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Never cum from a BJ
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over a year ago
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"It's not just guys. I haven't cum from a BJ either.. 
Being serious.. Some of us women have the mental block too. God knows how to overcome it. "
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"Ive never cum from a BJ.
Always been told of ladies they they'll be the one to produce the goods, but never happens.
It must be my mental block. Wish I could though."
If your prostate is stimulated during, that will increase the likelihood of reaching orgasm.
Men that struggle to achieve orgasm through fellatio alone are helped greatly by some light oral stimulation around the perineum / anal prostate area.
Also, it's not a race, find someone that enjoys slow oral and will take their time while sucking you, then of course return the favour to the lady friend in question. |
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"It's not just guys. I haven't cum from a BJ either..
Being serious.. Some of us women have the mental block too. God knows how to overcome it.
I'm with you!"
Frustration at its best. Lol! My fella (and others) enjoys the challenge. Good job eh?  |
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I was the same, until I met a lady who literally sucked my cum out of me! I had very little choice, she was well versed, determined and enjoyed every second of it, as did I! Best BJ ever, and now I can guide a lady on how to get the desired results....thank you BC!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What's a bj? Im lucky if I get a fuck, and that's in the dark (with the mrs!) Actually I lie, had more this year so far than the entire year last year... but still no bj  |
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"I was the same, until I met a lady who literally sucked my cum out of me! I had very little choice, she was well versed, determined and enjoyed every second of it, as did I! Best BJ ever, and now I can guide a lady on how to get the desired results....thank you BC! "
A lot do oral without any real enthusiasm .. Men are intuitive and know this so don't let go and enjoy to its fullest. Tbh For most it's an appetiser (so to speak) warm up ; before moving on to other things..
The secret , as simple as it might sound is genuine enthusiasm , lapping him up and savouring his manhood until he "lets go" and melts into a soft pliable quivering heap, twisting and convulsing with every teasing suck and touch, desperate for the release..
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By (user no longer on site)
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I used to have the same problem. And it is a problem because it feels so good when it happens.
Finally happened for me when I was given a surprise blowjob by a friends friend I'd only recently met. I think the fact I hadn't been thinking about it just relaxed me.
Since then not really had a problem if the lady knows what's she is doing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sadly there are some women out there who think simply putting their mouth over the end and wanking the cock is a perfect blowjob.
But we can't moan and pretend we know everything. I'm sure plenty of women have never had an orgasm through oral because some blokes don't put the proper effort in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive never cum from a BJ.
Always been told of ladies they they'll be the one to produce the goods, but never happens.
It must be my mental block. Wish I could though."
Why does it matter how you cum? |
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"Ive never cum from a BJ.
Always been told of ladies they they'll be the one to produce the goods, but never happens.
It must be my mental block. Wish I could though."
I have but only off men who in my experience are better at it.
Maybe give it a try OP? |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Ive never cum from a BJ.
Always been told of ladies they they'll be the one to produce the goods, but never happens.
It must be my mental block. Wish I could though."
Does it really matter in the grand scheme of things.
I don't or cant cum in curtain positions or acts. Long as I've had fun and enjoyed myself (as well as my partner) it's all good.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think I can count on one hand the amount of time someone as made me cum with a BJ over last few years - I think the op is near on right its a mental block - in my head I say "don't cum the mouth when there are respectable looking pussy or ass to be filled" ....so if someone thinks they can blow me all the way, I dare you to know on my door lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer the guy to wank himself and pop it in my mouth as he's about to cum, that way I reap the rewards (cum deposit) without putting effort in!"
that's what I prefer doing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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So glad we haven't met most of the guys who can't cum from a bj !
The majority of our meets finish with the bj and lots of cum , and hundreds of meets down the line later , there hasn't been a single instance of the guy being unable to cum .
Quite a few have said they didn't realise they could cum from it though |
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"Why bother its only foreplay anyway"
Your right.
For me it's a warm up for the real thing. It's just I hear of these guys who can't help but cum when they're getting sucked. I'd much rather cum whilst being deep inside a wet pussy. |
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..oh if only a woman could try.. 
