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There's so many posts about guys (or girls) being straight or bi. Even the profile set up on this site only gives those options. This is the 21st century and there are other options!
I class myself as Hete exible, I'm not attracted to guys (as Bisexual suggests) but during a hot MMF, I'm open minded to things happening because it's hot!
There's also Omnisexuality, those who are attracted to sexual gratification not the person, so it doesn't matter what sex they are!
So if a guy is ever sucked by another guy during a hot session, it doesn't mean they're bi or gay. Open your minds people, there's fun to be had! |
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Bisexual means you will indulge in sex (whatever form, is your choice) with either or both sexes.
Hows about some fucking HONESTY on here ! not just more labels.
Save us having to attach a thesaurus to our profiles. |
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"Bisexual means you will indulge in sex (whatever form, is your choice) with either or both sexes.
Hows about some fucking HONESTY on here ! not just more labels.
Save us having to attach a thesaurus to our profiles. "
Crikey, did I upset you mate? That's not what bisexuality is but chill out! I thought this was a place for open and fair debate.  |
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"Yet more labels?
I agree with you, but in this case, they're needed. "
People are well able to read a profile. You can explain what turns you on there. I don't think introducing an abundance of labels is helpful. While I appreciate your point, I think the majority of people would see you as bi sexual, albeit in a group situation. Where would you stop with the labels? |
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"Bisexual means you will indulge in sex (whatever form, is your choice) with either or both sexes.
Hows about some fucking HONESTY on here ! not just more labels.
Save us having to attach a thesaurus to our profiles.
Crikey, did I upset you mate? That's not what bisexuality is but chill out! I thought this was a place for open and fair debate. "
No you did not upset me in anyway!
I was just making a point. Yes it was affirmatively made, but not meant aggressively.
I just wish people on here would be truthful to themselves and hopefully to everyone else as well.
Just too many guys on here who would wank, suck, be sucked, or fuck a bum who are not Bi, only straight. |
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Sexuality is genuinely more complicated than simple 'I liketh the boob', 'I liketh the penis', 'I liketh it all!'.
For example, let's say a straight guy dates someone who is transgendered. He's clearly not interested in masculinity (unless you think the definition of a guy begins and ends with 'a dick') so does that still make him bi? What's the definition there. And it's absolutely possible to be just attracted enough to enjoy some sexual contact with someone of the same gender without ever wanting to date romantically. Is that straight? Bi? Who the fuck is anyone to tell anyone else how they should describe anything about their own psyche..
It's easy to go 'Labels bad', but words are how we define things and communicate ideas and describe who we are. We don't have any other tools; our hair colours or smell don't change depending on how much we like the cock. Denying or even mocking someone's choice of identity, however outside of your own personal experience or understanding it may be, is surely wrong?
For a fucking swingers website, there isn't half a surprising amount of closed mindedness on here. |
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"Sexuality is genuinely more complicated than simple 'I liketh the boob', 'I liketh the penis', 'I liketh it all!'.
For example, let's say a straight guy dates someone who is transgendered. He's clearly not interested in masculinity (unless you think the definition of a guy begins and ends with 'a dick') so does that still make him bi? What's the definition there. And it's absolutely possible to be just attracted enough to enjoy some sexual contact with someone of the same gender without ever wanting to date romantically. Is that straight? Bi? Who the fuck is anyone to tell anyone else how they should describe anything about their own psyche..
It's easy to go 'Labels bad', but words are how we define things and communicate ideas and describe who we are. We don't have any other tools; our hair colours or smell don't change depending on how much we like the cock. Denying or even mocking someone's choice of identity, however outside of your own personal experience or understanding it may be, is surely wrong?
For a fucking swingers website, there isn't half a surprising amount of closed mindedness on here."
Great post. I think the OP had a good point and as usual the forum "elite" try and belittle anyone who doesn't agree with their narrow mindedness. |
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"Sexuality is genuinely more complicated than simple 'I liketh the boob', 'I liketh the penis', 'I liketh it all!'.
For example, let's say a straight guy dates someone who is transgendered. He's clearly not interested in masculinity (unless you think the definition of a guy begins and ends with 'a dick') so does that still make him bi? What's the definition there. And it's absolutely possible to be just attracted enough to enjoy some sexual contact with someone of the same gender without ever wanting to date romantically. Is that straight? Bi? Who the fuck is anyone to tell anyone else how they should describe anything about their own psyche..
It's easy to go 'Labels bad', but words are how we define things and communicate ideas and describe who we are. We don't have any other tools; our hair colours or smell don't change depending on how much we like the cock. Denying or even mocking someone's choice of identity, however outside of your own personal experience or understanding it may be, is surely wrong?
For a fucking swingers website, there isn't half a surprising amount of closed mindedness on here."
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If you get your cock sucked by another man in any situation that makes you at least orally bi, it's no big deal these days.
The old tale saying I was so sexually aroused that I just let him do it is just a cop out, imo. Just because there is a female present some seem to think that it doesn't count, that's bizarre.
I've been offered to have my cock sucked by numerous males over the years but I've politely turned them down. Not because it disgusts me it's just I would not enjoy it and I couldn't even get hard.
If you're just orally bi then why not just state so on your profile ? perhaps because they know it will put some off ?
That will be true but it will also turn some on so for me honesty wins in that scenario.
A true bi male will have full sex with another male including kissing. A true bi male would consider having a relationship with another bi or gay male.
If you're ashamed of your bi side and in denial then that's a huge burden to carry around, I certainly don't envy any man who does so.
I think many more people would respect men who are totally honest about their bi side, I do for one and it makes life so much more easier for everybody. |
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"If you get your cock sucked by another man in any situation that makes you at least orally bi, it's no big deal these days.
The old tale saying I was so sexually aroused that I just let him do it is just a cop out, imo. Just because there is a female present some seem to think that it doesn't count, that's bizarre.
I've been offered to have my cock sucked by numerous males over the years but I've politely turned them down. Not because it disgusts me it's just I would not enjoy it and I couldn't even get hard.
If you're just orally bi then why not just state so on your profile ? perhaps because they know it will put some off ?
That will be true but it will also turn some on so for me honesty wins in that scenario.
A true bi male will have full sex with another male including kissing. A true bi male would consider having a relationship with another bi or gay male.
If you're ashamed of your bi side and in denial then that's a huge burden to carry around, I certainly don't envy any man who does so.
I think many more people would respect men who are totally honest about their bi side, I do for one and it makes life so much more easier for everybody."
Yup, I sometimes meet Bi men but there are differing risks involved in different types of sexual activity and we must be given the right to weigh up the circumstances and choose for ourselves.
Damn if people can't be open and honest about their sexuality on a bloody swinging site where can they?!! |
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"Sexuality is genuinely more complicated than simple 'I liketh the boob', 'I liketh the penis', 'I liketh it all!'.
For example, let's say a straight guy dates someone who is transgendered. He's clearly not interested in masculinity (unless you think the definition of a guy begins and ends with 'a dick') so does that still make him bi? What's the definition there. And it's absolutely possible to be just attracted enough to enjoy some sexual contact with someone of the same gender without ever wanting to date romantically. Is that straight? Bi? Who the fuck is anyone to tell anyone else how they should describe anything about their own psyche..
It's easy to go 'Labels bad', but words are how we define things and communicate ideas and describe who we are. We don't have any other tools; our hair colours or smell don't change depending on how much we like the cock. Denying or even mocking someone's choice of identity, however outside of your own personal experience or understanding it may be, is surely wrong?
For a fucking swingers website, there isn't half a surprising amount of closed mindedness on here.
Great post. I think the OP had a good point and as usual the forum "elite" try and belittle anyone who doesn't agree with their narrow mindedness. "
Well said, saves me saying it. You are whatever you perceive yourself to be, label or no lable, who cares ffs. |
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I agree OP. I have played with women and enjoy it in that situation but don't consider myself bisexual and I'm past curious. I know please hate labels but it's quite frustrating when the site forces you to label yourself and you don't really fit. |
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"Bisexual means you will indulge in sex (whatever form, is your choice) with either or both sexes.
Hows about some fucking HONESTY on here ! not just more labels.
Save us having to attach a thesaurus to our profiles.
Crikey, did I upset you mate? That's not what bisexuality is but chill out! I thought this was a place for open and fair debate.
No you did not upset me in anyway!
I was just making a point. Yes it was affirmatively made, but not meant aggressively.
I just wish people on here would be truthful to themselves and hopefully to everyone else as well.
Just too many guys on here who would wank, suck, be sucked, or fuck a bum who are not Bi, only straight. "
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"Sexuality is genuinely more complicated than simple 'I liketh the boob', 'I liketh the penis', 'I liketh it all!'.
For example, let's say a straight guy dates someone who is transgendered. He's clearly not interested in masculinity (unless you think the definition of a guy begins and ends with 'a dick') so does that still make him bi? What's the definition there. And it's absolutely possible to be just attracted enough to enjoy some sexual contact with someone of the same gender without ever wanting to date romantically. Is that straight? Bi? Who the fuck is anyone to tell anyone else how they should describe anything about their own psyche..
It's easy to go 'Labels bad', but words are how we define things and communicate ideas and describe who we are. We don't have any other tools; our hair colours or smell don't change depending on how much we like the cock. Denying or even mocking someone's choice of identity, however outside of your own personal experience or understanding it may be, is surely wrong?
For a fucking swingers website, there isn't half a surprising amount of closed mindedness on here.
Great post. I think the OP had a good point and as usual the forum "elite" try and belittle anyone who doesn't agree with their narrow mindedness. "
If there was a rep system on this forum I'd be plus reaping this post so hard right now. |
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Personally I think the only label everyone should have is 'sexual'. We are all sexual in one way or another and can go into specifics of attraction/preferences once we get talking to each other. |
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