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What do men look for?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Just wondering what it is about a profile/picture that takes your fancy leading to you sending a message.
What kind of thing do you look for in women on fab? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet. |
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"Think they like boobs and bums hun x
Haha well that's true I'm sure, there's got to be more than that surely?  "
A sense of humour and a streak of playfulness and not a huge list of Dos and Don'ts rules |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet."
I'm real  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet."
Your not wrong... Deleted... Deleted... Deleted... Gets tiresome |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet."
Exactly the same from our side ppl not reading profile then find out after chatting they're married or not what I'm looking for. Oh and I'm real single female lol xx |
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"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.
Exactly the same from our side ppl not reading profile then find out after chatting they're married or not what I'm looking for. Oh and I'm real single female lol xx"
Glad to hear it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.
Exactly the same from our side ppl not reading profile then find out after chatting they're married or not what I'm looking for. Oh and I'm real single female lol xx"
Yes and thats often the case..the real ones are unavailable because they are miles away,working,washing their hair or for a plethora of other reasons.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.
Exactly the same from our side ppl not reading profile then find out after chatting they're married or not what I'm looking for. Oh and I'm real single female lol xx
Glad to hear it"
Thanks xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering what it is about a profile/picture that takes your fancy leading to you sending a message.
What kind of thing do you look for in women on fab? "
Smile, or a pic where they are actually clothed, even if partially. Shows they are normal. Boob pics are really boring There 10 to the penny now. As are almost naked pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think they like boobs and bums hun x
oh and other things  
Lol most definitely I keep those pics friends only lol xxx
Oh you got one too
Lol yep xx"
bet mines bigger |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering what it is about a profile/picture that takes your fancy leading to you sending a message.
What kind of thing do you look for in women on fab? "
I can tell you that us men don't look or event care what you look like it what you write we send a blanket cut and paste to all women see if we get a reply and then decide if we want to meet them or want to take it further
No point wasting time sending messages to people that are not interested
It's numbers game as theoretically a group of 10 women has
3 on their period
3 are too busy and just looking at mails as waiting for bus
3 are having a bad day
Only one is actually looking at that moment so no point wasting time on the others
You look for new members , members online and then message them you send a load of messages on a Sunday evening as that's when most women have time to do stuff
There's going to be a few that make a success of Internet dating ( I can and do very very well when I use Pof) by using this technique
ONce we have your attention then we make the decision as to wether we are interested
This is why women suddenly get guys go quiet in them or stand them up .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.
Bitter "
Haha,,oh so predictable,... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.
Bitter
Haha,,oh so predictable,..."
Bitter ex ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.
Bitter
Haha,,oh so predictable,...
Bitter ex ? "
Not even that... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering what it is about a profile/picture that takes your fancy leading to you sending a message.
What kind of thing do you look for in women on fab?
I can tell you that us men don't look or event care what you look like it what you write we send a blanket cut and paste to all women see if we get a reply and then decide if we want to meet them or want to take it further
No point wasting time sending messages to people that are not interested
It's numbers game as theoretically a group of 10 women has
3 on their period
3 are too busy and just looking at mails as waiting for bus
3 are having a bad day
Only one is actually looking at that moment so no point wasting time on the others
You look for new members , members online and then message them you send a load of messages on a Sunday evening as that's when most women have time to do stuff
There's going to be a few that make a success of Internet dating ( I can and do very very well when I use Pof) by using this technique
ONce we have your attention then we make the decision as to wether we are interested
This is why women suddenly get guys go quiet in them or stand them up .
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Wow!!
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"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet."
Tbh, i dont reply to any messages from guys with cock profile pics.
Why?
Hardly imaginative and suggests a level of smuttyness.
Personally, im discerning like that and perhaps thats what you are finding? Otherwise i try to respond to 80% of messages, and always if they are more than a one liner.....
Perhaps its about meeting a person as opposed to a cock.
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"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.
Your not wrong... Deleted... Deleted... Deleted... Gets tiresome"
So wouldnt delete you....id query the non accom though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A few pictures that give me a good idea of what kind of body..boobs...bum the lady owns. Then a quick scan of the profile to see it im what there looking for  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.
Your not wrong... Deleted... Deleted... Deleted... Gets tiresome
So wouldnt delete you....id query the non accom though!"
Thank you Mrs Wallace... You can query no problem and if it was cool I would explain in a private setting |
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"Just wondering what it is about a profile/picture that takes your fancy leading to you sending a message.
What kind of thing do you look for in women on fab? "
If we're talking profiles, then I like to see something that suggests some humility and kindness. Anything that makes them sound selfish, arrogant or has that whiff of entitlement about it will just turn me off totally.
In photos, nice hips or a peachy bum. Long dark hair. Or the holy grail...a hairy pussy! That would get my attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering what it is about a profile/picture that takes your fancy leading to you sending a message.
What kind of thing do you look for in women on fab? "
I've just started a sister post to yours, OP - What do women look for? Hope you don't mind, imitation being the finest form of flattery, and all that.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just wondering what it is about a profile/picture that takes your fancy leading to you sending a message.
What kind of thing do you look for in women on fab?
I've just started a sister post to yours, OP - What do women look for? Hope you don't mind, imitation being the finest form of flattery, and all that...."
Don't mind at all xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do men look for?
Seems a pulse is enough here...
Sadly, many of the blokes on here seem to be 'pulse optional'."
True...but that's because they're' brain optional' themselves. |
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"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.
Bitter
Haha,,oh so predictable,..."
Course you are to make a statement of ... 'Most are fake'...
If your experiencing 'fake' females then try a different method of what your doing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Men generally look for reply first off, at the end of the day all the bullshit women put up were all here to get laid just cut to the chase and get your knickers off |
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"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.
Your not wrong... Deleted... Deleted... Deleted... Gets tiresome"
I'd disagree with the 'fakes' comment.
And if you're not what a person is looking for (assuming you have bothered to read their profile) they're probably well within their rights to just delete.
If you're confident you're what they're looking for maybe send a follow up a bit later down the line. |
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"Men generally look for reply first off, at the end of the day all the bullshit women put up were all here to get laid just cut to the chase and get your knickers off"
I don't understand what you are trying to say ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men generally look for reply first off, at the end of the day all the bullshit women put up were all here to get laid just cut to the chase and get your knickers off"
Not even a kiss 1st just knickers straight off  |
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"Men generally look for reply first off, at the end of the day all the bullshit women put up were all here to get laid just cut to the chase and get your knickers off
Not even a kiss 1st just knickers strøaight off "
Do you think he is successful ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men generally look for reply first off, at the end of the day all the bullshit women put up were all here to get laid just cut to the chase and get your knickers off
Not even a kiss 1st just knickers strøaight off
Do you think he is successful ?"
Just a guess...but i bet hes right hand as blisters  |
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"Men generally look for reply first off, at the end of the day all the bullshit women put up were all here to get laid just cut to the chase and get your knickers off
Not even a kiss 1st just knickers strøaight off
Do you think he is successful ?
Just a guess...but i bet hes right hand as blisters "
Yes...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men generally look for reply first off, at the end of the day all the bullshit women put up were all here to get laid just cut to the chase and get your knickers off
Not even a kiss 1st just knickers strøaight off
Do you think he is successful ?
Just a guess...but i bet hes right hand as blisters
Yes...lol"
I use lube avoids chafing ha ha
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By (user no longer on site)
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Like many others a nice photo attracts attention. Not necessarily a graphic one, I tend to like those that leave a little to the imagination.
Also something said in a status or on the forums may lead me to look at a profile. More often than not I don't match their criteria but if I do I may message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.
Your not wrong... Deleted... Deleted... Deleted... Gets tiresome
So wouldnt delete you....id query the non accom though!"
I didnt realise there was a virtual branch of the marriage guidance counsel on here.. |
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