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Who arranges your meets?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Suppose this only applies to couples, but is it Mr or Mrs who arranges procedings?
In our case it's me, Jack. I usually do the prospecting, and the messaging. I show Kate the pics and we decide together whether to take it further |
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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago
edinburgh |
He (J) has had more luck than me! I am polite, talkative and all the rest of it. There's loads of people we chat to that I've got in touch with. All actual meets have came via J though! Which is funny as he doesn't spend that long on line, his spelling is really poor and he doesn't to 'chatty' like I do - but it seems to work! I'm always aware of what's going on though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its usually me mrs jnp who is online so its mostly me who arranges our meets,and like the other poster said Paul is always in the loop and i always show him emails and profiles before i said yes to a meet x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're a couple and it's me, Mr P, who does all the browsing, mailing and selecting, maybe largely because joining this site in the first place was my idea. If it comes to possibly arranging meets, then Mrs P looks at the profiles and messages and we make the eventual decisions together.
In writing to couples, I think I find it about 50/50 whether it's the man or the woman writing ... or they don't say and it's impossible to tell! |
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
south staffs |
Its me, Jane, who does all the trawling, reading and answering of messages, sifting through the chaff etc. Hubby is just too busy to be bothered with the nitty gritty. When I find a possible meet we talk it over and he has a read of the profile and a perve at the pics.
It works for us.
Jane x |
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
Back of Beyond |
I do (Brian) Katee gives me carte blanche to look through profiles and begin chatting with singles/couples. Once I decide on a profile I show it to Katee, if she is happy with what is written and the messages back and forth between us, we go forward and arrange to meet.
So I do the browsing and she does the final selection  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We tend to sort them together.. I quite often find that Master has been chatting to people on my behalf and I will get told to go and look at a profile and see.
We always plan meets together too..
Katie. x |
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"We tend to sort them together.. I quite often find that Master has been chatting to people on my behalf and I will get told to go and look at a profile and see.
We always plan meets together too..
Katie. x"
To me tahst how it should work in a sub /Dom relationship like you two have
There are plenty of Doms / Dommes. who will say you are shagging so and so tonight thats my choice and you are doing it
soem people are of course happy with taht scenario |
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By *nnTonCouple
over a year ago
birmingham |
Sir does the initial filtering of messages and browse results purely because he has a proven track record of being better at sorting the wheat from the chaff and apparantly more "private" pc time than me. (Says something about levels of filter in work situations. & the fact that his lappy has a privacy screen methinks! Lol)
Once he has swopped initial messages I will be given the opportunity for my own input. Often f/f chat is the best way forward anyway and then my opinions count very much.If that happens in a social setting then we have agreed subtle codes to confirm our personal thoughts but have only very seldom needed to use them as we are so much in tune! A personal veto is always honoured however.
And then comes the fun bit of co-ordinating diaries!!
Tanni |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We browse and sort mail etc together, with me (mrs) doing the majority of typing, chat etc. Sometimes hubby will say no (no reason given and none asked for)sometimes I will. If we both agree onve all the chat and everything else is ok then I will contact the other party myself and arrange everything.Ultimately, the decision is mine though.x |
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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago
inverclyde |
i arrange my own, my ex hubby used to arrange mine but never told me till that day and i had to go on my own, never knew who or what the guy was like till i went, then i snapped and decided enough was enough so i left him he was a control freak |
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I have to work bloody hard to get anyone interested in us as a couple though 
....oh shite, typing out loud again... 
