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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Who controls the KIK account (who's phone do the messages go to)?
We use it for potential meets and create a group message so we can both see and join in the conversation.
We feel that way we are seen genuine and as equally involved.
Especially over the last week we've been given KIK I'Ds from couples and as the conversation flows it turns out that the female doesn't play anymore.
KIK is great but the Fab fakes kill it for us.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who controls the KIK account (who's phone do the messages go to)?
We use it for potential meets and create a group message so we can both see and join in the conversation.
We feel that way we are seen genuine and as equally involved.
Especially over the last week we've been given KIK I'Ds from couples and as the conversation flows it turns out that the female doesn't play anymore.
KIK is great but the Fab fakes kill it for us.
Don't post your user names "
We do this also, no secrets between us and so we can both be involved in/read messages ect... it's amazing how many are ok with the group to start but then leave and try to chat with me (the female) only after a short while 
We tend to only give it out now to people who we've previously met as an easier way to keep in touch x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We both have it on our phones and like a group chat where you can have a four way conversation. Good way of keeping in touch but we also like a web chat so we can see we are talking to who we think we are too. |
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From a single male point of view, I have no problem with group chat. And have no issues chatting with the bloke, it's his girlfirend/wife after all. And its both of them you will bs meeting so important to get on with/and understand both their needs. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"From a single male point of view, I have no problem with group chat. And have no issues chatting with the bloke, it's his girlfirend/wife after all. And its both of them you will bs meeting so important to get on with/and understand both their needs. "
Excatly why we both like to chat. The guy can get naughty with Lou (in the chat) and ronnie will just take a back and enjoy it, pictures and videos shouldn't be a problem as if we were to meet ronnie will see it in action lol |
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"We use both kik and watsapp, but as others have said, most guys just want to chat to the woman directly x "
I like to chat to both love it when the guy tells me how dirty the female is. Kik name is same as this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who controls the KIK account (who's phone do the messages go to)?
We use it for potential meets and create a group message so we can both see and join in the conversation.
We feel that way we are seen genuine and as equally involved.
Especially over the last week we've been given KIK I'Ds from couples and as the conversation flows it turns out that the female doesn't play anymore.
KIK is great but the Fab fakes kill it for us.
Don't post your user names "
My partner and I use Kik to talk to people we want to meet. We both have our own accounts and we have three/four way conversations on Kik.
There's no need to just have one 'couples' account. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Who controls the KIK account (who's phone do the messages go to)?
We use it for potential meets and create a group message so we can both see and join in the conversation.
We feel that way we are seen genuine and as equally involved.
Especially over the last week we've been given KIK I'Ds from couples and as the conversation flows it turns out that the female doesn't play anymore.
KIK is great but the Fab fakes kill it for us.
Don't post your user names
My partner and I use Kik to talk to people we want to meet. We both have our own accounts and we have three/four way conversations on Kik.
There's no need to just have one 'couples' account."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who controls the KIK account (who's phone do the messages go to)?
We use it for potential meets and create a group message so we can both see and join in the conversation.
We feel that way we are seen genuine and as equally involved.
Especially over the last week we've been given KIK I'Ds from couples and as the conversation flows it turns out that the female doesn't play anymore.
KIK is great but the Fab fakes kill it for us.
Don't post your user names
My partner and I use Kik to talk to people we want to meet. We both have our own accounts and we have three/four way conversations on Kik.
There's no need to just have one 'couples' account."
That's right, just make a group conversation |
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"From a single male point of view, I have no problem with group chat. And have no issues chatting with the bloke, it's his girlfirend/wife after all. And its both of them you will bs meeting so important to get on with/and understand both their needs. "
Yeah I do that.
Contact details on my profile if anyone wants to chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both have our own kik accounts also and we like talking in group chats, why find it easier to talk about any meets planned and also to prove we are genuine lol x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't use kik at all in any way, actually have no idea what it is either and no interest in finding out what it is
Use whatsapp for family and friends, would never use it for potential meets
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We prefer whatsapp, and have a group chat so everyone can chat individually. Yeah you have to give your number out but it's not hard to add a number to your reject / block list if things don't go so well |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wouldnt trust KIK to be honest..to many fakes on there ...i would rather talk on the phone or Skype if i'm arranging a meet "
Don't trust KIK?
Whats not to trust. |
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"We prefer whatsapp, and have a group chat so everyone can chat individually. Yeah you have to give your number out but it's not hard to add a number to your reject / block list if things don't go so well "
We stick to kik (3/4 way chats) after someone gave out our numbers after we had used whatapp and it hadn't gone anywhere. Unfortunately, you can't block private numbers so we've had to deal with a chap calling us, including calls at 3am. Seems to have stopped now after we told him we had no interest in meeting him but we were very, very unhappy and unsettled by it for a while. |
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We've actually just bought a new phone especially for kik and WhatsApp and are staying in touch with meets. Both of us have access to the phone and use it. If one is on the phone and it has interesting potential the other will get on theirs and join in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems like Genuine couples prefer group chat "
As a single, it's a good way to make sure that you're talking to two people. I know that someone *might* have two phones and work really hard to come across differently on each profile, but that's an awful lot of work (and probably way beyond the capability of the guys who pretend to be couples).
Also when I've met people who have a shared profile for this kind of thing I've always got the impression that they're jealous, over-protective, or one of them just doesn't trust the other. There's something very controlling about having to see *all* the communication between everyone. I've never taken one of those couples further. (I'm not saying all couples are this way, but my experience has been pretty consistent). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wouldnt trust KIK to be honest..to many fakes on there ...i would rather talk on the phone or Skype if i'm arranging a meet
Don't trust KIK?
Whats not to trust."
Like i said too many fakes...would you trust arranging a meet solely from messaging from off here without talking or even seeing them...its too easy to upload pictures now from off the internet...you do see the post in these forums about fakes...whats the difference with KIK and making a profile up on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Form the point of view of the third party, though there is a concern to keep away the fakes. The three way conversation is ideal as you can entertain both the husband and the wife and keep that flowing communication. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems like Genuine couples prefer group chat "
It's great to do group chat so that you can flirt but in plain view of your partner!
It's very naughty but somehow very safe ?
And of course it does break the ice so that it's easier come a social or play |
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"We have a couples kik which is usually controlled by me (jay) but then Bec has her own sexy one aswel so if we get chatting to a couple I add her aswel to a group and we both chat x"
We do the same. My job (Annie) is quite demanding and I can't chat on kik during the day and in the evening we're both on together.
Any separate messages we always show each other.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We got KIK because alot of people seemed to be using it, it goes to my (P) phone as I do most of the organising but we both see the messages.
but mostly I have found that people who use KIK so far have not been so serious about meeting, they just want a free way to sext, but I remain to have my mind changed on this one.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We use it and both have separate accounts so group chat is fun - Paul mainly reads it when he gets chance at work. We find its fun, mine is same as profile if any other couples want to add me. Donna x |
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By *idseysCouple
over a year ago
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We both use Kik and whatsapp on our individual phones, we do occasionally do group chats just to say an initial hi, but as I tend to chat more than hubby (he has a bad relationship with his phone !) we then go into individual chats. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it ever came to giving numbers out to people that messaged us online ( we only meet in clubs ) I would give Paula's number out
People we know and have met and like usually end up on Facebook with on a what's app group or our phone number |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wouldnt trust KIK to be honest..to many fakes on there ...i would rather talk on the phone or Skype if i'm arranging a meet
Don't trust KIK?
Whats not to trust."
We looked at signing up to try it and it asks for permissions we're not prepared to give it including access to all our contacts, other sites, photos, etc. I already get people we know from here turning up as suggested Facebook friends because they have their number on their profile and I have somehow given Facebook permission to rape all of my contacts without signing everything away to another anonymous site. We don't cyber or sext anyway so we're not bothered about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've chatted to a few couples on kik & group chat worked well so everyone could see. The guys usually love to see the naughty chat with their other half, it's been a nice turn on for all involved & everything open. |
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