There's been plenty of threads on the kissing vs no kissing topic. However, some couples say no MF kissing but the ladies from each couple kissing is fine and I'm curious as to the reasoning behind this. I (Rach) am bisexual in that I date both guys and girls so for me kissing a guy I find attractive is no different to kissing a girl I find attractive.
Is it that the female half of the couple is only bisexual in a play sense and so you feel it's less intimate and therefore okay? Is it that female-female kissing is something the male wants to see, or the couple feel is more sexual and exciting? To couples that play this way, would your stance change if you were to meet a female who you knew was more into girls than guys in a romantic sense rather than just in play?
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From a man's view 2 girls kissing is one of the sexiest things you can see. However another bloke kising your missus probably isn't what most blokes want to see.
Double standards but I think that's how it is |
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"From a man's view 2 girls kissing is one of the sexiest things you can see. However another bloke kising your missus probably isn't what most blokes want to see."
Agree with your first point.
Disagree with the second. |
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"We don't have this problem luckily, he has no problem watching me kiss male and female. And i have no problem seeing him kiss another woman x"
Perfect arrangement for you both. Would like this if I had a partner to swing with |
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"Probably the male half doesn't want to see his partner kissing another guy. But then why'd he be fine watching her fuck another guy? idk "
We say that. I think sex with another guys wife is more personal than kissing her. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Never understood the no kissing thing and always avoided anyone with a list of rules."
So everyone you meet says "yes" to everything you might want to do with them? It's nothing to do with "rules" but personal preferences. Surely we should respect people's boundaries - you probably have yours too. |
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I don't like kissing men but adore kissing women, its as simple as that.
In my opinion kissing is a much more intimate act than having sex.
I have no problem watching my other half kissing whoever he wishes though |
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"Probably the male half doesn't want to see his partner kissing another guy. But then why'd he be fine watching her fuck another guy? idk "
This always confuses me. We love to kiss and fund it quite a turn off when kissing is off the table. |
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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago
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"There's been plenty of threads on the kissing vs no kissing topic. However, some couples say no MF kissing but the ladies from each couple kissing is fine and I'm curious as to the reasoning behind this. I (Rach) am bisexual in that I date both guys and girls so for me kissing a guy I find attractive is no different to kissing a girl I find attractive.
Is it that the female half of the couple is only bisexual in a play sense and so you feel it's less intimate and therefore okay? Is it that female-female kissing is something the male wants to see, or the couple feel is more sexual and exciting? To couples that play this way, would your stance change if you were to meet a female who you knew was more into girls than guys in a romantic sense rather than just in play?
Input and thoughts welcomed from all "
I love kissing both Male and Female....though you can see by my photo's I prefer to kiss the female  |
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"We don't have this problem luckily, he has no problem watching me kiss male and female. And i have no problem seeing him kiss another woman x"
This. 
Sarah |
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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago
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Afraid I fall into this category. Love to kiss girls but sometimes feels strange kissing males.... I play in every sense with both and in honesty can't explain why I am like this... My partner giggles at me saying I am comfy fucking a stranger but struggle to kiss.... He however has no issues with kissing x |
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