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"Ok guys... So I've given a fair few blow jobs and try to please a variety of tastes (pardon the pun). I know every man is different but what makes a good BJ for you? Tip play? Taking it so deep you gag? Sucking balls? Wet and sloppy? Slow and sensual? Throw a girl a bone! (See what I did there? ![]() deep throat for us, very intimate and kissing in between is special | |||
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"As long as you don't bite through the head, you're golden." Oops. ![]() | |||
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"As long as you don't bite through the head, you're golden. Oops. ![]() Haha!! So remove my dentures? Check! | |||
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"I have mostly been given normal bj's, and had it slurped on with saliva coming up, now my ideal bj is how the pro's does it, extreme face fucking where all her make up runs down as the eyes are watering as she takes the whole shaft in and as she comes up she vomits on the cock. It sure would be a messy one mmmmm ![]() we sometimes go for this scenario and it's beautiful actually! ![]() | |||
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"Ok guys... So I've given a fair few blow jobs and try to please a variety of tastes (pardon the pun). I know every man is different but what makes a good BJ for you? Tip play? Taking it so deep you gag? Sucking balls? Wet and sloppy? Slow and sensual? Throw a girl a bone! (See what I did there? ![]() Much more mouth action then hand action going on ![]() ![]() | |||
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"1: The gagging thing is mental. The sight and sound and situation is a turn on. But the sensation comes from the head (tongue, teeth, lips and your hand) 2: lots of lube (saliva, a drink or something else) 3: lots of hand action - wank him as much as, or more than you're using your mouth. 4: don't try and make him cum. Just enjoy. " And show enthusiasm! ![]() | |||
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"So actual vomit?? " Yes, but not sure what is in the movies I see there, or if it is a huge saliva load that comes up? | |||
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"I have mostly been given normal bj's, and had it slurped on with saliva coming up, now my ideal bj is how the pro's does it, extreme face fucking where all her make up runs down as the eyes are watering as she takes the whole shaft in and as she comes up she vomits on the cock. It sure would be a messy one mmmmm ![]() ![]() Nice one ![]() | |||
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"I have mostly been given normal bj's, and had it slurped on with saliva coming up, now my ideal bj is how the pro's does it, extreme face fucking where all her make up runs down as the eyes are watering as she takes the whole shaft in and as she comes up she vomits on the cock. It sure would be a messy one mmmmm ![]() ![]() ![]() thank you ![]() | |||
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"Vom on your cock??!!!..you what lol..." Yes, it is something I want t experience lol. | |||
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"just get stuck right into it and really enjoy it. " this ![]() ![]() | |||
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"1: The gagging thing is mental. The sight and sound and situation is a turn on. But the sensation comes from the head (tongue, teeth, lips and your hand) 2: lots of lube (saliva, a drink or something else) 3: lots of hand action - wank him as much as, or more than you're using your mouth. 4: don't try and make him cum. Just enjoy. " ^^ This! ![]() | |||
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"As much tooth as possible, and slowly crush each testicle.. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I have mostly been given normal bj's, and had it slurped on with saliva coming up, now my ideal bj is how the pro's does it, extreme face fucking where all her make up runs down as the eyes are watering as she takes the whole shaft in and as she comes up she vomits on the cock. It sure would be a messy one mmmmm ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm reading this thread with interest, always good to hear what guys like ![]() Sunshine happy to meet and put different methods to the test. ![]() | |||
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"As much tooth as possible, and slowly crush each testicle.. ![]() Will definitely last longer that way lol | |||
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"Just before he cums ram 3, dry fingers into his ass. ![]() Now that's an interesting one... I've done this with guys who have then looked horrified! | |||
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"Ok guys... So I've given a fair few blow jobs and try to please a variety of tastes (pardon the pun). I know every man is different but what makes a good BJ for you? Tip play? Taking it so deep you gag? Sucking balls? Wet and sloppy? Slow and sensual? Throw a girl a bone! (See what I did there? ![]() Yup, all of the above! ![]() | |||
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"Different uses of ur tongue. Round like u are licking an ice cream cone. Flat and soft for up and down the shaft. Firm tip for teasing the japs eye. Soft and flicking around the head. Swirling it round the cock as u slide ur mouth up and down its length. The better ur tongue technique the better performance for the fella." Not all men like tongue. All lick,no suck as a friend one said,does nothing for him. | |||
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"Just before he cums ram 3, dry fingers into his ass. ![]() Noted | |||
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"Just before he cums ram 3, dry fingers into his ass. ![]() One well lubed finger will do just fine. And prepare to be glazed like a donut! | |||
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"I don't need help .......just saying ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I don't need help .......just saying ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I can vouch for that.. | |||
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"I don't need help .......just saying ![]() ![]() ![]() Haha... A fully rounded CV of men then? I'm new to this so need a little assistance ![]() | |||
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"Beginning to Wonder now if anyone on this site has ever actually had sex with a real person. Sorry op n but really??!!" so it's OK for a woman to ask about bjs but blokes are supposed to know instinctively? ![]() | |||
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"Beginning to Wonder now if anyone on this site has ever actually had sex with a real person. Sorry op n but really??!!" You mean the question posed or the responses given? | |||
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"1: The gagging thing is mental. The sight and sound and situation is a turn on. But the sensation comes from the head (tongue, teeth, lips and your hand) 2: lots of lube (saliva, a drink or something else) 3: lots of hand action - wank him as much as, or more than you're using your mouth. 4: don't try and make him cum. Just enjoy. " Number 4 is the most important for me. Just enjoy it and I will enjoy it too ![]() | |||
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"Beginning to Wonder now if anyone on this site has ever actually had sex with a real person. Sorry op n but really??!!so it's OK for a woman to ask about bjs but blokes are supposed to know instinctively? ![]() Nope. We learn from experience and the best learning is from current partner. I say the same to both sexes. | |||
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"Best way to learn is to talk and ask if they like what you are doing, or ask them what feels good and be prepared for some strange comments. Lol" Haha true that!! | |||
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"Best way to learn is to talk and ask if they like what you are doing, or ask them what feels good and be prepared for some strange comments. Lol" Last time i asked the reply was do you really need to ask ![]() | |||
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"Beginning to Wonder now if anyone on this site has ever actually had sex with a real person. Sorry op n but really??!!so it's OK for a woman to ask about bjs but blokes are supposed to know instinctively? ![]() They should know what they like shouldn't they? | |||
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"It's only meant to be a bit of fun... Just a straw poll if you like, of likes and dislikes. I'm not going to print out responses and tick them off during my next session ![]() You didn't specify that at the beginning | |||
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"Beginning to Wonder now if anyone on this site has ever actually had sex with a real person. Sorry op n but really??!!so it's OK for a woman to ask about bjs but blokes are supposed to know instinctively? ![]() haha .. That was sneaky posting the same response on both threads lol ![]() | |||
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"I love lots of saliva & the tip peeled right back & flicked with the tongue. Am happy for a lady to use her teeth on my shaft if she likes too. Pretty much anything goes. I do love having the tip rubbed when cumming as is sooo sensitive. And thank you kindly What's your fav? X Ps fab pics on your profile too x" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I love lots of saliva & the tip peeled right back & flicked with the tongue. Am happy for a lady to use her teeth on my shaft if she likes too. Pretty much anything goes. I do love having the tip rubbed when cumming as is sooo sensitive. And thank you kindly x What's your fav? X Ps fab pics on your profile too x" | |||
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"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth'" "Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad. | |||
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"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth' "Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad. " Was a joke... Bone (boner) get it? Plus also it was a post for guys so if you don't want to play nice then play in another playpen | |||
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"I love lots of saliva & the tip peeled right back & flicked with the tongue. Am happy for a lady to use her teeth on my shaft if she likes too. Pretty much anything goes. I do love having the tip rubbed when cumming as is sooo sensitive. And thank you kindly What's your fav? X Ps fab pics on your profile too x ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Why the last sad face after the smileys x Ps having balls sucked by 2 ladies together as they pull away from each other is up there in my top 10 bjs lool xx | |||
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"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth' "Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad. " Not even mentioning the title! ![]() | |||
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"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth'" You could always ask the guy what he likes when you meet him. Lots of guys like different things. Some like it hard and rough. Some like it soft and sensual | |||
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"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth' "Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad. Was a joke... Bone (boner) get it? Plus also it was a post for guys so if you don't want to play nice then play in another playpen " Aww I'm sorry.....you didn't specify in your op for guys only. Crack on guys. Tell the lady what works for you. It's bound to help with her next. | |||
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"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth' "Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad. Not even mentioning the title! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth' "Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad. Was a joke... Bone (boner) get it? Plus also it was a post for guys so if you don't want to play nice then play in another playpen Aww I'm sorry.....you didn't specify in your op for guys only. Crack on guys. Tell the lady what works for you. It's bound to help with her next." It's in the thread title... And generally the guys are the ones with the dicks no? ![]() | |||
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"Get the teeth out, guys love it really ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Different uses of ur tongue. Round like u are licking an ice cream cone. Flat and soft for up and down the shaft. Firm tip for teasing the japs eye. Soft and flicking around the head. Swirling it round the cock as u slide ur mouth up and down its length. The better ur tongue technique the better performance for the fella. Not all men like tongue. All lick,no suck as a friend one said,does nothing for him. " That's for starters.. sucking is always the way to go. But apparently too many people suck up and down and up and down with nothing else to offer. Ur tongue is a vital tool in a good bj. I only go by my own experiences of course. But having regular blow and gos I know how to get someone off. | |||
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"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth' "Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad. Was a joke... Bone (boner) get it? Plus also it was a post for guys so if you don't want to play nice then play in another playpen Aww I'm sorry.....you didn't specify in your op for guys only. Crack on guys. Tell the lady what works for you. It's bound to help with her next. It's in the thread title... And generally the guys are the ones with the dicks no? ![]() Ok. Good luck with trying out the tips ![]() | |||
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"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth' "Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad. Was a joke... Bone (boner) get it? Plus also it was a post for guys so if you don't want to play nice then play in another playpen Aww I'm sorry.....you didn't specify in your op for guys only. Crack on guys. Tell the lady what works for you. It's bound to help with her next. It's in the thread title... And generally the guys are the ones with the dicks no? ![]() ![]() Thanks (and yet you're still here looking at the tips)... | |||
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"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth' "Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad. Was a joke... Bone (boner) get it? Plus also it was a post for guys so if you don't want to play nice then play in another playpen Aww I'm sorry.....you didn't specify in your op for guys only. Crack on guys. Tell the lady what works for you. It's bound to help with her next. It's in the thread title... And generally the guys are the ones with the dicks no? ![]() ![]() Lol just entertaining myself.....I'm not meeting and already married for 20+ years thanks ....think i know all i need to ![]() | |||
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"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth' "Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad. Was a joke... Bone (boner) get it? Plus also it was a post for guys so if you don't want to play nice then play in another playpen Aww I'm sorry.....you didn't specify in your op for guys only. Crack on guys. Tell the lady what works for you. It's bound to help with her next. It's in the thread title... And generally the guys are the ones with the dicks no? ![]() ![]() ![]() Awesome!! He must be a very special man | |||
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"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth' "Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad. Was a joke... Bone (boner) get it? Plus also it was a post for guys so if you don't want to play nice then play in another playpen Aww I'm sorry.....you didn't specify in your op for guys only. Crack on guys. Tell the lady what works for you. It's bound to help with her next. It's in the thread title... And generally the guys are the ones with the dicks no? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Some days I love the forums... ![]() ![]() Me too. It beats telly ![]() | |||
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"Some days I love the forums... ![]() ![]() ![]() Yea just a shame how snarly some posters get.. Strange | |||
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"Ok guys... So I've given a fair few blow jobs and try to please a variety of tastes (pardon the pun). I know every man is different but what makes a good BJ for you? Tip play? Taking it so deep you gag? Sucking balls? Wet and sloppy? Slow and sensual? Throw a girl a bone! (See what I did there? ![]() Practice makes perfect x | |||
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"Yes... As you were gents ... " After looking at your pics, alert & standing to attention like a meerkat ![]() | |||
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"Some days I love the forums... ![]() ![]() ![]() oh and yes I like a bj ![]() | |||
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"Yes... As you were gents ... After looking at your pics, alert & standing to attention like a meerkat ![]() "Standing to attention like a meerkat" ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Yes... As you were gents ... After looking at your pics, alert & standing to attention like a meerkat ![]() ![]() ![]() Might use that for a chat up line. Mine arnt working so nothing to lose ![]() | |||
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"Yes... As you were gents ... After looking at your pics, alert & standing to attention like a meerkat ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Ok guys... So I've given a fair few blow jobs and try to please a variety of tastes (pardon the pun). I know every man is different but what makes a good BJ for you? Tip play? Taking it so deep you gag? Sucking balls? Wet and sloppy? Slow and sensual? Throw a girl a bone! (See what I did there? ![]() Head straight for the balls and play about with the shaft however you like at that moment, its yours. Sucking balls ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Haha... Very funny!! So I'm sucking, licking, tip playing, gagging, vomming, ball sucking, giving puppy eyes, make up running, fingering ass and whistling Dixie! ![]() you sound like an old Pepsi advert ![]() | |||
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"Haha... Very funny!! So I'm sucking, licking, tip playing, gagging, vomming, ball sucking, giving puppy eyes, make up running, fingering ass and whistling Dixie! ![]() Oh bring on the puppy eyes ![]() | |||
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"Interesting cat fight, ladies. Seems they crop up quite often. Talk about a passing contest! Married swingers showing off now ..... is this the pinnacle of existence we are all aiming at? Back to the thread, although I have a technique, it depends on the vibe with the person I am with. I am also fascinated to see how my partner gives a bj, as he is a bi male and gives me great oral ... are these skills transferable? I think the thing that has been established is that everyone likes something a little different, so being with the same man for twenty years (albeit alsi being on a swinger site) doesn't mean jack shit" Yes everyone likes something different ....so no one can actually answer the op......apparently though i know nothing. | |||
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"Vom on your cock??!!!..you what lol...Yes, it is something I want t experience lol." errrr no you don't lol, it's not like gagging in porn, I can assure you of that! ![]() | |||
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"Remember not to take it literally.....don't BLOW, It isn't a trombone!" Ah but blowing cold air on the tip has produced interesting results, especially if you then switch to a hot wet mouth without warning. | |||
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"Different uses of ur tongue. Round like u are licking an ice cream cone. Flat and soft for up and down the shaft. Firm tip for teasing the japs eye. Soft and flicking around the head. Swirling it round the cock as u slide ur mouth up and down its length. The better ur tongue technique the better performance for the fella." This lady is a very good cock sucker! We haven't met, but as a bi man who has had very good feedback when sucking cock too, recognise those techniques and great advice. Keep the teeth away, use the tongue when it's in your mouth and keep varying the techniques. Start slowly, build up speed and slow down as you feel abd hear the stimulation increasing. It's not a race, the longer you keep him on the edge, the greater the amount of cum for your reward. Focus on pleasing him and keep thinking about how turned on he is, especially towards the end. I don't know if it's just me, but whenever I focus on thinking he's going to cum, that's when he does shoot his load. Also, make sure you're well hydrated and have a wet mouth throughout. There are many techniques, some preferred, some not, but a gentle strokng of the balls or a light pull can go down well. Some like s hard tug, but you'll be told if that's the case. All in all, enjoy yourself and make sure you're in a comfortable position. Try sucking from different angles, on your knees when he's standing, on the bed from the top or the feet or on your side. Whatever works best for you too, of course. ![]() | |||
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"I only do it one way...and I've never had any complaints ![]() Never had any complaints either but I know by my standards some haven't been as good because there isn't the same spark, or it doesn't ignite in the same way. I can say that now looking at when I met guys on my own, what I do with my OH is totally different, although he gets a massive kick seeing me with a cock down my throat ... and the feeling is mutual | |||
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"I only do it one way...and I've never had any complaints ![]() Oh could what i have said be actually true then. Fuck all to do with technique ??........ ![]() | |||
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"Vom on your cock??!!!..you what lol...Yes, it is something I want t experience lol. errrr no you don't lol, it's not like gagging in porn, I can assure you of that! ![]() I see yes and it wouldn't feel the same either I think ![]() | |||
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"I only do it one way...and I've never had any complaints ![]() ![]() I mean its very different with each and every man and even different with the same man .... but for me, its never the same as with my OH, never as good ...and he doesn't read the forums so I am not just saying that. He's watching match of the day waiting for me | |||
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"I only do it one way...and I've never had any complaints ![]() ![]() Yes..so that differs from what i said how? | |||
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"It's different for every man. However for me it depends on my mood. Sometime deep and in the throat other times soft sensual play of the head. Other times sloppy and soft. Now and again so hard she makes me bleed. I know I know. It doesn't help but you asked what we like lol. " Wow, bleed! Thats a new one | |||
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"I only do it one way...and I've never had any complaints ![]() ![]() I don't know, I didn't read it in so much detail .... I dont go back and track through the threads, just go with the last comment ... just maybe that being married twenty years doesn't make someone more or less of an expert because everyone is different | |||
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"I only do it one way...and I've never had any complaints ![]() ![]() So you didn't even read what i said just thought you'd assume? I never claimed to be an expert. I don't believe anyone can. That is my point. ![]() | |||
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"Haha... Very funny!! So I'm sucking, licking, tip playing, gagging, vomming, ball sucking, giving puppy eyes, make up running, fingering ass and whistling Dixie! ![]() Sounds perfect, But to make it special you just need to juggle with the remaining free hand. Lol | |||
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"Haha... Very funny!! So I'm sucking, licking, tip playing, gagging, vomming, ball sucking, giving puppy eyes, make up running, fingering ass and whistling Dixie! ![]() If you can do all that at he same time im sure there will be a que form in front of you ![]() | |||
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"I only do it one way...and I've never had any complaints ![]() ![]() ![]() In my experience, what works for one guy won't work for the next. I think you have to go for it & be prepared to change it to suit his desires. The only expertise that's required is a flexible approach ![]() | |||
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"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It." Iv just said pretty much the same thing to my Hubby Totally agree ![]() | |||
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"I only do it one way...and I've never had any complaints ![]() ![]() ![]() I read and respond then read the reply, I dont go back tracking through everyone's responses. I sped read since I do so much reading in my everyday life, I don't deeply analyse people's posts, its easy to read between the lines and get the message of the post. Plus, if you are anything like me, my opinion alters as I hear that of other people, that is the whole point of being n the forum for me, and its basic learning theory, we adapt or become more entrenched depending on what others say and what our brain does with their responses, on most things I do shift my thinking, so I would go back through to re analyse every post because the one thing I do assume is that that people's opinions change .... with some people it always seems a battle though | |||
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"It's different for every man. However for me it depends on my mood. Sometime deep and in the throat other times soft sensual play of the head. Other times sloppy and soft. Now and again so hard she makes me bleed. I know I know. It doesn't help but you asked what we like lol. Wow, bleed! Thats a new one " Only a little bit the feeling of it building harder and harder the longer it goes on. It's like mind blowing. ![]() | |||
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"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It." Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x | |||
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"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It. Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x" My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too ![]() | |||
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"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It. Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too ![]() hot ass I must say don't mind me saying | |||
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"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It. Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too ![]() You weren't the one having a go at the OP. Oh, I said MEN not women ![]() | |||
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"1: The gagging thing is mental. The sight and sound and situation is a turn on. But the sensation comes from the head (tongue, teeth, lips and your hand) 2: lots of lube (saliva, a drink or something else) 3: lots of hand action - wank him as much as, or more than you're using your mouth. 4: don't try and make him cum. Just enjoy. " ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It. Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too ![]() ![]() I know what you were saying....but it would follow from your statement that the need to look elsewhere (I wasn't aware the gender was important here) was because what was being offered wasn't working? Just seemed like an odd conclusion to draw to me. | |||
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"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It." This 100% i will try tips but whenever people ask how or whatever i always say im an 'in the moment person'. All depends what feels right at the time ![]() | |||
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"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It. Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too ![]() ![]() Good job I wasn't talking to you then Courtney isn't it. | |||
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"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It. Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x" ![]() | |||
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"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It. Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too ![]() ![]() I suppose it is. But I'm still saying that I don't get the point of your comment ![]() | |||
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"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It. Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too ![]() ![]() ![]() That's fine, I never asked you to. But, did you read the full thread, or are you just up arse like most on here? ![]() | |||
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"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It. Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I read the whole thread. I don't agree with Scarlet but I also don't get the relevance of your comment. But then you didn't ask me specifically so I suppose it's none of my business....just as Scarlet's conversation with the OP was none of yours, I suppose... | |||
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"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It. Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Maybe I shouldn't have commented, but you do get the same people, day in and out trying to belittle. I don't like it. | |||
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"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It. Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Some do yes thats the problem with words on a screen they can be taken the wrong way. I wasnt sure of your point either but to me it read as belittling. Like you meant well you cant be any good if he needs to have sex with men?? | |||
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"*gets naked and does the helicopter*" Tried that...broke my fucking nose! | |||
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"*gets naked and does the helicopter*" At the risk of sounding like an idiot...but as im ised to that. Whats the helicopter?? ![]() | |||
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"*gets naked and does the helicopter* At the risk of sounding like an idiot...but as im ised to that. Whats the helicopter?? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"*gets naked and does the helicopter* At the risk of sounding like an idiot...but as im ised to that. Whats the helicopter?? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() But what is it? | |||
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"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It. Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Zzzzz you again?!?. Commenting on almost everything I say! She said, she didn't need tips as being married 20 odd years must mean she's doing ok, yeh?. She also 'tried to' ridicule the OP. Well you seen my comment..... That's it really. | |||
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"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It. Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It. Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x" Does he? | |||
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"*gets naked and does the helicopter* At the risk of sounding like an idiot...but as im ised to that. Whats the helicopter?? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() In my experience...it's when a guy takes off his clothes and twists his hips so that his dick goes in circles like helicopter blades...but when I saw it there was foam going everywhere too ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It. Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes. | |||
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"*gets naked and does the helicopter* At the risk of sounding like an idiot...but as im ised to that. Whats the helicopter?? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Oh god i think i may have to google it ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It. Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x Does he?" I've been married for 18 years and will not profess to doing it perfectly for my man. The OP was only asking. | |||
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"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It. Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x Does he? I've been married for 18 years and will not profess to doing it perfectly for my man. The OP was only asking. " So are you saying that if a wife is shit at oral it'll turn a man to other men? Is that how low you value somebody's sexuality? | |||
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