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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi just posting on behalf of the guys that are chubby/ample or bigger, Is there any women on here that prefer a guy thats not all muscles and a 6 pack that have abit of belly ?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I guess i just live in the wrong area lol the woman that have all replied seem to be at the other end of the country lol and thank u for the comments on this thread x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like bears"
I got described by a friend not long ago as a teddy bear in a grizzly bears clothing lol big, hairy and scary looking but with the soft touch, sweetness and heart of gold of a teddy bear lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi just posting on behalf of the guys that are chubby/ample or bigger, Is there any women on here that prefer a guy thats not all muscles and a 6 pack that have abit of belly ? "
Speaking for my people (the fatties) we have no issues with meeting ladies/couples who have no issues with my size. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love big build guys......anyone who can make me feel small or dainty is definitely going to put a smile on my face  "
Amazing profile ur pics are amazing very very sexy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i prefer normal looking, but younger guys. i don't think i'm into either extremes or large or athletic now.
i used to have a thing for obese guys but got over it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi just posting on behalf of the guys that are chubby/ample or bigger, Is there any women on here that prefer a guy thats not all muscles and a 6 pack that have abit of belly ? "
Me. Been a boat floater for me all my life.
I don't like being on top of a guy if I think there is a chance I might break him  |
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I have always been a bear, just a shame that I'm straight as I have had quite a few chaps chase me over the years.
I do love making a woman feel safe and small but some love the feeling of being totally physically dominated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good to hear such positive comments.
I am overweight but I like to dress well and am confident enough most of the time.
But most of all I am a bloomin good person and I think good company too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Broad shoulders and chest. Big upper arms and hands. Mmmmmmm heaven lol.  "
Gutted ur so far away _llie rose im sure we could have had some great fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi just posting on behalf of the guys that are chubby/ample or bigger, Is there any women on here that prefer a guy thats not all muscles and a 6 pack that have abit of belly ? "
everyone likes something different not all skinny guy's like skinny women or vice versa |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a bit of chub on a man - I like to think I'm not going to break someone if I'm on top of them!
Just as long as the man is bigger than me it's all good x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi just posting on behalf of the guys that are chubby/ample or bigger, Is there any women on here that prefer a guy thats not all muscles and a 6 pack that have abit of belly ? "
Any one of my verifications i should imagine  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like a bit of chub on a man - I like to think I'm not going to break someone if I'm on top of them!
Just as long as the man is bigger than me it's all good x"
Well i cant see u being short of offers after just looking at ur profile x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dress it up how you like, but fat guys are not gonna get as 'easy' a time meet wise as athletic / muscled guys are.
That's not too say impossible, just not as 'easy'
And when you consider, for some, 'easy' is hard work too, yeah you are in for a long old slog. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi just posting on behalf of the guys that are chubby/ample or bigger, Is there any women on here that prefer a guy thats not all muscles and a 6 pack that have abit of belly ? "
Not read all the thread (but I will go back and do so ) but I bloody well hope so being a chubster myself .. Any Dadbod lovers out there make yourself known |
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There must be some, as I seem to do OK on here. But there is no scene for big guys to meet the women who admire us...unlike the BBW scene for the ladies.
There is a "bear" scene for gay, big, hairy guys and the guys who prefer them.
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"aw, a well sexy one just messaged me. shame hes 200+ miles away."
I think distance is the main reason I have not messaged you myself.
It does sometimes seem that the best people are quite a distance. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Dress it up how you like, but fat guys are not gonna get as 'easy' a time meet wise as athletic / muscled guys are.
That's not too say impossible, just not as 'easy'
And when you consider, for some, 'easy' is hard work too, yeah you are in for a long old slog."
I am married to a gym bunny and one of my main complaints is that he is too hard to cuddle.....I would love him to have a little belly so I could snuggle it but he won't. So there are definitely women in here that go for a chubbier guy - in my case because I am fat and like guys who I can play with and not worry about hurting them......
If they are like big bears I get the added advantage that they are bigger than me and I enjoy the feeling of being smaller than someone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dress it up how you like, but fat guys are not gonna get as 'easy' a time meet wise as athletic / muscled guys are.
That's not too say impossible, just not as 'easy'
And when you consider, for some, 'easy' is hard work too, yeah you are in for a long old slog.
I am married to a gym bunny and one of my main complaints is that he is too hard to cuddle.....I would love him to have a little belly so I could snuggle it but he won't. So there are definitely women in here that go for a chubbier guy - in my case because I am fat and like guys who I can play with and not worry about hurting them......
If they are like big bears I get the added advantage that they are bigger than me and I enjoy the feeling of being smaller than someone "
ive never understood this thing about hurting or snapping a skinny guy?
isit like a joke or are you shagging the malnourished |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a fan of the dad bod
I'm really not fussed about muscles at all. Big arms are hot but I've had sex with bigger guys before so long as they've worn their weight well and I've been attracted to them and their personality. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"ive never understood this thing about hurting or snapping a skinny guy?
isit like a joke or are you shagging the malnourished "
It might be a joke but there is real meaning behind it. If I am doing a guy who is my height but weighs 9 stone and is slim built when I climb on top of him then he will look swamped with my boobs, belly and thighs. Not so much because he is malnourished but because I am a lot bigger than he is.
Of course there is a whole kink about that with face sitting and smothering but it's not for everyone.
A lot of fat girls still want to feel dainty and a big bear of a guy can do that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've not really got a male body preference, I've been with guys who are gym fit, runner fit, fat and there isn't something I'd never do again - but all the "bigger" guys I've spoken to on here, so far, have been incredibly pushy and needy, thus haven't got too far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not really got a male body preference, I've been with guys who are gym fit, runner fit, fat and there isn't something I'd never do again - but all the "bigger" guys I've spoken to on here, so far, have been incredibly pushy and needy, thus haven't got too far. "
Maybe they feel like they have to try harder ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not really got a male body preference, I've been with guys who are gym fit, runner fit, fat and there isn't something I'd never do again - but all the "bigger" guys I've spoken to on here, so far, have been incredibly pushy and needy, thus haven't got too far. "
Bigger cock. Bigger height. Bigger belly. All bigger ego? |
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I think a lot of guys in general do not know how to "try" without being pushy.
Secondly a lot of bigger guys have probably suffered more than their fair share of negativity...less than the large women but often enough to leave them behind in the sex stakes. A lot of bigger guys are making the inept mistakes in their 20s that most guys make in their teens, due to lack of earlier opportunities. Personally I cringe at how I was in my early 20s.
Respect goes a long way, and I find that if a guy of any shape/size is reasonably confident *and* respectful. There's never any need to get arsey if someone declines your offer. |
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I fancy different ppl it's them as a person n that little something that makes them different
N that little something isn't defined by their size
Or always contained in a 32 waisted 6 pack ripped body |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"aw, a well sexy one just messaged me. shame hes 200+ miles away.
I think distance is the main reason I have not messaged you myself.
It does sometimes seem that the best people are quite a distance."
thanks. yeah i wish everyone had site supporter then they could see how far away they are. |
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"aw, a well sexy one just messaged me. shame hes 200+ miles away.
I think distance is the main reason I have not messaged you myself.
It does sometimes seem that the best people are quite a distance.
thanks. yeah i wish everyone had site supporter then they could see how far away they are."
It's certainly not that inwouldn't travel but i have very rarely written to anyone overv 100 miles away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"aw, a well sexy one just messaged me. shame hes 200+ miles away.
I think distance is the main reason I have not messaged you myself.
It does sometimes seem that the best people are quite a distance.
thanks. yeah i wish everyone had site supporter then they could see how far away they are.
It's certainly not that inwouldn't travel but i have very rarely written to anyone overv 100 miles away."
i'm a local shop for local people. 
just looking for ppl nearby really. |
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Travel is another thing other than size, I have travelled only to have a no show, once bittern twice shy!
Saying that I used to regularly travel to clubs and events over the country so best to arrange a meet somewhere where at least your going to have a good night out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dress it up how you like, but fat guys are not gonna get as 'easy' a time meet wise as athletic / muscled guys are.
That's not too say impossible, just not as 'easy'
And when you consider, for some, 'easy' is hard work too, yeah you are in for a long old slog.
I am married to a gym bunny and one of my main complaints is that he is too hard to cuddle.....I would love him to have a little belly so I could snuggle it but he won't. So there are definitely women in here that go for a chubbier guy - in my case because I am fat and like guys who I can play with and not worry about hurting them......
If they are like big bears I get the added advantage that they are bigger than me and I enjoy the feeling of being smaller than someone "
Believe me, youre more likely to hurt a fat guy than a gym fit guy |
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"(i know you're straight an all, but) there is something i find so, so erotic about a man with belly-fat....... that gorgeous curve around his belly-button can drive me wild........ just sayin "
I've had a fair few meets wiyh gay chubby chasers
I don't mind if a guy or lady is big or small personally, I've always like personality more |
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"I guess i just live in the wrong area lol the woman that have all replied seem to be at the other end of the country lol and thank u for the comments on this thread x "
There's no-one "at the other end of the country" to you, you're in the Midlands! An ideal place to access all parts of these great British Isles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi just posting on behalf of the guys that are chubby/ample or bigger, Is there any women on here that prefer a guy thats not all muscles and a 6 pack that have abit of belly ? "
Big guys - Yeah!
But personally, beards - No.
Good luck though...xxx |
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Believe me, youre more likely to hurt a fat guy than a gym fit guy
Why is that?
Because muscle is firmer and more resistent than fat"
Well all I can say is I've had ladies from size 12 to size 34 ride on top of me and nobody has hurt me yet.
I am sure us bigger guys have fewer admirers, but they are out there. Confidence without being cocky goes a long way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi just posting on behalf of the guys that are chubby/ample or bigger, Is there any women on here that prefer a guy thats not all muscles and a 6 pack that have abit of belly ? "
It's a well known fact all women are interested in is how big your cock is.
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Believe me, youre more likely to hurt a fat guy than a gym fit guy
Why is that?
Because muscle is firmer and more resistent than fat"
Not at all, rugby build is more used to hits so won't get damaged also there is nothing to show fat is more damaged |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nobody loves me on here, everybody loves my Mrs!!!! We're now just pinning our hopes on a sympathy fuck or trying the "grab the newbie first before they see all the sexy couples" technique!!!  |
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I've been described as a living, warm teddy bear. Every lady who has shared a bed with me comments on how warm I am. I tend to sleep with me feet out of the end of the covers, otherwise they get too hot.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Believe me, youre more likely to hurt a fat guy than a gym fit guy
Why is that?
Because muscle is firmer and more resistent than fat
Not at all, rugby build is more used to hits so won't get damaged also there is nothing to show fat is more damaged"
Im pretty sure a rugby is primarily muscle. Some people in here seem to term themselves as a rugby build if theyre big and chubby haha. |
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Believe me, youre more likely to hurt a fat guy than a gym fit guy
Why is that?
Because muscle is firmer and more resistent than fat
Not at all, rugby build is more used to hits so won't get damaged also there is nothing to show fat is more damaged
Im pretty sure a rugby is primarily muscle. Some people in here seem to term themselves as a rugby build if theyre big and chubby haha."
Depends what position you playing, I have played since I could walk and not have the gym queens body, also army fit and American football fit
I don't know if your trying to troll here but you do know this is a big guy thread, not trying to put them down thread, and fat is a cushion and wobbles so the vibrations dissipate and muscle is solid,
Also would you be chilling out with a pizza some wine watching tv on a meet or would you be counting calories and vitamins??? |
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