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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There's a point during sex where if I haven't cum then it's probably not going to happen at all. I've been absolutely into my partner, completely fancy them but it's just not happened. It used to happen a lot with my ex who I thought was stunning and a few times since, not always but often. Weirdly sex has been great for the other half and I've enjoyed it but I just can't finish, which leaves me a touch unsatisfied and a little self conscious that the other half thinks I don't fancy them? I think it might be because I spend the beginning of sex trying not to cum so I can satisfy my partner but then it's as if I can't turn that mental block off. Is this just me or anyone else too? |
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I (rob) get this every now and then due to stress. The more you think about it, the worse it gets. Maybe start off not worrying about holding back for your partner. Just enjoy sex for yourself for a while until things even out. And lay off the self love for a week or so too. Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It makes it worse when the other person says i want you to cum or sucking your cock or wanking and moaning that there wrist or jaw aches. If its such a effort love id rather you stopped. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I hope it doesn't come across that I'm a bit up myself, I'm not at all and it's not meant in that way, it's just really weird that I'm having a good time but can't get the end product as it were. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get this sometimes it's an unfortunate side effect of my medication.
I know what you mean, I feel very self concious about it, and feel like I'm disappointing the lady I'm with or that she thinks I don't like her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had this problem a few times myself, especially in mmf/group situations were you try to hold back so you don't cum to early, the more you hold back, the worse it becomes until finally that you've been fcuking 6 hours straight and starting to feel completely worn out!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it only becomes a problem if you make it one. If you are fucking your girl and you are both enjoying it, fine. If you fuck her to orgasm and you still havent creamed and she or you are getting tired, well just pull it out. It isnt obligatory to shoot.
A lot of these issues are psychological and/or stress related. |
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If engaged in a marathon type session over a couple of hours or more, then this happens frequently. I don't see it as a problem, I savour the kinky sex and often have pictures as additional stimuli when masturbating after a rest. |
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