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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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we chatted to a potential meet yesterday after they contacted us. they tagged the line 'have you got any face pics?' at the end.i ignored it and answered the other questions.they then asked it again. i never replied again. i thought fuck em.
anyone else think its rude to ask?
if you want to see their face pics,send yours first. especially when we didnt make initial contact |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I prefer to exchange quite early in messaging y, I tend to think if they initiate contact they should send first 
They can ask, doesn't mean you have to oblige.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people ask for mine, I send them and then they say they dont have any to send. Its usually the collectors. Oh any of the gorgeous ladies/couples on here, feel free to ask for mine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The one that gets me is when face pics are asked for by whoever I'm speaking to, I provide them and they say they like them/you. I say thanks can I see yours and it's all "we don't do face pics"
Double standards piss me off
Same with women/couple profiles with the lovely caps lock rants of NO PIC NO CHAT then have no pics themselves and are unwilling to share. No wonder some guys act like pricks. You reap what you sow |
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We always attatched face pics in or first message.
What's more annoying is when we get a face pic back of the fem only, urrrrm what about the guy??? Then I feel awkward having to ask for his pic too  |
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We send our face pics with virtually every initial message except if the message is "Thanks, but no thanks".
We do get a little "irked" by those who say they will never send face pics of themselves "because of their job" whilst demanded to see ours! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes it happens and when you ask a question they reply again with you got a face pic and they dont send one back usually.
I take it as most men would fuck anything so they are used not to send one back lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes it happens and when you ask a question they reply again with you got a face pic and they dont send one back usually.
I take it as most men would fuck anything so they are used not to send one back lol.
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 no shag most men wont shag anything |
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If i initiate the message, then i think its only good manners to attach a face pic......
on the rare occasion when chatting via my phone app, i sometimes forget to attach a pic, but always resolve that with an apology and a pic in the subseqeuent message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's annoying, when you read a profile asking you to send a face picture on your 1st message (fair enough). But they have no photos at all on their profile. It is double standards."
But also easy to ignore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes it happens and when you ask a question they reply again with you got a face pic and they dont send one back usually.
I take it as most men would fuck anything so they are used not to send one back lol.
no shag most men wont shag anything "
That is right as well lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its good to see who youre talking to - has happened a few times where we have got on well over messages then seen pics and totally gone off them - shallow maybe but we have to fancy who we get intimate with - |
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"It's annoying, when you read a profile asking you to send a face picture on your 1st message (fair enough). But they have no photos at all on their profile. It is double standards."
Yep, hate this. We ask for face pics when contacting us.
Our profile has face pics of Erika all over it and mine are sent with first contact (by virtue of my job).
We still get lots of requests for more face pics of Erika. FFS, all our profile is is face pics of her, how many can you need to wank over!! |
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"we chatted to a potential meet yesterday after they contacted us. they tagged the line 'have you got any face pics?' at the end.i ignored it and answered the other questions.they then asked it again. i never replied again. i thought fuck em.
anyone else think its rude to ask?
if you want to see their face pics,send yours first. especially when we didnt make initial contact"
I tend to say 'yes I do but I don't believe i've seen yours?'. Seems to get the message across. And if it doesn't I just ignore the future mail. |
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I always send a face pic on messages I initiate. When I get a positive reply I can name on one hand the individuals or couples that reply with a face pic.
If I get an unsolicited message that I suspect is a fake or dodgy (they may even have a picture included) I do ask for a picture with a "specific" on it to prove they are real.
Had a couple last week who wanted to meet there and then and the picture they supplied was obviously fake so I asked for confirmation and they removed themselves from the site completely.
So moral is its not always rude to ask it just gives everyone piece of mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id rather see face pictures as soon as possible. If theres no attraction whats the point in chatting "
Totally agree.I hate having to string along a conversation then find out there's no attraction and get grief for it when you tell them!x |
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OP wouldn't the answer be simply "Yes we have face pics"? We have no problem exchanging face pics but we may ask if they have any (to send if we send ours) - especially if their "private gallery" is showing a zero. |
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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago
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An initial exchange of messages perhaps without seeing their face, but pretty soon you need to know if you are attracted to them and attractive for them!
Hope you are all having a wonderful Monday x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they're initiating the chat then they should send theirs first
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^ yep. If I've made first contact I wouldn't dream of demanding to see their pics first. And the same should be true in reverse. |
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"If they're initiating the chat then they should send theirs first
^ yep. If I've made first contact I wouldn't dream of demanding to see their pics first. And the same should be true in reverse. "
I agree - however it is unclear if they demanded to see pics or simply inquired if they had any (e.g. to exchange if it went that way, not just to provide immediately) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would any guys meet ladies / couples without seeing pictures? - I would say yes.
Would any ladies / couples meet guys without seeing pictures? - I would say not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember a while back we were chatting to a woman, when we asked for face pics she said she didn't send them and she'd had no complaints from men she'd met so far - needless to say we didn't meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I remember a while back we were chatting to a woman, when we asked for face pics she said she didn't send them and she'd had no complaints from men she'd met so far - needless to say we didn't meet "
I get this often from couples and single fems |
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"Would any guys meet ladies / couples without seeing pictures? - I would say yes.
Would any ladies / couples meet guys without seeing pictures? - I would say not. "
Have done and in one respect maybe it's somewhat exciting but after me experience not a fucking chance I'd do it again lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I remember a while back we were chatting to a woman, when we asked for face pics she said she didn't send them and she'd had no complaints from men she'd met so far - needless to say we didn't meet
I get this often from couples and single fems "
We would always send ours. we've had people try and arrange to meet us without asking for our pics, I wouldn't do that either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do ask for a face pic but don't send ours.we state that on our profile,others then have an informed choice wether to get in contact or not."
Why don't you send yours but insist on seeing theirs?? |
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"I remember a while back we were chatting to a woman, when we asked for face pics she said she didn't send them and she'd had no complaints from men she'd met so far - needless to say we didn't meet "
How strange! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We would never dream of meeting without seeing body pics and face pics.
we just don't like people asking to see ours.if they send them we will return with our face pics.
If we rocked up and didn't fancy them. Saying sorry we ain't playing as you not our type may be embarrassing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We would never dream of meeting without seeing body pics and face pics.
we just don't like people asking to see ours.if they send them we will return with our face pics.
If we rocked up and didn't fancy them. Saying sorry we ain't playing as you not our type may be embarrassing. "
I always send mine in a first message, hope to get them in return! You have to be attracted to whoever you play with! X |
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I never ask for face pics and rarely send mine. 99% of the people I chat with on here are unlikely to meet so why should I bother.
But the person who requests the pics should send their own first, male, fem or couple. None of this - the single bloke should send his face pic first even thouh we, the couple, have asked but haven't sent ours- BS. |
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