other in turns...why the hell would I want to sit there and watch the couple get it on...I might as well sit at home and watch porn  | |||
"When we first joined the site our aim was for ffm fun, but our first proper experience was with another couple, after this we started to reconsider our options and 4 or more are definitley the way forward for us, it also made us think that the dynamics of a 3some must be harder to get right as we want everyone to have fun. We wouldn't rule out ffm in future but won't rush it either. Ginger Best way , nothing worse than the entitled single bi female judging you as a couple , and expecting you to behave like performing seals for her delectation
if I was still looking for, or indeed meeting couples again I would expect for all 3 of us to play, either all together or with each other in turns...why the hell would I want to sit there and watch the couple get it on...I might as well sit at home and watch porn "I should have added an 
It was tongue in cheek
We have met and had fun with lots of single bi females , and they have had as much fun as we have - every time .
I just get a bit sick and tired of reading the same shit from single bi females about how couples behave in a predatory way .....
Maybe some do , but certainly not all . | |||
"When we first joined the site our aim was for ffm fun, but our first proper experience was with another couple, after this we started to reconsider our options and 4 or more are definitley the way forward for us, it also made us think that the dynamics of a 3some must be harder to get right as we want everyone to have fun. We wouldn't rule out ffm in future but won't rush it either. Ginger Best way , nothing worse than the entitled single bi female judging you as a couple , and expecting you to behave like performing seals for her delectation
if I was still looking for, or indeed meeting couples again I would expect for all 3 of us to play, either all together or with each other in turns...why the hell would I want to sit there and watch the couple get it on...I might as well sit at home and watch porn
I should have added an
It was tongue in cheek
We have met and had fun with lots of single bi females , and they have had as much fun as we have - every time .
I just get a bit sick and tired of reading the same shit from single bi females about how couples behave in a predatory way .....
Maybe some do , but certainly not all ."Your right, not all do, I would still meet couples in clubs if we all liked each other | |||
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"When we first joined the site our aim was for ffm fun, but our first proper experience was with another couple, after this we started to reconsider our options and 4 or more are definitley the way forward for us, it also made us think that the dynamics of a 3some must be harder to get right as we want everyone to have fun. We wouldn't rule out ffm in future but won't rush it either. Ginger Best way , nothing worse than the entitled single bi female judging you as a couple , and expecting you to behave like performing seals for her delectation
if I was still looking for, or indeed meeting couples again I would expect for all 3 of us to play, either all together or with each other in turns...why the hell would I want to sit there and watch the couple get it on...I might as well sit at home and watch porn
I should have added an
It was tongue in cheek
We have met and had fun with lots of single bi females , and they have had as much fun as we have - every time .
I just get a bit sick and tired of reading the same shit from single bi females about how couples behave in a predatory way .....
Maybe some do , but certainly not all ."Meaning you don't ... But there are a lot of couples out there who do ... And it's a lot more prevalent now than it used to be .., which is why I stopped looking | |||
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"My first ever bisexual meet with a couple I was on top and brought him to the point of cumming. I was then pushed off so he could cum inside her. It's made me wary of couples ever since..." What misuse of a perfect body!! ??  | |||
"My first ever bisexual meet with a couple I was on top and brought him to the point of cumming. I was then pushed off so he could cum inside her. It's made me wary of couples ever since..." Was that the only time you've met a couple ? These stories seem to be so common , I wonder if there's a common denominator here ? And before any smart arse says ' yes , couples ' , let's look at couples who , like us have had lots if successful meets with single bi females . When we point out that we often accompany single bi females on a night out dogging ( every time without fail not just as a one off , but regularly ) other couples can't believe it , saying how lucky we are . We may be out and about looking for a meet and we never fail to get interest from single bi females who may want to join us , or us to pop by and visit them . Sometimes we will , others we may not , as we may not be looking for that , but out in the real world of fab ( away from the forums ) , the consensus seems so different ! So do the bi females who regularly post on the forums about predatory couples really represent the majority ? Or is there a strange phenomenon occurring amongst the forum users , where all the single bi females who have had problems with couples end up voicing their concerns on the forum ? Please don't get me wrong here , I don't disbelieve the stories , it just seems very odd that there are so many women in the same position who regularly post the same stuff in the subject . | |||
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"We have met a few single women and usually make them the centre of attention.....we have had repeat meets with every one of them so we must be doing something right. I think there are plenty of couples out there who know how to play nicely....you just need to find them "Exactly , and yet if you were to use the responses on these threads from the single bit females , you would think that would be impossible wouldn't you ? | |||
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" That's the other extreme. There are couples who treat a bi-fem as their sex toy, and there (may be) couples who want a female to join them in an ongoing polyamorous relationship. But there are couples who are somewhere in between... who are willing to treat a single bi-fem as a valuable member of a threesome. Who will put the single bi-fem in the middle and put as much emphasis on her pleasure as they do on their own pleasure. The right couple can achieve this, without there being any intention to have an ongoing relationship with the lady. This is the type of couple which most single bi-fems are looking to meet."
Well said! And unfortunately there are a number of people that don't treat single ladies with such respect, and therefore you can't blame them for being cautious out dubious no matter how genuine and decent a couple may seem | |||
"When we first joined the site our aim was for ffm fun, but our first proper experience was with another couple, after this we started to reconsider our options and 4 or more are definitley the way forward for us, it also made us think that the dynamics of a 3some must be harder to get right as we want everyone to have fun. We wouldn't rule out ffm in future but won't rush it either. Ginger Best way , nothing worse than the entitled single bi female judging you as a couple , and expecting you to behave like performing seals for her delectation
"That's a bit tough... I think single female have every right to be cautious, picky, and judge on gut feeling. That dynamic of joining a couple as a third prison must be extremely difficult. As a single female I would imagine you are entering into a situation where the two people you are meeting know each other well, know what pleasurable buttons to push, know each others like and dislikes, boundaries and also protective of each other, and certainly for a single female entering into that dynamic on a first meet they are truly reliant on that couple to do the same for them without knowing each other. they don't have a comfortable partner to rely on. That's an awful lot for them to consider and evaluate to agree to a first meet surely? | |||
"When we first joined the site our aim was for ffm fun, but our first proper experience was with another couple, after this we started to reconsider our options and 4 or more are definitley the way forward for us, it also made us think that the dynamics of a 3some must be harder to get right as we want everyone to have fun. We wouldn't rule out ffm in future but won't rush it either. Ginger Best way , nothing worse than the entitled single bi female judging you as a couple , and expecting you to behave like performing seals for her delectation
if I was still looking for, or indeed meeting couples again I would expect for all 3 of us to play, either all together or with each other in turns...why the hell would I want to sit there and watch the couple get it on...I might as well sit at home and watch porn
I should have added an
It was tongue in cheek
We have met and had fun with lots of single bi females , and they have had as much fun as we have - every time .
I just get a bit sick and tired of reading the same shit from single bi females about how couples behave in a predatory way .....
Maybe some do , but certainly not all .
Meaning you don't ... But there are a lot of couples out there who do ... And it's a lot more prevalent now than it used to be .., which is why I stopped looking "As I put here as a kind if disclaimer | |||
"When we first joined the site our aim was for ffm fun, but our first proper experience was with another couple, after this we started to reconsider our options and 4 or more are definitley the way forward for us, it also made us think that the dynamics of a 3some must be harder to get right as we want everyone to have fun. We wouldn't rule out ffm in future but won't rush it either. Ginger Best way , nothing worse than the entitled single bi female judging you as a couple , and expecting you to behave like performing seals for her delectation
That's a bit tough...
I think single female have every right to be cautious, picky, and judge on gut feeling.
That dynamic of joining a couple as a third prison must be extremely difficult. As a single female I would imagine you are entering into a situation where the two people you are meeting know each other well, know what pleasurable buttons to push, know each others like and dislikes, boundaries and also protective of each other, and certainly for a single female entering into that dynamic on a first meet they are truly reliant on that couple to do the same for them without knowing each other. they don't have a comfortable partner to rely on.
That's an awful lot for them to consider and evaluate to agree to a first meet surely? "Totally agree. I love being invited to play with and enjoy both the Male and Female of a sexy secure couple but have yet to take the "plunge" since joining Fab as a singleton. | |||
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" I love being invited to play with and enjoy both the Male and Female of a sexy secure couple but have yet to take the "plunge" since joining Fab as a singleton. " Please consider us when you're ready to take the plunge | |||
"My first ever bisexual meet with a couple I was on top and brought him to the point of cumming. I was then pushed off so he could cum inside her. It's made me wary of couples ever since... Was that the only time you've met a couple ? These stories seem to be so common , I wonder if there's a common denominator here ? And before any smart arse says ' yes , couples ' , let's look at couples who , like us have had lots if successful meets with single bi females . When we point out that we often accompany single bi females on a night out dogging ( every time without fail not just as a one off , but regularly ) other couples can't believe it , saying how lucky we are . We may be out and about looking for a meet and we never fail to get interest from single bi females who may want to join us , or us to pop by and visit them . Sometimes we will , others we may not , as we may not be looking for that , but out in the real world of fab ( away from the forums ) , the consensus seems so different ! So do the bi females who regularly post on the forums about predatory couples really represent the majority ? Or is there a strange phenomenon occurring amongst the forum users , where all the single bi females who have had problems with couples end up voicing their concerns on the forum ? Please don't get me wrong here , I don't disbelieve the stories , it just seems very odd that there are so many women in the same position who regularly post the same stuff in the subject . " No I've met and played with many couples but usually in clubs. I find that generally they seem more relaxed there than in a home environment. I know that might sound strange! I have met some lovely couples and had some great experiences but I've had enough to make me cautious too. This is similar to my experinces of meeting singles but as we are talking about couples I wouldn't say I was picking on them. If only every meet was a great experience! I also wouldn't say I'm a regular forum user I just pop my head in occasionally | |||
"My first ever bisexual meet with a couple I was on top and brought him to the point of cumming. I was then pushed off so he could cum inside her. It's made me wary of couples ever since... What misuse of a perfect body!! ?? "If only it were perfect lol but thank you | |||
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"My first ever bisexual meet with a couple I was on top and brought him to the point of cumming. I was then pushed off so he could cum inside her. It's made me wary of couples ever since... What misuse of a perfect body!! ??
In the eye of the beholder... and the beholder hit the hotlist verrrryy fast
If only it were perfect lol but thank you " | |||
"My first ever bisexual meet with a couple I was on top and brought him to the point of cumming. I was then pushed off so he could cum inside her. It's made me wary of couples ever since... Was that the only time you've met a couple ? These stories seem to be so common , I wonder if there's a common denominator here ? And before any smart arse says ' yes , couples ' , let's look at couples who , like us have had lots if successful meets with single bi females . When we point out that we often accompany single bi females on a night out dogging ( every time without fail not just as a one off , but regularly ) other couples can't believe it , saying how lucky we are . We may be out and about looking for a meet and we never fail to get interest from single bi females who may want to join us , or us to pop by and visit them . Sometimes we will , others we may not , as we may not be looking for that , but out in the real world of fab ( away from the forums ) , the consensus seems so different ! So do the bi females who regularly post on the forums about predatory couples really represent the majority ? Or is there a strange phenomenon occurring amongst the forum users , where all the single bi females who have had problems with couples end up voicing their concerns on the forum ? Please don't get me wrong here , I don't disbelieve the stories , it just seems very odd that there are so many women in the same position who regularly post the same stuff in the subject . No I've met and played with many couples but usually in clubs. I find that generally they seem more relaxed there than in a home environment. I know that might sound strange! I have met some lovely couples and had some great experiences but I've had enough to make me cautious too. This is similar to my experinces of meeting singles but as we are talking about couples I wouldn't say I was picking on them. If only every meet was a great experience! I also wouldn't say I'm a regular forum user I just pop my head in occasionally " | |||
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"We have met a few single women and usually make them the centre of attention.....we have had repeat meets with every one of them so we must be doing something right. I think there are plenty of couples out there who know how to play nicely....you just need to find them
Exactly , and yet if you were to use the responses on these threads from the single bit females , you would think that would be impossible wouldn't you ?
"I'm going to write a positive post to balance things out
I met my first couple a couple of months ago and it was just like _ickawitch described above. It was an absolutely amazing and thoroughly enjoyable experience. I couldn't have asked for or imagined a better meet with a couple. It made me realise how great it can be and they are the type of meets I'm looking for in the future with couples. | |||
"We have met a few single women and usually make them the centre of attention.....we have had repeat meets with every one of them so we must be doing something right. I think there are plenty of couples out there who know how to play nicely....you just need to find them
Exactly , and yet if you were to use the responses on these threads from the single bit females , you would think that would be impossible wouldn't you ?
I'm going to write a positive post to balance things out
I met my first couple a couple of months ago and it was just like _ickawitch described above. It was an absolutely amazing and thoroughly enjoyable experience. I couldn't have asked for or imagined a better meet with a couple. It made me realise how great it can be and they are the type of meets I'm looking for in the future with couples."It's good to hear about positive experiences to show that it's not always a disaster and I am happy that you found a couple that worked - I wish it was like this for everyone just imagine the naughty fun | |||
"Personally and everyone is different, but we like to make a night of it and wouldn't put a time limit on a meet, if we are all having fun and enjoying each others company, then have fun. We have never played with a single female, (not for the want of trying mind)but all the more reason to treat her with respect, make her feel relaxed and special. " We're no different and hope to find a single lady to enjoy the whole night...the search continues | |||
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"Have been keen to meet a couple for a while but I am put off by the amount of messages I receive + reading between the lines basically looking for a female to provide the entertainment and service them both before having to leave by a certain time. I thought it was supposed to be a three way thing so I have declined. A few years ago I DID meet a couple and it transpired in the bedroom of their hotel that I was there as a birthday present for her hubby and she wanted me to leave after an hour once he had came. I told them to phone a hooker and I walked out as I am not on the site to be used. Any other ladies had similar experiences? " - Out by a certain time or sleep in a separate room - No kissing the hubby - Sense of entitlement Why are they so tight-fisted? Just hire a hooker and call it a day, or night | |||
"My first ever bisexual meet with a couple I was on top and brought him to the point of cumming. I was then pushed off so he could cum inside her. It's made me wary of couples ever since... Was that the only time you've met a couple ? These stories seem to be so common , I wonder if there's a common denominator here ? And before any smart arse says ' yes , couples ' , let's look at couples who , like us have had lots if successful meets with single bi females . When we point out that we often accompany single bi females on a night out dogging ( every time without fail not just as a one off , but regularly ) other couples can't believe it , saying how lucky we are . We may be out and about looking for a meet and we never fail to get interest from single bi females who may want to join us , or us to pop by and visit them . Sometimes we will , others we may not , as we may not be looking for that , but out in the real world of fab ( away from the forums ) , the consensus seems so different ! So do the bi females who regularly post on the forums about predatory couples really represent the majority ? Or is there a strange phenomenon occurring amongst the forum users , where all the single bi females who have had problems with couples end up voicing their concerns on the forum ? Please don't get me wrong here , I don't disbelieve the stories , it just seems very odd that there are so many women in the same position who regularly post the same stuff in the subject . " Just as it is the same couples who keep on posting about how many single bi-women they attract who are perfectly satisfied in their company Please don't get me wrong here; I don't disbelieve the stories. It just seems very odd that there are so many couples in the same position who regularly post the same stuff on the subject | |||
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"My first ever bisexual meet with a couple I was on top and brought him to the point of cumming. I was then pushed off so he could cum inside her. It's made me wary of couples ever since... Was that the only time you've met a couple ? These stories seem to be so common , I wonder if there's a common denominator here ? And before any smart arse says ' yes , couples ' , let's look at couples who , like us have had lots if successful meets with single bi females . When we point out that we often accompany single bi females on a night out dogging ( every time without fail not just as a one off , but regularly ) other couples can't believe it , saying how lucky we are . We may be out and about looking for a meet and we never fail to get interest from single bi females who may want to join us , or us to pop by and visit them . Sometimes we will , others we may not , as we may not be looking for that , but out in the real world of fab ( away from the forums ) , the consensus seems so different ! So do the bi females who regularly post on the forums about predatory couples really represent the majority ? Or is there a strange phenomenon occurring amongst the forum users , where all the single bi females who have had problems with couples end up voicing their concerns on the forum ? Please don't get me wrong here , I don't disbelieve the stories , it just seems very odd that there are so many women in the same position who regularly post the same stuff in the subject . Just as it is the same couples who keep on posting about how many single bi-women they attract who are perfectly satisfied in their company Please don't get me wrong here; I don't disbelieve the stories. It just seems very odd that there are so many couples in the same position who regularly post the same stuff on the subject " Simply an observation , and my own , not a criticism , nor a piss take . | |||
"What's a unicorn?" Some people on here call a genuine single bi female who plays alone (so could be single or part of a couple profile but only them) a unicorn as they are the smallest grouping on here. | |||
" Do you really think that the couples who swing are looking for someone to be emotionally attached to? A polygamous relationship? The single female/male that go with a couple that are in a proper relationship, not just fuck buddies who play as a couple, are no more than flesh and blood sex toys. Accept and enjoy, or don't." To MY standards a comment like this is nothing but trolling. Nasty and unnecessary. | |||
"My first ever bisexual meet with a couple I was on top and brought him to the point of cumming. I was then pushed off so he could cum inside her. It's made me wary of couples ever since... Was that the only time you've met a couple ? These stories seem to be so common , I wonder if there's a common denominator here ? And before any smart arse says ' yes , couples ' , let's look at couples who , like us have had lots if successful meets with single bi females . When we point out that we often accompany single bi females on a night out dogging ( every time without fail not just as a one off , but regularly ) other couples can't believe it , saying how lucky we are . We may be out and about looking for a meet and we never fail to get interest from single bi females who may want to join us , or us to pop by and visit them . Sometimes we will , others we may not , as we may not be looking for that , but out in the real world of fab ( away from the forums ) , the consensus seems so different ! So do the bi females who regularly post on the forums about predatory couples really represent the majority ? Or is there a strange phenomenon occurring amongst the forum users , where all the single bi females who have had problems with couples end up voicing their concerns on the forum ? Please don't get me wrong here , I don't disbelieve the stories , it just seems very odd that there are so many women in the same position who regularly post the same stuff in the subject . Just as it is the same couples who keep on posting about how many single bi-women they attract who are perfectly satisfied in their company Please don't get me wrong here; I don't disbelieve the stories. It just seems very odd that there are so many couples in the same position who regularly post the same stuff on the subject Simply an observation , and my own , not a criticism , nor a piss take . "Mine was simply an observation too; not a criticism | |||
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"Have been keen to meet a couple for a while but I am put off by the amount of messages I receive + reading between the lines basically looking for a female to provide the entertainment and service them both before having to leave by a certain time. I thought it was supposed to be a three way thing so I have declined. A few years ago I DID meet a couple and it transpired in the bedroom of their hotel that I was there as a birthday present for her hubby and she wanted me to leave after an hour once he had came. I told them to phone a hooker and I walked out as I am not on the site to be used. Any other ladies had similar experiences? - Out by a certain time or sleep in a separate room - No kissing the hubby - Sense of entitlement Why are they so tight-fisted? Just hire a hooker and call it a day, or night" A really interesting perspective. I could post from the couple profile or my single fem profile. I meet other single fems on my own, not with my partner. I don't want to be part of the dynamic of anyone else's coupledom, nor do I want anyone to be part of ours ... when I swing with a woman, as my partner knows, I like to do it alone, not with him or for his benefit ... he does the same with men ... when we play together, its mainly at parties and socially. So, as a single fem meeting a couple, I would have no issue with what the woman decided, no kissing the hubby, out by a certain time, etc because I would respect that relationship. Because of that, I don't meet couples alone ...seeing it from the inside and outside. Not sure if this post would come better from my single female profile?? | |||
"Have been keen to meet a couple for a while but I am put off by the amount of messages I receive + reading between the lines basically looking for a female to provide the entertainment and service them both before having to leave by a certain time. I thought it was supposed to be a three way thing so I have declined. A few years ago I DID meet a couple and it transpired in the bedroom of their hotel that I was there as a birthday present for her hubby and she wanted me to leave after an hour once he had came. I told them to phone a hooker and I walked out as I am not on the site to be used. Any other ladies had similar experiences? - Out by a certain time or sleep in a separate room - No kissing the hubby - Sense of entitlement Why are they so tight-fisted? Just hire a hooker and call it a day, or night A really interesting perspective. I could post from the couple profile or my single fem profile. I meet other single fems on my own, not with my partner. I don't want to be part of the dynamic of anyone else's coupledom, nor do I want anyone to be part of ours ... when I swing with a woman, as my partner knows, I like to do it alone, not with him or for his benefit ... he does the same with men ... when we play together, its mainly at parties and socially. So, as a single fem meeting a couple, I would have no issue with what the woman decided, no kissing the hubby, out by a certain time, etc because I would respect that relationship. Because of that, I don't meet couples alone ...seeing it from the inside and outside. Not sure if this post would come better from my single female profile??" It is a moot point, since as you stated, you, when meeting alone, do not want to meet other couples And if you do meet a couple, you do not have an issue following their rules when they decide how you should behave I do have an issue and so I posted my comment. I would have the same issue when meeting a single man who wanted me out in 90 minutes or had a no kissing rule. Ofcourse, he will be entitled to making his rules up as I am entitled to meet someone else who suits me better. And that is what the OP did too The fact of the matter is that these rules are made by few / some / many / most couples but I have never bumped into a single man or a single woman insisting on the same | |||
"Have been keen to meet a couple for a while but I am put off by the amount of messages I receive + reading between the lines basically looking for a female to provide the entertainment and service them both before having to leave by a certain time. I thought it was supposed to be a three way thing so I have declined. A few years ago I DID meet a couple and it transpired in the bedroom of their hotel that I was there as a birthday present for her hubby and she wanted me to leave after an hour once he had came. I told them to phone a hooker and I walked out as I am not on the site to be used. Any other ladies had similar experiences? - Out by a certain time or sleep in a separate room - No kissing the hubby - Sense of entitlement Why are they so tight-fisted? Just hire a hooker and call it a day, or night A really interesting perspective. I could post from the couple profile or my single fem profile. I meet other single fems on my own, not with my partner. I don't want to be part of the dynamic of anyone else's coupledom, nor do I want anyone to be part of ours ... when I swing with a woman, as my partner knows, I like to do it alone, not with him or for his benefit ... he does the same with men ... when we play together, its mainly at parties and socially. So, as a single fem meeting a couple, I would have no issue with what the woman decided, no kissing the hubby, out by a certain time, etc because I would respect that relationship. Because of that, I don't meet couples alone ...seeing it from the inside and outside. Not sure if this post would come better from my single female profile?? It is a moot point, since as you stated, you, when meeting alone, do not want to meet other couples And if you do meet a couple, you do not have an issue following their rules when they decide how you should behave I do have an issue and so I posted my comment. I would have the same issue when meeting a single man who wanted me out in 90 minutes or had a no kissing rule. Ofcourse, he will be entitled to making his rules up as I am entitled to meet someone else who suits me better. And that is what the OP did too The fact of the matter is that these rules are made by few / some / many / most couples but I have never bumped into a single man or a single woman insisting on the same" Interesting to me that couples do make up rules, but maybe its more about their communication and their feeling of protecting what they have or just agreeing boundaries between themselves ... after all, I would expect that for all couples, their relationship is more important than any swinging experience, or they wouldn't be a couple. For that reason, you are right, I dont meet couples, but when I have met anyone who stipulates rules as such, there is always negotiation, maybe harder when three people are involved and two are on the same side as it were? For me, never find a couple both of whom I am attracted to | |||
"My first ever bisexual meet with a couple I was on top and brought him to the point of cumming. I was then pushed off so he could cum inside her. It's made me wary of couples ever since... Was that the only time you've met a couple ? These stories seem to be so common , I wonder if there's a common denominator here ? And before any smart arse says ' yes , couples ' , let's look at couples who , like us have had lots if successful meets with single bi females . When we point out that we often accompany single bi females on a night out dogging ( every time without fail not just as a one off , but regularly ) other couples can't believe it , saying how lucky we are . We may be out and about looking for a meet and we never fail to get interest from single bi females who may want to join us , or us to pop by and visit them . Sometimes we will , others we may not , as we may not be looking for that , but out in the real world of fab ( away from the forums ) , the consensus seems so different ! So do the bi females who regularly post on the forums about predatory couples really represent the majority ? Or is there a strange phenomenon occurring amongst the forum users , where all the single bi females who have had problems with couples end up voicing their concerns on the forum ? Please don't get me wrong here , I don't disbelieve the stories , it just seems very odd that there are so many women in the same position who regularly post the same stuff in the subject . " | |||
"Have been keen to meet a couple for a while but I am put off by the amount of messages I receive + reading between the lines basically looking for a female to provide the entertainment and service them both before having to leave by a certain time. I thought it was supposed to be a three way thing so I have declined. A few years ago I DID meet a couple and it transpired in the bedroom of their hotel that I was there as a birthday present for her hubby and she wanted me to leave after an hour once he had came. I told them to phone a hooker and I walked out as I am not on the site to be used. Any other ladies had similar experiences? - Out by a certain time or sleep in a separate room - No kissing the hubby - Sense of entitlement Why are they so tight-fisted? Just hire a hooker and call it a day, or night A really interesting perspective. I could post from the couple profile or my single fem profile. I meet other single fems on my own, not with my partner. I don't want to be part of the dynamic of anyone else's coupledom, nor do I want anyone to be part of ours ... when I swing with a woman, as my partner knows, I like to do it alone, not with him or for his benefit ... he does the same with men ... when we play together, its mainly at parties and socially. So, as a single fem meeting a couple, I would have no issue with what the woman decided, no kissing the hubby, out by a certain time, etc because I would respect that relationship. Because of that, I don't meet couples alone ...seeing it from the inside and outside. Not sure if this post would come better from my single female profile?? It is a moot point, since as you stated, you, when meeting alone, do not want to meet other couples And if you do meet a couple, you do not have an issue following their rules when they decide how you should behave I do have an issue and so I posted my comment. I would have the same issue when meeting a single man who wanted me out in 90 minutes or had a no kissing rule. Ofcourse, he will be entitled to making his rules up as I am entitled to meet someone else who suits me better. And that is what the OP did too The fact of the matter is that these rules are made by few / some / many / most couples but I have never bumped into a single man or a single woman insisting on the same Interesting to me that couples do make up rules, but maybe its more about their communication and their feeling of protecting what they have or just agreeing boundaries between themselves ... after all, I would expect that for all couples, their relationship is more important than any swinging experience, or they wouldn't be a couple. For that reason, you are right, I dont meet couples, but when I have met anyone who stipulates rules as such, there is always negotiation, maybe harder when three people are involved and two are on the same side as it were? For me, never find a couple both of whom I am attracted to " That is quite true in my case too. Finding a couple where I am attracted to both is extremely difficult Usually the male is a poor compromise for my requirements. Diluting those requirements further is something I am not prepared to do Add to that the element of jealousy and I have found it far less hassle to 'team-up' with another woman and find single men; the 'couple' experience without the drama | |||
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