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By *andlebar OP Man
over a year ago
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Ive stated on my profile that im bi curious.. (ive had some MM experience when i was d*unk but I want to experiment sober to see if I enjoy it) .. that doesn't mean I'm going to jump on a man..
I know there's lots of men on here who are bi but say straight on thier profile because they 'don't want to scare women off' (a different gripe for me)
What I don't get is the bi women I've come accross, who won't entertain bi or bi curious men, in any way. Isn't this a bit hypocritical.. ?
Can anyone she'd a bit light on this for me.? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really, and the same if bi guys aren't into bi women too.
Bi women like women and maybe only straight men, they might not even like the idea of 2 men getting it on with each other.
There could be other reasons as well but it's not hypocritical. Bi women are not bi men.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't worry about them. Loads of women on here love bi guys, i'm one myself.
I still don't think it's hypocritical to be intolerant because sex is quite a personal thing, although it often doesn't make sense to me to be that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is it hypocritical? Wealth of difference in every class of sexuality, some women like women, some guys like guys, some people like both 
But we each have our preferences, and that's what it is, a preference, now me, I like bi guys, I like straight guys, it makes no difference to me but then some men don't like bi girls, and that's also cool with me, it's their choice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My preference is for bi men, but happy to meet straight guys too.
Some women like bi guys, some dont...even if they themselves are bi..it doesnt mean that they have to find two men at it an attractive site.
But personally...MMF or MMMF...ooooof...heaven!
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By *andlebar OP Man
over a year ago
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Im not saying that a bi woman should be into bi guys.. its that ive come across women who themselves like same sex fun, but think that same sex fun between men is wrong... thats the hypocrital bit
. It should be a case of live and let live IMHO |
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I personally do feel it's a little hypocritical. If both partners are straight and only looking for other straight couples to swop with, then so be it.
However, when there's a bi female on the profile but they won't meet bi guys, that's where it boggles my mind. No matter who you're meeting you should know each other's boundaries so what does it matter If one or both of a couple is bi/straight/whatever, surely if a bi couple/single meets a straight couple/single, the boundaries are pretty clear form the outset or am I missing something here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have found that some ladies don't like bi men.... period!
They think we all either want to fuck other men, or be fucked by another man..... we are not all fully bi though 
All depends on how far bi you want to categorise yourself? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have found that some ladies don't like bi men.... period!
They think we all either want to fuck other men, or be fucked by another man..... we are not all fully bi though
All depends on how far bi you want to categorise yourself? "
If you like playing sexually with men, you're bisexual.
If I was a straight woman who hadn't had penetrative sex, nobody would suggest that I wasn't 'fully straight'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wasp... I was referring to orally bi only, some women like that "
Yeah... I just think it's fucking absurd. Could you imagine if I said to people I was 'orally straight'? I mean, people would be like 'WTF are you talking about? Either you're straight or not...' |
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"Wasp... I was referring to orally bi only, some women like that
Yeah... I just think it's fucking absurd. Could you imagine if I said to people I was 'orally straight'? I mean, people would be like 'WTF are you talking about? Either you're straight or not...'"
Love this. |
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"Wasp... I was referring to orally bi only, some women like that
Yeah... I just think it's fucking absurd. Could you imagine if I said to people I was 'orally straight'? I mean, people would be like 'WTF are you talking about? Either you're straight or not...'"
It's a simple way of setting expectations and defining your limits. Bisexual is a bit of a strange term anyway as it covers the wide a varied bit between hetero and homo, so terms which clearly denote limits are useful to help match people with what they want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wasp... I was referring to orally bi only, some women like that
Yeah... I just think it's fucking absurd. Could you imagine if I said to people I was 'orally straight'? I mean, people would be like 'WTF are you talking about? Either you're straight or not...'
It's a simple way of setting expectations and defining your limits. Bisexual is a bit of a strange term anyway as it covers the wide a varied bit between hetero and homo, so terms which clearly denote limits are useful to help match people with what they want. "
It's funny. My partner manages to say "I'm bisexual, but I don't enjoy casual anal sex". Much less vague than "I'm orally bi" which doesn't even specify if you like giving or recieving oral...
If you want to "clearly denote limits" then clearly denote them. Say what you don't like. Don't use meaningless terms like "not fully bi" or "orally bi". |
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"Wasp... I was referring to orally bi only, some women like that
Yeah... I just think it's fucking absurd. Could you imagine if I said to people I was 'orally straight'? I mean, people would be like 'WTF are you talking about? Either you're straight or not...'
It's a simple way of setting expectations and defining your limits. Bisexual is a bit of a strange term anyway as it covers the wide a varied bit between hetero and homo, so terms which clearly denote limits are useful to help match people with what they want. "
I'd agree with this. You've more of an understanding of someone's limits when they say 'orally bi'. Though t suppose it could also work with 'orally hetro' too. (To get the point across, not to label) x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im not saying that a bi woman should be into bi guys.. its that ive come across women who themselves like same sex fun, but think that same sex fun between men is wrong... thats the hypocrital bit
. It should be a case of live and let live IMHO"
Got it. That makes sense, I agree. Sorry I misunderstood your OP.
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