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Would you believe a guy if he said he is a virgin in his 30s
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is gonna be controversial and i'll probably get hammered for this advice, but why not just meet an escort or two? Get it over with, feel better about it, then when you have sex with someone more meaningful you won't be focused on that and can just enjoy it. Its dead easy to do nowadays.
Anyway back to people telling you your time will come |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
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Does virginity matter? Really? Different people lose it at different ages and for different reasons. Why does it have to be such a big deal anyway? It's just sex.
Being a Virgin doesn't necessarily mean someone will be crap in bed in the same way someone who's had loads of partners isn't guaranteed to be a great shag.
Lose it when you feel comfortable to and for the right reasons someone you actually want to lose it to. |
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"This is gonna be controversial and i'll probably get hammered for this advice, but why not just meet an escort or two? Get it over with, feel better about it, then when you have sex with someone more meaningful you won't be focused on that and can just enjoy it. Its dead easy to do nowadays.
Anyway back to people telling you your time will come"
Exactly my thoughts on reading op's post.
op, I think if you've got to this age and not lost your virginty , you need to look at the reasons why, (that is if it's an issue to you ).Maybe you think being deaf will be a turn off to women and I'm sure to some it would, to some,,,,but,,,,to some it won't , confidence is more of an aphrodisiac to some ladies than a chiselled jaw and a six pack. So, my advice is , get it over with, pay a hooker, a few times if you need to. Then come back here and be confident. Good luck dude.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe this site isn't for you just yet, if I where you id come back on this site wen you've got a bit of experience then you know your likes & dislikes etc.
Just saying hope this helps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would start by asking for profile advice.
I see a giant problem with your profile that will put most users off.
We'd personally not be bothered about your deafness or lack of experience (we were all new once) but you really need to advertise yourself a bit better if you want to get anywhere on here.
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Yeah, my ex was one. He's socially awkward and is on the low end of the autism spectrum, though I'm not sure he realises that.
It's one of the reasons we didn't work out, he was scared to take the plunge and for me intimacy is a big part of a relationship. We're still friends though |
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"This is gonna be controversial and i'll probably get hammered for this advice, but why not just meet an escort or two? Get it over with, feel better about it, then when you have sex with someone more meaningful you won't be focused on that and can just enjoy it. Its dead easy to do nowadays.
Anyway back to people telling you your time will come"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I am  and im genuine
Welcome back. Still no takers then?"
You have a profile pic which is some advice that's been listened to (maybe).
Keep plugging away, but I'd suggest a swingers site would be better for you when your confidence is higher, socially and sexually perhaps? |
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"In my opinion, if you want to lose your virginity on a swingers site, there is something tragically wrong."
Maybe,but if he's tried losing it by other means and it's not working then this is just another way surely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my opinion, if you want to lose your virginity on a swingers site, there is something tragically wrong."
Why??? Some women fantasise about taking virginity!! Or is that just me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my opinion, if you want to lose your virginity on a swingers site, there is something tragically wrong.
Why??? Some women fantasise about taking virginity!! Or is that just me "
Wish I had mine to lose then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my opinion, if you want to lose your virginity on a swingers site, there is something tragically wrong.
Why??? Some women fantasise about taking virginity!! Or is that just me
Wish I had mine to lose then "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my opinion, if you want to lose your virginity on a swingers site, there is something tragically wrong.
Maybe,but if he's tried losing it by other means and it's not working then this is just another way surely. "
You make virginity sound like burden. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes it is a burden!
We all want to lose it in some memorable and exciting way but others just want to lose the label so they can progress and start enjoying sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, my ex was one. He's socially awkward and is on the low end of the autism spectrum, though I'm not sure he realises that.
It's one of the reasons we didn't work out, he was scared to take the plunge and for me intimacy is a big part of a relationship. We're still friends though "
Had a similar experience. Very frustrating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it is a burden!
We all want to lose it in some memorable and exciting way but others just want to lose the label so they can progress and start enjoying sex. "
If you can form a relationship with a human being (boy/girl, boy/boy, girl/girl) you can lose your virginity. If you can't then you probably shouldn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my opinion, if you want to lose your virginity on a swingers site, there is something tragically wrong.
Why??? Some women fantasise about taking virginity!! Or is that just me "
And me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it is a burden!
We all want to lose it in some memorable and exciting way but others just want to lose the label so they can progress and start enjoying sex.
If you can form a relationship with a human being (boy/girl, boy/boy, girl/girl) you can lose your virginity. If you can't then you probably shouldn't."
Well that's a dreadful thing to say and doesn't allow for shyness, social relationship issues, or anything! are you saying not everyone deserves to have fun? That's a little sad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my opinion, if you want to lose your virginity on a swingers site, there is something tragically wrong.
Why??? Some women fantasise about taking virginity!! Or is that just me
And me!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it is a burden!
We all want to lose it in some memorable and exciting way but others just want to lose the label so they can progress and start enjoying sex.
If you can form a relationship with a human being (boy/girl, boy/boy, girl/girl) you can lose your virginity. If you can't then you probably shouldn't."
Everyone deserves a fuck Clem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my opinion, if you want to lose your virginity on a swingers site, there is something tragically wrong.
Why??? Some women fantasise about taking virginity!! Or is that just me
And me!
Girl after my own heart "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it is a burden!
We all want to lose it in some memorable and exciting way but others just want to lose the label so they can progress and start enjoying sex.
If you can form a relationship with a human being (boy/girl, boy/boy, girl/girl) you can lose your virginity. If you can't then you probably shouldn't.
What she said
Everyone deserves a fuck Clem"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it is a burden!
We all want to lose it in some memorable and exciting way but others just want to lose the label so they can progress and start enjoying sex.
If you can form a relationship with a human being (boy/girl, boy/boy, girl/girl) you can lose your virginity. If you can't then you probably shouldn't.
What she said
Everyone deserves a fuck Clem"
I don't agree. Some people aren't "right in the head". It's not a basic human right to have sex if you're not emotionally capable of forming a bond. |
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"In my opinion, if you want to lose your virginity on a swingers site, there is something tragically wrong.
Maybe,but if he's tried losing it by other means and it's not working then this is just another way surely.
You make virginity sound like burden."
At 31 years of age it may be for him. I just don't know why you find it tragically sad. It's his decision to be on here this is the way he's chosen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it is a burden!
We all want to lose it in some memorable and exciting way but others just want to lose the label so they can progress and start enjoying sex.
If you can form a relationship with a human being (boy/girl, boy/boy, girl/girl) you can lose your virginity. If you can't then you probably shouldn't.
What she said
Everyone deserves a fuck Clem
I don't agree. Some people aren't "right in the head". It's not a basic human right to have sex if you're not emotionally capable of forming a bond."
Oh dear... You're either 'not right in the head' or you are being provocative .. It's kind of like saying that if you have no teeth you have no right to eat! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it is a burden!
We all want to lose it in some memorable and exciting way but others just want to lose the label so they can progress and start enjoying sex.
If you can form a relationship with a human being (boy/girl, boy/boy, girl/girl) you can lose your virginity. If you can't then you probably shouldn't.
What she said
Everyone deserves a fuck Clem
I don't agree. Some people aren't "right in the head". It's not a basic human right to have sex if you're not emotionally capable of forming a bond.
Oh dear... You're either 'not right in the head' or you are being provocative .. It's kind of like saying that if you have no teeth you have no right to eat!"
So let the paedophiles out. |
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"Sometimes it is a burden!
We all want to lose it in some memorable and exciting way but others just want to lose the label so they can progress and start enjoying sex.
If you can form a relationship with a human being (boy/girl, boy/boy, girl/girl) you can lose your virginity. If you can't then you probably shouldn't.
Well that's a dreadful thing to say and doesn't allow for shyness, social relationship issues, or anything! are you saying not everyone deserves to have fun? That's a little sad "
I agree,he may not be looking to have a relationship or friendship,he may purely want sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is gonna be controversial and i'll probably get hammered for this advice, but why not just meet an escort or two? Get it over with, feel better about it, then when you have sex with someone more meaningful you won't be focused on that and can just enjoy it. Its dead easy to do nowadays.
Anyway back to people telling you your time will come"
Did the OP say he wasn't happy about it? I must have missed that. |
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"Sometimes it is a burden!
We all want to lose it in some memorable and exciting way but others just want to lose the label so they can progress and start enjoying sex.
If you can form a relationship with a human being (boy/girl, boy/boy, girl/girl) you can lose your virginity. If you can't then you probably shouldn't.
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Everyone deserves a fuck Clem
I don't agree. Some people aren't "right in the head". It's not a basic human right to have sex if you're not emotionally capable of forming a bond."
That's some statement! I don't agree however. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it is a burden!
We all want to lose it in some memorable and exciting way but others just want to lose the label so they can progress and start enjoying sex.
If you can form a relationship with a human being (boy/girl, boy/boy, girl/girl) you can lose your virginity. If you can't then you probably shouldn't.
What she said
Everyone deserves a fuck Clem
I don't agree. Some people aren't "right in the head". It's not a basic human right to have sex if you're not emotionally capable of forming a bond.
Oh dear... You're either 'not right in the head' or you are being provocative .. It's kind of like saying that if you have no teeth you have no right to eat!
So let the paedophiles out."
Between consenting people !! A little disturbing that's where your mind went, but ok |
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"Sometimes it is a burden!
We all want to lose it in some memorable and exciting way but others just want to lose the label so they can progress and start enjoying sex.
If you can form a relationship with a human being (boy/girl, boy/boy, girl/girl) you can lose your virginity. If you can't then you probably shouldn't.
What she said
Everyone deserves a fuck Clem
I don't agree. Some people aren't "right in the head". It's not a basic human right to have sex if you're not emotionally capable of forming a bond.
Oh dear... You're either 'not right in the head' or you are being provocative .. It's kind of like saying that if you have no teeth you have no right to eat!
So let the paedophiles out."
So we've gone from a 31 year virgin wanting sex to paedophiles in one thread that's not good! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone deserves a fuck" not my words.
Does Gary glitter deserve a fuck? No.
Did Ted Bundy deserve a fuck? No.
"Meet an escort or 2" Does it matter they may be paying for a heroin addiction? Or have been victims of slavery even? No. As long as he gets to pop his FUCKING CHERRY!! Talk about 1st world problems!
Let's do the maths...
Virgin + experienced swingers = loss of virginity? Possibly.
Does loss of virginity = happy fulfilled human? No.
Having intercourse is not a human right. |
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""Everyone deserves a fuck" not my words.
Does Gary glitter deserve a fuck? No.
Did Ted Bundy deserve a fuck? No.
"Meet an escort or 2" Does it matter they may be paying for a heroin addiction? Or have been victims of slavery even? No. As long as he gets to pop his FUCKING CHERRY!! Talk about 1st world problems!
Let's do the maths...
Virgin + experienced swingers = loss of virginity? Possibly.
Does loss of virginity = happy fulfilled human? No.
Having intercourse is not a human right."
A right - no. A basic human need -yes! It's the way the human race continues to survive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi! I'm socially awkward, can't talk to women very easily and I'm fixated on losing my virginity. I've heard swingers are easy with low self esteem, so will one of you fuck me?"
60% of the time, it works everytime....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Hi! I'm socially awkward, can't talk to women very easily and I'm fixated on losing my virginity. I've heard swingers are easy with low self esteem, so will one of you fuck me?"
60% of the time, it works everytime.... "
Well fab is a sex site for those that might find sex with a consenting Virgin exciting... Or maybe this is a knitting site and nobody told me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't want to rape legalised.
Right so now you're bringing rape into the aquotion!
Actually dismiss that,I don't understand your statement "
You said sexual intercourse is "A basic human need, It's the way the human race continues to survive."
That's not a human need. That's an animal need. Humans fall in love. Form relationships, that can if you're lucky, build to sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Hi! I'm socially awkward, can't talk to women very easily and I'm fixated on losing my virginity. I've heard swingers are easy with low self esteem, so will one of you fuck me?"
60% of the time, it works everytime....
Well fab is a sex site for those that might find sex with a consenting Virgin exciting... Or maybe this is a knitting site and nobody told me! "
If you're happy to be seen as "easy" more power to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't want to rape legalised.
Right so now you're bringing rape into the aquotion!
Actually dismiss that,I don't understand your statement
You said sexual intercourse is "A basic human need, It's the way the human race continues to survive."
But fab is about sex isn't it? Not about building lasting relationships!!!
That's not a human need. That's an animal need. Humans fall in love. Form relationships, that can if you're lucky, build to sex. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Hi! I'm socially awkward, can't talk to women very easily and I'm fixated on losing my virginity. I've heard swingers are easy with low self esteem, so will one of you fuck me?"
60% of the time, it works everytime....
Well fab is a sex site for those that might find sex with a consenting Virgin exciting... Or maybe this is a knitting site and nobody told me!
If you're happy to be seen as "easy" more power to you."
Well I'd say that a sex site like this teams likeminded people looking for sex. I don't want relationships... I have one! This isn't a dating site! And maybe that does make me easy being on a sex site. Who knows |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I am and im genuine"
Wouldn't dispute virginity at 20, 30 or 60, but I would wonder what the hell a virgin is doing on this site.
Get out in real life, lose the virginity either naturally or pay a professional, then if you decide vanilla sex doesn't offer all you want, come back here to see what else is on offer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't want to rape legalised.
Right so now you're bringing rape into the aquotion!
Actually dismiss that,I don't understand your statement
You said sexual intercourse is "A basic human need, It's the way the human race continues to survive."
But fab is about sex isn't it? Not about building lasting relationships!!!
That's not a human need. That's an animal need. Humans fall in love. Form relationships, that can if you're lucky, build to sex. "
So i say it again. It's my opinion that someone who will gladly throw away their virginity to a stranger on a swinging site is tragic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't want to rape legalised.
Right so now you're bringing rape into the aquotion!
Actually dismiss that,I don't understand your statement
You said sexual intercourse is "A basic human need, It's the way the human race continues to survive."
But fab is about sex isn't it? Not about building lasting relationships!!!
That's not a human need. That's an animal need. Humans fall in love. Form relationships, that can if you're lucky, build to sex.
So i say it again. It's my opinion that someone who will gladly throw away their virginity to a stranger on a swinging site is tragic."
Walk in another's shoes before judging. Live and let live |
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"I don't want to rape legalised.
Right so now you're bringing rape into the aquotion!
Actually dismiss that,I don't understand your statement
You said sexual intercourse is "A basic human need, It's the way the human race continues to survive."
That's not a human need. That's an animal need. Humans fall in love. Form relationships, that can if you're lucky, build to sex. "
Of course it's a human need,we're not talking about animal's unless you want to bring them into this as well. The majority of people are here to have sex not to form a relationship,are they not?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't want to rape legalised.
Right so now you're bringing rape into the aquotion!
Actually dismiss that,I don't understand your statement
You said sexual intercourse is "A basic human need, It's the way the human race continues to survive."
That's not a human need. That's an animal need. Humans fall in love. Form relationships, that can if you're lucky, build to sex.
Of course it's a human need,we're not talking about animal's unless you want to bring them into this as well. The majority of people are here to have sex not to form a relationship,are they not?!"
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"Well I am and im genuine
Wouldn't dispute virginity at 20, 30 or 60, but I would wonder what the hell a virgin is doing on this site.
Get out in real life, lose the virginity either naturally or pay a professional, then if you decide vanilla sex doesn't offer all you want, come back here to see what else is on offer."
He may have done all that already and this is last on the list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Hi! I'm socially awkward, can't talk to women very easily and I'm fixated on losing my virginity. I've heard swingers are easy with low self esteem, so will one of you fuck me?"
60% of the time, it works everytime.... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I am and im genuine
Wouldn't dispute virginity at 20, 30 or 60, but I would wonder what the hell a virgin is doing on this site.
Get out in real life, lose the virginity either naturally or pay a professional, then if you decide vanilla sex doesn't offer all you want, come back here to see what else is on offer.
He may have done all that already and this is last on the list"
I applaud the lucky lady who wears that thorny crown... |
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"Well I am and im genuine
Wouldn't dispute virginity at 20, 30 or 60, but I would wonder what the hell a virgin is doing on this site.
Get out in real life, lose the virginity either naturally or pay a professional, then if you decide vanilla sex doesn't offer all you want, come back here to see what else is on offer.
He may have done all that already and this is last on the list
I applaud the lucky lady who wears that thorny crown..."
Or lucky man... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I am and im genuine
Wouldn't dispute virginity at 20, 30 or 60, but I would wonder what the hell a virgin is doing on this site.
Get out in real life, lose the virginity either naturally or pay a professional, then if you decide vanilla sex doesn't offer all you want, come back here to see what else is on offer.
He may have done all that already and this is last on the list
I applaud the lucky lady who wears that thorny crown..."
I think it may be ultimate pity fuck ..... |
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"Well I am and im genuine
Wouldn't dispute virginity at 20, 30 or 60, but I would wonder what the hell a virgin is doing on this site.
Get out in real life, lose the virginity either naturally or pay a professional, then if you decide vanilla sex doesn't offer all you want, come back here to see what else is on offer.
He may have done all that already and this is last on the list
I applaud the lucky lady who wears that thorny crown...
I think it may be ultimate pity fuck ....."
Isn't that being a little patronising to the guy saying that?! It may be someone who fancies the absolute fuck out of him,would it be a pity fuck then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I am and im genuine
Wouldn't dispute virginity at 20, 30 or 60, but I would wonder what the hell a virgin is doing on this site.
Get out in real life, lose the virginity either naturally or pay a professional, then if you decide vanilla sex doesn't offer all you want, come back here to see what else is on offer.
He may have done all that already and this is last on the list"
But then he would be telling a fib saying he is a virgin. .. don't think you are allowed to fib on fab |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I am and im genuine"
There is another guy on FabS with a very similar profile who starts threads like this one every so often. Meet up with him to exchange experiences and what works |
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"Well I am and im genuine
Wouldn't dispute virginity at 20, 30 or 60, but I would wonder what the hell a virgin is doing on this site.
Get out in real life, lose the virginity either naturally or pay a professional, then if you decide vanilla sex doesn't offer all you want, come back here to see what else is on offer.
He may have done all that already and this is last on the list
But then he would be telling a fib saying he is a virgin. .. don't think you are allowed to fib on fab "
No I meant tried to do all that . You can't fib on fab you get a black branded stamp on your forehead when you do for all to see... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I am and im genuine
Wouldn't dispute virginity at 20, 30 or 60, but I would wonder what the hell a virgin is doing on this site.
Get out in real life, lose the virginity either naturally or pay a professional, then if you decide vanilla sex doesn't offer all you want, come back here to see what else is on offer.
He may have done all that already and this is last on the list
I applaud the lucky lady who wears that thorny crown...
I think it may be ultimate pity fuck .....
Isn't that being a little patronising to the guy saying that?! It may be someone who fancies the absolute fuck out of him,would it be a pity fuck then?"
No it wouldn't, but would he have made the initial connection based on the fact he is a virgin at 31 ?
If someone fancied the fuck out of him for who he is and not what he is , that would be different . |
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The OP has been on Fab before in at least one other profile that I remember and his forum posts are all exactly the same. I have no idea why he continues to ask the same question over and over without engaging in dialogue or revealing anything else that may help him but if all he says is true, I'm going to agree with Clem on this one; what a sad state of affairs if, at his age and personality, he wants to lose his virginity in this way, although the chances of doing it are very slim.
I have a feeling he's simply enjoying the attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The OP has been on Fab before in at least one other profile that I remember and his forum posts are all exactly the same. I have no idea why he continues to ask the same question over and over without engaging in dialogue or revealing anything else that may help him but if all he says is true, I'm going to agree with Clem on this one; what a sad state of affairs if, at his age and personality, he wants to lose his virginity in this way, although the chances of doing it are very slim.
I have a feeling he's simply enjoying the attention."
Me, too. The style is always the same - I am a virgin, I am deaf, and then no further responses.
I do wonder whether he is either of those things and perhaps just gets some sort of strange kick out of it.
But, hey, who am I to know? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So you're a virgin, yet on your profile it says you're in to anal, blindfolds, threesomes, etc? Okay "
Those are things I hope one day to achieve on here. Does not neccessarily mean I experienced it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The OP has been on Fab before in at least one other profile that I remember and his forum posts are all exactly the same. I have no idea why he continues to ask the same question over and over without engaging in dialogue or revealing anything else that may help him but if all he says is true, I'm going to agree with Clem on this one; what a sad state of affairs if, at his age and personality, he wants to lose his virginity in this way, although the chances of doing it are very slim.
I have a feeling he's simply enjoying the attention."
I can assure you I am genuine and not just on here to seek attention. What else would you want me to reveal? or what dialogue you want to engage in?  |
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"The OP has been on Fab before in at least one other profile that I remember and his forum posts are all exactly the same. I have no idea why he continues to ask the same question over and over without engaging in dialogue or revealing anything else that may help him but if all he says is true, I'm going to agree with Clem on this one; what a sad state of affairs if, at his age and personality, he wants to lose his virginity in this way, although the chances of doing it are very slim.
I have a feeling he's simply enjoying the attention.
I can assure you I am genuine and not just on here to seek attention. What else would you want me to reveal? or what dialogue you want to engage in? "
What's your definition of 'genuine'?
Why do you put up multiple threads all asking the same question and yet never engage in conversation within those threads?
What have you done so far to increase your chances of achieving your wish list?
If you don't wish to answer any of those then of course you don't have to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The OP has been on Fab before in at least one other profile that I remember and his forum posts are all exactly the same. I have no idea why he continues to ask the same question over and over without engaging in dialogue or revealing anything else that may help him but if all he says is true, I'm going to agree with Clem on this one; what a sad state of affairs if, at his age and personality, he wants to lose his virginity in this way, although the chances of doing it are very slim.
I have a feeling he's simply enjoying the attention.
I can assure you I am genuine and not just on here to seek attention. What else would you want me to reveal? or what dialogue you want to engage in? "
OP, what you wish to engage in or reply to is entirely up to you.
You do have a habit of reappearing, posing the same question and disappearing again. That is not going to endear you to most people here. |
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over a year ago
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"The OP has been on Fab before in at least one other profile that I remember and his forum posts are all exactly the same. I have no idea why he continues to ask the same question over and over without engaging in dialogue or revealing anything else that may help him but if all he says is true, I'm going to agree with Clem on this one; what a sad state of affairs if, at his age and personality, he wants to lose his virginity in this way, although the chances of doing it are very slim.
I have a feeling he's simply enjoying the attention.
I can assure you I am genuine and not just on here to seek attention. What else would you want me to reveal? or what dialogue you want to engage in?
What's your definition of 'genuine'?
Why do you put up multiple threads all asking the same question and yet never engage in conversation within those threads?
What have you done so far to increase your chances of achieving your wish list?
If you don't wish to answer any of those then of course you don't have to."
That I am a genuine virgin and that I am not just making it up
Because the thread get hijacked by people who have other agenda so I dont want to reply to continue getting negative messages
I have now put pics up and face pics as friends only. I am not socially comfortable so clubs are a no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The OP has been on Fab before in at least one other profile that I remember and his forum posts are all exactly the same. I have no idea why he continues to ask the same question over and over without engaging in dialogue or revealing anything else that may help him but if all he says is true, I'm going to agree with Clem on this one; what a sad state of affairs if, at his age and personality, he wants to lose his virginity in this way, although the chances of doing it are very slim.
I have a feeling he's simply enjoying the attention.
I can assure you I am genuine and not just on here to seek attention. What else would you want me to reveal? or what dialogue you want to engage in?
What's your definition of 'genuine'?
Why do you put up multiple threads all asking the same question and yet never engage in conversation within those threads?
What have you done so far to increase your chances of achieving your wish list?
If you don't wish to answer any of those then of course you don't have to.
That I am a genuine virgin and that I am not just making it up
Because the thread get hijacked by people who have other agenda so I dont want to reply to continue getting negative messages
I have now put pics up and face pics as friends only. I am not socially comfortable so clubs are a no."
No one has other agendas. Many of us remember your previous posts. I wish you luck but very much doubt your credentials. |
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"The OP has been on Fab before in at least one other profile that I remember and his forum posts are all exactly the same. I have no idea why he continues to ask the same question over and over without engaging in dialogue or revealing anything else that may help him but if all he says is true, I'm going to agree with Clem on this one; what a sad state of affairs if, at his age and personality, he wants to lose his virginity in this way, although the chances of doing it are very slim.
I have a feeling he's simply enjoying the attention.
I can assure you I am genuine and not just on here to seek attention. What else would you want me to reveal? or what dialogue you want to engage in?
What's your definition of 'genuine'?
Why do you put up multiple threads all asking the same question and yet never engage in conversation within those threads?
What have you done so far to increase your chances of achieving your wish list?
If you don't wish to answer any of those then of course you don't have to.
That I am a genuine virgin and that I am not just making it up
Because the thread get hijacked by people who have other agenda so I dont want to reply to continue getting negative messages
I have now put pics up and face pics as friends only. I am not socially comfortable so clubs are a no."
You use the 'genuine' word again without understanding it means nothing at all. Why do you keep advertising your virginity? What makes the forum posters opinion of this important to you?
How do you suggest you meet anyone if you are socially uncomfortable? Would you like to meet me for a coffee and a verification? There are a few of us here who will do that for you.
As for hijacking the thread, it happens but there is no agenda. I feel those of us that remember your frequent posts about your virginity (which most of us couldn't care less about) are baffled as to why you are here and what you hope to achieve by constantly reminding us of it!
Here's a small challenge for you; post something in the lounge that's got nothing to do with your virginity or deafness, something that could get a bit of discussion going or something funny perhaps, you'll get to know people and may even get a meet out of it. I posted recently about how a big poo is satisfying and I had a good old chuckle about that one.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Hi! I'm socially awkward, can't talk to women very easily and I'm fixated on losing my virginity. I've heard swingers are easy with low self esteem, so will one of you fuck me?"
60% of the time, it works everytime....
Well fab is a sex site for those that might find sex with a consenting Virgin exciting... Or maybe this is a knitting site and nobody told me! "
If a single guy had said 'this is a sex site' he'd have been ripped to shreds by now |
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""Hi! I'm socially awkward, can't talk to women very easily and I'm fixated on losing my virginity. I've heard swingers are easy with low self esteem, so will one of you fuck me?"
60% of the time, it works everytime....
Well fab is a sex site for those that might find sex with a consenting Virgin exciting... Or maybe this is a knitting site and nobody told me!
If a single guy had said 'this is a sex site' he'd have been ripped to shreds by now "
Now that, IS a fact! |
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"The OP has been on Fab before in at least one other profile that I remember and his forum posts are all exactly the same. I have no idea why he continues to ask the same question over and over without engaging in dialogue or revealing anything else that may help him but if all he says is true, I'm going to agree with Clem on this one; what a sad state of affairs if, at his age and personality, he wants to lose his virginity in this way, although the chances of doing it are very slim.
I have a feeling he's simply enjoying the attention.
I can assure you I am genuine and not just on here to seek attention. What else would you want me to reveal? or what dialogue you want to engage in?
What's your definition of 'genuine'?
Why do you put up multiple threads all asking the same question and yet never engage in conversation within those threads?
What have you done so far to increase your chances of achieving your wish list?
If you don't wish to answer any of those then of course you don't have to.
That I am a genuine virgin and that I am not just making it up
Because the thread get hijacked by people who have other agenda so I dont want to reply to continue getting negative messages
I have now put pics up and face pics as friends only. I am not socially comfortable so clubs are a no.
You use the 'genuine' word again without understanding it means nothing at all. Why do you keep advertising your virginity? What makes the forum posters opinion of this important to you?
How do you suggest you meet anyone if you are socially uncomfortable? Would you like to meet me for a coffee and a verification? There are a few of us here who will do that for you.
As for hijacking the thread, it happens but there is no agenda. I feel those of us that remember your frequent posts about your virginity (which most of us couldn't care less about) are baffled as to why you are here and what you hope to achieve by constantly reminding us of it!
Here's a small challenge for you; post something in the lounge that's got nothing to do with your virginity or deafness, something that could get a bit of discussion going or something funny perhaps, you'll get to know people and may even get a meet out of it. I posted recently about how a big poo is satisfying and I had a good old chuckle about that one.
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I agree with this. I look forward to seeing a thread which shows your personality that we can all join in with |
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"The OP has been on Fab before in at least one other profile that I remember and his forum posts are all exactly the same. I have no idea why he continues to ask the same question over and over without engaging in dialogue or revealing anything else that may help him but if all he says is true, I'm going to agree with Clem on this one; what a sad state of affairs if, at his age and personality, he wants to lose his virginity in this way, although the chances of doing it are very slim.
I have a feeling he's simply enjoying the attention.
I can assure you I am genuine and not just on here to seek attention. What else would you want me to reveal? or what dialogue you want to engage in?
What's your definition of 'genuine'?
Why do you put up multiple threads all asking the same question and yet never engage in conversation within those threads?
What have you done so far to increase your chances of achieving your wish list?
If you don't wish to answer any of those then of course you don't have to.
That I am a genuine virgin and that I am not just making it up
Because the thread get hijacked by people who have other agenda so I dont want to reply to continue getting negative messages
I have now put pics up and face pics as friends only. I am not socially comfortable so clubs are a no.
You use the 'genuine' word again without understanding it means nothing at all. Why do you keep advertising your virginity? What makes the forum posters opinion of this important to you?
How do you suggest you meet anyone if you are socially uncomfortable? Would you like to meet me for a coffee and a verification? There are a few of us here who will do that for you.
As for hijacking the thread, it happens but there is no agenda. I feel those of us that remember your frequent posts about your virginity (which most of us couldn't care less about) are baffled as to why you are here and what you hope to achieve by constantly reminding us of it!
Here's a small challenge for you; post something in the lounge that's got nothing to do with your virginity or deafness, something that could get a bit of discussion going or something funny perhaps, you'll get to know people and may even get a meet out of it. I posted recently about how a big poo is satisfying and I had a good old chuckle about that one.
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over a year ago
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"Genuine virgin here. 27 and from Nottingham. If anybody is interested drop me a message lol"
I am going to get so much flak for this:
If you truly are a virgin then I think you are in the wrong place. Go find yourself a nice girl take her out on a few dates and then, who knows
Walking into the lion's den for a soulless, shallow experience is not how I would like to remember my first time |
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"Genuine virgin here. 27 and from Nottingham. If anybody is interested drop me a message lol
I am going to get so much flak for this:
If you truly are a virgin then I think you are in the wrong place. Go find yourself a nice girl take her out on a few dates and then, who knows
Walking into the lion's den for a soulless, shallow experience is not how I would like to remember my first time"
You are soooo 4 days ago ! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Genuine virgin here. 27 and from Nottingham. If anybody is interested drop me a message lol
I am going to get so much flak for this:
If you truly are a virgin then I think you are in the wrong place. Go find yourself a nice girl take her out on a few dates and then, who knows
Walking into the lion's den for a soulless, shallow experience is not how I would like to remember my first time
You are soooo 4 days ago !"
I see what you mean
OK, I'll stock up the bunker |
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I'm on here as a virgin too. I've never envisioned my first time as being massively special.... I'm not looking to lose it on a heart shaped bed in a candle lit room. My first time isn't going to be as good as my 10th time so will not be a particularly memorable experience however much I try to gloss it up.
About losing it to the "right" person well in all honesty I'm not really too interested in having a relationship because I just don't think they are for me. I like my own company most of the time and the freedom to do what I like. I don't think I'd respond well to that sort of intensity of being in a relationship. Of course I still have my needs and have chose to chance my arm on here to explore myself sexually and ultimately to find a like-minded "friends with benefits"
I don't see the harm in that. |
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"Genuine virgin here. 27 and from Nottingham. If anybody is interested drop me a message lol
I am going to get so much flak for this:
If you truly are a virgin then I think you are in the wrong place. Go find yourself a nice girl take her out on a few dates and then, who knows
I totally agree there
Walking into the lion's den for a soulless, shallow experience is not how I would like to remember my first time"
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Couldn't think of how to word this, and yet here you do it for me. Lol.
