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Does the truth really work
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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do women really want us men to be honest because I get a lot of stick for my profile yet there are a lot of women with similar profiles playing away from home |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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Honesty is always best. Unless I missed it, can't tell from your profile you're married and playing away, the only hint is you can't accommodate. Why not just say you're attached? A lot of us don't care if that's the case but DO care if you lie.
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"This woman prefers honesty about your relationship status but not about if my bum looks big in this  
I wants to know if my bum looks big in this too, though it might not stop me buying it  "
I work on the basis that I can't see my bum so it doesn't ever look big to me  |
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"I like the truth and I do not give 'stick' if I don't like it."
Me too. If someone comes into the forum moaning that nobody will meet them because they're attached or running their partner down I will respond though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What do you mean by "stick".
If someone messages me with a profile like yours I'll generally reply no, I don't play with married... (Unless it's together, but that's different!)
I guess plenty lie. But I'd rather know.
A few have assumed I'm attached because I've put can't accommodate but that's their assumption and it's wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single Married guys on here without wife's knowledge? That adultery not swinging no grey area they need to be honest and give couples or even single woman the choice weather or not they wish to be party to it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do women really want us men to be honest because I get a lot of stick for my profile yet there are a lot of women with similar profiles playing away from home "
Personally I'd rather be told the truth than be hurt and lead on by lies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honesty is always best. Unless I missed it, can't tell from your profile you're married and playing away, the only hint is you can't accommodate. Why not just say you're attached? A lot of us don't care if that's the case but DO care if you lie.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure it's the fact you're attached is the only problem with your profile .....
Ok wat else u think is wrong pls"
Three sentences, a bigger disclaimer and one strange picture perhaps? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Single Married guys on here without wife's knowledge? That adultery not swinging no grey area they need to be honest and give couples or even single woman the choice weather or not they wish to be party to it "
I have been honest on my profile but still getting abusive messages |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not sure it's the fact you're attached is the only problem with your profile .....
Ok wat else u think is wrong pls
Three sentences, a bigger disclaimer and one strange picture perhaps?"
Lol ok didn't think my pic was strange its me in a towel didn't want to show off everything |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not much to do with your profile....if the odds are in your favor truth/lie won't make a difference and if the odds are not in your favor truth/lie won't make a difference just take a good look around a site and you would see what I mean .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single Married guys on here without wife's knowledge? That adultery not swinging no grey area they need to be honest and give couples or even single woman the choice weather or not they wish to be party to it
I have been honest on my profile but still getting abusive messages "
They shouldn't give you abuse but in the same breath it is called fabswingers not fabadulterers.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single Married guys on here without wife's knowledge? That adultery not swinging no grey area they need to be honest and give couples or even single woman the choice weather or not they wish to be party to it
I have been honest on my profile but still getting abusive messages "
Report the abusive messages. Just because you're married and cheating doesn't mean you have to put up with abuse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single Married guys on here without wife's knowledge? That adultery not swinging no grey area they need to be honest and give couples or even single woman the choice weather or not they wish to be party to it
I have been honest on my profile but still getting abusive messages
Report the abusive messages. Just because you're married and cheating doesn't mean you have to put up with abuse."
Lol im sure his wife wouldn't agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think most people would prefer the truth although some can't handle it! I don't wish to meet married/attached men and because I message people first, I'd appreciate that info being on a profile so no one's time is wasted. As for getting stick for it, ignore and report, some people lead sad lives and have nothing better to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"do women really want us men to be honest because I get a lot of stick for my profile yet there are a lot of women with similar profiles playing away from home "
to be fair you do say you are attached BUT that is probably WHY you get the stick...if you don't have a conscience then don't mention it but as you have chosen to then you have to be able the suffer consequences as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure it's the fact you're attached is the only problem with your profile .....
Ok wat else u think is wrong pls
Three sentences, a bigger disclaimer and one strange picture perhaps?
Lol ok didn't think my pic was strange its me in a towel didn't want to show off everything "
Ah, well, two out of three can be bad. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Single Married guys on here without wife's knowledge? That adultery not swinging no grey area they need to be honest and give couples or even single woman the choice weather or not they wish to be party to it
I have been honest on my profile but still getting abusive messages
Report the abusive messages. Just because you're married and cheating doesn't mean you have to put up with abuse.
Lol im sure his wife wouldn't agree "
Lol not married jus have girlfriend |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single Married guys on here without wife's knowledge? That adultery not swinging no grey area they need to be honest and give couples or even single woman the choice weather or not they wish to be party to it
I have been honest on my profile but still getting abusive messages
Report the abusive messages. Just because you're married and cheating doesn't mean you have to put up with abuse.
Lol im sure his wife wouldn't agree "
She's not running this site though.
Everyone using this site has the right to be safe on here and admin will help contribute to that. |
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"Single Married guys on here without wife's knowledge? That adultery not swinging no grey area they need to be honest and give couples or even single woman the choice weather or not they wish to be party to it "
This 
Personally I wouldn't play with a man that I knew was attached OR a woman that was attached. I know what you mean that there are a lot of women doing it and they don't seem to get as much 'stick' but I dislike both equally
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single Married guys on here without wife's knowledge? That adultery not swinging no grey area they need to be honest and give couples or even single woman the choice weather or not they wish to be party to it
I have been honest on my profile but still getting abusive messages
Report the abusive messages. Just because you're married and cheating doesn't mean you have to put up with abuse."
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By (user no longer on site)
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Much prefer honesty , as then an informed choice can be made. Besides which - there are usually a few giveaways that someone is attached. Best to be upfront about it.
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"Single Married guys on here without wife's knowledge? That adultery not swinging no grey area they need to be honest and give couples or even single woman the choice weather or not they wish to be party to it
I have been honest on my profile but still getting abusive messages
Report the abusive messages. Just because you're married and cheating doesn't mean you have to put up with abuse.
Lol im sure his wife wouldn't agree "
Do you know his wife, though, or their relationship? Why assume she wants to be involved? Not every spouse wants to ... my ex cheated, had an affair, on me but its very different from meeting someone for NSA sex on here and also very different from tucking someone else right in front of someone's face, and even forcing a partner to do it ... I dont think couples should be all sanctimonious. Its only swingers who can see the difference between swinging and cheating, most 'normal' people cant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single Married guys on here without wife's knowledge? That adultery not swinging no grey area they need to be honest and give couples or even single woman the choice weather or not they wish to be party to it
I have been honest on my profile but still getting abusive messages
Report the abusive messages. Just because you're married and cheating doesn't mean you have to put up with abuse."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single Married guys on here without wife's knowledge? That adultery not swinging no grey area they need to be honest and give couples or even single woman the choice weather or not they wish to be party to it
I have been honest on my profile but still getting abusive messages
Report the abusive messages. Just because you're married and cheating doesn't mean you have to put up with abuse.
Lol im sure his wife wouldn't agree
Do you know his wife, though, or their relationship? Why assume she wants to be involved? Not every spouse wants to ... my ex cheated, had an affair, on me but its very different from meeting someone for NSA sex on here and also very different from tucking someone else right in front of someone's face, and even forcing a partner to do it ...
I dont think couples should be all sanctimonious. Its only swingers who can see the difference between swinging and cheating, most 'normal' people cant. "
Lots of swingers cheat. Perhaps some of the bitchy couples are worried about their own partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single Married guys on here without wife's knowledge? That adultery not swinging no grey area they need to be honest and give couples or even single woman the choice weather or not they wish to be party to it
I have been honest on my profile but still getting abusive messages
Report the abusive messages. Just because you're married and cheating doesn't mean you have to put up with abuse."
Exactly this ^^
People get abuse when they're upfront on here & moaned about when they don't.
Don't let people be rude to you, there are plenty who will meet attached people as well as those that don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single Married guys on here without wife's knowledge? That adultery not swinging no grey area they need to be honest and give couples or even single woman the choice weather or not they wish to be party to it
I have been honest on my profile but still getting abusive messages
Report the abusive messages. Just because you're married and cheating doesn't mean you have to put up with abuse.
Lol im sure his wife wouldn't agree
Do you know his wife, though, or their relationship? Why assume she wants to be involved? Not every spouse wants to ... my ex cheated, had an affair, on me but its very different from meeting someone for NSA sex on here and also very different from tucking someone else right in front of someone's face, and even forcing a partner to do it ...
I dont think couples should be all sanctimonious. Its only swingers who can see the difference between swinging and cheating, most 'normal' people cant.
Lots of swingers cheat. Perhaps some of the bitchy couples are worried about their own partner. "
Yep, I would say my inbox is testament to the fact that some do. |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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"Single Married guys on here without wife's knowledge? That adultery not swinging no grey area they need to be honest and give couples or even single woman the choice weather or not they wish to be party to it
I have been honest on my profile but still getting abusive messages
They shouldn't give you abuse but in the same breath it is called fabswingers not fabadulterers. "
Judgemental, aren't we? I don't condone adultery but everyone's different and everyone's circumstances are different. Honesty remains important, regardless. Nothing's more insulting to one's intelligence if a married person comes on here posing as "single". The truth becomes evident very very quickly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single Married guys on here without wife's knowledge? That adultery not swinging no grey area they need to be honest and give couples or even single woman the choice weather or not they wish to be party to it
I have been honest on my profile but still getting abusive messages
Report the abusive messages. Just because you're married and cheating doesn't mean you have to put up with abuse.
Lol im sure his wife wouldn't agree
Do you know his wife, though, or their relationship? Why assume she wants to be involved? Not every spouse wants to ... my ex cheated, had an affair, on me but its very different from meeting someone for NSA sex on here and also very different from tucking someone else right in front of someone's face, and even forcing a partner to do it ... I dont think couples should be all sanctimonious. Its only swingers who can see the difference between swinging and cheating, most 'normal' people cant. "
The hypocrisy from forum posters is fuckin hilarious |
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