Had probably my best meet off Fabs last night (smug face). Skills were phenomenal, non stop kissing and touching in between rounds, which I adore (I'm a girl of extremes, kink and soppy smooching).
Generalising here but women tend to love this while men often do it as a perfunctory measure to the main event, then go cold.
Men, is this because you don't want to get too intimate in a casual situation or just can't be arsed?
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"I love foreplay but its a 2 way thing. Nowt worse then a women just lying there  "
I don't mean foreplay but intimacy. The touching, caressing and kissing before, during and after. Many chaps go cold once they've come.
We played for 5 hours and didn't stop touching once. Glorious!
But yes, nothing worse than a sack of spuds (all genders can be guilty of this) |
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If it's NSA it seems weird (to me) for too much affection to be going on. It's just a fuck.
If someone was overly affectionate it would make me uncomfortable. Perhaps guys are the same.
Hugs are for relationships, not for shags.  |
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"If it's NSA it seems weird (to me) for too much affection to be going on. It's just a fuck.
If someone was overly affectionate it would make me uncomfortable. Perhaps guys are the same.
Hugs are for relationships, not for shags. "
Each to their own but I can't fuck without intimacy, might as well be paid.
Nothing gets me more excited than affection and feeling wanted, even when it's temporary |
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"If it's NSA it seems weird (to me) for too much affection to be going on. It's just a fuck.
If someone was overly affectionate it would make me uncomfortable. Perhaps guys are the same.
Hugs are for relationships, not for shags.
Each to their own but I can't fuck without intimacy, might as well be paid.
Nothing gets me more excited than affection and feeling wanted, even when it's temporary"
I didn't say it was wrong to want affection, just that it makes me uncomfortable.
So I'm like a prostitute. Great. |
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"If it's NSA it seems weird (to me) for too much affection to be going on. It's just a fuck.
If someone was overly affectionate it would make me uncomfortable. Perhaps guys are the same.
Hugs are for relationships, not for shags.
Each to their own but I can't fuck without intimacy, might as well be paid.
Nothing gets me more excited than affection and feeling wanted, even when it's temporary
I didn't say it was wrong to want affection, just that it makes me uncomfortable.
So I'm like a prostitute. Great. "
No, like I said, each to their own. That's how I personally would feel. |
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"If it's NSA it seems weird (to me) for too much affection to be going on. It's just a fuck.
If someone was overly affectionate it would make me uncomfortable. Perhaps guys are the same.
Hugs are for relationships, not for shags.
Each to their own but I can't fuck without intimacy, might as well be paid.
Nothing gets me more excited than affection and feeling wanted, even when it's temporary
I didn't say it was wrong to want affection, just that it makes me uncomfortable.
So I'm like a prostitute. Great. "
How much darlin?   |
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"If it's NSA it seems weird (to me) for too much affection to be going on. It's just a fuck.
If someone was overly affectionate it would make me uncomfortable. Perhaps guys are the same.
Hugs are for relationships, not for shags. "
see I feel very much the same... However Mr is the polar opposite... But when he met ladies before as a single often they would mistake how he is for him being into them.
I love to see him kiss and be seductive but if he wanted to cuddle up and lay all cosy with another woman, I accept id freak.
In general as a female I find very few men are wanting to do lots of foreplay. |
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"If it's NSA it seems weird (to me) for too much affection to be going on. It's just a fuck.
If someone was overly affectionate it would make me uncomfortable. Perhaps guys are the same.
Hugs are for relationships, not for shags.
Each to their own but I can't fuck without intimacy, might as well be paid.
Nothing gets me more excited than affection and feeling wanted, even when it's temporary
I didn't say it was wrong to want affection, just that it makes me uncomfortable.
So I'm like a prostitute. Great.
No, like I said, each to their own. That's how I personally would feel."
Apologies, my post wasn't aimed at you personally. Just a general frustration. x |
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"If it's NSA it seems weird (to me) for too much affection to be going on. It's just a fuck.
If someone was overly affectionate it would make me uncomfortable. Perhaps guys are the same.
Hugs are for relationships, not for shags.
Each to their own but I can't fuck without intimacy, might as well be paid.
Nothing gets me more excited than affection and feeling wanted, even when it's temporary
I didn't say it was wrong to want affection, just that it makes me uncomfortable.
So I'm like a prostitute. Great.
No, like I said, each to their own. That's how I personally would feel.
Apologies, my post wasn't aimed at you personally. Just a general frustration. x"
No sweat. Hug? |
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By *moothdanMan
over a year ago
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My best meets have been those with intimacy, not attached and clingy, more of a connection. This comes from an understanding of what makes someone feel great. I appreciate this isnt for everyone but we all can give in different ways. |
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"If it's NSA it seems weird (to me) for too much affection to be going on. It's just a fuck.
If someone was overly affectionate it would make me uncomfortable. Perhaps guys are the same.
Hugs are for relationships, not for shags.
Each to their own but I can't fuck without intimacy, might as well be paid.
Nothing gets me more excited than affection and feeling wanted, even when it's temporary
I didn't say it was wrong to want affection, just that it makes me uncomfortable.
So I'm like a prostitute. Great.
No, like I said, each to their own. That's how I personally would feel.
Apologies, my post wasn't aimed at you personally. Just a general frustration. x
No sweat. Hug?"
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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I said this a few times before - cuddling, kissing and fondling IS sex. Fucking is merely reproduction. Think about it for a second - if it wasn't, then why don't men and women who're friends kiss and touch? Nothing is a bigger turn on than kissing and carressing and, in essence, behaving like you're in love during those moments. I agree with the OP that many men miss this and miss the fact that post sex cuddling and kissing is a different level of eroticism. If a guy gets ready to leave immediately after sex, I never see him again. Luckily, I've become very good at selecting the blokes who won't do that and several hours of sex for me usually includes cuddling, kissing, nibbling after sex.
This doesn't mean I don't enjoy, from time to time, a quickie frenzy fuck, say during lunch break !! |
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I carry on the closeness after sex with my long term partner as I find it strengthens the biggest no between us otherwise it feels as if I'm only with her for sex b |
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"If it's NSA it seems weird (to me) for too much affection to be going on. It's just a fuck.
If someone was overly affectionate it would make me uncomfortable. Perhaps guys are the same.
Hugs are for relationships, not for shags. "
Sorry, couldn't disagree more. A sexual partner has a sort of "relationship" with you too. You hug friends, so why not hug and kiss and show affection towards a lover ? |
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"I said this a few times before - cuddling, kissing and fondling IS sex. Fucking is merely reproduction. Think about it for a second - if it wasn't, then why don't men and women who're friends kiss and touch? Nothing is a bigger turn on than kissing and carressing and, in essence, behaving like you're in love during those moments. I agree with the OP that many men miss this and miss the fact that post sex cuddling and kissing is a different level of eroticism. If a guy gets ready to leave immediately after sex, I never see him again. Luckily, I've become very good at selecting the blokes who won't do that and several hours of sex for me usually includes cuddling, kissing, nibbling after sex.
This doesn't mean I don't enjoy, from time to time, a quickie frenzy fuck, say during lunch break !!"
Never looked at it that way before. I like what you said.  |
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By *otgirl32Woman
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"I love foreplay but its a 2 way thing. Nowt worse then a women just lying there
I don't mean foreplay but intimacy. The touching, caressing and kissing before, during and after. Many chaps go cold once they've come.
We played for 5 hours and didn't stop touching once. Glorious!
But yes, nothing worse than a sack of spuds (all genders can be guilty of this)"
Sounds like a wonderful man, care to lend him?? 
Agree, has to be two way. Nothing WORSE than your kisses and carresses being met with a man just laying there. I've seen this with really young blokes who're inexperienced but those blokes are cute and just nervous as shite, I like them. Then there are some selfish pricks. As I said before, luckily I can figure out who won't be like that and last few years haven't had that happen (except with the young 'uns who, once they get a bit relaxed, explode with passion LOL!!)
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"If it's NSA it seems weird (to me) for too much affection to be going on. It's just a fuck.
If someone was overly affectionate it would make me uncomfortable. Perhaps guys are the same.
Hugs are for relationships, not for shags.
Sorry, couldn't disagree more. A sexual partner has a sort of "relationship" with you too. You hug friends, so why not hug and kiss and show affection towards a lover ?"
I don't hug friends.
Some people have some sort of 'relationship' with their sexual partners. I don't. |
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intimate sex is the only sex the rest is just a bodily function ,kissing is foreplay 
