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over a year ago
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Does anyone remember telling the wife that you would prefer her not to be loyal sexually?
I'll never forget the fear factor
How did you tell her or how did she tell you? |
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"Does anyone remember telling the wife that you would prefer her not to be loyal sexually?
I'll never forget the fear factor
How did you tell her or how did she tell you? "
After our first threesome, seeing how much she enjoyed herself, told her it wasn't fair to keep her all to myself and she should be able to make other people happy, she's never had a problem since! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yeah was a bit of a worry we started off soft playing then wife went with man first in a mmf then we have had a couple of mff . As long as we both comfortable all good  "
It's not easy telling the wife. I think you have to both want it. My wife wasn't slow on taking advantage though which pleased me. I told her to try it out I told her I would pick an outfit for her to wear and all
She had to do was send me a pic of her in the outfit and text me saying when the male had arrived I stayed away and kept a close eye on what's app I sat in my car for about 4 hours and the text came through saying "he's gone come round" we had been together for a week at this stage I went home
And noticed the hair and make up had changed from the photo and as soon as I felt her pussy it was clear this was no light fuck she had taken a proper fucking from a guy she had always wanted to screw but never got round to. With me she can tick all those to do box's win win for us. That was when I realised whe actually clicked sexually as a couple. Sharing your wife or husband takes major trust. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does anyone remember telling the wife that you would prefer her not to be loyal sexually?
I'll never forget the fear factor
How did you tell her or how did she tell you?
After our first threesome, seeing how much she enjoyed herself, told her it wasn't fair to keep her all to myself and she should be able to make other people happy, she's never had a problem since!"
It's getting that comfortable that matters in any relatiosnhip she or he need to know that you won't hold it against them. |
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We were at our first swingers party and the hostess asked every 1 individually what their fantasies were and as wifey had never told me I was shocked when she openly said she fancied a couple of cocks together. We have done mmf mmmf mff mfmf since and love it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm currently building up to telling my girlfriend that I want to share her. Have been for a while. During sex about 3 months ago I got her to suck my thumb and I said "pretend it's another cock" and she eagerly sucked it. We came hard!!
Since then I've brought in a realistic dildo and we assign a famous person to who it is each time.
I'm building up to saying if happily watch her fuck another guy! |
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This all sounds too weird to me ... one person working up to persuading the other. Surely if someone thinks a cock is the same as a thumb, they are in for a shock when they get to see a real cock .... I have never seen one the size of a thumb. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm currently building up to telling my girlfriend that I want to share her. Have been for a while. During sex about 3 months ago I got her to suck my thumb and I said "pretend it's another cock" and she eagerly sucked it. We came hard!!
Since then I've brought in a realistic dildo and we assign a famous person to who it is each time.
I'm building up to saying if happily watch her fuck another guy!"
It's not easy having the chat about sharing the wife but it's best to be honest about it.
I suppose realistically the couples who meet through this site have it the easiest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Obviously a cock isn't the same as a thumb but it's the fantasy behind pretending that she's sucking a cock and building on that.. I don't literally mean I'd love her to suck a thumb shaped / sized cock. But I've introduced that her giving a bj turns me on. |
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"Obviously a cock isn't the same as a thumb but it's the fantasy behind pretending that she's sucking a cock and building on that.. I don't literally mean I'd love her to suck a thumb shaped / sized cock. But I've introduced that her giving a bj turns me on. "
It's not easy knowing what to do in these situations |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone remember telling the wife that you would prefer her not to be loyal sexually?
I'll never forget the fear factor
How did you tell her or how did she tell you? "
With us, we spoke about it very early days, with me being Bisexual and unfulfilled sexually in my previous relationship, I wanted to start our relationship being honest about my desires and I pretty much knew Mark would be OK with bringing another woman in but with that bought the option of being with couples too and we discussed it and said we could try it and see how we felt, long story short, 5.5 years later here we are!
But for us, it was never about being Disloyal, it was enjoying our sexuality with other people but being honest and loyal to each other whilst doing it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does anyone remember telling the wife that you would prefer her not to be loyal sexually?
I'll never forget the fear factor
How did you tell her or how did she tell you?
With us, we spoke about it very early days, with me being Bisexual and unfulfilled sexually in my previous relationship, I wanted to start our relationship being honest about my desires and I pretty much knew Mark would be OK with bringing another woman in but with that bought the option of being with couples too and we discussed it and said we could try it and see how we felt, long story short, 5.5 years later here we are!
But for us, it was never about being Disloyal, it was enjoying our sexuality with other people but being honest and loyal to each other whilst doing it.
Px"
That's a great and well
Done for the honesty
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We very luckily got into swinging together and haven't looked back since, no convincing or debating needed.
So that's a no from us  "
Perfect very natural
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"He said do it but not for me. When i suggested swinging he pulled this face 
So is this still something you are working on together?
Yes "
Good on you both |
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For us it was myself confessing to the hubby. We were just lying in bed one night and I turned round and told him I had a huge fantasy for being with another man then being put over his knee in the panties I wore and being spanked for being a naughty wife.
The first time I did it we had amazing sex after the spanking !..turns out he likes to see me with another man too and his wish got fulfilled when we played with another couple recently.  |
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"For us it was myself confessing to the hubby. We were just lying in bed one night and I turned round and told him I had a huge fantasy for being with another man then being put over his knee in the panties I wore and being spanked for being a naughty wife.
The first time I did it we had amazing sex after the spanking !..turns out he likes to see me with another man too and his wish got fulfilled when we played with another couple recently. "
And that is a supremely spankable bottom you have there if you don't mind me saying.  |
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"For us it was myself confessing to the hubby. We were just lying in bed one night and I turned round and told him I had a huge fantasy for being with another man then being put over his knee in the panties I wore and being spanked for being a naughty wife.
The first time I did it we had amazing sex after the spanking !..turns out he likes to see me with another man too and his wish got fulfilled when we played with another couple recently.
And that is a supremely spankable bottom you have there if you don't mind me saying. "
Why thankyou ! |
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We hadn't been a couple for long, and one night were watching a porn film shot in La Chambre. One scene was a large orgy in one of the playrooms. I asked R if she'd like to try that and she said "yes!" so we went to the club the next Saturday night. We did some lovely soft-swinging so we decided to go every month. Took us a few visits before R felt ready for a full swap, and on a later visit we did our first real orgy, actually in the same room as the one in the film. It was every bit as good as we thought it would be!
Glad we took the decision to swing, both of us are highly-sexed and were not able to be faithful during our last marriages. Swinging gives us a great outlet for our needs. |
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"We hadn't been a couple for long, and one night were watching a porn film shot in La Chambre. One scene was a large orgy in one of the playrooms. I asked R if she'd like to try that and she said "yes!" so we went to the club the next Saturday night. We did some lovely soft-swinging so we decided to go every month. Took us a few visits before R felt ready for a full swap, and on a later visit we did our first real orgy, actually in the same room as the one in the film. It was every bit as good as we thought it would be!
Glad we took the decision to swing, both of us are highly-sexed and were not able to be faithful during our last marriages. Swinging gives us a great outlet for our needs."
Brilliant! |
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"For us it was myself confessing to the hubby. We were just lying in bed one night and I turned round and told him I had a huge fantasy for being with another man then being put over his knee in the panties I wore and being spanked for being a naughty wife.
The first time I did it we had amazing sex after the spanking !..turns out he likes to see me with another man too and his wish got fulfilled when we played with another couple recently. "
Delicious! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This all sounds too weird to me ... one person working up to persuading the other. Surely if someone thinks a cock is the same as a thumb, they are in for a shock when they get to see a real cock .... I have never seen one the size of a thumb."
Intentional or otherwise your posts comes across like a bit of an arse to be honest.
Every time these posts crop up there's always someone who takes the moral high ground and suggests it's wrong for someone to persuade someone else.
Let me ask this to the couple posters on here then; did you and your partner, both at the same time, as if by magic, openly state your intentions to swing, share or whatever? Of course not. One of you probably mentioned it as a fantasy, the other thought about it, then you might have introduced scenarios to simulate it (like sucking something while being fucked... maybe) then it goes from there.
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"This all sounds too weird to me ... one person working up to persuading the other. Surely if someone thinks a cock is the same as a thumb, they are in for a shock when they get to see a real cock .... I have never seen one the size of a thumb.
Intentional or otherwise your posts comes across like a bit of an arse to be honest.
Every time these posts crop up there's always someone who takes the moral high ground and suggests it's wrong for someone to persuade someone else.
Let me ask this to the couple posters on here then; did you and your partner, both at the same time, as if by magic, openly state your intentions to swing, share or whatever? Of course not. One of you probably mentioned it as a fantasy, the other thought about it, then you might have introduced scenarios to simulate it (like sucking something while being fucked... maybe) then it goes from there.
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It's each to Their own. My Mrs persuades me all the time to do stuff that she wants to usually her persuasions worth it |
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"Does anyone remember telling the wife that you would prefer her not to be loyal sexually?
I'll never forget the fear factor
How did you tell her or how did she tell you? "
I had hinted at it for a while, then a random guy mixed her number for his girlfriends and decided to try to get into my wife - she forwarded his texts, along with large cock pic, to me and asked what she should do? I said Darling, I think you should meet as he asks and if he turns you on get a hotel room and fuck him. That's when she really believed me. |
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