There is a lady on here, whom I met in real life. I discovered her on fab and broached the topic. She gave me the " and so what?" speech. Then followed an awkward stretch of weeks and then we were at it again like rabbits  .
Now, she keeps bombarding me with what she sees on my profile ie updates, meet adverts, veris and even what I say in the forum. In the mean time, we are still getting it on.
I don't know what to make of it. I am genuinely confused. Her profile has changed over time from "no black guys" to wanting "only one guy who does not sleep around".
Obviously she can't be wanting only me if she is on here..... or am I missing the point?
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"I'd block her...
it shouldn't make any difference if you are 'at it like rabbits' anyway but will stop her questioning everything you do  "
I did that ages ago but she says a friend keeps her updated. The funny bit is this friend is A COP in the real world; I kid u not! |
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Talk to her about it, you're both adults doing adult things.
If she hasn't been direct with you about it i'd guess she isn't specifically meaning you on her profile as that one guy, especially as you are meeting other people.
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"I'd block her...
it shouldn't make any difference if you are 'at it like rabbits' anyway but will stop her questioning everything you do
I did that ages ago but she says a friend keeps her updated. The funny bit is this friend is A COP in the real world; I kid u not!"
try hiding your profile then...if you take away the ammo she will have nothing to report and will eventually lose interest |
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"Talk to her about it, you're both adults doing adult things.
If she hasn't been direct with you about it i'd guess she isn't specifically meaning you on her profile as that one guy, especially as you are meeting other people.
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Interesting! She reckons I don't see her to be good enough. |
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"I'd block her...
it shouldn't make any difference if you are 'at it like rabbits' anyway but will stop her questioning everything you do
I did that ages ago but she says a friend keeps her updated. The funny bit is this friend is A COP in the real world; I kid u not!"
try blocking the friend as well |
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"Talk to her about it, you're both adults doing adult things.
If she hasn't been direct with you about it i'd guess she isn't specifically meaning you on her profile as that one guy, especially as you are meeting other people.
Interesting! She reckons I don't see her to be good enough. "
Because you're seeing other people?
If she has issues and you wanna keep it NSA and not get involved in that then you might need to stop seeing her.
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