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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I've just uploaded a photo of my nether regions. I'm in between waxes so yes I have pubes down there.
My question, is this what women call 'trimmed'? Clearly I have done nothing to shape the growth of my pubes, and I have no cut it to a specific length (it has just grown naturally since my wax).
Also for men, is this a dealbreaker for you in terms of meets? I love being smoothly waxed but clearly in between waxes this is the result! |
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I would just call that a bit stubbly.
It's absolutely beautiful. Personally for me though, if you were meeting me, I'd prefer you just let it grow. At least another two or three weeks growth and I'd be much happier  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey had to have a look to make an informed comment...
I would say you are more trimmed.
And it's. I deal breaker for me. Untamed is though.
I like trimmed, or a near strip is quite cool abut so is shaved.
It does appear that shaved is the norm so sometimes a little landing strip is rather nice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't call that a bush or a dealbreaker tbh but in terms of oral etc smooth is nicer doesn't tickle the top lip however if a girl was hairy id just work around it
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First of all, sexy pic
Secondly, that's at the stage where it'll prick our pricks 
And no, it would never be a deal breaker for me. I love a bush as much as love it smooth and freshly waxed.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You see I'm really struggling with the lingo, it's definitely not stubble because it's soft and not scratchy, but everywhere on the internet it seems like 'trimmed' means that some grooming/shaping has gone into the look, however I've just let mine grow?
Also my pubes are fairly sparse (years of waxing), so even if I let it grow really long it'd be unlikely to become a bush (like you see on 70's pornstars...
I've always been an advocate of complete baldness down there but I think the sails might be changing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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had a look and tbh unless you're really bushy then you can't tell what pubes look like properly (i noticed this with my own pics).
you look not trimmed, like the hair is sparse in between hairs for some reason. hope no offence is taken, just if it was trimmed it would look like more hairs but short hairs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think a little bit of hair isnt such a bad thing to be honest, on a woman i mean, keeps things interesting...so long you dont happen to cough up a stray pube |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks fine to me. I'm very bushy sometimes. If it was ever a dealbreaker, I'd say the other person clearly has too much choice and it's their choice to go and exercise that preference with someone else. We aren't all porn stars on here. |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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"You see I'm really struggling with the lingo, it's definitely not stubble because it's soft and not scratchy, but everywhere on the internet it seems like 'trimmed' means that some grooming/shaping has gone into the look, however I've just let mine grow?
Also my pubes are fairly sparse (years of waxing), so even if I let it grow really long it'd be unlikely to become a bush (like you see on 70's pornstars...
I've always been an advocate of complete baldness down there but I think the sails might be changing!"
I have the same issue as you. I get waxed every three weeks so there has to be a bit of growth for the re-wax. Mine grows back like yours only blonde. So it's too fine and sparse to look like there is any shape to it. I won't meet new people unless I'm freshly waxed and the boyfriend has to make do with the tiny bit of hair in between waxes.
Because I've been waxed so much and because I'm fair I couldn't even do a landing strip if I wanted to.
I know what you mean though, it doesn't grow back as stubbly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks fine to me. I'm very bushy sometimes. If it was ever a dealbreaker, I'd say the other person clearly has too much choice and it's their choice to go and exercise that preference with someone else. We aren't all porn stars on here. "
Here here, everyone has a choice, and quite rightly so...looks pretty good to me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i think a little bit of hair isnt such a bad thing to be honest, on a woman i mean, keeps things interesting...so long you dont happen to cough up a stray pube "
That's another thing I've found on the Internet a lot 'coughing up pubes'. If any of my pubes managed to free themselves I wouldn't need waxes every 6 weeks! If they were longer and curlier maybe they could be dislodged but these ones aren't going anywhere. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You see I'm really struggling with the lingo, it's definitely not stubble because it's soft and not scratchy, but everywhere on the internet it seems like 'trimmed' means that some grooming/shaping has gone into the look, however I've just let mine grow?
Also my pubes are fairly sparse (years of waxing), so even if I let it grow really long it'd be unlikely to become a bush (like you see on 70's pornstars...
I've always been an advocate of complete baldness down there but I think the sails might be changing!
I have the same issue as you. I get waxed every three weeks so there has to be a bit of growth for the re-wax. Mine grows back like yours only blonde. So it's too fine and sparse to look like there is any shape to it. I won't meet new people unless I'm freshly waxed and the boyfriend has to make do with the tiny bit of hair in between waxes.
Because I've been waxed so much and because I'm fair I couldn't even do a landing strip if I wanted to.
I know what you mean though, it doesn't grow back as stubbly. "
This! I wanted to try a landing strip but my waxing tech said I'd end up with about 8 hairs in a line that would look weird! My hair's are so dark though that when I shave I can still see the shadow underneath and then you get the awful shaving rash which is why I resort to waxing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like a bit of hair over fully waxed - always have done.
Trimmed to me just means not full grown and cut short(ish)."
Hahhaa you're the exact cause of my dilemma!
I haven't cut my hair, it's not fully grown (to waxing length) but I have not groomed or shaped it. Does that mean it's not trimmed?
Does trimmed mean a perfect V on my mons? As I don't have that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like a bit of hair over fully waxed - always have done.
Trimmed to me just means not full grown and cut short(ish).
Hahhaa you're the exact cause of my dilemma!
I haven't cut my hair, it's not fully grown (to waxing length) but I have not groomed or shaped it. Does that mean it's not trimmed?
Does trimmed mean a perfect V on my mons? As I don't have that! "
Well, it's not fully grown so the length could be considered trimmed.
I wouldn't worry about it too much. |
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"i think a little bit of hair isnt such a bad thing to be honest, on a woman i mean, keeps things interesting...so long you dont happen to cough up a stray pube
That's another thing I've found on the Internet a lot 'coughing up pubes'. If any of my pubes managed to free themselves I wouldn't need waxes every 6 weeks! If they were longer and curlier maybe they could be dislodged but these ones aren't going anywhere."
I think the whole 'coughing up pubes' or 'flossing with pubes' is just uninformed nonsense. The kind of lines that people who don't like a bit of bush just like to chuck out there. The last time I looked fannies don't molt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think any well mannered make wouldn't make anything of a stray pube anyway. And discreetly dispose of. Lol"
'Coughing up pubes' is just some kind of immature reaction to someone with pubic hair. |
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"I think any well mannered make wouldn't make anything of a stray pube anyway. And discreetly dispose of. Lol
'Coughing up pubes' is just some kind of immature reaction to someone with pubic hair."
Usually followed by some comment about how shaven pussies are more hygienic or 'cleaner'. Don't even get me started on that bollocks  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's your lady garden. You prune it however you want to.
If anyone says 'their' preference is a deal breaker, they're clearly not worth your time"
Haha aw I love this way of thinking! I think it's just been ingrained in me since I first grew them that I shouldn't have anything at all down there! |
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Id would describe that as stubbly, its the same as mine looks if it starts to grow back but mine is never stubble to feel just goes soft and downy. Id say trimmed is when theres proper pubic hair but its not long or wild. Then natural when its just been left alone. In fact if mine looked like yours and a guy asked me i would probably just say theres some growth |
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"It's your lady garden. You prune it however you want to.
If anyone says 'their' preference is a deal breaker, they're clearly not worth your time
Haha aw I love this way of thinking! I think it's just been ingrained in me since I first grew them that I shouldn't have anything at all down there!"
I think sadly, men (especially younger guys) have also had it ingrained in them that a woman should be shaven and anything else is seen as pretty gross to them (often leading them to be quite derogatory). You always do what you're happy with and sod what anyone else thinks. It's your body. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I've just uploaded a photo of my nether regions. I'm in between waxes so yes I have pubes down there.
My question, is this what women call 'trimmed'? Clearly I have done nothing to shape the growth of my pubes, and I have no cut it to a specific length (it has just grown naturally since my wax).
Also for men, is this a dealbreaker for you in terms of meets? I love being smoothly waxed but clearly in between waxes this is the result!"
here borrow my razor lol.ted |
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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago
Scarborough |
"It's your lady garden. You prune it however you want to.
If anyone says 'their' preference is a deal breaker, they're clearly not worth your time
Haha aw I love this way of thinking! I think it's just been ingrained in me since I first grew them that I shouldn't have anything at all down there!"
Live on the wild side and grow a garden!  |
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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Personally I think you're getting unnecessarily caught up in the terminology. As a full-bush girl who has been known to wax and trim in the past I would simply describe your current growth as being in-between waxes. I would not describe it as trimmed.
As for it being a deal breaker or not...do you really want to have sex with someone who wants you to change 'your' appearance to suit 'their' preference? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I have to say I like the look and I find it very sexyslut and I would love to meet you for sure. Certainly not a bush or a deal breaker. I would love to give you some oral |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally I think you're getting unnecessarily caught up in the terminology. As a full-bush girl who has been known to wax and trim in the past I would simply describe your current growth as being in-between waxes. I would not describe it as trimmed.
As for it being a deal breaker or not...do you really want to have sex with someone who wants you to change 'your' appearance to suit 'their' preference?"
I think maybe the term dealbreaker wasn't the right one, I'm not going to pretend to be falsely modest and say that people aren't interested in me... the messages I receive suggest they are.
However when I meet with someone I want them to be really attracted to me and satisfied, if I found out that they hated pubes with a passion and only met with me for a shag because they thought the rest of me was hot I would be horrified! |
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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago
Sevenoaks |
"So I've just uploaded a photo of my nether regions. I'm in between waxes so yes I have pubes down there.
My question, is this what women call 'trimmed'? Clearly I have done nothing to shape the growth of my pubes, and I have no cut it to a specific length (it has just grown naturally since my wax).
Also for men, is this a dealbreaker for you in terms of meets? I love being smoothly waxed but clearly in between waxes this is the result!"
Dealbreaker? fuck no!! you are so beautiful that I wouldn't complain if the Jackson five were having a bad hair day down there.. Everyone loves a wax but its always full on 70's retro, we could even wear high waistbands, platform shoes and massive collars
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I think Stubble is not good lol"
That's not stubble.
Stubble is where the end of the hair was cut off by shaving. It's a blunt end and it's prickly.
Waxing pulls the hair out by the root. Regrowth is soft and fine, not prickly because it's new hair, with a narrow fine tip, not a cut end. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't call that trimmed. Just sparse hair regrowth. It looks fine and soft so in terms of friction, nothing to worry about.
Personally I prefer completely smooth as it feels really nice and soft when I'm down there, which I love doing.
As has also been said though, if you fancy someone, a few (or more even) pubes down there won't really make a difference to how much you want to pleasure and pound them  |
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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago
South Dublin |
"I think any well mannered make wouldn't make anything of a stray pube anyway. And discreetly dispose of. Lol
'Coughing up pubes' is just some kind of immature reaction to someone with pubic hair."
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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago
South Dublin |
"Personally I think you're getting unnecessarily caught up in the terminology. As a full-bush girl who has been known to wax and trim in the past I would simply describe your current growth as being in-between waxes. I would not describe it as trimmed.
As for it being a deal breaker or not...do you really want to have sex with someone who wants you to change 'your' appearance to suit 'their' preference?
I think maybe the term dealbreaker wasn't the right one, I'm not going to pretend to be falsely modest and say that people aren't interested in me... the messages I receive suggest they are.
However when I meet with someone I want them to be really attracted to me and satisfied, if I found out that they hated pubes with a passion and only met with me for a shag because they thought the rest of me was hot I would be horrified! "
That's why I have pics on my profile. Guys know what they are getting. And nobody has turned away in disgust yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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now that i can handle its past the spikey and just into the soft - not grown on the legtops which if it had would shave off - too far away for my hand to reach though  |
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By *purt5Man
over a year ago
sutton coldfield |
Pubes are wonderful natural shaped or however you like. They are like the curtains that are hiding the main prize and when played with they reveal that treasure.
Bush better than plucked chicken on my view only.
You need to have a little more growth to let you decide on a style you would like to try.
But it does look delicious and would love a tasty close up xx |
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This is definitely not bush territory that's when they tickle your nose. Nor is it 'trimmed' in our opinion. This is 'pending'. As in 'I'm either about ready to wax again or I'm going to grow it out'.
We consider 'trimmed' to mean shaped and mown to length' with some shaving in the thigh crease and underneath. Not a deal breaker for us at all and no-one's decision but your own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I expect you could grow a whole shrubbery down there and you wouldn't be short of offers! When you look as hot as you do, I'm sure pubes are not that big a deal! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I've just uploaded a photo of my nether regions. I'm in between waxes so yes I have pubes down there.
My question, is this what women call 'trimmed'? Clearly I have done nothing to shape the growth of my pubes, and I have no cut it to a specific length (it has just grown naturally since my wax).
Also for men, is this a dealbreaker for you in terms of meets? I love being smoothly waxed but clearly in between waxes this is the result!"
Certainly not a deal breaker! Can you really imagine a man peeling off your knickers and saying "no thanks"?!!!!
I like a bit of hair, if I'm honest. Shaved/waxed is good too. Bristles are tolerable but not ideal. |
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"Hey had to have a look to make an informed comment...
I would say you are more trimmed.
And it's. I deal breaker for me. Untamed is though.
I like trimmed, or a near strip is quite cool abut so is shaved.
It does appear that shaved is the norm so sometimes a little landing strip is rather nice. "
Not keen on landing strips myself, I think they look unnatural. Best to just let it grow as it naturally does on your mons pubis and just trim your bikini line.
Personally I feel pubic hair looks best and feels best when it's long enough that it actually moves when you run your fingers through it.
Let it grow!
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"So I've just uploaded a photo of my nether regions. I'm in between waxes so yes I have pubes down there.
My question, is this what women call 'trimmed'? Clearly I have done nothing to shape the growth of my pubes, and I have no cut it to a specific length (it has just grown naturally since my wax).
Also for men, is this a dealbreaker for you in terms of meets? I love being smoothly waxed but clearly in between waxes this is the result!
Certainly not a deal breaker! Can you really imagine a man peeling off your knickers and saying "no thanks"?!!!!
I like a bit of hair, if I'm honest. Shaved/waxed is good too. Bristles are tolerable but not ideal."
See, I don't get this. I must be one of the few guys out there that would actually be put off if it WAS bald, rather than hairy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we both like a hairy pussy
we think there is too much pressure on people to fit in with the in crowd,
grow your ladygarden how you like there will all ways be those who dont like or do like your choice of hairy or shaved,
but either way I cant see you going without fun, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I've just uploaded a photo of my nether regions. I'm in between waxes so yes I have pubes down there.
My question, is this what women call 'trimmed'? Clearly I have done nothing to shape the growth of my pubes, and I have no cut it to a specific length (it has just grown naturally since my wax).
Also for men, is this a dealbreaker for you in terms of meets? I love being smoothly waxed but clearly in between waxes this is the result!"
on you it looks good... I would quite happily spend an evening down there... so no, not a deal breaker at all. what about you would hair down ther be a deal breaker for you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we both like a hairy pussy
we think there is too much pressure on people to fit in with the in crowd,
grow your ladygarden how you like there will all ways be those who dont like or do like your choice of hairy or shaved,
but either way I cant see you going without fun,"
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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Its your pussy, which ever way you want to wear it, bald, bushy or in between, wear it with pride. If it's a deal breaker for anyone then they should consider if they would change what they do down there if someone told them too. I think it looks great, and anyone who has the opportunity to see it up close is very lucky indeed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if I found out that they hated pubes with a passion and only met with me for a shag because they thought the rest of me was hot I would be horrified! "
that's how I would feel.
Not many will admit it on here though because they're hoping to get in your pants |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I've just uploaded a photo of my nether regions. I'm in between waxes so yes I have pubes down there.
My question, is this what women call 'trimmed'? Clearly I have done nothing to shape the growth of my pubes, and I have no cut it to a specific length (it has just grown naturally since my wax).
Also for men, is this a dealbreaker for you in terms of meets? I love being smoothly waxed but clearly in between waxes this is the result!"
Absolutely not a dealbreaker. Christ man I started my sex life in the 80's when women didn't just have ridiculously massive hair on their heads. That's positively bald in comparison. Seriously though I really don't mind how they're packaged. Waxed to retro I love em all |
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If I message anybody for a meet, it's because I want to meet them. It's not because of their pubic hair, it's because I find them attractive enough to want to meet them. If we meet and they are shaved below thats great, if they are trimmed or just growing back that's fine, if they are too hairy then that can be discussed for next time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say it's neither trimmed or bushy. More of a stubble look. Trimmed for me would be a no1 or 2 length with a nice patch rather than it being fully covered. Hope that helps x
"So I've just uploaded a photo of my nether regions. I'm in between waxes so yes I have pubes down there.
My question, is this what women call 'trimmed'? Clearly I have done nothing to shape the growth of my pubes, and I have no cut it to a specific length (it has just grown naturally since my wax).
Also for men, is this a dealbreaker for you in terms of meets? I love being smoothly waxed but clearly in between waxes this is the result!"
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