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Girthy guys and condoms!!
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now i know we have had all the 'condoms - whose responsibility for providing' threads etc but just recently i have had a couple of meets where the guys have been to wide for the stadard fit condoms (one guy it actually rolled right back up it lol)
neither of them broughtheir ow condoms with them, messaging me to check i had some.
surely if you know you are too big for them and you only play safe then you should provide your own wide fit condoms? or do the other women out there stock a variety of sizes??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had that problem personally . and a nurse who i have met told me that they do them for the wider than average fella , be funny going into the chemists asking for them ,lol FRANKIE XX |
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we had the same problem recently, guy came over to spain on hols arranged well in advance to meet.
He was really perfect except he had no condoms and his cock was very fat and couldnt fit in the ones we had, so no intercourse a bit of a dissapointment, why he didnt bring his own knowing his girth we will never know |
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over a year ago
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"now i know we have had all the 'condoms - whose responsibility for providing' threads etc but just recently i have had a couple of meets where the guys have been to wide for the stadard fit condoms (one guy it actually rolled right back up it lol)
neither of them broughtheir ow condoms with them, messaging me to check i had some.
surely if you know you are too big for them and you only play safe then you should provide your own wide fit condoms? or do the other women out there stock a variety of sizes?? "
It makes sense to have some with them whatever size they are, but especially if they know they have problems with narrow ones. What's the name of the guy it rolled back on?  |
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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago
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came across this when i started swinging. after that i make sure i have a few large size ones just in case. tho getting fed up going to met guys and they don't have any of their own and having to leave them some. |
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"now i know we have had all the 'condoms - whose responsibility for providing' threads etc but just recently i have had a couple of meets where the guys have been to wide for the stadard fit condoms (one guy it actually rolled right back up it lol)
neither of them broughtheir ow condoms with them, messaging me to check i had some.
surely if you know you are too big for them and you only play safe then you should provide your own wide fit condoms? or do the other women out there stock a variety of sizes??
It makes sense to have some with them whatever size they are, but especially if they know they have problems with narrow ones. What's the name of the guy it rolled back on? "
i aint telling till i get to have round 2 with him!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most guys that I know that are a bit girthy tend to have their fave condoms and use those
They know that anything else won't fit comfortably so if its the difference between a shag and no shag then they're not about to go without so make sure they have some with them 
The ones I use which are latex free have fit a variety of sizes so far |
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over a year ago
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I only stock Skyn's non-latex ones. Although I am not allergic to latex, I don't like the smell of latax, that's all.
If a gent is non-standard size, then IMHO, he should try different brands until he finds one that fits, and take them to go on meets.
Not being able to find ones that fit is NOT an excuse not to wear them! He can always get some Femidoms and use them on you instead, available from British Condoms, just checked! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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surely if you know you are too big for them and you only play safe then you should provide your own wide fit condoms? or do the other women out there stock a variety of sizes?? "
hun... not such thing as a man too wide for a condom... if they can be blown up to go over someones head, then they can go over someones cock!!! lol
if they try to use that excuse... point them in the direction of "trojan" condoms... they are made to suit more girthy people.... |
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surely if you know you are too big for them and you only play safe then you should provide your own wide fit condoms? or do the other women out there stock a variety of sizes??
hun... not such thing as a man too wide for a condom... if they can be blown up to go over someones head, then they can go over someones cock!!! lol
if they try to use that excuse... point them in the direction of "trojan" condoms... they are made to suit more girthy people...."
oh i know they stretch but this one really did just roll back up to the top lol and the other guy just went limp again as the base of it was so tight
i told them to look online for big ones lol iust thought it odd that they didnt already know about diffrent sizes etc |
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over a year ago
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The few times I have come across this (too girthy and / or didnt bring their own) its because they assumed that safe sex meant 'safe sex if its possible, but hey if its you and you dont have condoms then I will break my own rules'!
Guys, if you turn up to a meet with me and you havent brought condoms with you (despite knowing its a requirement) then it wont happen! |
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"we had the same problem recently, guy came over to spain on hols arranged well in advance to meet.
He was really perfect except he had no condoms and his cock was very fat and couldnt fit in the ones we had, so no intercourse a bit of a dissapointment, why he didnt bring his own knowing his girth we will never know"
He probably hoped to go bare. Cheeky!  |
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over a year ago
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I always use Passant King Size, they're not only great for girth but every Superdrug sells them, so they're easy to get hold of. And no, I don't have shares in Superdrug! |
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" I always use Passant King Size, they're not only great for girth but every Superdrug sells them, so they're easy to get hold of. And no, I don't have shares in Superdrug!"
There really is no such thing as too big for a condom. Though I'm sure some are probably more snug than others, the rolling back up issue is most likely operator error, surely? |
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over a year ago
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I have never had this on a meet - never been a lucky person to be honest. I cannot understand that single guys would not equip themselves with the correct size condom. If they're swingers they should know enough about condoms to go on Mastermind with that as the specialist subject. You should know what fits and what doesnt and to turn up with nothing would make me feel as if they didnt take the meet seriously. |
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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago
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I am 6.5 inches in girth and find the standard issues far too tight for any enjoyment. Never had them "rolling" up though, must be application error.
I have been using the SKINS brand and very comfortable for such sizes. |
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"I am 6.5 inches in girth and find the standard issues far too tight for any enjoyment. Never had them "rolling" up though, must be application error.."
Same size as me (G) and I often found normal size ones rolling up, whether I or the woman put them on. I've even had them come off inside. Mates were particularly bad as they seem made for very tiny cocks!
Many years back I went to the USA on holiday and discovered Trojan Magnum condoms, and have used them since. Current favourites are Magnum Ecstasy, which I get on line from British Condoms. I (or R) always makes sure I take enough to meets and clubs, think men should always provide their own condoms, especially if normal ones are too small. Being squeezed into a too-tight condom doesn't exactly add to the pleasure!  |
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" I always use Passant King Size, they're not only great for girth but every Superdrug sells them, so they're easy to get hold of. And no, I don't have shares in Superdrug!
There really is no such thing as too big for a condom. Though I'm sure some are probably more snug than others, the rolling back up issue is most likely operator error, surely?"
Where there's a will there's a way, as condoms are made of latex they can always be stretched to accomodate any member, this is why some survival experts insist on carrying one for water storage if needed. However if too snug they can be uncomfortable to wear and I for one would not like to go to a meet where I am going to feel any discomfort (not of that kind anyway,lol!)
However the issue here is with blokes who roll up and say "You won't stuff me in THAT, its going to have to be bareback". I wouldn't put myself in that bracket, simply because I have found a size that suits which I always carry. Plus I like to think I'm not a total whazzock.... |
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"I am 6.5 inches in girth and find the standard issues far too tight for any enjoyment. Never had them "rolling" up though, must be application error.
I have been using the SKINS brand and very comfortable for such sizes."
can i just state for the record i do know how to put a condom on lol
i did it the same as i do it any other time and never had a problem with the 'application' before lol |
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
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I can't believe that any guy would turn up to a meet without condoms of his own. That is so disrespectul to the lady or couple, can only think they might be trying to use that as an excuse not to use them.
All they'd get from us would be a goodbye as we showed them the door. |
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"I can't believe that any guy would turn up to a meet without condoms of his own. That is so disrespectul to the lady or couple, can only think they might be trying to use that as an excuse not to use them.
All they'd get from us would be a goodbye as we showed them the door."
to be fair to the guys i encountered recently they both apologised and said no sex as the condoms didnt fit |
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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago
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"I am 6.5 inches in girth and find the standard issues far too tight for any enjoyment. Never had them "rolling" up though, must be application error.
I have been using the SKINS brand and very comfortable for such sizes.
can i just state for the record i do know how to put a condom on lol
i did it the same as i do it any other time and never had a problem with the 'application' before lol "
Sooo rry didnt mean to insult !!
I have had then come off but that was mostly due to typical man pumping on after ejaculation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes they should, and its possible to buy extra large ones, i know that as i had a meet that, though not very long is very very wide, so normal average joe condoms wont fit him, he even takes some with him when he goes to clubs  |
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If any guy turned up to meet me without bringing his own condoms would result in one thing ...........
Him on his way home.
Show some respect and have some respect.
Jeeeezzz h christ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"now i know we have had all the 'condoms - whose responsibility for providing' threads etc but just recently i have had a couple of meets where the guys have been to wide for the stadard fit condoms (one guy it actually rolled right back up it lol)
neither of them broughtheir ow condoms with them, messaging me to check i had some.
surely if you know you are too big for them and you only play safe then you should provide your own wide fit condoms? or do the other women out there stock a variety of sizes??
It makes sense to have some with them whatever size they are, but especially if they know they have problems with narrow ones. What's the name of the guy it rolled back on?
i aint telling till i get to have round 2 with him!!!! "
Meanie!! How about we play nicely and share him |
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"The few times I have come across this (too girthy and / or didnt bring their own) its because they assumed that safe sex meant 'safe sex if its possible, but hey if its you and you dont have condoms then I will break my own rules'!
Guys, if you turn up to a meet with me and you havent brought condoms with you (despite knowing its a requirement) then it wont happen!"
I think they call that Coitus Interruptus lol, but is still not a good idea |
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I've read through this tread as I was stumped with one meet I had with this guy about a year ago.
He was a big chap (but very very yummy). Just as things started heating up we both were saying lets fu@k now. I would have thought he would reach for a condom but didnt. I then reached into my purse to grab a condom (in past experiences the amount of men who dont carry one is higher than the ones who do)
Anyway pulled this condom out, even before we pulled the condom out they have said 'they dont fit me, but see for yourself' And i tried to put this condom on in so many different ways, it wasn't having it. I gave up and even he tried putting it on. In the end we both gave up, however he was coming onto me quite strong and insisting we carry on. Silly me, being an idiot carried on without a condom.
Now at the time it was amazing sex and honestly didn’t faze me. Until after! I was petrified I’d caught something and that I was pregnant. The next day I was booked into the GUM clinic, I was tested for everything and I also had the emergency contraceptive pill.
After the results came back clear that I wasn’t pregnant or had any nasty STD’s I began to think about what might have been going through in this guy’s mind. Would he have been happy after, knowing he has just had unprotected sex? Would he have gone to a GUM clinic? Is he happy in the fact I could have had an STD? I highly doubt it, and im sure to this day he is shagging without a condom.
This scared the living daylights out me, and removed myself from FABs because of it.
After a while I thought how much I love swinging as a single girl. However I wasn’t prepared to go through that again! This time I thought of things I could do to make myself safer. And this might come in useful for any new single girls reading this.
On a new first meet, I insist on meeting half way in a public place, like a pub. However when there, don’t drink and stay sober! Never play on a first meet!!! You might end up doing something you regret.
When at this first meet try not to arrange anything sexual with this person, as you may decide that you don’t like this person, or you find that you both don’t click at the end of it.
Talk about the experiences that you have had, and ask them about their experiences. After this meet and you find that you want to have fun with this person, ask them maybe over the phone or text or however if they want to play with you. If they do then arrange another meet. But do discuss contraception! Much better to be safe than sorry from my experience.
From all this personally I get checked every 6 months for STD’s and I keep a close eye on my periods, the second I doubt myself – I get a pregnancy test done. On every meet and party I carry condoms/lube/baby wipes/tissues, regardless if we have discussed the guy/couple will provide them. If they refuse to wear one – SAY NO and walk away.
Finally make your intentions clear girls! If a guy or couple don’t respect your wishes and aren’t willing to respect and obey your rules, trust me there are plenty of guys here who would. They aren’t worth it! No point in putting yourself in danger for his pleasure!
Look out for yourselves! And swing safe.
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"now i know we have had all the 'condoms - whose responsibility for providing' threads etc but just recently i have had a couple of meets where the guys have been to wide for the stadard fit condoms (one guy it actually rolled right back up it lol)
neither of them broughtheir ow condoms with them, messaging me to check i had some.
surely if you know you are too big for them and you only play safe then you should provide your own wide fit condoms? or do the other women out there stock a variety of sizes?? "
Ian is wide on girth and we buy ours online, there are plenty of sizes for condoms out there and best to play safe..we dont and cant imagine turning up for a meet and not been prepared.. leads on to what their motives are..maybe hoping for flesh on flesh then we say no sleev and not fun..our health is more important
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We have never turned up for a play meet without condoms. We always supply our own for our own, my, use and if we met anyone who didn't come equipped with them too, we would not go ahead.
May be I'm old fashioned, but I believe that if a bloke is going to do a job, whether that is to fuck someone or to clean the windows, then he goes equipped to do it  |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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"going to a meet unprepared seems a little disrespectful to me, sheeez come on guys."
We couldnt agree more, think we would be pissed off if a guy turned up without any. Get it together guys sheesh |
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I fall into the girthy category and must admit I have had a few problems with condoms.
Now i'm not sure if other guys get this but my size tends to vary from one day to the next. Sometimes it's just normalish girth and length, other days it can be very girthy and pumped up.
I have had condoms split, burst and tear but I always carry some spares. On one meet I had two condoms split as I struggled to get them on but the third condom did the trick and all was well.
I now tend to use a little lube before I slip on a condom, that has made the whole process much smoother with not as many damaged condoms.
I've had a few laughs by turning up to meets with my little bag of condoms, lube, wipes and other assorted goodies.
I have been asked to wear condoms that a lady has bought and have always been happy to comply with this demand. Even the non-latex ones are alright.
Lets burn rubber ! |
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I always have condoms - and certainly would not expect someone I was looking to visit to have them for me !!
Boots sell Durex XL - and you can buy all shapes and sizes on the net - Magnum XL fit me the best - and with me it's more a girth thing xxx
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"we had the same problem recently, guy came over to spain on hols arranged well in advance to meet.
He was really perfect except he had no condoms and his cock was very fat and couldnt fit in the ones we had, so no intercourse a bit of a dissapointment, why he didnt bring his own knowing his girth we will never know
He probably hoped to go bare. Cheeky! "
never in a million yrs |
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Allways provide my own as wearing a tight fitting condom is not the most pleasurable experience going ! and also kills the moment if you are struggling to get the bugger on ! |
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"now i know we have had all the 'condoms - whose responsibility for providing' threads etc but just recently i have had a couple of meets where the guys have been to wide for the stadard fit condoms (one guy it actually rolled right back up it lol)
neither of them broughtheir ow condoms with them, messaging me to check i had some.
surely if you know you are too big for them and you only play safe then you should provide your own wide fit condoms? or do the other women out there stock a variety of sizes?? "
They are idiots. We always take our own condoms but if they are especially large and normal ones dont fit we expect them to bring their own. Any guy that doesnt do that is going to get LESS than he bargained for. They are hoping to play bareback maybe? We havent met anyone like this.
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By (user no longer on site)
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ya can fit it over ya head, but when its on ya tinkel ya cant blow it up till it bursts then laff about it. xl's fit well but could do with bein a bit longer. |
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Most discomfort from condoms on girthy cocks is due to how much condom they leave rolled up and trying to put it on using the traditional rolling on method.
Unroll all of the condom, place your hands inside the condom (palms out), pull hands apart, bring down over the girthy cock. Get him to hold the excess at the tip end (to remove the air) and withdraw hands.
If you can't stretch an unrolled condom over his cock then it's not a penis he's trying to put in it. |
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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago
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"You can fit a standard condom over your head... how fucking big aree these cocks?"
You can also fit your head in a standard minge, but it's not going to be comfortable. It's not the condom itself that's not big enough, it's the ring. Some of them have very little give, trying to get into them is like cramming a pound of dough into a keyhole. With your thumbs.
Your advice about unrolling the condom is good, but some makes are uncomfortable or difficult to get into whatever you do (Mates).
That said, there is no excuse for going fully equipped, especially if you you know you have issues with some makes and sizes.
When I go for a GUM check-up, they GIVE me loads and loads of large condoms, it's not like anyone has to hunt them down in the shops.
As all good motorcyclists know - ATGATT (All The Gear, All The Time) |
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I have a variety, I carry passante ultra thins in my handbag :O
Still I would expect him to come prepared for sex! I am not saying he must have sex, but no condom no willingness to put it on = no willingness from me to 'put out'!
Come on guys! where did all the scouts go? I dont play with kids, I shouldnt be telling anyone to put a condom on! |
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"Why is it that guys won't buy them!!!! Surely any self respecting guy woudl already have taken care of them without the woman having to ask??"
Coz they don't want the wife to find any unused ones.... or used ones for that matter. |
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There is a funny little story about an incident during World War 2. Apparently it was discovered that the perfect protection for a certain type of machine gun muzzle was a condom. Apparently Churchill approached Durex to have condoms specially made for the puspose but said they should be about a foot long. He went on to suggest that the cases they were supplied in could fall into enemy hands, therefore they should be marked up "Medium" |
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