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Views on strangling whilst have sex
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Last night I had fun with a lady who likes to be strangled can people explain why please I ask she just said she likes it. Pm me if you don't want to post on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't do much for me. It's also not something I think you should introduce unless it's been discussed beforehand, unless you want to be poked in the eye. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I enjoy a bit of this during play. Although hubby is not completely sure he will always oblige. With me it's partly giving up control as we only do it when I'm in a certain mood, and also I find "restricting the oxygen"...shall we say heightens other senses. I only have a medium pressure though just need to know what ur comfortable with  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is awesome I have always wanted to try but it was amazing she was instantly orgasming off it and now seem to be getting a little more knowledge of it my Dom side is broadening now. |
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"Last night I had fun with a lady who likes to be strangled can people explain why please I ask she just said she likes it. Pm me if you don't want to post on here "
Holding my neck, yes, strangling, no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love a firm grip around my neck, but not to the point of strangulation. My ex on the other hand wanted to pretty much be fucked as hard as possible while my hand was tight enough to leave a mark on her neck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are cases of people dying trying this 'erotic'practice...bdsm and other controlling role play...bring it on but not throat restriction...I'd leave that one out whowever asked !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Amazing but something id only do with Mr deviant.. Ironically its one of the very few Things that can make me seethe with jealousy if Mr does it to anyone else.
Go figure  |
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By *urlinaTV/TS
over a year ago
London W1 |
"Last night I had fun with a lady who likes to be strangled can people explain why please I ask she just said she likes it. Pm me if you don't want to post on here "
If you have to ask why someone likes to be strangled you really need to change your name to something other than Number1dom |
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"Last night I had fun with a lady who likes to be strangled can people explain why please I ask she just said she likes it. Pm me if you don't want to post on here
If you have to ask why someone likes to be strangled you really need to change your name to something other than Number1dom"
Very good point... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Last night I had fun with a lady who likes to be strangled can people explain why please I ask she just said she likes it. Pm me if you don't want to post on here "
We had a meet recently and as the lovely lady was being funked she grabbed my hand and pulled it to her throat, whereon she gave a forceful squeeze, making it quite clear what she wanted me to do.
To be honest I was a bit scared; I'm a big guy and could easily have broken her neck. Having never been in that situation before I really wasn't sure what was safe, so I went very gentle, which didn't seem to give her all the thrill she was looking for.
Didn't ruin the meet or anything, but next time I hope I get a heads up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Last night I had fun with a lady who likes to be strangled can people explain why please I ask she just said she likes it. Pm me if you don't want to post on here
If you have to ask why someone likes to be strangled you really need to change your name to something other than Number1dom"
I am Dom in different ways sorry we ain't all experts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A guy tried to do that during a meet with me. He had not previously discussed it with me, I'm not submissive and I hated every second of it. "
For me a mans hand should never be around a womans throat. I find it distasteful and disrespectful despite some getting a thrill from it. |
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"A guy tried to do that during a meet with me. He had not previously discussed it with me, I'm not submissive and I hated every second of it. "
I hope you told him to stop and didn't just carry on hating it?
Communication is key, I hate when people just assume you're going to love something that the last woman they fucked loved!  Newsflash...we are all DIFFERENT! Rant over!  |
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By *urlinaTV/TS
over a year ago
London W1 |
The momentary loss of consciousness that can be achieved through skillful choking is synergistically aligned with orgasm. Even without choking, an intense orgasm is tantamount to loss of consciousness. The thrill of choking is an increase in that aspect; it's a sense of abandon and transcendence of this world; it's a flirtation with oblivion. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The momentary loss of consciousness that can be achieved through skillful choking is synergistically aligned with orgasm. Even without choking, an intense orgasm is tantamount to loss of consciousness. The thrill of choking is an increase in that aspect; it's a sense of abandon and transcendence of this world; it's a flirtation with oblivion. "
Amazing explanation thank you |
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By *urlinaTV/TS
over a year ago
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"The momentary loss of consciousness that can be achieved through skillful choking is synergistically aligned with orgasm. Even without choking, an intense orgasm is tantamount to loss of consciousness. The thrill of choking is an increase in that aspect; it's a sense of abandon and transcendence of this world; it's a flirtation with oblivion.
Amazing explanation thank you "
Got it? Great. Now you can be Number1dom  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only like this with one man and not to the point where I can't breathe. I trust him to not go too far and he's always stopped doing anything when I say so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm often asked to put my hands around a ladies throat during sex. Never been asked and wouldn't be comfortable doing anything like actual strangulation though. |
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(Mrs) I do like hands round my throat and a little squeeze..but not to the point I cant breathe just a little pressure.
I trust my husband alot though and I know he wouldn't take it further than that . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only do this with B, as I trust him implicitly. I occasionally like a belt around my throat or other times his hands. I think it's the feeling of being taken. Whatever it is - it works for me at the time.
I wouldn't do it with anyone else though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No no no. Absolutely hate anyone touching my neck. I completely freak out.
However the amount of men that have done it and I've said no stop, I don't like it. It's hard limit And then few minutes later they try again.
At that point I get up and tell them to fuck off and all play ends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Strange I know but I wouldn't let a guy put his hands round my neck, however I would let a woman x"
Not strange, would you expect a woman to be gentler ? Or just it the thought turns you on more?
Sarah |
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By *arah_11TV/TS
over a year ago
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"Strange I know but I wouldn't let a guy put his hands round my neck, however I would let a woman x
Not strange, would you expect a woman to be gentler ? Or just it the thought turns you on more?
Sarah "
Perhaps more about the control thing, giving her the power |
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with the right person (before i get an inbox full of eager Mr Grey's!!) i quite enjoy feeling a strong hand round my throat, especially if the guy is behind me and whispering into my ear what he is going to do to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"with the right person (before i get an inbox full of eager Mr Grey's!!) i quite enjoy feeling a strong hand round my throat, especially if the guy is behind me and whispering into my ear what he is going to do to me "
Whispering and a certain tone of voice, is all part of it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A guy tried to do that during a meet with me. He had not previously discussed it with me, I'm not submissive and I hated every second of it.
For me a mans hand should never be around a womans throat. I find it distasteful and disrespectful despite some getting a thrill from it."
I find it disrespectful that you think women shouldn't be allowed to decide what they enjoy during sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's something that I really enjoy and ask before a meet if the male is comfortable with doing this..
It gives me a the most intense orgasms done properly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A guy tried to do that during a meet with me. He had not previously discussed it with me, I'm not submissive and I hated every second of it.
For me a mans hand should never be around a womans throat. I find it distasteful and disrespectful despite some getting a thrill from it.
I find it disrespectful that you think women shouldn't be allowed to decide what they enjoy during sex."
This! I may have enjoyed it, or at least consented to try it if we had spoken about it before. But grabbing me mid way through playing shocked me and I wasn't able to tell him to stop immediately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you for all the input now am on the hunt for it ha "
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If you're going to explore breath play.. Can I suggest you read up on it.. Or ask someone with good knowledge of it.. . Things can go wrong... Sometimes quite drastically.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It may be a bit difficult to explain if you went to far and actually strangled someone and said it was an accident.
There is something with the breath restriction - a safer and more controlled way is often the use of a tight collar as it can restrict the breath up to a point rather than relying on the person who's hands are around the throat to judge it right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A guy tried to do that during a meet with me. He had not previously discussed it with me, I'm not submissive and I hated every second of it.
For me a mans hand should never be around a womans throat. I find it distasteful and disrespectful despite some getting a thrill from it.
I find it disrespectful that you think women shouldn't be allowed to decide what they enjoy during sex."
Absolutely.
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"No no no. Absolutely hate anyone touching my neck. I completely freak out.
However the amount of men that have done it and I've said no stop, I don't like it. It's hard limit And then few minutes later they try again.
At that point I get up and tell them to fuck off and all play ends. "
I would absolutely hate this! If a bloke tried it with me he would be treated to a swift knee to the bollocks! During sex I prefer to be conscious....and alive!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a girl who loved to be strangled whilst being fucked
At first I thought it was odd
But several weeks of hearing her snoring, I was happy to do it to her |
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By *AA123Couple
over a year ago
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"I don't like to be choked but ido like when be is dominant and puts his hand on my throat and lifts my head back when we fuck.
Hmmmmmm got all goosebumps just then.  "
A likes me doing that. Also likes me to pull her head forward by the hair and force her to look at me as she cums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Last night I had fun with a lady who likes to be strangled can people explain why please I ask she just said she likes it. Pm me if you don't want to post on here "
Because when you at the point of passing out your body release's endorphins that give you a natural high |
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Some fetishes are inexplicable to the person who has it - a bit like how you like some foods but not others. Just enjoy them and stay safe - well as safe as you can be, if a little risk is involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a hand round my throat with gentle pressure, not to the point I can't breathe though 
I like the control/dominance rough play aspect as opposed to being strangled! |
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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago
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I absolutely adore this and really like to push very very close to the edge ... But absolutely only with my partner and only between us... I instigated it first time and after lots of trials and initial uncomfy feelings he now has it to near perfection.... Even better when not planned and he grasps my throat and I know what is coming..... Instant huge turn on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I absolutely love this!!
It's erotic and I love the feeling of being submissive and being taken.
I've never got to my limit yet,I do it with first meets etc. And I've never felt unsafe or anywhere near not being able to breathe. I want to try it much harder but I think guys are quite scared. My Darth Vader impression probably doesn't help ! |
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"I absolutely love this!!
It's erotic and I love the feeling of being submissive and being taken.
I've never got to my limit yet,I do it with first meets etc. And I've never felt unsafe or anywhere near not being able to breathe. I want to try it much harder but I think guys are quite scared. My Darth Vader impression
probably doesn't help ! "
Yea we do worry, think I would go further if we agreed a sign before hand |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldnt allow anyone to do it to me, and Mr Iconic certainly wouldnt do it to any woman, regardless of if they asked for this. "
Because you're worried they might enjoy themselves with him? |
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"Didn't Michael Hutchence come unstuck with this sort of thing?
Indeed and a past conservative MP"
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That was a failure of the government because they recommended 5 a day and I believe he choked on an orange.
Never trust a politician.
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