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So Guys and Girls,
After reading several threads it seems some are very shallow on here, in my opinion anyway.
Some only meet for a vwe cock, some only meet if a meal and champagne is involved, some only meet if grammar is perfect etc.
Does anyone meet because they actually fancy the other person, as in really fancy them, looks and personality, not just bloody cock or tit size  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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Yep. But it all depends on who you want to meet and why. I like to meet people I like as people first and foremost and avoid conversations with those who merely see me as a pair of boobs or whatever. That doesn't mean either party is right or wrong; just that we use the site differently. |
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over a year ago
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Well I have no interest in someones net worth financial or otherwise. I meet people who I think are attractive intelligent and that I can have fun with. Therefore I'm going with "not shallow " |
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"Well I have no interest in someones net worth financial or otherwise. I meet people who I think are attractive intelligent and that I can have fun with. Therefore I'm going with "not shallow ""
 I'm in agreement, I'm the same as you when meeting people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep. But it all depends on who you want to meet and why. I like to meet people I like as people first and foremost and avoid conversations with those who merely see me as a pair of boobs or whatever. That doesn't mean either party is right or wrong; just that we use the site differently."
Nice boobs by the way.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no interest if they are rich poor have fantastic jobs or run of the mill ones. All I ask is that there's a mutual attraction physically and mentally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definetly not shollow got nothing to be shallow about im just an average looking chubby guy looking for abit company and fun, genuine people to be around and chat with x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So Guys and Girls,
After reading several threads it seems some are very shallow on here, in my opinion anyway.
Some only meet for a vwe cock, some only meet if a meal and champagne is involved, some only meet if grammar is perfect etc.
Does anyone meet because they actually fancy the other person, as in really fancy them, looks and personality, not just bloody cock or tit size "
For us it's all about making a connection. We don't have many no's listed other than facial hair as it's not very pleasant for me (mrs) although, it looks great on some guys! Attraction. Connection. Stimulation and titilation! That's what interests us |
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"Yep. But it all depends on who you want to meet and why. I like to meet people I like as people first and foremost and avoid conversations with those who merely see me as a pair of boobs or whatever. That doesn't mean either party is right or wrong; just that we use the site differently."
I'm not saying anyone is right or wrong, no one is ever right or wrong, there will always be one person that disagrees with whatever the subject is.
My opinion though, how can anyone fuck someone solely on the size of a cock for example, to me, cock size don't matter, if the face isn't fanciable enough to kiss, the cock no matter what size it is ain't gonna get no attention from me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Makes me laugh when people on a sex site looking for sex with strangers look down on other people doing the same thing.
All this "I'm better than you" crap. Believe it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes there has to be that connection I feel, firstly a visual attraction but then a physical and mental connection, no matter how beautiful you maybe, you can still be damn ugly!!"
This |
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"Makes me laugh when people on a sex site looking for sex with strangers look down on other people doing the same thing.
All this "I'm better than you" crap. Believe it. "
No one is saying I'm better than you, however everyone is entitled to opinions regardless of the site they are voiced on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep. But it all depends on who you want to meet and why. I like to meet people I like as people first and foremost and avoid conversations with those who merely see me as a pair of boobs or whatever. That doesn't mean either party is right or wrong; just that we use the site differently.
I'm not saying anyone is right or wrong, no one is ever right or wrong, there will always be one person that disagrees with whatever the subject is.
My opinion though, how can anyone fuck someone solely on the size of a cock for example, to me, cock size don't matter, if the face isn't fanciable enough to kiss, the cock no matter what size it is ain't gonna get no attention from me lol"
A cock is a body part. A face is a body part.
How can anyone fuck someone solely on what their face looks like?  |
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"Yes there has to be that connection I feel, firstly a visual attraction but then a physical and mental connection, no matter how beautiful you maybe, you can still be damn ugly!!
This "
Damn true, some have awful ugly personalities on here |
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"Yep. But it all depends on who you want to meet and why. I like to meet people I like as people first and foremost and avoid conversations with those who merely see me as a pair of boobs or whatever. That doesn't mean either party is right or wrong; just that we use the site differently.
I'm not saying anyone is right or wrong, no one is ever right or wrong, there will always be one person that disagrees with whatever the subject is.
My opinion though, how can anyone fuck someone solely on the size of a cock for example, to me, cock size don't matter, if the face isn't fanciable enough to kiss, the cock no matter what size it is ain't gonna get no attention from me lol
A cock is a body part. A face is a body part.
How can anyone fuck someone solely on what their face looks like? "
so you fuck an ugly person solely cause they got a cock then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am no better or worse than the next person..
I also wouldn't say I was shallow but I am fussy and wont meet just anyone..
my free time is precious to me so like to make the most of it with people I am compatible with, that I fancy, who turn me on and can fuck like the Duracell bunny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people on here take things too seriously or are picky or specific on meeting people and wonders why they are left disappointed Keep it light and have fun that is what its all about and no not shallow here x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep. But it all depends on who you want to meet and why. I like to meet people I like as people first and foremost and avoid conversations with those who merely see me as a pair of boobs or whatever. That doesn't mean either party is right or wrong; just that we use the site differently.
I'm not saying anyone is right or wrong, no one is ever right or wrong, there will always be one person that disagrees with whatever the subject is.
My opinion though, how can anyone fuck someone solely on the size of a cock for example, to me, cock size don't matter, if the face isn't fanciable enough to kiss, the cock no matter what size it is ain't gonna get no attention from me lol
A cock is a body part. A face is a body part.
How can anyone fuck someone solely on what their face looks like?
so you fuck an ugly person solely cause they got a cock then?"
You misunderstand what I'm saying.  |
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"Some people on here take things too seriously or are picky or specific on meeting people and wonders why they are left disappointed Keep it light and have fun that is what its all about and no not shallow here x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Makes me laugh when people on a sex site looking for sex with strangers look down on other people doing the same thing.
All this "I'm better than you" crap. Believe it. "
^ this. |
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"Makes me laugh when people on a sex site looking for sex with strangers look down on other people doing the same thing.
All this "I'm better than you" crap. Believe it. "
That smacks of you 'looking down' in the OP and people who have posted  |
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"Makes me laugh when people on a sex site looking for sex with strangers look down on other people doing the same thing.
All this "I'm better than you" crap. Believe it.
That smacks of you 'looking down' in the OP and people who have posted "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure there's anything inherently less shallow in me looking for say, a sarcastic sense of humour, than someone who is looking for a 9 inch cock. Specific physical attributes in isolation do nothing for me, but I'm still basically looking for someone I find sexually attractive, the same as someone else is, we just have different things which create that attraction. |
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If you ignore the word 'shallow' the question is simple - do you meet someone based on one factor only?
Seems most don't
I love tall men but I won't have sex with a guy just because he is tall. Lots of other factors come into play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep. But it all depends on who you want to meet and why. I like to meet people I like as people first and foremost and avoid conversations with those who merely see me as a pair of boobs or whatever. That doesn't mean either party is right or wrong; just that we use the site differently.
I'm not saying anyone is right or wrong, no one is ever right or wrong, there will always be one person that disagrees with whatever the subject is.
My opinion though, how can anyone fuck someone solely on the size of a cock for example, to me, cock size don't matter, if the face isn't fanciable enough to kiss, the cock no matter what size it is ain't gonna get no attention from me lol
A cock is a body part. A face is a body part.
How can anyone fuck someone solely on what their face looks like? "
Because its attraction, if i fancy someone i will want to kiss fuck cuddle etc with him if im not attracted to him i would never |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not me, it is just nsa, so it is not like they will be my gf lol."
So if the person u were gonna fuck did nothing for you visually but their hole was there ud shag em anyway? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know if we are shallow or not .
We certainly don't put ourselves above anyone else , and truly don't not give a toss what people we play with do or have .
If there's a spark , we will happily ignite it .
Male , female , ts , tv , straight , bi or any race and colour , we are happy with anyone where the connection feels good .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not me, it is just nsa, so it is not like they will be my gf lol.
So if the person u were gonna fuck did nothing for you visually but their hole was there ud shag em anyway?"
You got it spot on there and yes I would shag them anyway, cos its good with variety. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about those of us who don't meet?"
It could be seen as the most shallow of shallow , being one who doesn't meet .
Many a time I've seen people say on here that they have yet to meet , as no one reaches their desired standards . Despite being on here for over a year in some cases !
Each to their own and all that , but that just seems crazy !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about those of us who don't meet?
It could be seen as the most shallow of shallow , being one who doesn't meet .
Many a time I've seen people say on here that they have yet to meet , as no one reaches their desired standards . Despite being on here for over a year in some cases !
Each to their own and all that , but that just seems crazy !
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I still fuck other people. I just don't bother trying to do it via this site. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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For me being shallow would mean you only meet guys who are very good looking and/or have this that and the other. Don't get me wrong a little bit of eye candy is great but I couldn't care less about possessions, although I do have to have an attraction to someone I meet for sex.
I'm in the not shallow camp |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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We start with looks if that means we are considered shallow then so be it. Once we meet we like to have a rapport otherwise we go no future. It works for us and that is all that matters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about those of us who don't meet?
It could be seen as the most shallow of shallow , being one who doesn't meet .
Many a time I've seen people say on here that they have yet to meet , as no one reaches their desired standards . Despite being on here for over a year in some cases !
Each to their own and all that , but that just seems crazy !
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Fair point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You'll only meet someone you find sexually attractive.
Personally, I think it's shallow when you find someone sexually attractive simply because they have the appropriate genitals and are willing to fuck. But that's because I'm attracted to a deviant intelligent cheeky person with a pretty face and a soft, smooth curvy body.
Are you more shallow because you have a preference or more shallow because you have no preference? |
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I have my preferences, it doesn't make me shallow - I like the idea that say No to some people because I dont find them sexually appealing to me. I want to connect with someone to have good sex, not just get my leg over with the first woman who comes along.
So not shallow, just normal in my eyes  |
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If I'm not attracted to someone, I won't fuck them. Simple. It does not make me shallow. I just know what does or doesn't make me tick.
Sex is there to be enjoyed by both parties not just one. So if that hairy 55 yr old guy over there with a bear beard and beer belly wants to get it on... Tuff lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think i will stick to shallow. I'm only shallow when it comes to looks and age and not much else.
Did drop my standards and the way i used this site to see if i got a different experience, this backfired on me (won't say why in case any guys recognise themselves from what i would say) so my standards are back high again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only meet guys who are honest & genuine and that difficult to find on a site like this.
I dont wanna know everything about you but honesty is a must.
I mean your coming into my home, gonna be fucking me, I hate liars.
I hate hate hate shallow men, just because you have a six pack and covered in tattoos, doesnt mean your gods gift. I dont judge anyone, am not canvas painting, far from it.
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Before anyone can really answer this, we'd need to agree on a definition of shallow.
Typically, I guess, it relates to only being attracted to fit/good looking/slim/athletic/wealthy types, regardless of their personalties.
But that's just my rather loose and vague definition.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So Guys and Girls,
After reading several threads it seems some are very shallow on here, in my opinion anyway.
Some only meet for a vwe cock, some only meet if a meal and champagne is involved, some only meet if grammar is perfect etc.
Does anyone meet because they actually fancy the other person, as in really fancy them, looks and personality, not just bloody cock or tit size "
Thing is if I really fancy someone, I'd want it to be more than the nsa that the average Joe is on here for. That way lies heartache... |
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"Before anyone can really answer this, we'd need to agree on a definition of shallow.
Typically, I guess, it relates to only being attracted to fit/good looking/slim/athletic/wealthy types, regardless of their personalties.
But that's just my rather loose and vague definition.
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I think it means meeting anyone who fits a very narrow set of criteria that you would have sex with, even if they were not attractive, purely because they fit those criteria.
For example, I love tall men. But I would not meet a man just because he was tall. There'd need to more to it that than for me to consider him |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Yep. But it all depends on who you want to meet and why. I like to meet people I like as people first and foremost and avoid conversations with those who merely see me as a pair of boobs or whatever. That doesn't mean either party is right or wrong; just that we use the site differently.
I'm not saying anyone is right or wrong, no one is ever right or wrong, there will always be one person that disagrees with whatever the subject is.
My opinion though, how can anyone fuck someone solely on the size of a cock for example, to me, cock size don't matter, if the face isn't fanciable enough to kiss, the cock no matter what size it is ain't gonna get no attention from me lol"
I've never seen anyone on here say they'll shag anyone with a big cock.
I've seen people looking for men with big cocks but it's pretty clear they're looking for men they find attractive who ALSO have big cocks.
That's not shagging just because they have a big cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always go for mental stimulation and looks. My taste varies so what I find hot today will change tomorrow.
Curious as to how I'm not getting meals and champagne though?!!?!? |
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"So Guys and Girls,
After reading several threads it seems some are very shallow on here, in my opinion anyway.
Some only meet for a vwe cock, some only meet if a meal and champagne is involved, some only meet if grammar is perfect etc.
Does anyone meet because they actually fancy the other person, as in really fancy them, looks and personality, not just bloody cock or tit size "
Absolutely. In fact it's more about personality to be quite honest. |
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