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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have struggled a bit to find a nice looking guy for Paloma, we tend to find the women in our age group tend to be fitter, don't know why. Also the pics are generally of the woman.
She needs a fit bloke! Anyone other girls in couples struggle?  |
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See now if they had told me in school that the reason for PE and getting fit was so in later life you'd be set for swinging with lots of lovely women, couples and groups , I'd probably have paid more attention and tried harder.
Getting to athletic definitely harder in later life. I'm getting there though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have struggled a bit to find a nice looking guy for Paloma, we tend to find the women in our age group tend to be fitter, don't know why. Also the pics are generally of the woman.
She needs a fit bloke! Anyone other girls in couples struggle? "
Ha yeah. There are some hot looking fems out there but no so much male partners. Tbh I think i'm picky  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have struggled a bit to find a nice looking guy for Paloma, we tend to find the women in our age group tend to be fitter, don't know why. Also the pics are generally of the woman.
She needs a fit bloke! Anyone other girls in couples struggle? "
one of the reasons I have no ambition to be in a swinging couple is because the women in couples are often hotter than the males!
I'm only interested if I find both attractive! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"See now if they had told me in school that the reason for PE and getting fit was so in later life you'd be set for swinging with lots of lovely women, couples and groups , I'd probably have paid more attention and tried harder.
Getting to athletic definitely harder in later life. I'm getting there though "
Keep at it mate, train hard and consistently, avoid pigging in the week, do what the fuck you want at weekend, works for me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We have struggled a bit to find a nice looking guy for Paloma, we tend to find the women in our age group tend to be fitter, don't know why. Also the pics are generally of the woman.
She needs a fit bloke! Anyone other girls in couples struggle? one of the reasons I have no ambition to be in a swinging couple is because the women in couples are often hotter than the males!
I'm only interested if I find both attractive! Xx"
Why are the women in general hotter than the guys, I don't get it. Can you go find a hot partner then we could get it on haha xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have struggled a bit to find a nice looking guy for Paloma, we tend to find the women in our age group tend to be fitter, don't know why. Also the pics are generally of the woman.
She needs a fit bloke! Anyone other girls in couples struggle? one of the reasons I have no ambition to be in a swinging couple is because the women in couples are often hotter than the males!
I'm only interested if I find both attractive! Xx
Why are the women in general hotter than the guys, I don't get it. Can you go find a hot partner then we could get it on haha xx"
I don't know Hun! Obviously it's not true in every case - but most just are!
In all honesty I've almost had an FB couples profile before - but unless you fell for each other before fab it can be difficult to get the dynamic - and to some extent I think the female is often 'used' to get the guy access to more hot women and to the club/party scene!
It's a tricky one!
I've played with a few great couples at clubs and parties anyway - so I don't think it's been a great disadvantage to be honest!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do bodybuilding as hobby "
Really? How comes you've never mentioned this before?
On the serious side I think there are loads of fit guys on here
Fit guys and fit guys who want to meet you aren't always the same thing though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do bodybuilding as hobby
Really? How comes you've never mentioned this before?
On the serious side I think there are loads of fit guys on here
Fit guys and fit guys who want to meet you aren't always the same thing though "
Yes. I must of forgot to tell you all about it lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On the serious side I think there are loads of fit guys on here
There are a number of fit single guys but not so many in a couple
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Absolutely!
#whyi'msingleandREALLYhappy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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On the serious side I think there are loads of fit guys on here
There are a number of fit single guys but not so many in a couple
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I think cos us singles got more free time on our hands lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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On the serious side I think there are loads of fit guys on here
There are a number of fit single guys but not so many in a couple
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I don't know I've seen a few men in couples I've wished were single
But if that's the case for you why not just meet a single guys? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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But if that's the case for you why not just meet a single guys?
Because I want a woman too lol we are a couple  "
Fair enough
I just though with you saying she was after a fit guy and all the fit guys (in your opinion) are single it may be nice to treat her to one |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Fair enough
I just though with you saying she was after a fit guy and all the fit guys (in your opinion) are single it may be nice to treat her to one "
Already have a BBC |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Fair enough
I just though with you saying she was after a fit guy and all the fit guys (in your opinion) are single it may be nice to treat her to one "
Already have a BBC |
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By (user no longer on site)
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But if that's the case for you why not just meet a single guys?
Because I want a woman too lol we are a couple "
Have you thought of meeting 2 singles instead? The women and you could choose the other male together - could be hot! Xx |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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Perhaps since the men are in a relationship they feel as if they have to work as hard to keep fit? After all, if they want sex, they have their partner for it, where as single males have to work a lot harder because there's a lot of competition?
Speaking for myself, I'm in much better shape now separated than when I was married |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See now if they had told me in school that the reason for PE and getting fit was so in later life you'd be set for swinging with lots of lovely women, couples and groups , I'd probably have paid more attention and tried harder.
Getting to athletic definitely harder in later life. I'm getting there though "
Me too!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Have you thought of meeting 2 singles instead? The women and you could choose the other male together - could be hot! Xx"
Sounds really tricky to pull off unless you are willing to help xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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But if that's the case for you why not just meet a single guys?
Because I want a woman too lol we are a couple "
Ah, see, that wasn't clear from your opening post.
Now when people suggest you find her a hot single male you say she doesn't need one because she has you.
So now is seems like you want to swap couples but you can't get your partner interested.
I'm getting a sense of the difficulties here.
It's a minefield! |
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I like guys with dark hair and stubble but not too muscular , doesn't seem to be many of them in couples either.
We look for profiles were the guy seems to put as much effort into photos as the woman but they are few and far between.
We tend to do as is suggested above meet single guys and single girls . Or we just go to town and pull who we fancy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Have you thought of meeting 2 singles instead? The women and you could choose the other male together - could be hot! Xx
Sounds really tricky to pull off unless you are willing to help xx"
I might be! |
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"My hubby is gorgeous. He's not what you'd call athletic but has an average body (gorgeous ass though) but he's got long dark hair, gorgeous dark eyes, lovely smile and a nice cock.
Excuse me.  "
Then why don't you have any pictures of him ? You should show him off . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My hubby is gorgeous. He's not what you'd call athletic but has an average body (gorgeous ass though) but he's got long dark hair, gorgeous dark eyes, lovely smile and a nice cock.
Excuse me.
Then why don't you have any pictures of him ? You should show him off . "
That's half the reason we can't find a couple, because there's generally not many male pics. Two people this week have said they don't even have any male pics! This isn't blind date... |
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"My hubby is gorgeous. He's not what you'd call athletic but has an average body (gorgeous ass though) but he's got long dark hair, gorgeous dark eyes, lovely smile and a nice cock.
Excuse me.
Then why don't you have any pictures of him ? You should show him off . "
My hubby has a job where it would be extremely awkward if someone who worked with him seen him on here. I'm always happy to send pics though to people we've spoken to. |
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