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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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when having fun when does no mean no?
With me its when I say No
With my sexual partner at the time (depends what situation is) I agree a safe word if play becomes Dom/sub.
What's your definitions? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stop works for me. He stops. If I say my breast hurts,because I had an op on it last year that he knows about,he leaves it alone. If I say wait,during anal,he stops and waits for me to say go again. A pat on the head when he's biting lets him know that's enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never found myself in a situation yet where no didn't mean no. So no role plays or anything like that. If I did I'd make sure there was an easily rememberable safe word and adhere to it.
Although who am I kidding, I'm never going to find myself in a role play situation like that  |
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It's true No mostly does and should mean No. For me, while a definite no would indeed mean no, I do like to be pushed past any initial reluctance to participate in something I may want to do, but feel hesitant about.
Thankfully my partner knows me and knows when to push. Mostly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No means no in any circumstance.
In sub/dom play the use of safe words should be observered as they are usually only used when the person has reached their limit and or boundary. The safe word should stop play immediately, whether to discuss the boundary or play before resuming or to stop fully.
But no means no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No means no!! No dressing it up that it's role play or making excuses. It's one of the basic rules of life. If you can't understand that then there are places for you to go - prison. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when having fun when does no mean no?
With me its when I say No
With my sexual partner at the time (depends what situation is) I agree a safe word if play becomes Dom/sub.
What's your definitions?"
It's always good to read the forum posts. No means no. I wouldn't meet up with you... |
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