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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Iv been verified but I do get alot of messages saying they have read and want a go.
Only thing is that's how things were with that person.
Doesn't mean it will be the same with a new one.
I do feel like each time I meet a new person there's alot of pressure as they want what's written.
Is it me just being silly or do others feel this way too? 
I know I can display or not but wanting to here both male and females view xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv been verified but I do get alot of messages saying they have read and want a go.
Only thing is that's how things were with that person.
Doesn't mean it will be the same with a new one.
I do feel like each time I meet a new person there's alot of pressure as they want what's written.
Is it me just being silly or do others feel this way too?
I know I can display or not but wanting to here both male and females view xx"
I had a quick read of your verifs and none of them seem to specific? Just that you're gorgeous, like to cum  , and have a great bod and lovely personality! I can't see why there'd be any pressure atall! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the bj and me coming men seem to think I'm going to be as wet as the ocean.
They think I must walk around dripping from the messages I get."
They think we all do i wouldnt worry bout it. If they come strong im never interested x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the bj and me coming men seem to think I'm going to be as wet as the ocean.
They think I must walk around dripping from the messages I get."
Hahaha well if they ever state that they're disappointed that you weren't wet enough it may be worth commenting on their skills! |
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"It's the bj and me coming men seem to think I'm going to be as wet as the ocean.
They think I must walk around dripping from the messages I get."
Like Vara says they all do...well lots. Some men think that the women on fab have some kind of disorder that means they're perpetually aroused. The day you start worrying that you need to live up to someone else's expectations is the day you need to step away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We used to show loads more of our veris , and after people expected this , that and the other , we cut down what we show .
It's a tough life when everyone expects so much if you .
Maybe just show a couple of veris , and not your summary ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have that problem as I don't show them,I don't ask for them and I rarely give them
People can find out for themselves what I'm like and I'm happy to do the same with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I make them sign a non-disclosure statement. None of my verifications happened the way they say. "
I think some take verifications waaayyyyy too seriously!!! I don't let anyone on here make me feel pressured in any way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not verified,simply coz I haven't met anyone yet,bothered?no! ,cant be arsed with all the fake stuff from 'veri hunters'...just happy to meet someone locally for nsa fun,and enjoy life."
Glad it's all working for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the men who ask if they can have whatever x, y or z had in any of your (or anyones) verifications are obviously a bunch of bullshitting fucktards who have neither the style or the imagination to get a meet, never mind actually turning up and actually performing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv been verified but I do get alot of messages saying they have read and want a go.
Only thing is that's how things were with that person.
Doesn't mean it will be the same with a new one.
I do feel like each time I meet a new person there's alot of pressure as they want what's written.
Is it me just being silly or do others feel this way too?
I know I can display or not but wanting to here both male and females view xx"
I don't look at veris they mean nothing to me ,so think you are over thinking it         |
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"Iv been verified but I do get alot of messages saying they have read and want a go.
Only thing is that's how things were with that person.
Doesn't mean it will be the same with a new one.
I do feel like each time I meet a new person there's alot of pressure as they want what's written.
Is it me just being silly or do others feel this way too?
I know I can display or not but wanting to here both male and females view xx"
Exactly why there should not be an option for text or write ups on veris; they should simply be a tick box :
yes/ no they are who they say they are, yes/ no the sex they say they are.
Yes/no they bear a passing resemblance to their profile and/ or pics
Yes They turned up for a ;
1.Cam
2.Social
3. " meet".
And all you would ever see ( at most ) is the verification summary.
I don't normally ever look at veris; but just recently I have, out of curiosity , looked at some; and frankly, most of them out me off wanting to meet the person.
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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"Iv been verified but I do get alot of messages saying they have read and want a go.
Only thing is that's how things were with that person.
Doesn't mean it will be the same with a new one.
I do feel like each time I meet a new person there's alot of pressure as they want what's written."
I would delete those messages. People shouldn't be trying to arrange a meet with a 'menu' in their mind, making the assumption that they can pick from what other people have had. You're not a box of Pick 'N' Mix, you are a woman, with natural human responses (which will be different on every occasion). I'm sure you're not short of offers, so just ignore the ones who harp on about your previous verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It does make it feel like a to do list or instructions.
But I read mens and just like to know that they looked nice and we're kind or polite I don't really care for the details of every thrust |
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