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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion 
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion."
Female what? Female dogs? Female flowers? Female plumbing couplings?
Assuming you mean women - plenty of women enjoy anal. Plenty of people don't. If you want to know if your partner enjoys anal you should ask them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion.
Female what? Female dogs? Female flowers? Female plumbing couplings?
Assuming you mean women - plenty of women enjoy anal. Plenty of people don't. If you want to know if your partner enjoys anal you should ask them."
As this site covers homo sapiens aka humans and neither dogs or flowers I think the question was rather obvious,your negativity saddens me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion.
Female what? Female dogs? Female flowers? Female plumbing couplings?
Assuming you mean women - plenty of women enjoy anal. Plenty of people don't. If you want to know if your partner enjoys anal you should ask them.
As this site covers homo sapiens aka humans and neither dogs or flowers I think the question was rather obvious,your negativity saddens me. "
No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women. |
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I love it when in the right mood. It actually makes me cum quicker than vaginally but it's a different kind of orgasm. Hard to explain.
There have definitely been times when my man has wanted to 'go there' and I've not been as keen but he's 'gone there' anyway so yes, I do sometimes do it to please him as I know he loves my arse!!!
Once he's 'in there' I wonder why I wasn't keen  |
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion.
Female what? Female dogs? Female flowers? Female plumbing couplings?
Assuming you mean women - plenty of women enjoy anal. Plenty of people don't. If you want to know if your partner enjoys anal you should ask them.
As this site covers homo sapiens aka humans and neither dogs or flowers I think the question was rather obvious,your negativity saddens me.
No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion.
Female what? Female dogs? Female flowers? Female plumbing couplings?
Assuming you mean women - plenty of women enjoy anal. Plenty of people don't. If you want to know if your partner enjoys anal you should ask them.
As this site covers homo sapiens aka humans and neither dogs or flowers I think the question was rather obvious,your negativity saddens me.
No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women."
Are you saying he should have addressed the question to women only as opposed to females only? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women."
The subject matter is Female Anal Sex as opposed to Male Anal Sex. Therefore the operative word is "Female" and as such is the proper terminology. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women.
The subject matter is Female Anal Sex as opposed to Male Anal Sex. Therefore the operative word is "Female" and as such is the proper terminology."
The subject may well be about human female male sex, but the subject line is "Females and anal sex". It's generally considered quite dehumanising and objectifying to refer to women as females. That's all I was saying. You may or may not choose to modify your language out of politeness to women in the future - that's your call.
Also 'female anal sex' could refer to 'female tiger anal sex' or 'female penguin anal sex'. So actually, no, it's no the proper terminology. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs loves it, it's me that's really not fussed for it, I do it for her pleasure as I get nothing extra from it at all, and could quite happily live without it. So yes there are women that do genuinely enjoy it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Also 'female anal sex' could refer to 'female tiger anal sex' or 'female penguin anal sex'. So actually, no, it's no the proper terminology."
Sigh, you can lead a horse to water..... |
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No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women.
The subject matter is Female Anal Sex as opposed to Male Anal Sex. Therefore the operative word is "Female" and as such is the proper terminology.
The subject may well be about human female male sex, but the subject line is "Females and anal sex". It's generally considered quite dehumanising and objectifying to refer to women as females. That's all I was saying. You may or may not choose to modify your language out of politeness to women in the future - that's your call.
Also 'female anal sex' could refer to 'female tiger anal sex' or 'female penguin anal sex'. So actually, no, it's no the proper terminology."
Just sounds like your looking for an argument here! Quite obvious what the op was referring to in his post.... If he was referring to 'tiger/penguin anal sex' I'm sure the heading would have said that! Negativity on these boards are spoiling this site and putting people off posting issues they'd like to learn more from.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Just sounds like your looking for an argument here! Quite obvious what the op was referring to in his post.... If he was referring to 'tiger/penguin anal sex' I'm sure the heading would have said that! Negativity on these boards are spoiling this site and putting people off posting issues they'd like to learn more from.
Rant over! "
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No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women.
The subject matter is Female Anal Sex as opposed to Male Anal Sex. Therefore the operative word is "Female" and as such is the proper terminology.
The subject may well be about human female male sex, but the subject line is "Females and anal sex". It's generally considered quite dehumanising and objectifying to refer to women as females. That's all I was saying. You may or may not choose to modify your language out of politeness to women in the future - that's your call.
Also 'female anal sex' could refer to 'female tiger anal sex' or 'female penguin anal sex'. So actually, no, it's no the proper terminology.
Just sounds like your looking for an argument here! Quite obvious what the op was referring to in his post.... If he was referring to 'tiger/penguin anal sex' I'm sure the heading would have said that! Negativity on these boards are spoiling this site and putting people off posting issues they'd like to learn more from.
Rant over! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion."
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By (user no longer on site)
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No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women.
The subject matter is Female Anal Sex as opposed to Male Anal Sex. Therefore the operative word is "Female" and as such is the proper terminology.
The subject may well be about human female male sex, but the subject line is "Females and anal sex". It's generally considered quite dehumanising and objectifying to refer to women as females. That's all I was saying. You may or may not choose to modify your language out of politeness to women in the future - that's your call.
Also 'female anal sex' could refer to 'female tiger anal sex' or 'female penguin anal sex'. So actually, no, it's no the proper terminology.
Just sounds like your looking for an argument here! Quite obvious what the op was referring to in his post.... If he was referring to 'tiger/penguin anal sex' I'm sure the heading would have said that! Negativity on these boards are spoiling this site and putting people off posting issues they'd like to learn more from.
Rant over! "
I agree with wasp- being referred to as a female Is dehumanising/ objectifying.
Being referred to as a woman is much more pleasant.
And I love anal sex with a man not a male! |
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My ex enjoyed anal so much, she would love it in her arse........ Took me by surprise when she told me how much she enjoyed it the very first time.
But I'm sure there is just as many that hate the thought of it and don't like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion.
Female what? Female dogs? Female flowers? Female plumbing couplings?
Assuming you mean women - plenty of women enjoy anal. Plenty of people don't. If you want to know if your partner enjoys anal you should ask them.
As this site covers homo sapiens aka humans and neither dogs or flowers I think the question was rather obvious,your negativity saddens me.
No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women."
I would have thought it would been better for op to receive anal first so he would know what it was like in person
It's one of the few things that men and women can experience together equally |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion.
Female what? Female dogs? Female flowers? Female plumbing couplings?
Assuming you mean women - plenty of women enjoy anal. Plenty of people don't. If you want to know if your partner enjoys anal you should ask them.
As this site covers homo sapiens aka humans and neither dogs or flowers I think the question was rather obvious,your negativity saddens me.
No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women."
I'm of the opinion that everyone is entitled to an option and a voice. I am an advocate of a polite and well mannered correction to a preferred way of addressing or refering to a group or specific individuals. However. Every time I see your username and sideways profile photo I know it's going to be a sharp tongued, over the top, context twisting, over elaboration of a problem that didn't exist until you mentioned it. It's so tiring |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Horses for courses i think. I would never presume to tamper with a girls sheriffs badge unless invited and that doesnt happen often. I did however meet a girl a while back and after a lengthy deep penetration doggy session,she reached for some lube,oiled up her badge and insisted that i fuck her anally. She clearly enjoyed it a lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dislike anal sex I just don't find it comfortable nor do I like the sensation.
To answer your question OP I have tried this for the pleasure of my husband as he loves it. I've tried a few times but it's just not for me and he absolutely understands this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion."
Tried it, loved it, tried it again. Would I do it again? Hell yes !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion."
Why do you think you would get a skewed opinion from men? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I would have thought it would been better for op to receive anal first so he would know what it was like in person
It's one of the few things that men and women can experience together equally "
Thanks for your response, your assumption is incorrect as you would know had you read my profile.
I have and I think the sensations would be somewhat different. Personally I have yet to achieve an orgasm and doubt that I will do to the same extent that some of the ladies have posted here. |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion."
Of course the majority are very partial to it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do you think you would get a skewed opinion from men?
based simply on the fact that men are designed to penetrate."
And women to be penetrated? That seems an odd view, especially from a man with your desires. Many men like to be penetrated. |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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Why do you think you would get a skewed opinion from men?
based simply on the fact that men are designed to penetrate.
And women to be penetrated? That seems an odd view, especially from a man with your desires. Many men like to be penetrated."
Indeed, I've recently started experimenting with it and am developing quite a penchant for this activity  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dee loves taking and giving  "
I most certainly do
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I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them."
I sincerely hope that no-one does something they don't want to just to please someone else, especially sexually. Doing this means you do not value your own feelings and place a higher value on someone else's.
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"I sincerely hope that no-one does something they don't want to just to please someone else, especially sexually. Doing this means you do not value your own feelings and place a higher value on someone else's.
Her"
This. I'm quite insistent with my lovers that they don't do anything they don't like just to please me. Even though I can be dominant I get off on my partner getting off more than anything. |
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I love it. I love him cumming in there all hot and deep. I love the throb of it. I love the feeling of him buried in there and going at my pace. I control the speed, depth and rhythm of it. I love it doggy style and also being on top.
I sometimes wear a butt plug during the day and giving him a little glimpse around the house so he knows he's in for a good time later. And I'm all open and ready.
And no risk of pregnancy! That's the best part... Hahaha!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I absolutely love anal! We do it nearly everytime we have sex at my insistence!!
Oh, and to the OP, there was absolutely nothing wrong with the way you worded your post and question! I'm a FEMALE and I fully understood exactly what you were asking as did everyone else who read your post!!! There's enough misery happening around the world as it is, I wish certain individuals wouldn't keep letting some of it leak into these forums!!! "
Thank you for your reply.
I always feel sad when people, who don't have an opinion, find release in attacking the OP or a subsequent poster without knowing one iota about them as a person
So it is refreshing to find people like yourself and others who actually read the question and join in to make a discussion about a subject.
After all we are all here for the same thing, to hook up.
Once again, thanks
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I absolutely love anal! We do it nearly everytime we have sex at my insistence!!
Oh, and to the OP, there was absolutely nothing wrong with the way you worded your post and question! I'm a FEMALE and I fully understood exactly what you were asking as did everyone else who read your post!!! There's enough misery happening around the world as it is, I wish certain individuals wouldn't keep letting some of it leak into these forums!!!
Thank you for your reply.
I always feel sad when people, who don't have an opinion, find release in attacking the OP or a subsequent poster without knowing one iota about them as a person
So it is refreshing to find people like yourself and others who actually read the question and join in to make a discussion about a subject.
After all we are all here for the same thing, to hook up.
Once again, thanks
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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I don't have a male partner so I don't need to please anyone
It is on my list and I have done it a few times but will now only with someone I have known for a while. I find that it hurts if done in a hurry
When I want it, then I enjoy it. And I want it once in a while, sometimes years apart |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love anal and using a vibe at the same time as being fucked makes me cum really hard!
As for woman vs female - I'm not sure it's impolite to say female.  |
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OP, I didn't even acknowledge the 'female' 'woman' issue because it is not an issue. The question was a good one.
Since when is being called female derogatory?
If you were asking about animal analysis sex that would be odd.
We're all grown ups here. We knew what you meant. |
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"Definitely - if I'm in the right mood I love it. I know it's not to please him as he really dislikes it and will only do it to please me! "
He's just playing it ultra cool... A lesson to all the lads out there:
Her: let's do anal?
Him: nah, maybe later
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By *azz26Woman
over a year ago
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As previous posters have indicated it is a marmite situation - some love some hate. Personally it is a no for me. I have had anal sex in the past for the sake of it (mainly to shut up my partners at the time). But it is a huge NO NO for me now and is just an exit not entrance. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP, I didn't even acknowledge the 'female' 'woman' issue because it is not an issue. The question was a good one.
Since when is being called female derogatory?
If you were asking about animal analysis sex that would be odd.
We're all grown ups here. We knew what you meant."
Thanks.
I have always admired Stephen Fry and find his quote about being offended quite fitting for all naysayers. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well, this is the male half of the couple - and I am not allowed an opinion so I will sulk off elsewhere."
You have every right to have an opinion don't sulk off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion.
Female what? Female dogs? Female flowers? Female plumbing couplings?
Assuming you mean women - plenty of women enjoy anal. Plenty of people don't. If you want to know if your partner enjoys anal you should ask them.
As this site covers homo sapiens aka humans and neither dogs or flowers I think the question was rather obvious,your negativity saddens me.
No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women.
I'm of the opinion that everyone is entitled to an option and a voice. I am an advocate of a polite and well mannered correction to a preferred way of addressing or refering to a group or specific individuals. However. Every time I see your username and sideways profile photo I know it's going to be a sharp tongued, over the top, context twisting, over elaboration of a problem that didn't exist until you mentioned it. It's so tiring"
I agree! Unnecessary and condescending comments.
And as a FEMALE I have no issue with being referred to as such.
I also enjoy anal sex, but only when I'm 'prepared' for it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In my time I have met quite a few "females" who have been interested in anal but only one who enjoyed the physical sensation.
The others liked it for various reasons - the reaction from me when offered, because they like the idea of being naughty, because they wanted to try something new
As for wasp hunters message I wouldn't get too fussed by it. This person takes their self appointed role as Forums Censor and PC instructor a bit too seriously sometimes
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion.
Female what? Female dogs? Female flowers? Female plumbing couplings?
Assuming you mean women - plenty of women enjoy anal. Plenty of people don't. If you want to know if your partner enjoys anal you should ask them.
As this site covers homo sapiens aka humans and neither dogs or flowers I think the question was rather obvious,your negativity saddens me.
No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women.
I'm of the opinion that everyone is entitled to an option and a voice. I am an advocate of a polite and well mannered correction to a preferred way of addressing or refering to a group or specific individuals. However. Every time I see your username and sideways profile photo I know it's going to be a sharp tongued, over the top, context twisting, over elaboration of a problem that didn't exist until you mentioned it. It's so tiring
I agree! Unnecessary and condescending comments.
And as a FEMALE I have no issue with being referred to as such.
I also enjoy anal sex, but only when I'm 'prepared' for it!"
I hope that you don't mind me introducing a contrary feedback. I didn't find the comments at all condescending. I found them refreshing. There is nothing wrong about being female or male or anything else. I like debate and think introducing a different point of view can only be a good thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I hope that you don't mind me introducing a contrary feedback. I didn't find the comments at all condescending. I found them refreshing. There is nothing wrong about being female or male or anything else. I like debate and think introducing a different point of view can only be a good thing."
Cool, respectful debate is healthy and having a different point of view is what makes the human world go round. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In my time I have met quite a few "females" who have been interested in anal but only one who enjoyed the physical sensation.
The others liked it for various reasons - the reaction from me when offered, because they like the idea of being naughty, because they wanted to try something new
As for wasp hunters message I wouldn't get too fussed by it. This person takes their self appointed role as Forums Censor and PC instructor a bit too seriously sometimes
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Oh no, her message didn't bother me I'm too old a cat to be bothered by a kitten. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love anal and wouldn't do it for someone else's pleasure although there are some times when I'm not 'in the mood' for it but when I am I absolutely love it |
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Jayne has tried it several times, and apart from the first time (neither of us had done it before, and she was rather insistent after a night out) she enjoyed it, but she doesn't do it with anyone else, and apparently mine is rather girthy, so she has given up lol  |
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No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women.
The subject matter is Female Anal Sex as opposed to Male Anal Sex. Therefore the operative word is "Female" and as such is the proper terminology.
The subject may well be about human female male sex, but the subject line is "Females and anal sex". It's generally considered quite dehumanising and objectifying to refer to women as females. That's all I was saying. You may or may not choose to modify your language out of politeness to women in the future - that's your call.
Also 'female anal sex' could refer to 'female tiger anal sex' or 'female penguin anal sex'. So actually, no, it's no the proper terminology.
Just sounds like your looking for an argument here! Quite obvious what the op was referring to in his post.... If he was referring to 'tiger/penguin anal sex' I'm sure the heading would have said that! Negativity on these boards are spoiling this site and putting people off posting issues they'd like to learn more from.
Rant over! "
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No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women.
The subject matter is Female Anal Sex as opposed to Male Anal Sex. Therefore the operative word is "Female" and as such is the proper terminology.
The subject may well be about human female male sex, but the subject line is "Females and anal sex". It's generally considered quite dehumanising and objectifying to refer to women as females. That's all I was saying. You may or may not choose to modify your language out of politeness to women in the future - that's your call.
Also 'female anal sex' could refer to 'female tiger anal sex' or 'female penguin anal sex'. So actually, no, it's no the proper terminology."
Do you get off on the comments you make? Most of them make no sense at all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women.
The subject matter is Female Anal Sex as opposed to Male Anal Sex. Therefore the operative word is "Female" and as such is the proper terminology.
The subject may well be about human female male sex, but the subject line is "Females and anal sex". It's generally considered quite dehumanising and objectifying to refer to women as females. That's all I was saying. You may or may not choose to modify your language out of politeness to women in the future - that's your call.
Also 'female anal sex' could refer to 'female tiger anal sex' or 'female penguin anal sex'. So actually, no, it's no the proper terminology.
Do you get off on the comments you make? Most of them make no sense at all"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Interesting responses so far, I would have wagered that females found it a chore more than an orgasmic experience."
Why? Is that your experience? I wouldn't do anything I don't enjoy.
Why do you assume men have a skewed opinion, do you think they'd be happy doing it if their partners hated it???
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"I absolutely love anal! We do it nearly everytime we have sex at my insistence!!
Oh, and to the OP, there was absolutely nothing wrong with the way you worded your post and question! I'm a FEMALE and I fully understood exactly what you were asking as did everyone else who read your post!!! There's enough misery happening around the world as it is, I wish certain individuals wouldn't keep letting some of it leak into these forums!!! "
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By *aycee70Couple
over a year ago
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion.
Female what? Female dogs? Female flowers? Female plumbing couplings?
Assuming you mean women - plenty of women enjoy anal. Plenty of people don't. If you want to know if your partner enjoys anal you should ask them.
As this site covers homo sapiens aka humans and neither dogs or flowers I think the question was rather obvious,your negativity saddens me. "
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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I am going to stick my neck out here
Yes, we all knew that the reference to "female", meant woman. And personally, I couldn't care less how I am described
wasp_hunter was merely making the point that "woman" or "women" might be the appropriate term
"I saw a woman walk towards the station" as opposed to "I saw a female walk towards the station". The latter is read out by Police Constables from their notebooks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women.
The subject matter is Female Anal Sex as opposed to Male Anal Sex. Therefore the operative word is "Female" and as such is the proper terminology.
The subject may well be about human female male sex, but the subject line is "Females and anal sex". It's generally considered quite dehumanising and objectifying to refer to women as females. That's all I was saying. You may or may not choose to modify your language out of politeness to women in the future - that's your call.
Also 'female anal sex' could refer to 'female tiger anal sex' or 'female penguin anal sex'. So actually, no, it's no the proper terminology."
Well, it's unlikely to be the latter since birds don't have anuses per se.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" The latter is read out by Police Constables from their notebooks "
Only in TV shows. Police Officers Refresh their memories, they don't read out verbatim.
Might they also say, "I saw two people, one male and one female. I heard the female say that there was a thread about about anal sex" !! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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" The latter is read out by Police Constables from their notebooks
Only in TV shows. Police Officers Refresh their memories, they don't read out verbatim.
Might they also say, "I saw two people, one male and one female. I heard the female say that there was a thread about about anal sex" !!"
Now that would make the cop shows a whole lot more interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have regular partner that loves it, but I'm currently feeling guilty after she revealed that she takes painkillers afterwards as she is sore the day after.
Is this soreness normal and should I feel guilty? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Dear God...these 'women' must be so uptight their arse wouldn't take it! I'm 7yrs happily single....I absolutely adore all things anal...sex; toys; giving and receiving. Forget dry; forget water based lubes....OIL! Multiple stimulation with anal is mind-blowing...go ahead and try it girls..try it for YOU...and boys..you might enjoy it too...look up prostate massage if you haven't already...Ive meet a number of straight men and have enjoyed mutual anal pleasure....so erotic!! Stop the John and Jane debate and get out there and give it a go. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"O dear, we are now going to have to change the lettering of 3somes and moresomes , mwm , mmwmm , mmmmmmw wmw lol, wouldnt want to dehumanise anyone , what a pile o pish , again "
mmmmmmw Is a gangbang |
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"O dear, we are now going to have to change the lettering of 3somes and moresomes , mwm , mmwmm , mmmmmmw wmw lol, wouldnt want to dehumanise anyone , what a pile o pish , again
mmmmmmw Is a gangbang "
Is it a gang tho, or a collective of people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love anal,call me female,I'm not male. I like being a feminine female,unlike some. Pisses me off when someone tries to speak on my behalf. "
Yep, gets on my female tits too! |
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I adore a good anal session. From the feeling as the cock presses against my sphincter to the slow stretch to finally taking it all in and being pounded hard. I even love having an enema to prepare for anal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I swore i would never try anal. Resisted it for years then met my soul mate FB and he coaxed me, slowly and carefully, into it. Now i love it!!!!
I am selective who I let in there but I have amazing orgasms and squirt from it. I am so happy i tried it!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion.
Female what? Female dogs? Female flowers? Female plumbing couplings?
Assuming you mean women - plenty of women enjoy anal. Plenty of people don't. If you want to know if your partner enjoys anal you should ask them.
As this site covers homo sapiens aka humans and neither dogs or flowers I think the question was rather obvious,your negativity saddens me. "
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I have only ever allowed Mr H there but I do enjoy it, not in an orgasmic way but in that it is so intimate to allow someone in there and for someone to want to as well.
D (her) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women.
The subject matter is Female Anal Sex as opposed to Male Anal Sex. Therefore the operative word is "Female" and as such is the proper terminology.
The subject may well be about human female male sex, but the subject line is "Females and anal sex". It's generally considered quite dehumanising and objectifying to refer to women as females. That's all I was saying. You may or may not choose to modify your language out of politeness to women in the future - that's your call.
Also 'female anal sex' could refer to 'female tiger anal sex' or 'female penguin anal sex'. So actually, no, it's no the proper terminology."
'Generally considered'
By whom I wonder? Because after 45 years on this earth spending most days reading The Guardian and Independent newspapers which i'm sure most will agree are fairly left leaning publications. I have never once heard the word 'Female' described as dehumanising or in any other way derogatory to women until today.
So I dispute your claim of 'Generally considered' and would suggest that view is held by a minority rather than a general majority! |
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No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women.
The subject matter is Female Anal Sex as opposed to Male Anal Sex. Therefore the operative word is "Female" and as such is the proper terminology.
The subject may well be about human female male sex, but the subject line is "Females and anal sex". It's generally considered quite dehumanising and objectifying to refer to women as females. That's all I was saying. You may or may not choose to modify your language out of politeness to women in the future - that's your call.
Also 'female anal sex' could refer to 'female tiger anal sex' or 'female penguin anal sex'. So actually, no, it's no the proper terminology.
Just sounds like your looking for an argument here! Quite obvious what the op was referring to in his post.... If he was referring to 'tiger/penguin anal sex' I'm sure the heading would have said that! Negativity on these boards are spoiling this site and putting people off posting issues they'd like to learn more from.
Rant over! "
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion."
J is the one who usually instigates it and as I love her how can I say no lol
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By *adysilkCouple
over a year ago
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No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women.
The subject matter is Female Anal Sex as opposed to Male Anal Sex. Therefore the operative word is "Female" and as such is the proper terminology.
The subject may well be about human female male sex, but the subject line is "Females and anal sex". It's generally considered quite dehumanising and objectifying to refer to women as females. That's all I was saying. You may or may not choose to modify your language out of politeness to women in the future - that's your call.
Also 'female anal sex' could refer to 'female tiger anal sex' or 'female penguin anal sex'. So actually, no, it's no the proper terminology.
Just sounds like your looking for an argument here! Quite obvious what the op was referring to in his post.... If he was referring to 'tiger/penguin anal sex' I'm sure the heading would have said that! Negativity on these boards are spoiling this site and putting people off posting issues they'd like to learn more from.
Rant over! "
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion.
Female what? Female dogs? Female flowers? Female plumbing couplings?
Assuming you mean women - plenty of women enjoy anal. Plenty of people don't. If you want to know if your partner enjoys anal you should ask them.
As this site covers homo sapiens aka humans and neither dogs or flowers I think the question was rather obvious,your negativity saddens me.
No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women."
I agree with him , you need a chill pill , your reply's are always so high and mighty and arsey from the start , calm down , relax be just a nice person , that's if you can |
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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion.
Female what? Female dogs? Female flowers? Female plumbing couplings?
Assuming you mean women - plenty of women enjoy anal. Plenty of people don't. If you want to know if your partner enjoys anal you should ask them.
As this site covers homo sapiens aka humans and neither dogs or flowers I think the question was rather obvious,your negativity saddens me.
No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women.
I'm of the opinion that everyone is entitled to an option and a voice. I am an advocate of a polite and well mannered correction to a preferred way of addressing or refering to a group or specific individuals. However. Every time I see your username and sideways profile photo I know it's going to be a sharp tongued, over the top, context twisting, over elaboration of a problem that didn't exist until you mentioned it. It's so tiring"
I've been thinking this too over the 3-4 months or so that I've been perusing (and very occasionally contributing to) the forums. It's something, I have to say, that has stood out to me quite a bit in contrast to the general tone, manner and style of the more regular contributors here. I thought I might have been very much in the minority thinking this, but after reading through this post and comments, it seems not. I also find it comes across as quite negative - much of it unnecessary in my opinion. As the commenter above says, it's one thing to voice an opinion and contribute to a discussion, including polite 'correction' but quite another to seemingly go looking for an argument via sanctimonious, self-righteous political correctness.
On a more positive note, and back to the point of the post, OP you might be surprised to hear that giving anal doesn't really do much for me. However I love to give pleasure, so if the women I'm with wants it, I'm more than happy to do it. Very few I've met have ever wanted that though and I always say to her if she wants it just ask and then I leave it up to her to ask. I do find that I need to be really rock hard to do it though, which I sometimes struggle a bit with just recently, so it (gulp) might not always be possible anyway! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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There are so many different personalities on the forum. Some I like very much, some I do not like at all and some who I tolerate one day and like another
But what really saddens me is the pack mentality  |
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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago
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Also 'female anal sex' could refer to 'female tiger anal sex' or 'female penguin anal sex'. So actually, no, it's no the proper terminology.
Sigh, you can lead a horse to water....."
You're wasting your breath,he's always the same,pedantic,negative and generally unpleasant. |
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Sigh, you can lead a horse to water.....
You're wasting your breath,he's always the same,pedantic,negative and generally unpleasant."
Thanks, I can only agree, mayb once he hooks up on here . . . . . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion.
Female what? Female dogs? Female flowers? Female plumbing couplings?
Assuming you mean women - plenty of women enjoy anal. Plenty of people don't. If you want to know if your partner enjoys anal you should ask them.
As this site covers homo sapiens aka humans and neither dogs or flowers I think the question was rather obvious,your negativity saddens me.
No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women."
Yeah, really gets my goat when people refer to me as a male... |
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No negativity - just encouraging a more polite way to refer to women.
The subject matter is Female Anal Sex as opposed to Male Anal Sex. Therefore the operative word is "Female" and as such is the proper terminology.
The subject may well be about human female male sex, but the subject line is "Females and anal sex". It's generally considered quite dehumanising and objectifying to refer to women as females. That's all I was saying. You may or may not choose to modify your language out of politeness to women in the future - that's your call.
Also 'female anal sex' could refer to 'female tiger anal sex' or 'female penguin anal sex'. So actually, no, it's no the proper terminology.
Just sounds like your looking for an argument here! Quite obvious what the op was referring to in his post.... If he was referring to 'tiger/penguin anal sex' I'm sure the heading would have said that! Negativity on these boards are spoiling this site and putting people off posting issues they'd like to learn more from.
Rant over!
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Ive read that wasps are very annoying creatures with a nasty sting.
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"I love it. I love him cumming in there all hot and deep. I love the throb of it. I love the feeling of him buried in there and going at my pace. I control the speed, depth and rhythm of it. I love it doggy style and also being on top.
I sometimes wear a butt plug during the day and giving him a little glimpse around the house so he knows he's in for a good time later. And I'm all open and ready.
And no risk of pregnancy! That's the best part... Hahaha!!"
Wow very detailed and reading that I'm now excited thanks hun x |
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"This is aimed at females really as males will have a skewed opinion
I wonder if females who receive anal actually enjoy it and get off on it or if they just do it to please their male partners and it does nothing for them.
Hopefully some will find this an interesting topic to share their opinion."
I was introduced to is in my early 30's by my ex husband...
have to say it was the only worthwhile thing he ever gave me as these days I can't get enough of it |
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I enjoy anal play and anal sex when I'm in the mood. Anal sex is very intense and always makes me gush or squirt.
I would hope nobody did any sexual act that they didn't want to do, particularly anal play which can be painful if not properly prepared.
As for the women / female thing. When used in this context female just seems strangely formal, women or ladies just comes across as more normal to me
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