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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm so angry I'm struggling to put it into words!
Just been informed by a past meet that someone WHO HASN'T EVEN CONTACTED ME THEMSELF, has offered their services to the past meet and wants them to message me and recommend them so they can 'tag team' me.
Arghhhh
How dare they hassle people I have met and enjoyed spending time with just because I wouldn't meet them?
I really like having my veri's on display but it's making me reconsider! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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try not to let it get to you so much. Clearly the guys an ass and you have a good friend for telling you. Hopefully he would have put him straight in his place. |
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Oh dear. It is rude isn't it and shows a disrespectful attitude. It happens I'm afraid we once had a message from people who thought because we met someone they had met we would automatically meet them  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" Oh dear. It is rude isn't it and shows a disrespectful attitude. It happens I'm afraid we once had a message from people who thought because we met someone they had met we would automatically meet them "
I'm just so embarrassed! And the fact that they assumed that the past meet would convince me to meet the person makes me feel like nothing more than a piece of meat!
" Huh. People are odd. This seems to be happening a lot today.
I'm glad I've never head of this happening with people we've met.
-Courtney "
It had never even occurred to me before that it would happen! All it resulted in was the person receiving a swift block from me and a telling off from my past meet! It's just so disrespectful.
"Wait you mean someone contacted one of your veris and asked that person to contact you for a tag team session ???
That's kinda stepping across the line a little alright !!! "
Yes! Completely across the line, fair enough I know it's hard for single guys on here, but seriously?!
Hmm I'm over it now, just needed a rant and to be reassured that I'm not overreacting!  |
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" Oh dear. It is rude isn't it and shows a disrespectful attitude. It happens I'm afraid we once had a message from people who thought because we met someone they had met we would automatically meet them
I'm just so embarrassed! And the fact that they assumed that the past meet would convince me to meet the person makes me feel like nothing more than a piece of meat!
Huh. People are odd. This seems to be happening a lot today.
I'm glad I've never head of this happening with people we've met.
-Courtney
It had never even occurred to me before that it would happen! All it resulted in was the person receiving a swift block from me and a telling off from my past meet! It's just so disrespectful.
Wait you mean someone contacted one of your veris and asked that person to contact you for a tag team session ???
That's kinda stepping across the line a little alright !!!
Yes! Completely across the line, fair enough I know it's hard for single guys on here, but seriously?!
Hmm I'm over it now, just needed a rant and to be reassured that I'm not overreacting! "
Why are you embarrassed? |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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I'm not surprised you're angry! I had just the same thing, except that some random stranger invited me to join him and a lady (who it turns out he had never met!) for a FMF threesome. He sent the same message to the lady, inviting her to join him and me for a threesome! Basically, he was trying to pretend to both of us that he was FWB with the other one.
His ploy unravelled, when the lady contacted me to say 'sorry I don't want to meet you'. I was baffled, but when we exchanged notes, we found out his sneaky little trick.
I don't know how he thought that would work out if we had been suckered into agreeing - when three complete strangers met in a hotel bar, each thinking that the other two were 'a couple'!
Some men will just try anything for a shag, and it's why I don't display my verifications. |
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"I'm not surprised you're angry! I had just the same thing, except that some random stranger invited me to join him and a lady (who it turns out he had never met!) for a FMF threesome. He sent the same message to the lady, inviting her to join him and me for a threesome! Basically, he was trying to pretend to both of us that he was FWB with the other one.
His ploy unravelled, when the lady contacted me to say 'sorry I don't want to meet you'. I was baffled, but when we exchanged notes, we found out his sneaky little trick.
I don't know how he thought that would work out if we had been suckered into agreeing - when three complete strangers met in a hotel bar, each thinking that the other two were 'a couple'!
Some men will just try anything for a shag, and it's why I don't display my verifications."
Fuck that !!! I'm beginning to think I don't want a veri 
But I assume I'm correct in saying that kind of rubbish rarely happens or is it quite common? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not surprised you're angry! I had just the same thing, except that some random stranger invited me to join him and a lady (who it turns out he had never met!) for a FMF threesome. He sent the same message to the lady, inviting her to join him and me for a threesome! Basically, he was trying to pretend to both of us that he was FWB with the other one.
His ploy unravelled, when the lady contacted me to say 'sorry I don't want to meet you'. I was baffled, but when we exchanged notes, we found out his sneaky little trick.
I don't know how he thought that would work out if we had been suckered into agreeing - when three complete strangers met in a hotel bar, each thinking that the other two were 'a couple'!
Some men will just try anything for a shag, and it's why I don't display my verifications."
Blimey your story is so much worse than mine!
That would absolutely horrify me |
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"I'm so angry I'm struggling to put it into words!
Just been informed by a past meet that someone WHO HASN'T EVEN CONTACTED ME THEMSELF, has offered their services to the past meet and wants them to message me and recommend them so they can 'tag team' me.
Arghhhh
How dare they hassle people I have met and enjoyed spending time with just because I wouldn't meet them?
I really like having my veri's on display but it's making me reconsider!"
Well out of order that. Some prats about. |
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By *llebWoman
over a year ago
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This is one of the main reasons I won't leave my verifications on show , people do a lot of stealth investigating and there's so much jealousy out there on who's meeting who.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thankfully the past meet isn't bothered at all, finds it funny but it has unnerved me slightly.
I forget how big this site is sometimes and as everyone I've met and chatted to is generally absolutely lovely I think I've become too trusting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah. Sometimes things on here can leave you unsettled.
I was approached in town by someone from here how said he'd been messaging me. Freaked me out that I didn't know his face but he was looking at me. I couldn't get away quick enough. All the way home I thought about that look and knowing he'd seen my body made me question if I should close my account. |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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"Blimey your story is so much worse than mine!
That would absolutely horrify me "
It's a few months ago now, and I wasn't suckered into agreeing (mostly because I don't meet couples!), so I can laugh about it now. His response was particularly enlightening, when I challenged him about his misleading offer. He said "but I would love a FMF and if you don't ask, you don't get"
Mostly, I don't think that the crass single guys ruin it for the good single guys on here. The crass single guys really make the good guys look good! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm so angry I'm struggling to put it into words!
Just been informed by a past meet that someone WHO HASN'T EVEN CONTACTED ME THEMSELF, has offered their services to the past meet and wants them to message me and recommend them so they can 'tag team' me.
Arghhhh
How dare they hassle people I have met and enjoyed spending time with just because I wouldn't meet them?
I really like having my veri's on display but it's making me reconsider!"
You're "It"... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm so angry I'm struggling to put it into words!
Just been informed by a past meet that someone WHO HASN'T EVEN CONTACTED ME THEMSELF, has offered their services to the past meet and wants them to message me and recommend them so they can 'tag team' me.
Arghhhh
How dare they hassle people I have met and enjoyed spending time with just because I wouldn't meet them?
I really like having my veri's on display but it's making me reconsider!
You're "It"..."
I'm it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah. Sometimes things on here can leave you unsettled.
I was approached in town by someone from here how said he'd been messaging me. Freaked me out that I didn't know his face but he was looking at me. I couldn't get away quick enough. All the way home I thought about that look and knowing he'd seen my body made me question if I should close my account. "
Oh lord, if I ever got approached by someone who recognised me from fab I would just die... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol the audacity to even try it! It's bloody creepy that the person has tried it, and cheeky considering they seem to have overlooked the concensual aspect of it. But hey why be annoyed, be grateful that your veri didn't try and rope you into it, and see the funny side that he'll never get what he's evidently so desperate for! |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"How do they no you wouldnt meet them if theyve never contacted you
They're out of my filtered age range!"
You have filters set to 20 - 40 but veris from a guys at 42 and 48yrs. You also have interests in threesomes and gangbangs. So as you say - you sure you're not over reacting here? The guy may just have liked you and thought there was no harm in trying as he couldn't message direct. Chinese whispers may have just made it sound a little worse than it appears? |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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"Yeah. Sometimes things on here can leave you unsettled.
I was approached in town by someone from here how said he'd been messaging me. Freaked me out that I didn't know his face but he was looking at me. I couldn't get away quick enough. All the way home I thought about that look and knowing he'd seen my body made me question if I should close my account. "
Approaching someone IRL after a Fab chat is the height of bad manners! And it's why I don't put my face on Fab. But don't close your account, block the idiot, and tell yourself that you are better than him x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do they no you wouldnt meet them if theyve never contacted you
They're out of my filtered age range!
You have filters set to 20 - 40 but veris from a guys at 42 and 48yrs. You also have interests in threesomes and gangbangs. So as you say - you sure you're not over reacting here? The guy may just have liked you and thought there was no harm in trying as he couldn't message direct. Chinese whispers may have just made it sound a little worse than it appears? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How do they no you wouldnt meet them if theyve never contacted you
They're out of my filtered age range!
You have filters set to 20 - 40 but veris from a guys at 42 and 48yrs. You also have interests in threesomes and gangbangs. So as you say - you sure you're not over reacting here? The guy may just have liked you and thought there was no harm in trying as he couldn't message direct. Chinese whispers may have just made it sound a little worse than it appears? "
Those 2 veri's although I shouldn't have to explain them, are friends that I met in a club. I have never played with either of them and the tone of the veri indicates that.
Yes my interests include threesomes and gangbangs (maybe not so much anymore), but how dare someone try and arrange a threesome with me without my consent and behind my back?
There's no harm in trying? I have filters for a reason. The person was sneakily trying to get round them. Which I find repulsive. |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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"You have filters set to 20 - 40 but veris from a guys at 42 and 48yrs. You also have interests in threesomes and gangbangs. So as you say - you sure you're not over reacting here? "
Oh come on! Just because a woman has verifications from people outside her age range, she is expected to move her age range? Maybe she experimented with older men, and decided they're not for her.
Just because she has threesomes and gangbangs as interests, she is expected to indulge in these with everyone who asks?
I can't believe you're even defending the idiot who tried to 'tag team' her, via one of her meets. What he did was totally out of order! |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"You have filters set to 20 - 40 but veris from a guys at 42 and 48yrs. You also have interests in threesomes and gangbangs. So as you say - you sure you're not over reacting here?
Oh come on! Just because a woman has verifications from people outside her age range, she is expected to move her age range? Maybe she experimented with older men, and decided they're not for her.
Just because she has threesomes and gangbangs as interests, she is expected to indulge in these with everyone who asks?
I can't believe you're even defending the idiot who tried to 'tag team' her, via one of her meets. What he did was totally out of order!"
Dont shoot the messenger, it's hardly that big a crime really is it. I'd be laughing at it. He still wouldn't be getting a shag. What benefit would getting angry do for you? Nothing at all...  |
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"You have filters set to 20 - 40 but veris from a guys at 42 and 48yrs. You also have interests in threesomes and gangbangs. So as you say - you sure you're not over reacting here?
Oh come on! Just because a woman has verifications from people outside her age range, she is expected to move her age range? Maybe she experimented with older men, and decided they're not for her.
Just because she has threesomes and gangbangs as interests, she is expected to indulge in these with everyone who asks?
I can't believe you're even defending the idiot who tried to 'tag team' her, via one of her meets. What he did was totally out of order!"
If it was an innocent question being asked by somebody who had been already been in previous conversation with the veri then may be a little harsh.
But sounds like it was somebody typing with his cock asking for a cheeky tag team lol |
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over a year ago
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I don't really understand why such anger. The guy messaged someone you'd met and asked a question. The answer was no. Block and move on. Or did i miss something? |
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over a year ago
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"I don't really understand why such anger. The guy messaged someone you'd met and asked a question. The answer was no. Block and move on. Or did i miss something?"
It was more his including/inviting himself into a threesome with me without asking me and using the words 'tag team' is hardly a polite way to phrase his question. |
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over a year ago
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"I don't really understand why such anger. The guy messaged someone you'd met and asked a question. The answer was no. Block and move on. Or did i miss something?
It was more his including/inviting himself into a threesome with me without asking me and using the words 'tag team' is hardly a polite way to phrase his question."
Did he phrase it to you ? |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"I don't really understand why such anger. The guy messaged someone you'd met and asked a question. The answer was no. Block and move on. Or did i miss something?
It was more his including/inviting himself into a threesome with me without asking me and using the words 'tag team' is hardly a polite way to phrase his question."
Would he have stood a chance if he hadn't have used the words tag team? |
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over a year ago
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"I don't really understand why such anger. The guy messaged someone you'd met and asked a question. The answer was no. Block and move on. Or did i miss something?
It was more his including/inviting himself into a threesome with me without asking me and using the words 'tag team' is hardly a polite way to phrase his question."
Jesustittychrist! Some people look for, ask for and enjoy "tag team" if you're THAT easily offended this is not the site for you. |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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Any attempt to get round people's filters is a no-no for me. People have filters for a reason.
And to approach someone who has left a verification for a woman, to try to get into her knickers, is a contemptible act, in my opinion. Fortunately, the OP's friend was a good guy, and snubbed the opportunist. I would hope that everyone would do the same. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't really understand why such anger. The guy messaged someone you'd met and asked a question. The answer was no. Block and move on. Or did i miss something?
It was more his including/inviting himself into a threesome with me without asking me and using the words 'tag team' is hardly a polite way to phrase his question.
Jesustittychrist! Some people look for, ask for and enjoy "tag team" if you're THAT easily offended this is not the site for you."
I value politeness and consent.
Most people do on here.
The fact of the matter is, he tried to get someone who I met, to arrange a threesome with me and them.
Basically taking my choice and my views out of the equation. That is inexcusable.
I've heard stories of men asking men in clubs if they can play with their wives. It is not up to the male half to choose who the wife plays with, it is her choice alone. |
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over a year ago
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"Any attempt to get round people's filters is a no-no for me. People have filters for a reason.
And to approach someone who has left a verification for a woman, to try to get into her knickers, is a contemptible act, in my opinion. Fortunately, the OP's friend was a good guy, and snubbed the opportunist. I would hope that everyone would do the same."
I'm glad someone on here has morals |
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over a year ago
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"Any attempt to get round people's filters is a no-no for me. People have filters for a reason.
And to approach someone who has left a verification for a woman, to try to get into her knickers, is a contemptible act, in my opinion. Fortunately, the OP's friend was a good guy, and snubbed the opportunist. I would hope that everyone would do the same."
Yes but really worth getting angry about??.....jeez I'd be constantly angry every time i logged on if that were the case! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Any attempt to get round people's filters is a no-no for me. People have filters for a reason.
And to approach someone who has left a verification for a woman, to try to get into her knickers, is a contemptible act, in my opinion. Fortunately, the OP's friend was a good guy, and snubbed the opportunist. I would hope that everyone would do the same.
Yes but really worth getting angry about??.....jeez I'd be constantly angry every time i logged on if that were the case! "
I think I've been lucky so far to never really have received an inappropriate/rude/weird message! Everyone I've met or spoken to has been really great so this is my first negative experience as such. |
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"Any attempt to get round people's filters is a no-no for me. People have filters for a reason.
And to approach someone who has left a verification for a woman, to try to get into her knickers, is a contemptible act, in my opinion. Fortunately, the OP's friend was a good guy, and snubbed the opportunist. I would hope that everyone would do the same."
Heavens! He was trying to get into her knickers? To "have sex" with her? Surely not? Not here?! Not on fab-flippin-swingers! Surely a stoning offence! Won't somebody think of the children. ?! And to think he was an opportunist as well! Not like all those other guys eh...?  |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Any attempt to get round people's filters is a no-no for me. People have filters for a reason.
And to approach someone who has left a verification for a woman, to try to get into her knickers, is a contemptible act, in my opinion. Fortunately, the OP's friend was a good guy, and snubbed the opportunist. I would hope that everyone would do the same.
Yes but really worth getting angry about??.....jeez I'd be constantly angry every time i logged on if that were the case!
I think I've been lucky so far to never really have received an inappropriate/rude/weird message! Everyone I've met or spoken to has been really great so this is my first negative experience as such."
I think you need a mug of co-co and a book. |
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"Any attempt to get round people's filters is a no-no for me. People have filters for a reason.
And to approach someone who has left a verification for a woman, to try to get into her knickers, is a contemptible act, in my opinion. Fortunately, the OP's friend was a good guy, and snubbed the opportunist. I would hope that everyone would do the same.
Heavens! He was trying to get into her knickers? To "have sex" with her? Surely not? Not here?! Not on fab-flippin-swingers! Surely a stoning offence! Won't somebody think of the children. ?! And to think he was an opportunist as well! Not like all those other guys eh...? "
 I get what you're saying, but I wouldn't want people messaging my verifications and asking about me. It is a bit much, no? I see you note all the time the ridiculous messages men send your wife, but this scenario seems reasonable to you? I dunno, but to me it seems rude.
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"Any attempt to get round people's filters is a no-no for me. People have filters for a reason.
And to approach someone who has left a verification for a woman, to try to get into her knickers, is a contemptible act, in my opinion. Fortunately, the OP's friend was a good guy, and snubbed the opportunist. I would hope that everyone would do the same.
Heavens! He was trying to get into her knickers? To "have sex" with her? Surely not? Not here?! Not on fab-flippin-swingers! Surely a stoning offence! Won't somebody think of the children. ?! And to think he was an opportunist as well! Not like all those other guys eh...?
I get what you're saying, but I wouldn't want people messaging my verifications and asking about me. It is a bit much, no? I see you note all the time the ridiculous messages men send your wife, but this scenario seems reasonable to you? I dunno, but to me it seems rude.
-Courtney "
God no. Not reasonable. But forum worthy news? No, just another day at the office. Men want to fuck. Some men will try all sorts of methods. Protect yourselves. Lessen the drama.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Any attempt to get round people's filters is a no-no for me. People have filters for a reason.
And to approach someone who has left a verification for a woman, to try to get into her knickers, is a contemptible act, in my opinion. Fortunately, the OP's friend was a good guy, and snubbed the opportunist. I would hope that everyone would do the same.
Heavens! He was trying to get into her knickers? To "have sex" with her? Surely not? Not here?! Not on fab-flippin-swingers! Surely a stoning offence! Won't somebody think of the children. ?! And to think he was an opportunist as well! Not like all those other guys eh...? "
This is a swingers site, well done. This site also offers the choice to filter people out, to meet the preferences of each individual.
Anyway, clearly you're not going to see my point and I'm definitely not going to see yours so we may aswell stop fannying about. |
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"Any attempt to get round people's filters is a no-no for me. People have filters for a reason.
And to approach someone who has left a verification for a woman, to try to get into her knickers, is a contemptible act, in my opinion. Fortunately, the OP's friend was a good guy, and snubbed the opportunist. I would hope that everyone would do the same.
Heavens! He was trying to get into her knickers? To "have sex" with her? Surely not? Not here?! Not on fab-flippin-swingers! Surely a stoning offence! Won't somebody think of the children. ?! And to think he was an opportunist as well! Not like all those other guys eh...?
This is a swingers site, well done. This site also offers the choice to filter people out, to meet the preferences of each individual.
Anyway, clearly you're not going to see my point and I'm definitely not going to see yours so we may aswell stop fannying about."
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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Well, I'm going to bed, and no, it's not going to cause me a sleepless night. It's just a shame, though, that this type of shady and underhand behaviour means that women have to treat all guys with suspicion. I would like to see a world where 'peer pressure' shames men into NOT behaving like this.
Well, a girl can dream |
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"Well, I'm going to bed, and no, it's not going to cause me a sleepless night. It's just a shame, though, that this type of shady and underhand behaviour means that women have to treat all guys with suspicion. I would like to see a world where 'peer pressure' shames men into NOT behaving like this.
Well, a girl can dream "
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"You have filters set to 20 - 40 but veris from a guys at 42 and 48yrs. You also have interests in threesomes and gangbangs. So as you say - you sure you're not over reacting here?
Oh come on! Just because a woman has verifications from people outside her age range, she is expected to move her age range? Maybe she experimented with older men, and decided they're not for her.
Just because she has threesomes and gangbangs as interests, she is expected to indulge in these with everyone who asks?
I can't believe you're even defending the idiot who tried to 'tag team' her, via one of her meets. What he did was totally out of order!"
Finding shifty ways of overriding filters is like saying I don't care about your choices, you don't know what you think you want so here you go, here's my profile.
I mean what lady's heart could fail to be swayed by someone who is not only so not what she's interested in that she used filters in the first place, but this guy in his efforts to make first contact has shown himself to be a sneaky underhand twat who couldn't give a shit what she wants.
What a superb first impression she'll have of your conniving ways and old saggy balls.
I'm sometimes uncertain whether some are being sarcastic or tongue in cheek when they defend these clearly indefensible tricks or justify using them.
I'm usually disappointed to discover it's not so sharp n sexy satirist's wit I'm reading but the sexual manifest of some asocial mouth breather who's interests include not only arson and torturing animals but now also include stalking you and trying to inveigle himself into her life using any dodgy morally repugnant means possible.
"Oh hi, I'm the guy who "accidentally' ran over your now critically sick child outside her school this morning, I was wondering are you busy tonight? Maybe we could go for a few drinks and go bowling AND simultaneously discuss names for our replacement children we're gonna have once old whatisface in hospital has died ?
I'll book our wedding same day seeing as
We're gonna be there, so let's find you a reversible dress that's black for the funeral but once turned inside out is a beautiful wedding dress.
But let's not get ahead of ourselves here. Plenty of time for thAt next week.
Oh, sorry I forgot to tell you my name is Mr Obsessive Possessive |
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"I'd be up for that with a past meet if the new man was to my taste. Saves me looking for myself "
The OP's point was that this guy wasn't to her tastes and he knew it because he couldn't message her directly so he tried to work around her filters because he thought he knew better than she did.
It's something that doesn't make me angry but it does irritate me and it automatically puts someone in the "never, no never no matter how fit and good looking because if they don't respect my preferences before we've even met what would they be like in person" category. |
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Had this when we talked about going to a party someone outside our filters started messaging our veris in order to try and get an invite.
One of the reasons we kept only a few on show simply to prove that we are real and that's enough for us.
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It's shit behaviour but shit happens on here.
I do find it odd though if the guy knew you wouldn't meet him why he thought going via someone else would make a difference. Did you see the message the guy actually sent?
Maybe it's the way my mind works on here but I trust very few people. |
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