Saturday night, so plenty of meets going on. But how long in advance do you usually plan meets for them to be successful.
Usually for us, if we try to plan on the day it doesn't work out. So how far in advance do you usually have to plan? |
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We rarely make plans, back when we did we got a lot of "sorry been shopping all day, don't feel like meeting now" "sorry just don't fancy going out" etc etc.
So now no longer arrange anything with people, the closest we will come is - we are thinking of going Chams Saturday night if we see you there great. If they turn up all good, if they don't, and they quite often don't, then we find someone else to chat to. |
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"Same day is best.. Personally hate long winded drawn out build ups...
Yeah the long winded drawn out build up is not good but same day has the possibility of not working out. "
no more than planned in advance x |
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I normally meet at clubs so I just say I'm too g, and if they show up great if not, then I'm good as there are people around.
When I do meet privately, because of my outside life things do take planning so it can be a week or two in advance. With people I've met previously it could possibly be on the day if I'm suddenly free but that is rare. |
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If was planning meet for wkend wld normally post it on a Wed. So pple interested get time to sort child care, work etc. & more time u give, can sort a back up plan lol if get let down  |
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