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being let down at the last minute
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By *mojee OP Couple
over a year ago
Dunfermline |
I work away so we can only plan a meet once every 2-3 months due to getting home from work then finding someone to look after child etc. The past 3 times we've arranged a meet the guy has let us down at the last minute and we are now wondering if this place is worth it tbh. I'm sure there are genuine guys but we can't help but feel so frustrated. For the ones that meet regularly I'm sure a last minute let down isn't so bad but for the ones like us who can't meet that often how do you feel when it happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I work away so we can only plan a meet once every 2-3 months due to getting home from work then finding someone to look after child etc. The past 3 times we've arranged a meet the guy has let us down at the last minute and we are now wondering if this place is worth it tbh. I'm sure there are genuine guys but we can't help but feel so frustrated. For the ones that meet regularly I'm sure a last minute let down isn't so bad but for the ones like us who can't meet that often how do you feel when it happens. "
There are plenty of people in Portsmouth . And plenty to do in your area
Do a few socials . Parties and the club event that occurs in your area and then get the number of people that do turn up
Websites can only point you in the right direction and organised in person events are the way to go
lets be realistic the human race has been having sex for a lot longer than the Internet has been going and you will do perfectly well without it |
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By *mojee OP Couple
over a year ago
Dunfermline |
We've done VA and had a good time but it's a bit far and again we need child care for it. In the short time I posted the message we've had a few 'I'll turn up' and 'you should have contacted me' messages all from guys with no verifications that have been on here a while. There's no way that we'll agree to meet someone without verifications now as 2 out of the 3 that let us down didn't have any but we gave them the benefit of the doubt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's the whole point. We can't get to socials etc as we are very time limited. They happen when we can't make it and when we can we can't get child care etc. "
arrange one on a day you are free  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"We've done VA and had a good time but it's a bit far and again we need child care for it. In the short time I posted the message we've had a few 'I'll turn up' and 'you should have contacted me' messages all from guys with no verifications that have been on here a while. There's no way that we'll agree to meet someone without verifications now as 2 out of the 3 that let us down didn't have any but we gave them the benefit of the doubt. "
There are loads of clubs much nearer to you than VA!
Arrange to meet two or three guys at the club, then there's a chance at least one will show, and if not, see if anyone else at the club grabs you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is???"
I have messaged you the details of parties and meets that advertise in fab
There are others that' don't advertise here so no point
But I would say at a guess there is always 1 thing to do on a Friday night within 15 mins of you and onna Saturday about 3 choices |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is???
I have messaged you the details of parties and meets that advertise in fab
There are others that' don't advertise here so no point
But I would say at a guess there is always 1 thing to do on a Friday night
within 15 mins of you and onna
Saturday about 3 choices "
Can you send me those details xx |
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"There is???
I have messaged you the details of parties and meets that advertise in fab
There are others that' don't advertise here so no point
But I would say at a guess there is always 1 thing to do on a Friday night within 15 mins of you and onna Saturday about 3 choices "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is???
I have messaged you the details of parties and meets that advertise in fab
There are others that' don't advertise here so no point
But I would say at a guess there is always 1 thing to do on a Friday night
within 15 mins of you and onna
Saturday about 3 choices
Can you send me those details xx"
Done it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is???
I have messaged you the details of parties and meets that advertise in fab
There are others that' don't advertise here so no point
But I would say at a guess there is always 1 thing to do on a Friday night
within 15 mins of you and onna
Saturday about 3 choices
Can you send me those details xx
Done it "
Thanks guys xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for that we'll have a look about for the next time we're free to have a meet"
Send us a message when you are and we will let you know you where we are going |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go to a few socials and get to meet people face to face and then build up a base of people you've met socially to meet sexually.
Even after a social some will still not bother showing up.."
The ones we have
Met always turn up |
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"It seams a common occurrence on here I've been let down twice by the same lady  With no explanation at all people have there reasons now I'm only doing my friends list safer that way  "
I think the word your looking for is a disrespectful person, with no regard for you or no explanation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps its your selection criteria that's wrong. You could call it unlucky but perhaps the type of person you go for our the ones more likely to let you down?
While I understand it must be very frustrating if you only have a short period of time to play, there are many single men that will meet and do! |
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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago
The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales |
My lover and I hold the occasional tgirl party at various hotels/apartments in and around Chorley. If we're planning a party meet for four, we'll invite 6 or 7 tgirls. If we're planning a meet for 5 or 6, we'll invite 8 or 9 girls because we get let down so much. At our last party meet 7 tgirls were supposed to turn up and it turned into a lovely 4some, bit of a waste of an appartment but we had a great time as we had lots of room to play. 
So the best advice I can give is purposely overbook by at least 2 to try and hit the original target your looking for...
Worst comes to the worst, you'll end up with a 3some or if the opposite happens and they all turn up (which has never happened), your in for one hell of a night. |
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