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Strange question: fucked or had sex with ?
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By *otgirl32 OP Woman
over a year ago
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Here's an odd question - did you fuck your last meet or have sex with your last meet ?
Is there a difference?
For me, most of my meets, I FUCK the guy. Some of them I have sex with. The latter implies some degree of friendship or familiarity.
Or is this all BS and they're both the same ? |
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By *otgirl32 OP Woman
over a year ago
Ashton Under Lyne |
"Yes, I've always graded it:
* Making love
* Having sex
* Fucking"
Yes I'd agree with. In the last few years I've not made love to anyone, have had sex with several guys and fucked a whole boatload of men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I'd class fucking as legs around my neck balls deep hell for leather , working up a real hard sweat and maybe a bit biting pulling and choking
For fun. Scratches grunts and groans, sex is anything from a nice gentle Sunday morning shag before the kids get up to anything like above  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I usually just fuck on my dates, but on my last one, we wine and dined first and lots of kissing during the meal, then we shagged. I would say it was sex as it was a more of a passionate date  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, I've always graded it:
* Making love
* Having sex
* Fucking
Based on this, last meet: fucking on the night. Sex in the morning. "
(apart from last week which was none of the above  ) |
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By *otgirl32 OP Woman
over a year ago
Ashton Under Lyne |
"I usually just fuck on my dates, but on my last one, we wine and dined first and lots of kissing during the meal, then we shagged. I would say it was sex as it was a more of a passionate date "
I always kiss the men I fuck so not sure if kissing changes the category. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I usually just fuck on my dates, but on my last one, we wine and dined first and lots of kissing during the meal, then we shagged. I would say it was sex as it was a more of a passionate date
I always kiss the men I fuck so not sure if kissing changes the category. "
No kissing makes sex fucking awesome! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I usually just fuck on my dates, but on my last one, we wine and dined first and lots of kissing during the meal, then we shagged. I would say it was sex as it was a more of a passionate date
I always kiss the men I fuck so not sure if kissing changes the category. "
Yes I think it changes the category as well, cos it is more intimate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah I'd class fucking as legs around my neck balls deep hell for leather , working up a real hard sweat and maybe a bit biting pulling and choking
For fun. Scratches grunts and groans, sex is anything from a nice gentle Sunday morning shag before the kids get up to anything like above "
This  By this definition I definitely fucked my last meet. Perfect haha x |
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By *otgirl32 OP Woman
over a year ago
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I have several very good male friends and we have sex from time to time. I'll say I have sex with them because I've known them for years and there's definitely a bit of affection. My FB I used to fuck frequently - he was definitely not someone I had sex with, it was pure fucking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here's an odd question - did you fuck your last meet or have sex with your last meet ?
Is there a difference?
For me, most of my meets, I FUCK the guy. Some of them I have sex with. The latter implies some degree of friendship or familiarity.
Or is this all BS and they're both the same ?"
on this premis i had sex. known the lady a while and can class as a friend. though if was hard pure intercourse to meet an an urge i would class that as a fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here's an odd question - did you fuck your last meet or have sex with your last meet ?
Is there a difference?
For me, most of my meets, I FUCK the guy. Some of them I have sex with. The latter implies some degree of friendship or familiarity.
Or is this all BS and they're both the same ?"
I think there is a difference and the borders are not clearly defined but can be blurred.
For example when you say you fuck a guy, that implies that you select him for your own use and satisfaction. It implies a sense of domination,being in charge.
Making love involves some form of emotional understanding.
Sex,,well it falls somewhere in between
simples  |
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Its normally (in my opinion) when you first meet raw fucking.. If its more than once with the same person, its sex.. like regular sex and with a partner or wife its making love but the other two of course apply..
Kissing and fucking in the morning after a night of hard fucking is great |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"Here's an odd question - did you fuck your last meet or have sex with your last meet ?
Is there a difference?
For me, most of my meets, I FUCK the guy. Some of them I have sex with. The latter implies some degree of friendship or familiarity.
Or is this all BS and they're both the same ?"
Of course there is a difference.
If someone fingers you they have had sex with you, If you suck a man off you have had sex with him.
Borth acts are acts of sex and neither act covers the entire range of sex acts.
On the other hand fucking someone involves your penis entering the other person, again this is not all the is to sex but is one sex act out of many |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here's an odd question - did you fuck your last meet or have sex with your last meet ?
Is there a difference?
For me, most of my meets, I FUCK the guy. Some of them I have sex with. The latter implies some degree of friendship or familiarity.
Or is this all BS and they're both the same ?"
if there's no itimacy or passion apart from the physical act then you might as well start charging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, I've always graded it:
* Making love
* Having sex
* Fucking"
Definitely agree!
When I meet another woman, it's somewhere between loving and having sex...
But when I meet a man, I much prefer to just enjoy some hard, basic fucking - nothing else, thank you very much...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, I've always graded it:
* Making love
* Having sex
* Fucking"
Me too!
The best meets I've had combined 'making love' with hard, raw, screaming, biting the pillow sex!!
And that's why I love fab! |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Yes, I've always graded it:
* Making love
* Having sex
* Fucking
Me too!
The best meets I've had combined 'making love' with hard, raw, screaming, biting the pillow sex!!
And that's why I love fab! "
seem to be replying after you somehow .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here's an odd question - did you fuck your last meet or have sex with your last meet ?
Is there a difference?
For me, most of my meets, I FUCK the guy. Some of them I have sex with. The latter implies some degree of friendship or familiarity.
Or is this all BS and they're both the same ?"
What a great question !
We would love to give you a better answer , but it's as simple as this .
Guys we meet sometimes have sex with Sabrina , and some fuck her . Some she fucks , and others she has sex with ...... Hang on where was I ?...... Oh yeah , there is a difference . Mainly in so much as that where there's a real attraction , the build up before penetration can lead to it being more than just a fuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, I've always graded it:
* Making love
* Having sex
* Fucking"
Another who agrees with this.
My last meet, a couple I play with regularly I would suggest we had sex.
A week ago tomorrow I had a meet that was just fucking. |
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"Yes, I've always graded it:
* Making love
* Having sex
* Fucking"
Making love is for in a relationship.
Having sex is when you know someone well or have a connection.
Fucking is just fucking, doesn't matter in what context/relationship, it's just different to the others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, I've always graded it:
* Making love
* Having sex
* Fucking
Making love is for in a relationship.
Having sex is when you know someone well or have a connection.
Fucking is just fucking, doesn't matter in what context/relationship, it's just different to the others."
All of those things you said is right! I love having all three of those with my mr! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to have sex I like to know the person I like to kiss be sensual then shag I call that have sex
A shag and go I say would be fucking
I just like there to be some intimacy too |
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"Yes, I've always graded it:
* Making love
* Having sex
* Fucking
Making love is for in a relationship.
Having sex is when you know someone well or have a connection.
Fucking is just fucking, doesn't matter in what context/relationship, it's just different to the others.
All of those things you said is right! I love having all three of those with my mr!"
True, all 3 have there place in a relationship. I would never call sex with a stranger "making love" though! |
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