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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

Since looseing weight I've found sexually im a little shy

Do you find it a turn on if a fem is shy sexually

I've been told it's sweet an innocent. .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would agree sweet and innocent , and look so good in your photos , I do like it

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"I would agree sweet and innocent , and look so good in your photos , I do like it "

So you like the sweet an innocence of it...

Glad u like my photos too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yes love it I think it makes things more sensual and my pleasure

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"yes love it I think it makes things more sensual and my pleasure "

Glad u like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Since looseing weight I've found sexually im a little shy

Do you find it a turn on if a fem is shy sexually

I've been told it's sweet an innocent. .

Yes it does come across as sweet and innocent, but unsure why loosing weight would have made you this way.... I would have thought it the other way round.... You've lost weight your looking hot, hot,hot and one hell of a sexy woman..... You should be a bitch on heat

I do like sweet and innocent though personally myself

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

I would be a complete man-eater if I lost weight, it would cost me a fortune in lingerie and costumes

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

I am not sure that if you are shy you would advertise the fact that you are shy ...isn't that a contradiction in terms?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wouldn't you build confidence after losing weight?

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Since looseing weight I've found sexually im a little shy

Do you find it a turn on if a fem is shy sexually

I've been told it's sweet an innocent. .

No , not really .

Mind you we don't really like over confident women either .

Something in the middle is perfect

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you lost weight, op?

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By *allipygousMan over a year ago

Leicester

"Have you lost weight, op?"

Me.......ow

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By *-angel-XWoman over a year ago

hell

I have lost weight and lost confidence also

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am not sure that if you are shy you would advertise the fact that you are shy ...isn't that a contradiction in terms? "

I know what you mean!

Not sure if you'd start a thread on the topic if you were really shy?

Of course I could just be reading too much into it! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you lost weight, op?"

Op definitely looks slimmer in her recent pics than in her older pics - so I'd say yes!

Op - perhaps you're not more confident etc because you thought, as many seem to, that losing weight would bring happiness and confidence in itself? It doesn't - losing weight just makes you slimmer - the happiness and confidence had to be there in the first place lovely!

Try not expecting to feel different - just 'be' for a while - you probably need time to be comfortable with 'the new you!'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer a more confident woman, who can take charge or tell me what she likes. especially important since I like larger ladies and in the real world (i.e. not women on here) they can be body conscious and more shy.

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Since looseing weight I've found sexually im a little shy

Do you find it a turn on if a fem is shy sexually

I've been told it's sweet an innocent. .

I do like sweet and innocent though personally myself

I'm not sure why I've gone sweet an innocent since looseing weight an gone shy

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Have you lost weight, op?

Op definitely looks slimmer in her recent pics than in her older pics - so I'd say yes!

Try not expecting to feel different - just 'be' for a while - you probably need time to be comfortable with 'the new you!' "

Possibly that's it it's getting used to my weight loss

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"I have lost weight and lost confidence also

Mrs "

Glad someone else has too an not on my own with this feeling

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Since looseing weight I've found sexually im a little shy

Do you find it a turn on if a fem is shy sexually

I've been told it's sweet an innocent. .

I do like sweet and innocent though personally myself

I'm not sure why I've gone sweet an innocent since looseing weight an gone shy "

I'd have a damn good go at corrupting you again

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Have you lost weight, op?"

Yes i have i was 10 stone 2 lbs im now 8 stone 6 lbs you can tell by my photos I have

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"I would be a complete man-eater if I lost weight, it would cost me a fortune in lingerie and costumes

Ive Got To Buy new Clothes As Clothes An Lingerie are loose on me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Since looseing weight I've found sexually im a little shy

Do you find it a turn on if a fem is shy sexually

I've been told it's sweet an innocent. .

"
hey I think its endearing you look lovely

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights. "

It's A not blatant Look At Me thread At All. .It was just a thread about confidence

Thanks that does my confidence a world of good. ..

If you can't put something nice an positive don't comment on my post please

keep your comments to yourself

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Since looseing weight I've found sexually im a little shy

Do you find it a turn on if a fem is shy sexually

I've been told it's sweet an innocent. .

hey I think its endearing you look lovely

Thanks

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Since looseing weight I've found sexually im a little shy

Do you find it a turn on if a fem is shy sexually

I've been told it's sweet an innocent. .

I do like sweet and innocent though personally myself

I'm not sure why I've gone sweet an innocent since looseing weight an gone shy

I'd have a damn good go at corrupting you again

Would u

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

It's A not blatant Look At Me thread At All. .It was just a thread about confidence

Thanks that does my confidence a world of good. ..

If you can't put something nice an positive don't comment on my post please

keep your comments to yourself "

Those are not nice comments.

I hate the sweet innocent thing...... Women are women.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I prefer a more confident woman, who can take charge or tell me what she likes. especially important since I like larger ladies and in the real world (i.e. not women on here) they can be body conscious and more shy. "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

For the confident bit ...... not the shy bit

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

It's A not blatant Look At Me thread At All. .It was just a thread about confidence

Thanks that does my confidence a world of good. ..

If you can't put something nice an positive don't comment on my post please

keep your comments to yourself

Those are not nice comments.

I hate the sweet innocent thing...... Women are women. "

Oh my why be negative i ignore negative comments tbh

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

It's A not blatant Look At Me thread At All. .It was just a thread about confidence

Thanks that does my confidence a world of good. ..

If you can't put something nice an positive don't comment on my post please

keep your comments to yourself

Those are not nice comments.

I hate the sweet innocent thing...... Women are women.

Oh my why be negative i ignore negative comments tbh "

I didn't make any negative comments AND you didn't ignore me.

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

It's A not blatant Look At Me thread At All. .It was just a thread about confidence

Thanks that does my confidence a world of good. ..

If you can't put something nice an positive don't comment on my post please

keep your comments to yourself

Those are not nice comments.

I hate the sweet innocent thing...... Women are women.

Oh my why be negative i ignore negative comments tbh

I didn't make any negative comments AND you didn't ignore me."

See positive comments at the begning of my post a always someone got to spoil someone's post by being funny an nasty

Please don't this is a post about positivity i was only asking if people like the shy innocent fem sexually ...its a bit of fun why take it serious

Maybe you got up grumpy ive woke up happy ...Please don't spoil my post

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights. "

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last"

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

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By *ionicfingerMan over a year ago

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Shy and innocent... I think you just finding yourself again. I'm a good helper in these things. Give me a wink and I will lead you down the wrong.. I mean right path!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shelbee don't pay any attention enjoy your achievment and enjoy your attention

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Shy and innocent... I think you just finding yourself again. I'm a good helper in these things. Give me a wink and I will lead you down the wrong.. I mean right path!"

You mean corrupt me lol

your a good helper are you ...

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Shelbee don't pay any attention enjoy your achievment and enjoy your attention

Oh I won't pay attention to the certain people above who are negative ..don't worry its water of a ducks back to me

I will enjoy my weight loss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you lost weight, op?

Yes i have i was 10 stone 2 lbs im now 8 stone 6 lbs you can tell by my photos I have "

Sorry op. That was a bit of a tongue in cheek comment. You have done fantastically well but I'm sure I've heard you mention it many many times.

...it is just my twisted humour

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Have you lost weight, op?

Yes i have i was 10 stone 2 lbs im now 8 stone 6 lbs you can tell by my photos I have

Sorry op. That was a bit of a tongue in cheek comment. You have done fantastically well but I'm sure I've heard you mention it many many times.

...it is just my twisted humour

Don't worry I know it was Tongue an cheek

Thanks i have done well esp resisting sweets s an chocolate. ..as i do like chocolate. ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Congrats on the weight loss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You look and feel great that's what counts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me "

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Congrats on the weight loss

Thanks

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By *rs DCouple over a year ago

far

"Have you lost weight, op?"

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread."

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin"

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

I have actually got more confidence since I have lost some weight

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty."

Drop it an stop getting at me you don't even know me your very judge mental knock it off your showing how u are personality wise not a nice person to say horable things about someone ..your not perfect yourself

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"I have actually got more confidence since I have lost some weight

How did u get your confidence

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up."

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

"I have actually got more confidence since I have lost some weight

How did u get your confidence

Just tried on sexier more tight fitting clothes also when you wear a jacket and a Tshirt it gives you confidence also people in the office have said oh I have lost weight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation"

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking."

Gosh your so funny my sides are splitting

Sarcasm isn't a good look on you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

Gosh your so funny my sides are splitting

Sarcasm isn't a good look on you "

Its the truth I'm afraid.

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"I have actually got more confidence since I have lost some weight

How did u get your confidence

Just tried on sexier more tight fitting clothes also when you wear a jacket and a Tshirt it gives you confidence also people in the office have said oh I have lost weight "

Well done on your weight loss

it's nice when people say it an see it ...Esp in your office ...

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

Gosh your so funny my sides are splitting

Sarcasm isn't a good look on you

Its the truth I'm afraid."

So you a perpetual bore or do u practice being a total bore im bored of your attitude

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Got my attention

. OP you are looking good

Well done hun xx I like looking at pretty things

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

Gosh your so funny my sides are splitting

Sarcasm isn't a good look on you

Its the truth I'm afraid.

So you a perpetual bore or do u practice being a total bore im bored of your attitude "

Thats funny because thats the reason I posted in your thread in the first place, as it is like groundhog day with you

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Got my attention

. OP you are looking good

Well done hun xx I like looking at pretty things "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Since looseing weight I've found sexually im a little shy

Do you find it a turn on if a fem is shy sexually

I've been told it's sweet an innocent. .

Congrats on finding a new USP!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It really is odd that some would try and knock the op on this thread .

In one way or another we are all attention seeking , simply by signing up to a site like this .

It's a hell of an achievement to lose weight , and the op wants to share her success . Nothing wrong with that surely ?

As for the sweet and innocent , that's the way she feels she has been seen since the weight loss . She asked if people like that in a woman . Some will , some won't .

We actually said we didn't , but in no way did we set out out to burst her bubble .

Lighten up , and let the op enjoy her moment .

Oh , and before anyone suggests white knights , press the green arrow - that's not our style at all .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do find red a very sexy colour

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

If you blush as well that's extra sexy

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It really is odd that some would try and knock the op on this thread .

In one way or another we are all attention seeking , simply by signing up to a site like this .

It's a hell of an achievement to lose weight , and the op wants to share her success . Nothing wrong with that surely ?

As for the sweet and innocent , that's the way she feels she has been seen since the weight loss . She asked if people like that in a woman . Some will , some won't .

We actually said we didn't , but in no way did we set out out to burst her bubble .

Lighten up , and let the op enjoy her moment .

Oh , and before anyone suggests white knights , press the green arrow - that's not our style at all ."

Thanks it's nice you stick up for me ...

well said

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"If you blush as well that's extra sexy

Thanks

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"I do find red a very sexy colour

Glad u like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whilst I applaud your weight loss and understand that the confidence you expected to feel might not automatically have followed - I am a little perturbed by the 'sweet and innocent ' claim!

Unless you thought this was the women's institute website, you should be aware that this is a no-strings sex site - and as such it doesn't tend to be jam-packed with 'sweet and innocent ' people!

Some of us are nice, lovely people, in fact in my experience a lot of us are, but I think it's just silly to describe any of us as sweet and innocent!

If this is going to be your 'act' both on the forums and in role-play then fair enough - I'm sure (and many have already come forward) there are many men out there who'll be delighted to constantly jump to your defence and find it a turn-on - but the very fact that you're still on the site disproves your claims!

And please don't try to demonise granny simply because she isn't 'buying it' - the forums are a place for people to air their views - not follow the op like sheep!

You have every right to post a thread to gain the attention of the forumites - and they have every right to say what they think about it!

Anyway - happy Mother's Day to all you lovely mums out there! Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well done on losing weight, it's fantastic you're feeling fitter and healthier.

I massively dislike the sweet and innocent thing too, but you know what - men absolutely lap it up. I have a work colleague who talks with a really high pitched girly voice and does the "ditzy" bit all the time and she attracts so many men it's unreal. I find it a bit naff but it certainly works.

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Well done on losing weight, it's fantastic you're feeling fitter and healthier.

Thanks it's been a hard achievment to loose weight

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Well done on losing weight, it's fantastic you're feeling fitter and healthier.

It does work . It Is for me

No guy likes a fem that's in your face ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm shy whatever size!

Which is why I like a bit of confidence - opposites attract n all that

Were you on an exercise regime? Reason for your weight loss?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well done on losing weight, it's fantastic you're feeling fitter and healthier.

It does work . It Is for me

No guy likes a fem that's in your face .."

I'd rather never have sex again then if it means I have to act like a little girl. Not for me thanks. I do alright with my grown woman approach though.

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"I'm shy whatever size!

Which is why I like a bit of confidence - opposites attract n all that

Were you on an exercise regime? Reason for your weight loss?"

I have gall stones an have to be on a low fat diet ...an ive stuck to it...its been hard tbh ...an u just go by what the doctor says an the weight has dropped of...

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"Well done on losing weight, it's fantastic you're feeling fitter and healthier.

It does work . It Is for me

No guy likes a fem that's in your face .."

You are sooooo wrong there, on a site like this guys like you in there face quite a lot, I have to be honest a say I find the cutesy girly thing a bit too twee and annoying but then I'm not a bloke looking for a fuck

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Well done on losing weight, it's fantastic you're feeling fitter and healthier.

It does work . It Is for me

No guy likes a fem that's in your face ..

I'd rather never have sex again then if it means I have to act like a little girl. Not for me thanks. I do alright with my grown woman approach though. "

I don't act like a little girl at all..I've just lost confidence do u think this helps someone Erm no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well done on losing weight, it's fantastic you're feeling fitter and healthier.

It does work . It Is for me

No guy likes a fem that's in your face .."

I think you'll find there is a whole spectrum in between and not all men are attracted to the same thing....

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By *arksMan over a year ago

in the centre

Not for me , give me a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to ask , it's far more fun for both if you communicate what you like , dislike etc

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

Variety is the spice of life tbh ...an just cause I've lost confidence doesn't mean I put on an act ..havnt u lost confidence ever in your life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well done on losing weight, it's fantastic you're feeling fitter and healthier.

It does work . It Is for me

No guy likes a fem that's in your face .."

Ok - so in your last comment you've just admitted its all an act - so less of the Penelope Pitstop 'Aw my gorsh ' when others don't buy it please!

And for your information Hun - for every guy that laps up the sweet innocent 'act' - there's a guy who loves intelligent, sexually confident women who know how to get want they want and give a huge amount of pleasure in return!

Mothers and grandmothers aren't always right Hun!

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well done on losing weight, it's fantastic you're feeling fitter and healthier.

It does work . It Is for me

No guy likes a fem that's in your face ..

I'd rather never have sex again then if it means I have to act like a little girl. Not for me thanks. I do alright with my grown woman approach though.

I don't act like a little girl at all..I've just lost confidence do u think this helps someone Erm no "

Well I was just answering the question of do men find sweet and innocent acting women sexy. My answer is yes they do but fuck knows why. I don't really get how that connects to losing confidence though, they're two completely separate things. I'll leave you to it then, I don't want to offend

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Well done on losing weight, it's fantastic you're feeling fitter and healthier.

It does work . It Is for me

No guy likes a fem that's in your face ..

I'd rather never have sex again then if it means I have to act like a little girl. Not for me thanks. I do alright with my grown woman approach though.

I don't act like a little girl at all..I've just lost confidence do u think this helps someone Erm no

You havnt offended but when people lose weight sometimes there confidence goes not everyone is confident ...you know

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"Not for me , give me a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to ask , it's far more fun for both if you communicate what you like , dislike etc

Do you fancy an afternoon of unbridled lust and kinky fuckery

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Well done on losing weight, it's fantastic you're feeling fitter and healthier.

It does work . It Is for me

No guy likes a fem that's in your face ..

Ok - so in your last comment you've just admitted its all an act - so less of the Penelope Pitstop 'Aw my gorsh ' when others don't buy it please!

Mothers and grandmothers aren't always right Hun!

Xxx"

Iam intelligent ...i have passed 4 qualifications ...what a strange quote ...above

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Well done on losing weight, it's fantastic you're feeling fitter and healthier.

It does work . It Is for me

No guy likes a fem that's in your face ..

Ok - so in your last comment you've just admitted its all an act - so less of the Penelope Pitstop 'Aw my gorsh ' when others don't buy it please!

Mothers and grandmothers aren't always right Hun!

Xxx

Iam intelligent ...i have passed 4 qualifications ...what a strange quote ...above"

Which I passed last year to add to another 11 i have an i studied hard to achieve all my qualifications just cause I've gone shy sexually doesn't mean I'm not intelligent

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By *arksMan over a year ago

in the centre

"Not for me , give me a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to ask , it's far more fun for both if you communicate what you like , dislike etc

Do you fancy an afternoon of unbridled lust and kinky fuckery

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Confidence comes from within and lots of factors apply to it ,your upbringing ,the people you work with ,your friends ,how your life is going ,your financial situation and how that makes you feel ,this place which has many variables and can affect you in different ways everyday but you seem lovely and I expect with all the compliments you are bound to get hopefully your confidence will soar

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

Can't everyone be nice for once, it's Mother's Day and I hate seeing women tearing each other apart.

Some are shy, some are brazen it's life but please let's live and let live

Ps happy Mother's Day to you mums on fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've gone from a size 24 to an 18, and still losing weight.

I have grown more confident and feel even more sexier, I love my lingerie, but I do worry about loose skin, And what men might think!!

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

Maybe she would get more attention if she went dogging, u could be the voyeur u crave to be, she posted a genuine thread and u choose to rip into her for it, even if the thread is self indulgent what's the harm in it, she's trying to get her confidence back, at least she has a half decent profile, not just 2 half arsed verifications and a pic of some manky boxers and a badly taken cock pic! Leave the woman alone it's not gentlemanly to pick on her."

Thanks for the positive comment ..its nice . .an im a nice person an like u said there ripping me apart an i dont understand why ...its a genuine thread like u said ...an i get slated..im trying to get my confidence back ...

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

He is kinda right though in what he says, there are a few women on the forum that have lost vast amounts yet don't feel need to bring it up all the time

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"I've gone from a size 24 to an 18, and still losing weight.

I have grown more confident and feel even more sexier, I love my lingerie, but I do worry about loose skin, And what men might think!!

Well done on your weight loss from a size 24 to a size 18..

Don't worry about lose skin

I have a bit too...an it's not easy to get rid of as I've found out

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By *eachyPairCouple over a year ago

Leicester

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

Good on u, ignore the haters they are not worth it x

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

He is kinda right though in what he says, there are a few women on the forum that have lost vast amounts yet don't feel need to bring it up all the time"

Stop with the bitch comment no need for it put your claws away ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

to me you look amazing. its a huge turn on for me, but im shy about my body

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

Good on u, ignore the haters they are not worth it x"

Thanks i will ignore the haters ..i don't understand why they have to be so bitchy tbh. .They are out of order. .They are not worth it

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"to me you look amazing. its a huge turn on for me, but im shy about my body"

Thanks

You shy about your body .too..glad I'm not the only one

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By *andy6677Man over a year ago

crewe

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

You dont deserve to be slated like that no one does xx You done well to lose the weight i was a bit sexually shy at first after losing all mine years ago but soon found my confidence again xxx Nothing to be ashamed of xx Plus for women even more so as you can go out and get a new wardrobe in smaller sizes and more naughty underwear as well xxx Congrats all the way and as for the trolls hit them over the head with a shovel and they go crawling back to there holes! xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Since looseing weight I've found sexually im a little shy

Do you find it a turn on if a fem is shy sexually

I've been told it's sweet an innocent. .

Oh for crying out loud.

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

He is kinda right though in what he says, there are a few women on the forum that have lost vast amounts yet don't feel need to bring it up all the time

Stop with the bitch comment no need for it put your claws away .."

Just saying it as I see it from reading a few of your threads, you don't have to worry about my claws, they only come out on special occasions and this isn't one of them

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

"Well done on losing weight, it's fantastic you're feeling fitter and healthier.

It does work . It Is for me

No guy likes a fem that's in your face .."

My OH loves, it ... we don't like the sweet and innocent, except how we are in real life, but this is a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Variety is the spice of life tbh ...an just cause I've lost confidence doesn't mean I put on an act ..havnt u lost confidence ever in your life "

If I had ever lost confidence the last place I would post about would be on here

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

Thanks ...i have brought new lingerie yesterday it was nice to buy a smaller size ..an lots of nice things to choose from too

Thanks it's nice you say that..i don't understand why some people have to be so dam right nasty tbh im not like that. ..

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By *andy6677Man over a year ago

crewe

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

Thanks ...i have brought new lingerie yesterday it was nice to buy a smaller size ..an lots of nice things to choose from too

Thanks it's nice you say that..i don't understand why some people have to be so dam right nasty tbh im not like that. .."

Excellent i can see from your pics you have great taste in clothes and underwear xxx

Yeah dont get it nice people always get picked on because you got what they havent xxx Jealousy pure and simple nothing but a bunch of saddos with nothing better to do than to pick on others xxx

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

Thanks ..Yes u can see in my pics ...i have

I don't understand the haters either a lot of it is jealously tbh in my book if they want to criticise someone they make sure there perfect themselves!!

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

Thanks ...i have brought new lingerie yesterday it was nice to buy a smaller size ..an lots of nice things to choose from too

Thanks it's nice you say that..i don't understand why some people have to be so dam right nasty tbh im not like that. ..

Excellent i can see from your pics you have great taste in clothes and underwear xxx

Yeah dont get it nice people always get picked on because you got what they havent xxx Jealousy pure and simple nothing but a bunch of saddos with nothing better to do than to pick on others xxx"

Exactly leave them too it..Thanks for the positive quote it's nice it lifts my spirts to know ..xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

Thanks ...i have brought new lingerie yesterday it was nice to buy a smaller size ..an lots of nice things to choose from too

Thanks it's nice you say that..i don't understand why some people have to be so dam right nasty tbh im not like that. .."

Surely you can't be that naive as to think that your original post would not wind anyone up?

And as for your comments asking people not to comment if they have nothing nice to say .. Well I'm sorry but you are on a public forum and nice and nasty comments come with the territory...

If you don't like the answer then don't ask the question...

I'm not saying this to be malicious I'm just flabbergasted that you expected everyone to be nice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeqh not sure why but it is very sexy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looking great shell. Did you go out in no knickers?

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By *andy6677Man over a year ago

crewe

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

Thanks ...i have brought new lingerie yesterday it was nice to buy a smaller size ..an lots of nice things to choose from too

Thanks it's nice you say that..i don't understand why some people have to be so dam right nasty tbh im not like that. ..

Excellent i can see from your pics you have great taste in clothes and underwear xxx

Yeah dont get it nice people always get picked on because you got what they havent xxx Jealousy pure and simple nothing but a bunch of saddos with nothing better to do than to pick on others xxx

Exactly leave them too it..Thanks for the positive quote it's nice it lifts my spirts to know ..xx"

No worries your looking great and should be told such as any woman should who loses weight and betters themselves xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

I didn't ask for a profile critique.

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

Thanks ...i have brought new lingerie yesterday it was nice to buy a smaller size ..an lots of nice things to choose from too

Thanks it's nice you say that..i don't understand why some people have to be so dam right nasty tbh im not like that. ..

Surely you can't be that naive as to think that your original post would not wind anyone up?

And as for your comments asking people not to comment if they have nothing nice to say .. Well I'm sorry but you are on a public forum and nice and nasty comments come with the territory...

If you don't like the answer then don't ask the question...

I'm not saying this to be malicious I'm just flabbergasted that you expected everyone to be nice "

Unbelievable

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

Thanks ...i have brought new lingerie yesterday it was nice to buy a smaller size ..an lots of nice things to choose from too

Thanks it's nice you say that..i don't understand why some people have to be so dam right nasty tbh im not like that. ..

Excellent i can see from your pics you have great taste in clothes and underwear xxx

Yeah dont get it nice people always get picked on because you got what they havent xxx Jealousy pure and simple nothing but a bunch of saddos with nothing better to do than to pick on others xxx

Exactly leave them too it..Thanks for the positive quote it's nice it lifts my spirts to know ..xx

No worries your looking great and should be told such as any woman should who loses weight and betters themselves xxx

Thanks x

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

I didn't ask for a profile critique. "

See u don't like it when someone critisise s you ..not nice is it it's Ok for u to be funny with me but when someone else has a go at u ..Aww u don't like it..an say u don't want a profile critique

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

Thanks ...i have brought new lingerie yesterday it was nice to buy a smaller size ..an lots of nice things to choose from too

Thanks it's nice you say that..i don't understand why some people have to be so dam right nasty tbh im not like that. ..

Surely you can't be that naive as to think that your original post would not wind anyone up?

And as for your comments asking people not to comment if they have nothing nice to say .. Well I'm sorry but you are on a public forum and nice and nasty comments come with the territory...

If you don't like the answer then don't ask the question...

I'm not saying this to be malicious I'm just flabbergasted that you expected everyone to be nice "

Precisely!

We're not 'hating ' - we're not 'bitching' - we're simply not in agreement with you!

I understand and sympathise if you're not as sexually confident since you lost weight! That's not what I - and I suspect others - take exception too!

It's the 'sweet and innocent' act - and you admitted above that it IS an act - and your assertion that 'men don't like upfront women' that I disagree with!

In my mind the idea that we should still - in 2016 - have to pretend to be 'sweet and innocent ' to successfully attract the opposite sex sets women's liberation back decades.

I have no problem at all with you op - I just find 'sweet and innocent ' claims on a sex site to be inappropriate!

As an intelligent woman yourself I'm sure you will see that I'm not ' being nasty' - I'm just expressing a different viewpoint!

Big hugs to you - and happy Mother's Day to every mother on fab! Xxx

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Looking great shell. Did you go out in no knickers? "

Thanks i did lol

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

Thanks ...i have brought new lingerie yesterday it was nice to buy a smaller size ..an lots of nice things to choose from too

Thanks it's nice you say that..i don't understand why some people have to be so dam right nasty tbh im not like that. ..

Surely you can't be that naive as to think that your original post would not wind anyone up?

And as for your comments asking people not to comment if they have nothing nice to say .. Well I'm sorry but you are on a public forum and nice and nasty comments come with the territory...

If you don't like the answer then don't ask the question...

I'm not saying this to be malicious I'm just flabbergasted that you expected everyone to be nice

Precisely!

We're not 'hating ' - we're not 'bitching' - we're simply not in agreement with you!

I understand and sympathise if you're not as sexually confident since you lost weight! That's not what I - and I suspect others - take exception too!

It's the 'sweet and innocent' act - and you admitted above that it IS an act - and your assertion that 'men don't like upfront women' that I disagree with!

In my mind the idea that we should still - in 2016 - have to pretend to be 'sweet and innocent ' to successfully attract the opposite sex sets women's liberation back decades.

I have no problem at all with you op - I just find 'sweet and innocent ' claims on a sex site to be inappropriate!

As an intelligent woman yourself I'm sure you will see that I'm not ' being nasty' - I'm just expressing a different viewpoint!

Big hugs to you - and happy Mother's Day to every mother on fab! Xxx"

Thanks

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

Thanks ...i have brought new lingerie yesterday it was nice to buy a smaller size ..an lots of nice things to choose from too

Thanks it's nice you say that..i don't understand why some people have to be so dam right nasty tbh im not like that. ..

Excellent i can see from your pics you have great taste in clothes and underwear xxx

Yeah dont get it nice people always get picked on because you got what they havent xxx Jealousy pure and simple nothing but a bunch of saddos with nothing better to do than to pick on others xxx

Exactly leave them too it..Thanks for the positive quote it's nice it lifts my spirts to know ..xx"

No problem don't worry I will leave the haters an trolls ..as obviously they are sooo perfect ..

Glad I lifted your spirts it's nice .. i can see you have put a lot of hard work into looseing weight well done

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking."

If she's looking for attention. ...why you giving it to her so?

Well done on the weight loss OP

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By *eachyPairCouple over a year ago

Leicester

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

I didn't ask for a profile critique. "

And she didn't ask u to be nasty to her did she? But being the big brave keyboard warrior u are u decided to.

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"Looking great shell. Did you go out in no knickers?

Thanks i did lol

No so shy now then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

I didn't ask for a profile critique.

See u don't like it when someone critisise s you ..not nice is it it's Ok for u to be funny with me but when someone else has a go at u ..Aww u don't like it..an say u don't want a profile critique"

No Shelbee it is in the forum rules.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking.

I didn't ask for a profile critique.

And she didn't ask u to be nasty to her did she? But being the big brave keyboard warrior u are u decided to."

Feel free to quote any nasty comments that have been made.

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By *andy6677Man over a year ago

crewe

"Looking great shell. Did you go out in no knickers?

Thanks i did lol

Good on you shows you got more confidence than you think going knickerless xxx You may feel shy at mo but as time goes by you will surprise yourself how much more body confidence you have xx Might even go as far as a friend of mine did a few years back and become a full time naturist! xx Shes nude at home and especially when on holiday here or abroad on nudist beaches shes never been happier since she went from 14st down to 9st xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thought it would be the other way to be honest, losing the weight would help gain confidence.

As for the sweet 'n' innocent persona, if it's naturally part of you then it can be endearing, if it's an act it can be a wee bit nauseating.

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By *eachyPairCouple over a year ago

Leicester

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

See negative comment..says a lot about you than me

Don't be nasty else I will report you to the site Admin

Just speaking the truth,you are the one being nasty.

I haven't said anything horrible to you,I never said I was perfect so stop making nasty comments up.

Knock it off ...why be like this on a Sunday morning it's a Sunday a day of relaxation

Im nice and relaxed enjoying a cup of tea and watching tv.Looks like a lovely morning outside aswell.

Good luck with your attention seeking."

I'd say that was pretty nasty

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By *eachyPairCouple over a year ago

Leicester

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread."

Also pretty nasty... need I go on?

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Looking great shell. Did you go out in no knickers?

Thanks i did lol

Well done it sounds as if weight loss is working

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

Also pretty nasty... need I go on? "

Hardly nasty get a grip.

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

Also pretty nasty... need I go on? "

Yes i have to agree that is nasty comment it's nice u stick up for me ..i don't think they realise these comments can destroy a person's confidence

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By *andy6677Man over a year ago

crewe

"Looking great shell. Did you go out in no knickers?

Thanks i did lol

Well done it sounds as if weight loss is working

Sure does xx Worked for me ive met more people since i lost it than ever back when i was 20st xxx

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

Also pretty nasty... need I go on?

Hardly nasty get a grip."

It is your over critical an it comes across as nasty..why do that to some one u don't know me yet u go on an on at me

What's wrong with you. Do u like being a bully an your comments are vindictive

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Looking great shell. Did you go out in no knickers?

Thanks i did lol

Well done it sounds as if weight loss is working

Sure does xx Worked for me ive met more people since i lost it than ever back when i was 20st xxx"

Glad it has worked for you ..

When I was a size 18/20 i couldnt get nice clothes esp lingerie to fit .but now I have more choice in lingerie.

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By *eachyPairCouple over a year ago

Leicester

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

Also pretty nasty... need I go on?

Hardly nasty get a grip."
think u need to get a grip you be fair, ur picking on a single woman as a single man, hardly the way forward is it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not sure if this applies to most people that are over weight but I do put on a bubbly confident character kind of a mask to hide the fact that I am overweight.

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By *andy6677Man over a year ago

crewe

"Looking great shell. Did you go out in no knickers?

Thanks i did lol

Well done it sounds as if weight loss is working

Sure does xx Worked for me ive met more people since i lost it than ever back when i was 20st xxx

Glad it has worked for you ..

When I was a size 18/20 i couldnt get nice clothes esp lingerie to fit .but now I have more choice in lingerie. "

Yeah indeed it has xxx And you have great taste in lingerie as well xxx And a great photographer too xxx Im into photography myself so its refreshing to see someone else who loves it as well xxx

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

Also pretty nasty... need I go on?

Hardly nasty get a grip. think u need to get a grip you be fair, ur picking on a single woman as a single man, hardly the way forward is it."

Also what he don't realise is his attitude on here won't get him a meet on fabs ..Some fems may find it a turn of if is putting nasty comments an diggy comments at me on the forums he is shooting himself in the foot tbh. .let him carry on we see his real personality come out..if this is how he is towards me ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I cba to requote any of the above ^^

But wouldn't it just be easier not to try & have the last word.....

Ignore & move on

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Not sure if this applies to most people that are over weight but I do put on a bubbly confident character kind of a mask to hide the fact that I am overweight. "

Some people are confident others are not..i don't think it's down to size ..

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Looking great shell. Did you go out in no knickers?

Thanks i did lol

Well done it sounds as if weight loss is working

Sure does xx Worked for me ive met more people since i lost it than ever back when i was 20st xxx

Glad it has worked for you ..

When I was a size 18/20 i couldnt get nice clothes esp lingerie to fit .but now I have more choice in lingerie.

Yeah indeed it has xxx And you have great taste in lingerie as well xxx And a great photographer too xxx Im into photography myself so its refreshing to see someone else who loves it as well xxx"

Thanks ive been into photography 11 years I enjoy it ive taken some good pics over the years..Thanks glad u like my taste in lingerie

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

Also pretty nasty... need I go on?

Hardly nasty get a grip. think u need to get a grip you be fair, ur picking on a single woman as a single man, hardly the way forward is it.

Like you said water off a ducks back and you ignore the negative comments.Like somebody else said earlier you clearly don't.

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

Also pretty nasty... need I go on?

Hardly nasty get a grip. think u need to get a grip you be fair, ur picking on a single woman as a single man, hardly the way forward is it.

Like you said water off a ducks back and you ignore the negative comments.Like somebody else said earlier you clearly don't. "

Are you still gong on...For goodness sake ...Grow up an get a life an stop critisising me what is your problem you clearly do have a problem with me ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Saying that we all have our insecurities x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He'll go up in the estimation of others who dislike the nauseating and simpering platitudes of the white knights who are trying so hard for a shag. So it's swings and roundabouts.

For the record I'm neither jealous, perfect or trolling or being bitchy. I just dislike it when women perpetuate the notion that we all have to be girly and meek and innocent to attract a man. Times have changed, thank fuck.

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Saying that we all have our insecurities x"

We do ..We all do mine is when meeting someone for the first time I can be shy .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You look amazing by the way

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By *andy6677Man over a year ago

crewe

"Looking great shell. Did you go out in no knickers?

Thanks i did lol

Well done it sounds as if weight loss is working

Sure does xx Worked for me ive met more people since i lost it than ever back when i was 20st xxx

Glad it has worked for you ..

When I was a size 18/20 i couldnt get nice clothes esp lingerie to fit .but now I have more choice in lingerie.

Yeah indeed it has xxx And you have great taste in lingerie as well xxx And a great photographer too xxx Im into photography myself so its refreshing to see someone else who loves it as well xxx

Thanks ive been into photography 11 years I enjoy it ive taken some good pics over the years..Thanks glad u like my taste in lingerie

Cool was about 10 when i got my first poloroid camera xxx Now run a sony a57 with additional lenses and a tripod of course xxx Looking at trying a 360 camera at somepoint as well xxx Yes i do like your taste always say you can define a womans sexual confidence by the lingerie she wears xxx

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

He'll go up in the estimation of others who dislike the nauseating and simpering platitudes of the white knights who are trying so hard for a shag. So it's swings and roundabouts.

I'm with you on this one, I am far from jealous or trolling, you just can't be one dimensional, it's boring to be like that

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Looking great shell. Did you go out in no knickers?

Thanks i did lol

Well done it sounds as if weight loss is working

Sure does xx Worked for me ive met more people since i lost it than ever back when i was 20st xxx

Glad it has worked for you ..

When I was a size 18/20 i couldnt get nice clothes esp lingerie to fit .but now I have more choice in lingerie.

Yeah indeed it has xxx And you have great taste in lingerie as well xxx And a great photographer too xxx Im into photography myself so its refreshing to see someone else who loves it as well xxx

Thanks ive been into photography 11 years I enjoy it ive taken some good pics over the years..Thanks glad u like my taste in lingerie

I've a nikon dslr d3200 24 mp

I'm happy with the camera it's quite a nice camera ..glad u like my taste in lingerie

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

Also pretty nasty... need I go on?

Hardly nasty get a grip. think u need to get a grip you be fair, ur picking on a single woman as a single man, hardly the way forward is it.

Like you said water off a ducks back and you ignore the negative comments.Like somebody else said earlier you clearly don't.

Are you still gong on...For goodness sake ...Grow up an get a life an stop critisising me what is your problem you clearly do have a problem with me ..."

I don't have a problem with you, you just dont like peoples opinions unless they agree with you.

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

Also pretty nasty... need I go on?

Hardly nasty get a grip. think u need to get a grip you be fair, ur picking on a single woman as a single man, hardly the way forward is it.

Like you said water off a ducks back and you ignore the negative comments.Like somebody else said earlier you clearly don't.

Are you still gong on...For goodness sake ...Grow up an get a life an stop critisising me what is your problem you clearly do have a problem with me ...

I don't have a problem with you, you just dont like peoples opinions unless they agree with you."

Well just drop it now i don't care about your silly comments I only reply to sensible comments

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By *andy6677Man over a year ago

crewe

"Looking great shell. Did you go out in no knickers?

Thanks i did lol

Well done it sounds as if weight loss is working

Sure does xx Worked for me ive met more people since i lost it than ever back when i was 20st xxx

Glad it has worked for you ..

When I was a size 18/20 i couldnt get nice clothes esp lingerie to fit .but now I have more choice in lingerie.

Yeah indeed it has xxx And you have great taste in lingerie as well xxx And a great photographer too xxx Im into photography myself so its refreshing to see someone else who loves it as well xxx

Thanks ive been into photography 11 years I enjoy it ive taken some good pics over the years..Thanks glad u like my taste in lingerie

I've a nikon dslr d3200 24 mp

I'm happy with the camera it's quite a nice camera ..glad u like my taste in lingerie

Mmm pure camera porn there lol xxx Of course im sure your adding to your collection alot now xxx Us guys just dont get the same kinda variation as you girls get xxx For me its just briefs mainly black ones as i dont like boxers or boxer briefs xxx

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Looking great shell. Did you go out in no knickers?

Thanks i did lol

Well done it sounds as if weight loss is working

Sure does xx Worked for me ive met more people since i lost it than ever back when i was 20st xxx

Glad it has worked for you ..

When I was a size 18/20 i couldnt get nice clothes esp lingerie to fit .but now I have more choice in lingerie.

Yeah indeed it has xxx And you have great taste in lingerie as well xxx And a great photographer too xxx Im into photography myself so its refreshing to see someone else who loves it as well xxx

Thanks ive been into photography 11 years I enjoy it ive taken some good pics over the years..Thanks glad u like my taste in lingerie

I've a nikon dslr d3200 24 mp

I'm happy with the camera it's quite a nice camera ..glad u like my taste in lingerie

Briefs ...are they tiny brief s

yes I'm adding more pics to my gallery eventually

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im not critiquing you or anything like that but the fact that you said "if you got nothing nice to say then dont post" so are you saying you expect 175 posts from white knights complimenting you on how they love your sweet and innocent look, do you even have any idea how nauseating and cringe-worthy that would be for other people to read?....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

Also pretty nasty... need I go on?

Hardly nasty get a grip. think u need to get a grip you be fair, ur picking on a single woman as a single man, hardly the way forward is it.

Like you said water off a ducks back and you ignore the negative comments.Like somebody else said earlier you clearly don't.

Are you still gong on...For goodness sake ...Grow up an get a life an stop critisising me what is your problem you clearly do have a problem with me ...

I don't have a problem with you, you just dont like peoples opinions unless they agree with you.

Well just drop it now i don't care about your silly comments I only reply to sensible comments"

So all my comments that you replied to were sensible.Glad you agree

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

Also pretty nasty... need I go on?

Hardly nasty get a grip. think u need to get a grip you be fair, ur picking on a single woman as a single man, hardly the way forward is it.

Like you said water off a ducks back and you ignore the negative comments.Like somebody else said earlier you clearly don't.

Are you still gong on...For goodness sake ...Grow up an get a life an stop critisising me what is your problem you clearly do have a problem with me ...

I don't have a problem with you, you just dont like peoples opinions unless they agree with you.

Well just drop it now i don't care about your silly comments I only reply to sensible comments

So all my comments that you replied to were sensible.Glad you agree

Erm no I don't agree with you at all

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Im not critiquing you or anything like that but the fact that you said "if you got nothing nice to say then dont post" so are you saying you expect 175 posts from white knights complimenting you on how they love your sweet and innocent look, do you even have any idea how nauseating and cringe-worthy that would be for other people to read?....

Omg here we go again ..more critisising

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By *andy6677Man over a year ago

crewe

"Looking great shell. Did you go out in no knickers?

Thanks i did lol

Well done it sounds as if weight loss is working

Sure does xx Worked for me ive met more people since i lost it than ever back when i was 20st xxx

Glad it has worked for you ..

When I was a size 18/20 i couldnt get nice clothes esp lingerie to fit .but now I have more choice in lingerie.

Yeah indeed it has xxx And you have great taste in lingerie as well xxx And a great photographer too xxx Im into photography myself so its refreshing to see someone else who loves it as well xxx

Thanks ive been into photography 11 years I enjoy it ive taken some good pics over the years..Thanks glad u like my taste in lingerie

I've a nikon dslr d3200 24 mp

I'm happy with the camera it's quite a nice camera ..glad u like my taste in lingerie

Briefs ...are they tiny brief s

yes I'm adding more pics to my gallery eventually "

Lol well i do find them a bit of a squeeze tbh lol xxx Great cant wait to see them xxx If you wanted a joint photoshoot let me know xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

Also pretty nasty... need I go on?

Hardly nasty get a grip. think u need to get a grip you be fair, ur picking on a single woman as a single man, hardly the way forward is it.

Like you said water off a ducks back and you ignore the negative comments.Like somebody else said earlier you clearly don't.

Are you still gong on...For goodness sake ...Grow up an get a life an stop critisising me what is your problem you clearly do have a problem with me ...

I don't have a problem with you, you just dont like peoples opinions unless they agree with you.

Well just drop it now i don't care about your silly comments I only reply to sensible comments"

I thought both my comments were sensible.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a blatant look at me thread which will attract white knights.

Not the first one eiher and im sure it wont be the last

Here we go again more negative post..why put a negative post it's Sunday relax chill out for goodness sake .

A little tip for you those who try an be negative or try an be unkind with comments like yours above have issues an are jealous it says a lot about you than it does about me

Nah you are the one who always craves attention with your look at me posts then always end up whinging and playing some kind of victim.Was the same in your look at me I am a goth thread.

Also pretty nasty... need I go on?

Hardly nasty get a grip. think u need to get a grip you be fair, ur picking on a single woman as a single man, hardly the way forward is it.

Like you said water off a ducks back and you ignore the negative comments.Like somebody else said earlier you clearly don't.

Are you still gong on...For goodness sake ...Grow up an get a life an stop critisising me what is your problem you clearly do have a problem with me ...

I don't have a problem with you, you just dont like peoples opinions unless they agree with you.

Well just drop it now i don't care about your silly comments I only reply to sensible comments

So all my comments that you replied to were sensible.Glad you agree

Erm no I don't agree with you at all "

You are very contradictory

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Looking great shell. Did you go out in no knickers?

Thanks i did lol

Well done it sounds as if weight loss is working

Sure does xx Worked for me ive met more people since i lost it than ever back when i was 20st xxx

Glad it has worked for you ..

When I was a size 18/20 i couldnt get nice clothes esp lingerie to fit .but now I have more choice in lingerie.

Yeah indeed it has xxx And you have great taste in lingerie as well xxx And a great photographer too xxx Im into photography myself so its refreshing to see someone else who loves it as well xxx

Thanks ive been into photography 11 years I enjoy it ive taken some good pics over the years..Thanks glad u like my taste in lingerie

I've a nikon dslr d3200 24 mp

I'm happy with the camera it's quite a nice camera ..glad u like my taste in lingerie

Briefs ...are they tiny brief s

yes I'm adding more pics to my gallery eventually

Lol well i do find them a bit of a squeeze tbh lol xxx Great cant wait to see them xxx If you wanted a joint photoshoot let me know xxx"

Sounds good a joint photo shoot ...

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By *hrobinhoodMan over a year ago

arnold, Nottingham

"Since looseing weight I've found sexually im a little shy

Do you find it a turn on if a fem is shy sexually

I've been told it's sweet an innocent. .

Hey stranger, you look fantastic in your pictures xxx Shy is good, Id be gentle with you lol xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Sorry to here that op ive always been pretty confident but losing weight has sent me over the edge. Im loving it

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Since looseing weight I've found sexually im a little shy

Do you find it a turn on if a fem is shy sexually

I've been told it's sweet an innocent. .

Hey stranger, you look fantastic in your pictures xxx Shy is good, Id be gentle with you lol xx"

Hi there ..Thanks for compliments. .im glad u think shy is good

u promise u will be gentle lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry to here that op ive always been pretty confident but losing weight has sent me over the edge. Im loving it

You look fantastic

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By *hrobinhoodMan over a year ago

arnold, Nottingham

"Since looseing weight I've found sexually im a little shy

Do you find it a turn on if a fem is shy sexually

I've been told it's sweet an innocent. .

Hey stranger, you look fantastic in your pictures xxx Shy is good, Id be gentle with you lol xx

Hi there ..Thanks for compliments. .im glad u think shy is good

u promise u will be gentle lol "

Yes Ill be gentle and just use half lol xx

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Sorry to here that op ive always been pretty confident but losing weight has sent me over the edge. Im loving it

That's Ok ...have u how do u get your confidence since looseing weight. ..as I've found its had the opposite affect ...

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Since looseing weight I've found sexually im a little shy

Do you find it a turn on if a fem is shy sexually

I've been told it's sweet an innocent. .

Hey stranger, you look fantastic in your pictures xxx Shy is good, Id be gentle with you lol xx

Hi there ..Thanks for compliments. .im glad u think shy is good

u promise u will be gentle lol

Yes Ill be gentle and just use half lol xx"

Use half lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've gone from a size 24 to an 18, and still losing weight.

I have grown more confident and feel even more sexier, I love my lingerie, but I do worry about loose skin, And what men might think!!

Well done on your weight loss from a size 24 to a size 18..

Don't worry about lose skin

I have a bit too...an it's not easy to get rid of as I've found out "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you find it a turn on if a fem is shy sexually"

No, it's annoying. Also, I have enough of my own insecurities to want to deal with someone else's.

As a grown man, I find intelligent, confident, funny, sarcastic, sexy women more attractive than shy and innocent girls.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Just because someone doesn't agree with you doesn't make them nasty or a troll.

Me, if I lose weight I gain confidence, and find this attracts men. I don't want to put on a sweet and innocent persona to get attention. I would rather be myself.

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By *helbee OP Couple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Do you find it a turn on if a fem is shy sexually

No, it's annoying. Also, I have enough of my own insecurities to want to deal with someone else's.

As a grown man, I find intelligent, confident, funny, sarcastic, sexy women more attractive than shy and innocent girls. "

What I find annoying is people who critisise

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you find it a turn on if a fem is shy sexually

No, it's annoying. Also, I have enough of my own insecurities to want to deal with someone else's.

As a grown man, I find intelligent, confident, funny, sarcastic, sexy women more attractive than shy and innocent girls. "

Oh and scanning this thread I'd best say that this isn't directed at the OP or anyone else: I'm just directly answering that question!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Sorry to here that op ive always been pretty confident but losing weight has sent me over the edge. Im loving it

That's Ok ...have u how do u get your confidence since looseing weight. ..as I've found its had the opposite affect ..."
i always had confidence but the fact i can wear the dainty shoes and sexy outfits ive always wanted to wear and have become even more energetic and lively

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shelves you look good in all your pics both before you lost the weight and after,sweetness,innocence and loss of confidence is something some people will find attractive and some people not each to their own but the confidence thing is great when you see someone grow in confidence and lose their inhibitions that can be a great turn on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What I find annoying is people who critisise

What I find annoying is when people ask a question then take answers they don't like as a personal criticism.

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