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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Seen a few of these threads about, I'll be at the SOHO sexual health clinic in Birmingham soon!
So if you're nearby and want a verification to get things started on here pop in! Also a great way to make sure you're up to date on your testing as they have a drop in clinic this morning! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good idea. I think every city should have a allocated woman that will be up for verify members 
In sexual health clinics?!  "
lol y not, its a good social or somewhere else |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good idea. I think every city should have a allocated woman that will be up for verify members
In sexual health clinics?! lol y not, its a good social or somewhere else "
I'm still here everyone! The waiting list is looooong hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just a thought so please don't shout me down but what do these veris prove ?? that some one met you for a coffee ?? maybe im missing something here its the same with those offering to veri via cams why ?? just asking ?? |
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"just a thought so please don't shout me down but what do these veris prove ?? that some one met you for a coffee ?? maybe im missing something here its the same with those offering to veri via cams why ?? just asking ??"
A verification is simply to verify someone is real and looks like their pics etc
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just a thought so please don't shout me down but what do these veris prove ?? that some one met you for a coffee ?? maybe im missing something here its the same with those offering to veri via cams why ?? just asking ??"
It's just to prove you are a real person & look like your photos.
I'm a bit on the fence about what I think tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"just a thought so please don't shout me down but what do these veris prove ?? that some one met you for a coffee ?? maybe im missing something here its the same with those offering to veri via cams why ?? just asking ??"
No no I totally see your point! I just constantly see threads of people saying 'oh I can't get meets because I don't have any verifications and I can't get verified because I can't get a meet'. I personally wouldn't meet someone sexually who hadn't been verified, purely for my own safety, and obviously social veri's aren't the same as sexual veri's (they could turn out to be mental in bed), but it can prove that they look like their photo's, that they smelled nice and seemed normal!
Everyone has to start somewhere and many people do meet those without verifications but there are many out there who won't! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it proves nothing from a swinging point of view"
most single men have a hard time getting a meet without a verification...
I'm assuming that's why the OP is kindly offering, to say that they are actually who they say they are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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so heres what they do they get a veri via cam / phone or a coffee meet then they get the magic green tick saying they have been veri then they hide those veris but tell folk they have done things before cause they have veri's so in affect they take a chat or cam veri hide it and claim its a sex meet very ?? lol if that sounds right |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"it proves nothing from a swinging point of view"
Your veri's are hidden, you could have just met those 3 men for coffee. However I would be more likely to meet with someone with veri's as it proves that there a people out there who are stating that this person/people look like their photos and aren't crazy as far as they are aware. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"so heres what they do they get a veri via cam / phone or a coffee meet then they get the magic green tick saying they have been veri then they hide those veris but tell folk they have done things before cause they have veri's so in affect they take a chat or cam veri hide it and claim its a sex meet very ?? lol if that sounds right"
It states what kind of veri it is on your profile cam/meet in person etc.
I would see a person with 10 cam veri's the same as I would see a person with no veri's at all. I only go by the meet in person veri's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so heres what they do they get a veri via cam / phone or a coffee meet then they get the magic green tick saying they have been veri then they hide those veris but tell folk they have done things before cause they have veri's so in affect they take a chat or cam veri hide it and claim its a sex meet very ?? lol if that sounds right"
That's a little bit cynical and taking things to the extreme. I think its a nice sentiment and I plan on doing something similar next time I'm at a loose end. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"so heres what they do they get a veri via cam / phone or a coffee meet then they get the magic green tick saying they have been veri then they hide those veris but tell folk they have done things before cause they have veri's so in affect they take a chat or cam veri hide it and claim its a sex meet very ?? lol if that sounds right
That's a little bit cynical and taking things to the extreme. I think its a nice sentiment and I plan on doing something similar next time I'm at a loose end. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so heres what they do they get a veri via cam / phone or a coffee meet then they get the magic green tick saying they have been veri then they hide those veris but tell folk they have done things before cause they have veri's so in affect they take a chat or cam veri hide it and claim its a sex meet very ?? lol if that sounds right"
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Easy enough to ask to see them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"our veri's are not hidden lol"
you can only get a veri from meeting or camming...
camming ones are a waste of time so all that's left is meeting ones...and as long as the person turns up and is genuinely who they say they are then whats the problem? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not knocking it everyone to themselves and ive just learnt a new thing too did not know the veri's in the side bar stated very by meet /cam/phone so guess as long as everyone can see how someone was verified the all is cool deffo not looking to wrong people just wanted to know..sorry if offened  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"not knocking it everyone to themselves and ive just learnt a new thing too did not know the veri's in the side bar stated very by meet /cam/phone so guess as long as everyone can see how someone was verified the all is cool deffo not looking to wrong people just wanted to know..sorry if offened "
every day is a schoolday |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"not knocking it everyone to themselves and ive just learnt a new thing too did not know the veri's in the side bar stated very by meet /cam/phone so guess as long as everyone can see how someone was verified the all is cool deffo not looking to wrong people just wanted to know..sorry if offened "
You didn't offend at all! Some people ignore verifications completely, but some like me, put quite abit of stock into them  |
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I see plenty of threads and statuses with people complaining about the number of fake accounts on Fab so for someone who is themselves genuine to offer a social meet to verify that someone else is real, and fits the images in their profile pics isn't a crime, in fact don't most people start with socials rather than jumping straight into bed with someone? Whether other people choose to verify after a social is their choice.
Anyway, who knows where a casual social might lead.
Kopite isn't offering anyone a fake verification, she's offering a social hand up the first step of the ladder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"our veri's are not hidden lol
you can only get a veri from meeting or camming...
camming ones are a waste of time so all that's left is meeting ones...and as long as the person turns up and is genuinely who they say they are then whats the problem?"
*Okay unpopular view alert, incoming*
I said I was on the fence & I still am.
On one hand I think ~ ah that's nice helping someone on the veri ladder & on the other hand I think people should be verified from their own efforts / merit & not because someone just offered to do it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"our veri's are not hidden lol
you can only get a veri from meeting or camming...
camming ones are a waste of time so all that's left is meeting ones...and as long as the person turns up and is genuinely who they say they are then whats the problem?
*Okay unpopular view alert, incoming*
I said I was on the fence & I still am.
On one hand I think ~ ah that's nice helping someone on the veri ladder & on the other hand I think people should be verified from their own efforts / merit & not because someone just offered to do it.
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No no it's a perfectly valid opinion, I think as single girls we do get an easy ride though. It must be fairly demoralising if as a single guy you read a hundred profiles and compose witty/friendly/polite/unique first messages to either get knocked back or to not receive a reply at all. Sometimes it may be their own fault as they don't fit the requirements, or the couple/lady may not be looking to meet, however there's a lot (including myself) who will discount someone immediately if they haven't got a green tick. I get so many messages (as in sure do all the other single girls on here) that I need some way of narrowing them down and that's a way I use! No veri no meet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think anything is wrong with it.
Iv met for coffee and they looked nothing like their pictures so no verification.
It just gives those a chance as alot seem to forget that we were all new at one put someone took a chance on us and here we are xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see plenty of threads and statuses with people complaining about the number of fake accounts on Fab so for someone who is themselves genuine to offer a social meet to verify that someone else is real, and fits the images in their profile pics isn't a crime, in fact don't most people start with socials rather than jumping straight into bed with someone? Whether other people choose to verify after a social is their choice.
Anyway, who knows where a casual social might lead.
Kopite isn't offering anyone a fake verification, she's offering a social hand up the first step of the ladder."
I agree with this x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How many people did you end up verifying OP?
I think it's a very thoughtful gesture btw. "
2 sent me PM's saying they were coming and neither showed!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many people did you end up verifying OP?
I think it's a very thoughtful gesture btw.
2 sent me PM's saying they were coming and neither showed! "
Sorry to jump on this ~ but doesn't that then lend some weight to what I was saying earlier? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many people did you end up verifying OP?
I think it's a very thoughtful gesture btw.
2 sent me PM's saying they were coming and neither showed!
Idjeets "
I think more like they either thought it was a wind up or cba.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many people did you end up verifying OP?
I think it's a very thoughtful gesture btw.
2 sent me PM's saying they were coming and neither showed!
Idjeets
I think more like they either thought it was a wind up or cba...."
I would of been 100% arsed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why am I just seeing this thread?! Stupid job keeping me away from fabswingers!
On the subject of veris, it's typical of my luck that I finally get a veri, then 2 months later she quits the site so no one can read it!
When you next feeling charitable Kopite? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why am I just seeing this thread?! Stupid job keeping me away from fabswingers!
On the subject of veris, it's typical of my luck that I finally get a veri, then 2 months later she quits the site so no one can read it!
When you next feeling charitable Kopite? X"
You're still verified though.....green tick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She'd left me a good veri tho, for all people know now, I could of just met someone in a sexual health clinic 
Get yourself to the Birmingham charity social on 27 May!!"
Feel free to message me with more details X |
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"just a thought so please don't shout me down but what do these veris prove ?? that some one met you for a coffee ?? maybe im missing something here its the same with those offering to veri via cams why ?? just asking ??"
They prove people meet. unlike webcam that only proves someone turns on a camera |
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