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Asking to watch rather than have sex

By *ikeC81 OP Man over a year ago

harrow

I gave a question for ladies and couples

How would you feel if a guy asked could he watch you have sex rather than have sex with you.

Reason why I ask is sometimes I don't always feel comfatable in asking to have Sex but feel more comfatable in saying do you mind if I watched

I suppose it's the shyness in me

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By *andb69Couple over a year ago

leeds

In a club absolutely no problem at all. We love an appreciative audience and you would be welcome to watch.

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By *ikeC81 OP Man over a year ago

harrow

"In a club absolutely no problem at all. We love an appreciative audience and you would be welcome to watch."

Thanks and I think sometimes I think would it offend the couple if I haven't actually asked them to play with them

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By *lwayshorny2009Couple over a year ago

Redditch

Love being watched

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like watching, to be fair this is why we started investigating sex clubs rather than swingers clubs. As a woman it seems to be expected I should be the source of amusement rather than a watcher

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple over a year ago

North West

We love an audience in clubs. Don't think anyone has ever asked if they can watch though, they just do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you're in a club and people are playing in an open room - they want to be watched.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have the same problem , miss the sex life I had after my wife died of cancer and don't think my age helps now at 60 but life to watch a couple so if any out there please let me know but good post... james

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been asking couples locally but usually get an arsey response, looks like I'll have to look further afield

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

Tbh it would depend on the guy. There's one that goes to the club we frequent and he's a bit creepy, he stands in the room (which isn't big) and has a wank. If he was watching from the doorway that would be ok, but he just stands a bit too close to people for my comfort.

As long as a respectful distance is kept, I'm fine with people watching. We had a great time in the couples & fems room at CJs on Valentine's

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We enjoy being watched and would be pleased and flattered if someone asked.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we like to be watched in clubs too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd really like to just watch a couple have sex. Not done that yet as I've never found a couple willing to. Played with couples but never just watched

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you're in a club and people are playing in an open room - they want to be watched. "

I don't think I would ask to watch if I was at a club, I would just keep my distance, I do like watching cams with Women/couples watching other people as well, I love to see their facial reactions when they see something they like and when they involuntary touch themselves, People watching/Voyeurism is something I like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We like being watched in a club, but we wouldn't invite someone into our home to watch us - it would be a little odd having someone sat at the foot of the bed - Asking to watch in my opinion is quite polite, I think I'd rather this then make it clear they could join in if they took our fancy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

a guy asked to watch us only. we said no as theres plenty of porn on net for that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We want to be watched more and then to decorate her boobs with cum

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By *reykiwi500Man over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)

Love watching. Wish there were more couples from London on here that had this as an interest. It does feel more 'comfortable' doing it in a club though.

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By *reykiwi500Man over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)

"We want to be watched more and then to decorate her boobs with cum"

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