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"It's not cheating, it's being kind. People only swing because their partner is shit at sex. Letting them fuck someone is else is the decent thing to do. "This should be written into the marriage vows  | |||
"It's not cheating, it's being kind. People only swing because their partner is shit at sex. Letting them fuck someone is else is the decent thing to do.
This should be written into the marriage vows "Oh and ps it's me who's shit at sex  | |||
"Do you think it's cheating if you swing with your partner??" No! To cheat at something means you're acting dishonestly. If you're doing this with a partner together or with permission, it's not being dishonest. | |||
"It's not cheating, it's being kind. People only swing because their partner is shit at sex. Letting them fuck someone is else is the decent thing to do. "Have you been talking with my wife again?  | |||
"It's not cheating, it's being kind. People only swing because their partner is shit at sex. Letting them fuck someone is else is the decent thing to do.
This should be written into the marriage vows
Oh and ps it's me who's shit at sex "You're proper decent you are. Your hubby is lucky you're so kind. | |||
"No. I think cheating is doing something the other person doesn't know about. If you're cheating at cards the other players don't know about it." This, if someone is on here without their partners knowledge and is meeting, or they have sex with someone without their knowledge or consent then that is cheating. Swinging together is not cheating. | |||
"It's not cheating, it's being kind. People only swing because their partner is shit at sex. Letting them fuck someone is else is the decent thing to do.
This should be written into the marriage vows
Oh and ps it's me who's shit at sex
You're proper decent you are. Your hubby is lucky you're so kind. "Well a woman needs to know her limitations  | |||
"It's not cheating, it's being kind. People only swing because their partner is shit at sex. Letting them fuck someone is else is the decent thing to do.
This should be written into the marriage vows "If I was getting married, it would be  | |||
"Do you think it's cheating if you swing with your partner??" Only if one of your partners doesn't know. | |||
"Do you think it's cheating if you swing with your partner??" People outside the scene may think it is , but we certainly don't | |||
"No Waits for the bible quotes regarding forsaking all others from the easily upset "I think it's cheating. I think swingers are really, really defensive about it. Many can't bear to admit they are cheating. Does stealing something right in front of someone's eyes mean you aren't stealing? No, it just means you don't mind getting caught. You are being blatant. I am not easily upset, defensive or a bible basher. I just have a grip on reality. Apart front the small group of people who swing, everyone else's definition in society is very, very different. Many, many marriages survive and indeed thrive without swinging .... with love and trust, honesty and discussion. Swingers dont have the monopoly on this. Sits back and waits for the high and mighty holier than thou .... who are you really kidding? | |||
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"No Waits for the bible quotes regarding forsaking all others from the easily upset
I think it's cheating. I think swingers are really, really defensive about it. Many can't bear to admit they are cheating. Does stealing something right in front of someone's eyes mean you aren't stealing? No, it just means you don't mind getting caught. You are being blatant. I am not easily upset, defensive or a bible basher. I just have a grip on reality. Apart front the small group of people who swing, everyone else's definition in society is very, very different. Many, many marriages survive and indeed thrive without swinging .... with love and trust, honesty and discussion. Swingers dont have the monopoly on this. Sits back and waits for the high and mighty holier than thou .... who are you really kidding?"I'm none of the things you say and I'm not defensive about swinging either. I never justify what we do its simply nobody else's business. If people see what we do as cheating I'd like to know exactly what or who they think we're cheating of what.  | |||
"I think swinging is healthy for some couples as it might help to stop the partner to cheat." | |||
"No Waits for the bible quotes regarding forsaking all others from the easily upset
I think it's cheating. I think swingers are really, really defensive about it. Many can't bear to admit they are cheating. Does stealing something right in front of someone's eyes mean you aren't stealing? No, it just means you don't mind getting caught. You are being blatant. I am not easily upset, defensive or a bible basher. I just have a grip on reality. Apart front the small group of people who swing, everyone else's definition in society is very, very different. Many, many marriages survive and indeed thrive without swinging .... with love and trust, honesty and discussion. Swingers dont have the monopoly on this. Sits back and waits for the high and mighty holier than thou .... who are you really kidding?
I'm none of the things you say and I'm not defensive about swinging either. I never justify what we do its simply nobody else's business.
If people see what we do as cheating I'd like to know exactly what or who they think we're cheating of what. "Dictionary decision above says it all, really. I don't give my opinion on this, just the facts. | |||
"No Waits for the bible quotes regarding forsaking all others from the easily upset
I think it's cheating. I think swingers are really, really defensive about it. Many can't bear to admit they are cheating. Does stealing something right in front of someone's eyes mean you aren't stealing? No, it just means you don't mind getting caught. You are being blatant. I am not easily upset, defensive or a bible basher. I just have a grip on reality. Apart front the small group of people who swing, everyone else's definition in society is very, very different. Many, many marriages survive and indeed thrive without swinging .... with love and trust, honesty and discussion. Swingers dont have the monopoly on this. Sits back and waits for the high and mighty holier than thou .... who are you really kidding?"Yay | |||
"No Waits for the bible quotes regarding forsaking all others from the easily upset
I think it's cheating. I think swingers are really, really defensive about it. Many can't bear to admit they are cheating. Does stealing something right in front of someone's eyes mean you aren't stealing? No, it just means you don't mind getting caught. You are being blatant. I am not easily upset, defensive or a bible basher. I just have a grip on reality. Apart front the small group of people who swing, everyone else's definition in society is very, very different. Many, many marriages survive and indeed thrive without swinging .... with love and trust, honesty and discussion. Swingers dont have the monopoly on this. Sits back and waits for the high and mighty holier than thou .... who are you really kidding?
I'm none of the things you say and I'm not defensive about swinging either. I never justify what we do its simply nobody else's business.
If people see what we do as cheating I'd like to know exactly what or who they think we're cheating of what.
Dictionary decision above says it all, really. I don't give my opinion on this, just the facts." I think your opinion is quite clear | |||
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"No Waits for the bible quotes regarding forsaking all others from the easily upset
I think it's cheating. I think swingers are really, really defensive about it. Many can't bear to admit they are cheating. Does stealing something right in front of someone's eyes mean you aren't stealing? No, it just means you don't mind getting caught. You are being blatant. I am not easily upset, defensive or a bible basher. I just have a grip on reality. Apart front the small group of people who swing, everyone else's definition in society is very, very different. Many, many marriages survive and indeed thrive without swinging .... with love and trust, honesty and discussion. Swingers dont have the monopoly on this. Sits back and waits for the high and mighty holier than thou .... who are you really kidding?
I'm none of the things you say and I'm not defensive about swinging either. I never justify what we do its simply nobody else's business.
If people see what we do as cheating I'd like to know exactly what or who they think we're cheating of what.
Dictionary decision above says it all, really. I don't give my opinion on this, just the facts.
I think your opinion is quite clear "I am just interested in the opinions of people who protest too much. If I am cheating on my partner, I say I am, often he is there anyway, so there is no pulling the wool over anyone's eyes with us. It's a term that swingers hate, maybe because most come from an age where such swapping was frowned upon. It's a matter of semantics. Having seen enough 'happily' married couples in clubs where one partner is dragging the reluctant other around, it's clear its sometimes clearly not consensual, loving or about trust. I find it fascinating to be honest. We are honest about what we are doing, but so many people are not. | |||
"No Waits for the bible quotes regarding forsaking all others from the easily upset
I think it's cheating. I think swingers are really, really defensive about it. Many can't bear to admit they are cheating. Does stealing something right in front of someone's eyes mean you aren't stealing? No, it just means you don't mind getting caught. You are being blatant. I am not easily upset, defensive or a bible basher. I just have a grip on reality. Apart front the small group of people who swing, everyone else's definition in society is very, very different. Many, many marriages survive and indeed thrive without swinging .... with love and trust, honesty and discussion. Swingers dont have the monopoly on this. Sits back and waits for the high and mighty holier than thou .... who are you really kidding?
I'm none of the things you say and I'm not defensive about swinging either. I never justify what we do its simply nobody else's business.
If people see what we do as cheating I'd like to know exactly what or who they think we're cheating of what.
Dictionary decision above says it all, really. I don't give my opinion on this, just the facts.
I think your opinion is quite clear
I am just interested in the opinions of people who protest too much. If I am cheating on my partner, I say I am, often he is there anyway, so there is no pulling the wool over anyone's eyes with us. It's a term that swingers hate, maybe because most come from an age where such swapping was frowned upon. It's a matter of semantics. Having seen enough 'happily' married couples in clubs where one partner is dragging the reluctant other around, it's clear its sometimes clearly not consensual, loving or about trust. I find it fascinating to be honest. We are honest about what we are doing, but so many people are not."Cheating is lying though. Or being dishonest. That's what the word cheat means. When I sleep with other people, in my own or in a threesome, I'm not being dishonest. | |||
"No Waits for the bible quotes regarding forsaking all others from the easily upset
"Ah you mean Ephesians 5:33 – “Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself.” Isn’t that a direct command to swing? We read it as a command to let everyone fuck B, or perhaps you mean Philippians 4:5 – “Let your moderation be known unto all men.” Again a command to swing. But don’t forget Proverbs 21:19 – “better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.” That tells you what will happen if you don’t swing. | |||
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"Do you think it's cheating if you swing with your partner?? Only if one of your partners doesn't know." Agreed. Cheating isn't about the act it is about the deceit x | |||
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