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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So i've just turned 23. I've always had a problem on this site where many swingers turn me down due to my age.. I was wondering what is the lowest age people generally go for and what can I change about my profile that will make people reconsider? (obviously not change my age).. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Generally up to 5 years younger for me; so ur age for me is not an issue.
Profile wise I just have a few things on there that didn't work for me but I wouldn't ask u to change them in any way...
Maybe just reconsider the pics? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife would love a younger guy but they seem to be unreliable. She also likes to chat and flirt for a bit before meeting. They just dont have the time for this. They expect a invitation after 2 or 3 messages. Theres more to this than just stuffing body parts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's about attraction and I am attracted to people my own age, no matter what your profile says, your age would put me off so for me, when I was meeting, I wouldn't consider below about 45 but there are plenty of women (and men) who like your age |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My wife would love a younger guy but they seem to be unreliable. She also likes to chat and flirt for a bit before meeting. They just dont have the time for this. They expect a invitation after 2 or 3 messages. Theres more to this than just stuffing body parts."
This. We like the idea of a young guy joining us but you tend to get two one line messages and then a when we meeting. As said it's more than just stuffing body parts. Attitude and not just age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the thing with younger guys, coming from a younger girl, is that so many seem so immature and don't grasp the life style - at all. Also discretion and keeping things on the down low seem to be an issue for some younger men - bragging rights etc. I've literally only spoken to one guy my age who I can actually have a proper conversation with, I can't imagine how it for older ladies and couples! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So i've just turned 23. I've always had a problem on this site where many swingers turn me down due to my age.. I was wondering what is the lowest age people generally go for and what can I change about my profile that will make people reconsider? (obviously not change my age).."
There's so much about your profile that makes you a no to us that I wouldn't know where to begin.
Sorry x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So i've just turned 23. I've always had a problem on this site where many swingers turn me down due to my age.. I was wondering what is the lowest age people generally go for and what can I change about my profile that will make people reconsider? (obviously not change my age).."
same problem mate ::
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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Your age wouldn't put me off, as long as you came across well when we chatted.
Your first photo would put me off though. I think cocks sticking through the fly of trousers look ridiculous. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"So i've just turned 23. I've always had a problem on this site where many swingers turn me down due to my age.. I was wondering what is the lowest age people generally go for and what can I change about my profile that will make people reconsider? (obviously not change my age).."
There are many profiles that exclude me on age ...whether that be upper or lower...
Nothing you can do its their preference, create a well written informative profile and if the folk find you it might mean theyinitiate contact withyou..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My wife would love a younger guy but they seem to be unreliable. She also likes to chat and flirt for a bit before meeting. They just dont have the time for this. They expect a invitation after 2 or 3 messages. Theres more to this than just stuffing body parts."
Shame you're so far away. Personally I would love to have a naughty chat with Jane and flirt before the meet. I enjoy the chat and build up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair on the age and maturity comments I've met plenty of people older than me (36) who are equally immature age doesn't really equate to maturity. |
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Age is not an issue for me but maturity is. The young men I have met are largely more mature than a lot of older guys.
Cock pics are a no no for me.
If you are worried about your age then maybe lose the teddy bear pic  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I started swinging when I was 17 (and it is a VERY unorthodox story about how I went into swinging and lost my virginity whilst at it; meet me in person and you shall get to hear it!), and we're the same age OP. To you I'd say that don't despair about your youth, much as older people would say age is just a number and not an accurate judge of one's character the same can be said for young guns like you and I. It's the personality that counts and I can't begin to tell you how I've met swingers at socials or private parties, and sometimes after we've all had a roll between the sheets only then do they find out how young I am and they're all surprised that it turned out so well for them.
Good luck for your swinging life OP! You aren't alone! |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
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"To be fair on the age and maturity comments I've met plenty of people older than me (36) who are equally immature age doesn't really equate to maturity. "
maturity is based on experience howver just because you experiene something does not make you experienced, we gain experience vicariously, through the experience of other, taught both self and by others, reflection and/or tgrough evaluating situations as when they happen, a six sence if you like.
see university was not a waist of money afterall. lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think people on this site get looked down on because of their age, age doesn't mean maturity and age doesn't mean reliability. I think you have the young guys on here who give genuine young guys a bad name
That being said though it's the same for everything, the minority ruin it for the majority |
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"I think people on this site get looked down on because of their age, age doesn't mean maturity and age doesn't mean reliability. I think you have the young guys on here who give genuine young guys a bad name
That being said though it's the same for everything, the minority ruin it for the majority"
well said mate |
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