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You can get condoms with desensitization properties. Beware though if someone sucks your cock after you've removed a delay condom or used a spray, their tongue and possibly throat will go numb and it can be quite scary. |
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"Bonjela"
I have not used Bonjela for my penis as I have not got one, but I can see the replies from men are a bit on the slow side.
I have used Bonjela for my nipples applying it before the moment of the heat but it seems to only work for about 20 minutes before the effect wears of. Still only leaving that lavender fragrance, and, assumably, taste.  |
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"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??
Advice guidance please "
Sertraline from doctor if you have never had it before as
It's not right to buy other people's prescription medicine
It's used as an anti depressant one 50 mg tablet 6 hours before Sex not much help unless your on a promise
If you take it a while it will mean you won't come until you stop taking it |
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"There are sprays/creams available that offer this, has anyone used them?"
Benzocaine cream is supposed to work, but if you have a hair trigger, it really doesn't slow things down by much.. Its far better to be multi cummer, get the first one out the way and the second and subsequent ones are a little slower.. |
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"Perhaps I'm on my own in needing something like this lol"
Sometimes watching too much porn makes you think your performance etc is not upto standard
Best advice is fuck her . Then spend time giving massage etc and a bit of vagina licking till your ready to go again
Or make her come first but no point worrying about it .
if it's hard use it to fuck
If it's soft get someone to give it a suck
I didn't read your profile but drinking smoking and illegal drugs can all have an effect on you
As so can diet and exceecise
And most importantly self confidence. Any male that says he has had no difficulty getting or maintaining an erection or with delayed or prem ejaculation when any of the above are a factor is a liar
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"Thanks, I'm just keen to be able to fuck hard and for long without the need to stop for a while. So was thinking perhaps creams are the way forward. "
The condoms I mentioned further up no good to you then? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks, I'm just keen to be able to fuck hard and for long without the need to stop for a while. So was thinking perhaps creams are the way forward.
The condoms I mentioned further up no good to you then?"
No I haven't but don't wish to desensitise her so guess this maybe a downside |
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"Thanks, I'm just keen to be able to fuck hard and for long without the need to stop for a while. So was thinking perhaps creams are the way forward.
The condoms I mentioned further up no good to you then?
No I haven't but don't wish to desensitise her so guess this maybe a downside "
The desensitising cream is on the inside. I know this because ages ago we had a mixed lot of condoms and used one of this type. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
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"Thanks, I'm just keen to be able to fuck hard and for long without the need to stop for a while. So was thinking perhaps creams are the way forward.
The condoms I mentioned further up no good to you then?
No I haven't but don't wish to desensitise her so guess this maybe a downside
The desensitising cream is on the inside. I know this because ages ago we had a mixed lot of condoms and used one of this type."
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"Thanks, I'm just keen to be able to fuck hard and for long without the need to stop for a while. So was thinking perhaps creams are the way forward.
The condoms I mentioned further up no good to you then?
No I haven't but don't wish to desensitise her so guess this maybe a downside
The desensitising cream is on the inside. I know this because ages ago we had a mixed lot of condoms and used one of this type.
Nods in agreement "
It wouldn't be much good on the outside really   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks, I'm just keen to be able to fuck hard and for long without the need to stop for a while. So was thinking perhaps creams are the way forward.
The condoms I mentioned further up no good to you then?
No I haven't but don't wish to desensitise her so guess this maybe a downside
The desensitising cream is on the inside. I know this because ages ago we had a mixed lot of condoms and used one of this type.
Nods in agreement
It wouldn't be much good on the outside really "
Point well made!!!  |
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"BonjelaI have not used Bonjela for my penis as I have not got one, but I can see the replies from men are a bit on the slow side.
I have used Bonjela for my nipples applying it before the moment of the heat but it seems to only work for about 20 minutes before the effect wears of. Still only leaving that lavender fragrance, and, assumably, taste. "
Lavender? You must have the posh stuff
I have a penis and it's been Bonjela'd and it was pretty much the same experience your nipples had by the sound of it.
I have nipples too but I haven't had them Bonjela'd...yet.. |
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"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??
Advice guidance please "
I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??
Advice guidance please
I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything."
Ok thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??
Advice guidance please
I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything."
Successful? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??
Advice guidance please
I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything.
Successful?"
Yup, takes away most of the enjoyment of sex for him. |
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"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??
Advice guidance please
I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything.
Successful?
Yup, takes away most of the enjoyment of sex for him."
As in makes him last longer? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??
Advice guidance please
I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything.
Successful?
Yup, takes away most of the enjoyment of sex for him.
As in makes him last longer?"
No, it stops him feeling anything so he doesn't enjoy it at all. he doesn't come because he's not enjoying it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??
Advice guidance please
I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything.
Successful?
Yup, takes away most of the enjoyment of sex for him.
As in makes him last longer?
No, it stops him feeling anything so he doesn't enjoy it at all. he doesn't come because he's not enjoying it."
is it prescription or over the counter
Will it make your vagina less sensitive by transfer of cream
When you say feel nothin do you mean it's like he doesn't feel your vagina at all like he is using his cock but using a strap on ? |
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"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??
Advice guidance please
I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything.
Successful?
Yup, takes away most of the enjoyment of sex for him.
As in makes him last longer?
No, it stops him feeling anything so he doesn't enjoy it at all. he doesn't come because he's not enjoying it."
Not sure that's quite way in after lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??
Advice guidance please
I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything.
Successful?
Yup, takes away most of the enjoyment of sex for him.
As in makes him last longer?
No, it stops him feeling anything so he doesn't enjoy it at all. he doesn't come because he's not enjoying it.
is it prescription or over the counter
Will it make your vagina less sensitive by transfer of cream
When you say feel nothin do you mean it's like he doesn't feel your vagina at all like he is using his cock but using a strap on ? "
It's over the counter.
You must use condoms.
I don't know, I don't have a point of reference. He just says he can't feel anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??
Advice guidance please
I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything.
Successful?
Yup, takes away most of the enjoyment of sex for him.
As in makes him last longer?
No, it stops him feeling anything so he doesn't enjoy it at all. he doesn't come because he's not enjoying it.
Not sure that's quite way in after lol
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You proberbly shouldn't use numbing creams then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??
Advice guidance please
I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything.
Successful?
Yup, takes away most of the enjoyment of sex for him.
As in makes him last longer?
No, it stops him feeling anything so he doesn't enjoy it at all. he doesn't come because he's not enjoying it.
is it prescription or over the counter
Will it make your vagina less sensitive by transfer of cream
When you say feel nothin do you mean it's like he doesn't feel your vagina at all like he is using his cock but using a strap on ?
It's over the counter.
You must use condoms.
I don't know, I don't have a point of reference. He just says he can't feel anything."
Interesting I did google it and it comes up for 3.82 to 40+ for the same size
Do you know a cost and I suppose you have things like pharmacy direct and boots the chemist , what's a semsible price for it and a chemist |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??
Advice guidance please
I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything.
Successful?
Yup, takes away most of the enjoyment of sex for him.
As in makes him last longer?
No, it stops him feeling anything so he doesn't enjoy it at all. he doesn't come because he's not enjoying it.
is it prescription or over the counter
Will it make your vagina less sensitive by transfer of cream
When you say feel nothin do you mean it's like he doesn't feel your vagina at all like he is using his cock but using a strap on ?
It's over the counter.
You must use condoms.
I don't know, I don't have a point of reference. He just says he can't feel anything.
Interesting I did google it and it comes up for 3.82 to 40+ for the same size
Do you know a cost and I suppose you have things like pharmacy direct and boots the chemist , what's a semsible price for it and a chemist "
It's a couple of quid in boots, which is where I always buy it from. |
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Ive tried desensitizing creams as I often cum too quickly.. They really dont work.. A condom does help to slow things down.. A wank beforehand also works.
However for me I quite often stay hard after the first ejaculation so carrying on makes teh second one last much longer.. |
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