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By *ni_lad OP Man
over a year ago
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Hey everyone, I read on a lot of people's profile's that they don't enjoy a one off meet, and guys just passing through don't interest then. Is that the case with the majority? As am looking tomorrow when I travel to Bristol.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not everyone is like that, some will like the fact that it's less hassle for them and they're less likely to be moithered for meets on a regular basis.
most of us singles are looking for regular sex though. i'm even looking for a partner to bareback with coz i want mainly bb sex. that's not gonna happen with any passing randoms. |
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By *ni_lad OP Man
over a year ago
Wiltshire |
"not everyone is like that, some will like the fact that it's less hassle for them and they're less likely to be moithered for meets on a regular basis.
most of us singles are looking for regular sex though. i'm even looking for a partner to bareback with coz i want mainly bb sex. that's not gonna happen with any passing randoms."
No I completely see your point also. I'd like to find someone for regular fun with too, but would I turn down one off fun every now and then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to confess we are not hugely attracted to guys "passing through".
Our gut feeling is that in these circumstances we are simply a cheapskate alternative to paying for an escort.
We prefer regular play pals whilst they are simply looking for an inexpensive evenings entertainment.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of my meets are one offs, I prefer one off meets so I don't mind guys passing through and staying in hotels in my area, it actually works out good for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It all depends. Marc and I used to meet people who were passing through, but twice we were let down at the last minute because the guys had work commitments (the reason they were passing through in the first place). Now, that's fair enough, but we decided that it simply wasn't worth our time to meet people with a high likelihood of not showing up.
Anyway, just look around and message the people who don't mind. There are plenty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Suppose it depends on the circumstances, if they were staying nearby in a hotel that's totally different to passing nearby on a long journey and breaking the journey with a quick meet, where we imagine they'd be hot and sweaty from the car   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We used to get so many messages from guys passing through it was astonishing.
I began to fear our details were being advertised in the local tourist information office. Lol
We never met a single one however. |
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By *ni_lad OP Man
over a year ago
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"We used to get so many messages from guys passing through it was astonishing.
I began to fear our details were being advertised in the local tourist information office. Lol
We never met a single one however. "
Haha   was there a particular reason for this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most of my meets are one offs, I prefer one off meets so I don't mind guys passing through and staying in hotels in my area, it actually works out good for me "
Really you need too check your PM's then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We used to get so many messages from guys passing through it was astonishing.
I began to fear our details were being advertised in the local tourist information office. Lol
We never met a single one however.
Haha was there a particular reason for this?"
There are heaps of guys passing through Aberdeen on the way to or from offshore rigs.
Our best guess was they were looking for some fun which wouldn't appear on their credit card before they went back home to the wife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not everyone is like that, some will like the fact that it's less hassle for them and they're less likely to be moithered for meets on a regular basis.
most of us singles are looking for regular sex though. i'm even looking for a partner to bareback with coz i want mainly bb sex. that's not gonna happen with any passing randoms.
No I completely see your point also. I'd like to find someone for regular fun with too, but would I turn down one off fun every now and then?"
i never plan to meet anyone as a one off and if any of my meets become one offs or i stop meeting it usually is down to me deciding that coz im not enjoying the guy any more, although a few also don't bother wanting to meet from their end too.
i do get that a guy could be travelling to my area regularly also. |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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I avoid 'passing through' guys, as I prefer to think that if a meet is successful, there is a chance it will be repeated. Not even interested in guys who 'pass through' regularly, as I'm not going to arrange my sex life around their working life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get a lot of messages off people who are 'staying nearby' and would I be interested....the short answer is usually no and if they had bothered to read the profile they would see why |
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