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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im single and id love to meet a guy off fab to date..like a proper relationship hopefully leading yo more. Maybe in the future explore with swinging as a couple. Is this frowned upon? X |
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"Im single and id love to meet a guy off fab to date..like a proper relationship hopefully leading yo more. Maybe in the future explore with swinging as a couple. Is this frowned upon? X"
By whom? society in general, probably yes, genuine swingers, probably not |
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"Im single and id love to meet a guy off fab to date..like a proper relationship hopefully leading yo more. Maybe in the future explore with swinging as a couple. Is this frowned upon? X"
Frowned upon? There isn't a swingers charter with a list of rules and regulations: you do what suits you.
Personally I use this site for casual sexual encounters, meeting only sexually submissive men. 17 November 2013 I got a message that made me laugh. Nothing sexual just funny. We exchanged messages, still nothing sexual then phone calls. We chatted all through the night then met on the 24 November for a coffee...which led to lunch...and dinner. By the end of the evening we were hooked.
We don't have a lot in common. I'm a tree hugging, bleeding heart, left wing union trouble maker (his words), he's a ukip voting, right wing, cold hearted capitalist (my words). He's a 6ft 1 white Dutch man, I'm a 5ft 6 fat black woman.
He moved in eight months after meeting. Neither of us was looking for anything other than no strings sex. He's used to dating tall, leggy, blue eyed Scandinavian blondes.
Cupid has a sense of humour! |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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I'd really like that, though the swinging bit would just be the icing on the cake really.
OP, don't lose faith. There's a great story on here about a couple who met in a one of Miss Cheekychops' dating threads. It was pretty recently and they were head-over-heels when the reporter back in some time later. Hope that's still the case. Seemed a lovely couple too.
It could happen  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im single and id love to meet a guy off fab to date..like a proper relationship hopefully leading yo more. Maybe in the future explore with swinging as a couple. Is this frowned upon? X
Frowned upon? There isn't a swingers charter with a list of rules and regulations: you do what suits you.
Personally I use this site for casual sexual encounters, meeting only sexually submissive men. 17 November 2013 I got a message that made me laugh. Nothing sexual just funny. We exchanged messages, still nothing sexual then phone calls. We chatted all through the night then met on the 24 November for a coffee...which led to lunch...and dinner. By the end of the evening we were hooked.
We don't have a lot in common. I'm a tree hugging, bleeding heart, left wing union trouble maker (his words), he's a ukip voting, right wing, cold hearted capitalist (my words). He's a 6ft 1 white Dutch man, I'm a 5ft 6 fat black woman.
He moved in eight months after meeting. Neither of us was looking for anything other than no strings sex. He's used to dating tall, leggy, blue eyed Scandinavian blondes.
Cupid has a sense of humour! "
That made me go all warm and fuzzy xx |
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"Im single and id love to meet a guy off fab to date..like a proper relationship hopefully leading yo more. Maybe in the future explore with swinging as a couple. Is this frowned upon? X
Frowned upon? There isn't a swingers charter with a list of rules and regulations: you do what suits you.
Personally I use this site for casual sexual encounters, meeting only sexually submissive men. 17 November 2013 I got a message that made me laugh. Nothing sexual just funny. We exchanged messages, still nothing sexual then phone calls. We chatted all through the night then met on the 24 November for a coffee...which led to lunch...and dinner. By the end of the evening we were hooked.
We don't have a lot in common. I'm a tree hugging, bleeding heart, left wing union trouble maker (his words), he's a ukip voting, right wing, cold hearted capitalist (my words). He's a 6ft 1 white Dutch man, I'm a 5ft 6 fat black woman.
He moved in eight months after meeting. Neither of us was looking for anything other than no strings sex. He's used to dating tall, leggy, blue eyed Scandinavian blondes.
Cupid has a sense of humour!
That made me go all warm and fuzzy xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When i was swinging as a single woman i was not looking for a relationship.
Then i met a guy who captured my heart.
He was sexy and lovely and wonderful and i really enjoyed meeting him.
I stopped seeing other guys after a while.
We admitted to each other that we loved each other. We moved in together and are now married. We still go Chams together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im single and id love to meet a guy off fab to date..like a proper relationship hopefully leading yo more. Maybe in the future explore with swinging as a couple. Is this frowned upon? X"
Shame u not closer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met two guys off here. One I got engaged to and the other lasted about ten months. It was ideal. Not a shred of secrecy.
I'd give my left hand for it to (genuinely) happen again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met two guys off here. One I got engaged to and the other lasted about ten months. It was ideal. Not a shred of secrecy.
I'd give my left hand for it to (genuinely) happen again. "
Give me ur hand |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did meet a lovely lady on here the other year. We became good friends with benefits. We went to gigs and out drinking together and of course lots of sex and swinging.
I would like similar again if that's possible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi I've been looking for the same but not had any joy maybe we could meet for a drink or a bite to eat discuss possibilities. Drop me a private message xxx |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
Ashton Under Lyne |
"Im single and id love to meet a guy off fab to date..like a proper relationship hopefully leading yo more. Maybe in the future explore with swinging as a couple. Is this frowned upon? X"
Looking for that life partner myself, hopefully he's here on Fab (somewhere)
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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago
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"Im single and id love to meet a guy off fab to date..like a proper relationship hopefully leading yo more. Maybe in the future explore with swinging as a couple. Is this frowned upon? X"
No, I don't think it's frowned upon at all. I'd definitely be open to a proper relationship with someone on here. Heard some nice stories about it happening too. |
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Me and C met on here and been together almost 8 months. We have a normal relationship even with the age gap. We do date nights etc but then also go clubs. Least you dont have to have the chat about clubs and that. It works perfect for us x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I take heart at all the lovely messages on this thread as it's something that I too would love to happen.
It must make for an extremely honest and open relationship.
Fingers crossed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im single and id love to meet a guy off fab to date..like a proper relationship hopefully leading yo more. Maybe in the future explore with swinging as a couple. Is this frowned upon? X
Frowned upon? There isn't a swingers charter with a list of rules and regulations: you do what suits you.
Personally I use this site for casual sexual encounters, meeting only sexually submissive men. 17 November 2013 I got a message that made me laugh. Nothing sexual just funny. We exchanged messages, still nothing sexual then phone calls. We chatted all through the night then met on the 24 November for a coffee...which led to lunch...and dinner. By the end of the evening we were hooked.
We don't have a lot in common. I'm a tree hugging, bleeding heart, left wing union trouble maker (his words), he's a ukip voting, right wing, cold hearted capitalist (my words). He's a 6ft 1 white Dutch man, I'm a 5ft 6 fat black woman.
He moved in eight months after meeting. Neither of us was looking for anything other than no strings sex. He's used to dating tall, leggy, blue eyed Scandinavian blondes.
Cupid has a sense of humour! "
I'm loving this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't want a relationship but I would like to find someone to date. You know , do the "couply" stuff but fuck and meet others together too. Thought this was a silly place to look but maybe not !! X |
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I'd definitely like a swinging relationship, one where we obviously have lots of sex and go to clubs together etc but where it's ok to go for a meal, have a drink as well - not easy to find as many people either want to have no form of relationship or want to leave fab and swinging full stop as soon as you start seeing each other |
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By *ugatits76Woman
over a year ago
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"Im single and id love to meet a guy off fab to date..like a proper relationship hopefully leading yo more. Maybe in the future explore with swinging as a couple. Is this frowned upon? X"
I would love this to happen too can't be bothered with the other dating sites and having to confess my naughty side of what I've got upto on here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im single and id love to meet a guy off fab to date..like a proper relationship hopefully leading yo more. Maybe in the future explore with swinging as a couple. Is this frowned upon? X
I would love this to happen too can't be bothered with the other dating sites and having to confess my naughty side of what I've got upto on here "
Im the exact same. I dont like to lie about my past and if i met a guy elsewhere and told him about fab id no doubt be branded a slag! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im single and id love to meet a guy off fab to date..like a proper relationship hopefully leading yo more. Maybe in the future explore with swinging as a couple. Is this frowned upon? X
Frowned upon? There isn't a swingers charter with a list of rules and regulations: you do what suits you.
Personally I use this site for casual sexual encounters, meeting only sexually submissive men. 17 November 2013 I got a message that made me laugh. Nothing sexual just funny. We exchanged messages, still nothing sexual then phone calls. We chatted all through the night then met on the 24 November for a coffee...which led to lunch...and dinner. By the end of the evening we were hooked.
We don't have a lot in common. I'm a tree hugging, bleeding heart, left wing union trouble maker (his words), he's a ukip voting, right wing, cold hearted capitalist (my words). He's a 6ft 1 white Dutch man, I'm a 5ft 6 fat black woman.
He moved in eight months after meeting. Neither of us was looking for anything other than no strings sex. He's used to dating tall, leggy, blue eyed Scandinavian blondes.
Cupid has a sense of humour!
That made me go all warm and fuzzy xx"
I can't stop smiling at that x |
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We met on here. Neither of us were looking for anything more than nsa sex, but on another level we chatted, found we were in the same place on lots of things ... including our attitude to sex. We have been living together a year now and still swing .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive given up on trying to find a relationship from here. I would really like to though. But I display it on my profile and guys use that as a way in to just have fun and be done, lead me on. I have no problems with them being straight up and just wanting fun as after all thats pretty much what this site is all about but don't lie to me about wanting something different then dissapear, gives guys bad names.
Anyway, rant over, yes id love to date a swinger and have a relationship. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd love to meet a guy who has the same opinions on swinging as me. I met a man on a vanilla dating site a while ago, had a few lovely dates, then we had the 'why have you been single for so long' type chat 
He really didn't understand the whole fb/sharing malarkey, declared he would never be able to trust 'someone with my sexual tastes' and that was that!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be aware some guys will BS you because they want a swinging buddy. especially those who can't get sex on their own, or they want more sex than they're already getting and don't really care to be friends or treat you like one. |
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"Be aware some guys will BS you because they want a swinging buddy. especially those who can't get sex on their own, or they want more sex than they're already getting and don't really care to be friends or treat you like one."
That's a depressing thought! |
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I met my bf on another site, he wasn't a swinger but was looking for nsa fun..he was meant to be a fb and our first 'date' was in a hotel room. We had such an amazing time and just clicked. He was probably looking for a relationship more than I was but I just fell for him. We have been together a year and half and couldnt be happier..I introduced him to swinging..boy thinks he has won the lotto  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be aware some guys will BS you because they want a swinging buddy. especially those who can't get sex on their own, or they want more sex than they're already getting and don't really care to be friends or treat you like one.
That's a depressing thought!"
It is. But it does happen. I've been very suspicious of every guy who has wanted me to team up with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be aware some guys will BS you because they want a swinging buddy. especially those who can't get sex on their own, or they want more sex than they're already getting and don't really care to be friends or treat you like one.
That's a depressing thought!
It is. But it does happen. I've been very suspicious of every guy who has wanted me to team up with them."
I believe that to be true as 2 or 3 guys have asked me to set up a couple profile..... won't go there with either of them for different reasons....  |
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