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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My gf and I are wanting a mmf threesome. But she's finding it hard to believe I won't get jealous about it later on. I've been swinging for a few years, with both my wife and earlier girlfriends. The swinging wasn't the reason we split up. How can I convince her I see it as only sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was someone's first mff with a married couple. It was ace for me. We discussed everything so there was no surprises for anyone. But she was a little shocked that he made me squirt and cum. I think it's a tricky one if you are trying to convince her. X |
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"My gf and I are wanting a mmf threesome. But she's finding it hard to believe I won't get jealous about it later on. I've been swinging for a few years, with both my wife and earlier girlfriends. The swinging wasn't the reason we split up. How can I convince her I see it as only sex. "
Wouldnt the first step be a couples account where she can message these men and then judge your reaction to the messages as to whether or not you would get jealous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ONLY do this if she really wants to - don't fall into the trap of trying to live out your own desires/fantacy
My ex wife and are both played as a couple and as solo for many years before we split - it was 100% mutual desire as we are both Bi - so it worked - but I have seen so many relationships fail because one half wants the swinging lifestyle where as the other not  |
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By *weeteamCouple
over a year ago
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You need a strong relationship, both need to want to try it.is your parner even interested. And I know there will be a level of jealousy and questions but from our own experience we enjoyed ourselves and carry on with the journey. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had mmff before we go for a threesome. It's a lot more relaxed and even if you just do a soft swap it really helps to see how the partner reacts without going all the way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hmmmmm. Tough call. The feeling of jealousy and humiliation is part of the fun of a MMF, so the g/f shouldn't be afraid of it. I should tell her that it's actually going to make you lustier and more willing to please. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"hmmmmm. Tough call. The feeling of jealousy and humiliation is part of the fun of a MMF, so the g/f shouldn't be afraid of it. I should tell her that it's actually going to make you lustier and more willing to please."
 Don't totally disagree with that, but do you not think its really the GF who needs to decide on her own rather than to be persuaded ??  |
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