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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And when you tell them no and they say "well you've got to give it a try havnt you".....no, no you don't, because our profile specifically says we won't meet alone  |
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"Nobody has ever asked either of us this, we've never been offered money only shopping and we rarely receive abuse. We feel very left out   "
Can I meet Mrs on her own? I think I have about £2.37p in change  lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Imagine meeting a couple with we never meet alone or seperate on the profile. You have a great night. Mmf some leave and a few days later i get....mr is at work...fancy poping round for a hour or 2 on kik 
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As part of the conversation when meeting face to face, I sometimes ask if they meet others separately and if so, do they prefer to not know about it or to discuss it before and afterwards. It gives me an insight as to how open their relationship really is and I state that I am not interested in meeting separately, not when a 3some is far more pleasurable.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it says it on the profile I think its disrespectful... And to be honest I find it rude in person.. But I guess to be fair in person they can't see the profile.
Many couples do play separate so I'm not sure why it causes me and others such offence. Perhaps its because I wouldn't ask |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just us, or does anyone else find this a flippin ' cheek ? "
It is just plain disrespectful. Anyone who asks goes straight onto the 'waste of space' pile. |
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We clearly state in our profile that Polly will meet single women alone, but all other meets will be as a couple.
Unfortunately, we often get messages from other couples who say that the fem would love to meet her alone, but her man will be in attendance "for her safety"!
They tend to get blocked. |
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"Nobody has ever asked either of us this, we've never been offered money only shopping and we rarely receive abuse. We feel very left out "
We've been offered (when I say we, Flik)money yet again this morning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nobody has ever asked either of us this, we've never been offered money only shopping and we rarely receive abuse. We feel very left out
We've been offered (when I say we, Flik)money yet again this morning "
Hey I wonder if it was the same guy I've just blocked?? Lol |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Imagine meeting a couple with we never meet alone or seperate on the profile. You have a great night. Mmf some leave and a few days later i get....mr is at work...fancy poping round for a hour or 2 on kik
I was confused. After blocking them "
Seems like a very strange reaction to me. They may well play seperate, but dont want to get bombarded on their profile so put that extra line on. Sounds like you could have missed out on some good times there. Or she could have been cheating, one or the other. |
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Here we go then:
On this matter, I prefer to meet alone but if mr has to be there, why not? I tend not to ask such questions.
I even love it when mr joins in the action rather than me performing for him to watch.
Trust me guys, you don't have to ask: if the couple meets separately, you will know. Just work on the assumption you are meeting them both and you will seldom go wrong.
I have been on many many meets where the mr has "ghosted" into the background after initial collaboration.
Unspoken leeway, if you like.
Of course, speaking as a straight single guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never ask to meet the female alone if she is part of a couple. Simply wouldn't occur to me. Besides I like mfm.
That's not to say it hasn't happened after several meets and trust has been built, but never at my suggestion! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just us, or does anyone else find this a flippin ' cheek ? "
Plenty do meet alone.
Would you rather they weren't upfront and didn't ask early on? |
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If you say it on your profile and they still ask, yes it's disrespectful. But as we know, so many people don't bother to read a profile. That's also disrespectful.
We do meet alone and our profile says this. What I find disrespectful to us is the amount of messages where the first is a brief hello, and once they establish that it's me and not him replying they ask if I have kik/whatsapp. As if I won't tell him and show him everything that's being said anyway. Just rude. |
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"Nobody has ever asked either of us this, we've never been offered money only shopping and we rarely receive abuse. We feel very left out
Can I meet Mrs on her own? I think I have about £2.37p in change lol"
You didn't abuse us though |
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Life is too short to take offence at a simple question. If a couple has in their profile that they DON'T meet alone and someone asks in a message if they do, then the real problem is not that they are somehow rude, but merely that they can't read - which would eliminate them for us, as we prefer literate playmates.  Mrs |
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"Nobody has ever asked either of us this, we've never been offered money only shopping and we rarely receive abuse. We feel very left out
Can I meet Mrs on her own? I think I have about £2.37p in change lol
You didn't abuse us though "
Damn and i thought i was on to a winner there lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a message a while back from a couple who with bracing honesty told me that I was too old and the female didn't like fucking old men but they were both interested in meeting my wife.
I laughed the whole time it took me to reach the block button.  |
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I think it is very disrespectful to ask the lady of a couple to meet alone if they clearly state on their profile that they don't, I had a fb once that we set up a couple profile and same happend to us.
I will never dream of asking a couple to meet me alone unless they ask me if that is what they want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just us, or does anyone else find this a flippin ' cheek ? "
I ask a fair bit. Politely. If a couple contact me and I'm not interested in both I often say 'do you have separate profiles as well as a couples profile?
In fact I often ask even if I'm planning on meeting both - just because I'm more interested in the kinds of couples who will meet separately as well as alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Won't know if you don't ask. If it's on your profile in huge letters they probably haven't read it or are being cheeky and hoping you will make an exception. Personally,I'd rather meet two men from a mm profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Imagine meeting a couple with we never meet alone or seperate on the profile. You have a great night. Mmf some leave and a few days later i get....mr is at work...fancy poping round for a hour or 2 on kik
I was confused. After blocking them "
We never meet alone, and it states that on our profile, however I have invited men over to play with me on my own, or so they think, but my partner is here hiding and watching, but no-one's questioned me asking lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Imagine meeting a couple with we never meet alone or seperate on the profile. You have a great night. Mmf some leave and a few days later i get....mr is at work...fancy poping round for a hour or 2 on kik
I was confused. After blocking them
We never meet alone, and it states that on our profile, however I have invited men over to play with me on my own, or so they think, but my partner is here hiding and watching, but no-one's questioned me asking lol.
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I feel like that's kind of out of order. It's non-consensual. You haven't explained to them the whole sex game. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Imagine meeting a couple with we never meet alone or seperate on the profile. You have a great night. Mmf some leave and a few days later i get....mr is at work...fancy poping round for a hour or 2 on kik
I was confused. After blocking them
We never meet alone, and it states that on our profile, however I have invited men over to play with me on my own, or so they think, but my partner is here hiding and watching, but no-one's questioned me asking lol.
I feel like that's kind of out of order. It's non-consensual. You haven't explained to them the whole sex game."
Yes I tend to agree but it was a fantasy my partner had and we just wanted to give it a go. It's not something we do regularly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Imagine meeting a couple with we never meet alone or seperate on the profile. You have a great night. Mmf some leave and a few days later i get....mr is at work...fancy poping round for a hour or 2 on kik
I was confused. After blocking them
We never meet alone, and it states that on our profile, however I have invited men over to play with me on my own, or so they think, but my partner is here hiding and watching, but no-one's questioned me asking lol.
I feel like that's kind of out of order. It's non-consensual. You haven't explained to them the whole sex game.
Yes I tend to agree but it was a fantasy my partner had and we just wanted to give it a go. It's not something we do regularly "
I should add that we'd chatted enough that they were aware my partner could "return" at any point and were happy enough to meet knowing he could walk in so we knew they'd be comfortable with him coming in if need be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Imagine meeting a couple with we never meet alone or seperate on the profile. You have a great night. Mmf some leave and a few days later i get....mr is at work...fancy poping round for a hour or 2 on kik
I was confused. After blocking them
We never meet alone, and it states that on our profile, however I have invited men over to play with me on my own, or so they think, but my partner is here hiding and watching, but no-one's questioned me asking lol.
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Yes ive had this also. Met a single lady. Banging away upstairs only for hubby to fall out of wardrobe with cam. Was awkward but i did say they only had to ask |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I have a couples profile that directs people to our respective single profiles since we do meet alone. But if they're messaging our couples profile, I would assume it's both of us they would want to meet. I tend to deal with the mail and always thank them for the random 'you have a fantastic arse' messages on behalf of the regular squeeze since he does have a fantastic arse. It's all round and grabbable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't believe it!! People with profiles on a sex site listing sexual acts/ likes/ dislikes/ pics... and some people have the fucking cheek to ask about sex??? Are they insane?????!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On the flipside I find it cheeky when turning down a couple (who I don't list as a looking for, anyway) to then be told ~ 'I'll meet you alone if you like'..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a couples profile that directs people to our respective single profiles since we do meet alone. But if they're messaging our couples profile, I would assume it's both of us they would want to meet. I tend to deal with the mail and always thank them for the random 'you have a fantastic arse' messages on behalf of the regular squeeze since he does have a fantastic arse. It's all round and grabbable."
Haha, I do this too on behalf of the boy... |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I have a couples profile that directs people to our respective single profiles since we do meet alone. But if they're messaging our couples profile, I would assume it's both of us they would want to meet. I tend to deal with the mail and always thank them for the random 'you have a fantastic arse' messages on behalf of the regular squeeze since he does have a fantastic arse. It's all round and grabbable.
Haha, I do this too on behalf of the boy..."
Well, we do say we're only looking for single men if they're bi so I don't like to assume it's mine they're talking about.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just us, or does anyone else find this a flippin ' cheek ?
Plenty do meet alone.
Would you rather they weren't upfront and didn't ask early on? "
It would be a huge turn on for me, And probably for the couples that do meet alone |
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"That's worse ! So Polly's "safety" doesn't matter ! "
So you would want us to arrange a solo meet where both of us attend?
Then you are one of the proponents of "Solo meets" involve just your wife and the two of us"? |
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"We had a message a while back from a couple who with bracing honesty told me that I was too old and the female didn't like fucking old men but they were both interested in meeting my wife.
I laughed the whole time it took me to reach the block button. "
Now we do recognise that scenario!! Happens often! |
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