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I'm tired an ive lost my mojo
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
This week ive been tired an out of sorts...taking time out from work an working from home
I havnt been to the gym either
I feel I've lost my mojo I don't know how to get it back
Guys tell me im sexy ive a nice body an good looking but I don't see i have tbh
How do I get my mojo back any suggestions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As above, we all go through it from time to time. Take a break, chill out and try doing something different. Then come back when your feeling refreshed!
Sounds a good idea  "
I found when I was tried and couldn't be arsed to do anything and going to the gym was boring me. I just kicked back and went for walks (well in my case push) around the local park for fresh air a change of scenery, get a coffee and watch people chase thier dogs or watch the world go by, as always something funny happens in a park to made you smile ( and I don't mean sexually lol). And generally I went home feeling a bit more positive.
Failing that you could always borrow a dog and be one of those who ends up chasing it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes if you're in a routine you can lose your moJo. Some suggestions. .
Do something different exercise wise, go for a walk, replicate something on you tube
Visit somewhere new for a nice lunch / bit of dinner
Go somewhere new and buy yourself some new clothes
Listen.to a new band or new genre of music. ... generally try something new |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes if you're in a routine you can lose your moJo. Some suggestions. .
Do something different exercise wise, go for a walk, replicate something on you tube
Visit somewhere new for a nice lunch / bit of dinner
Go somewhere new and buy yourself some new clothes
Listen.to a new band or new genre of music. ... generally try something new "
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"As above, we all go through it from time to time. Take a break, chill out and try doing something different. Then come back when your feeling refreshed!
Sounds a good idea
I found when I was tried and couldn't be arsed to do anything and going to the gym was boring me. I just kicked back and went for walks (well in my case push) around the local park for fresh air a change of scenery, get a coffee and watch people chase thier dogs or watch the world go by, as always something funny happens in a park to made you smile ( and I don't mean sexually lol). And generally I went home feeling a bit more positive.
Failing that you could always borrow a dog and be one of those who ends up chasing it "
I don't know anyone with a dog to take for a walk 
I feel the gym I can't do as tiredness an i did cardiovascular workout ie running machine
I used to love the gym but not this week for some reason 
My eating pattern has changed..my sleep pattern an out of sorts |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"I know this sounds old fashioned but going for a good walk can be good for your body and mind X"
I may go out sat for a walk but not today ...just don't feel like going for a walk 
I know what u mean a walk can be good in mind an body x |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"Sometimes if you're in a routine you can lose your moJo. Some suggestions. .
Do something different exercise wise, go for a walk, replicate something on you tube
Visit somewhere new for a nice lunch / bit of dinner
Go somewhere new and buy yourself some new clothes
Listen.to a new band or new genre of music. ... generally try something new "
Positive thing is ive lost weight an need some new clothes.. I feel meh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's the thing, you need to chill out and rest, take it easy for a while and have a break from FAB and the whole scene, go for a walk in the park, travel to a place with a lot of sunshine, eat more healthier foods and drinks, focus on a different non-sexual activity for a week and you'll be feeling refreshed and super horny for playtime right before you know it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it depends how you feel about yourself
Some days I feel really bad about the way I look and the though of getting naked with somebody is a real turn off
I can go months without sex because of this, when I feel down about my looks I have no sex drive at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes if you're in a routine you can lose your moJo. Some suggestions. .
Do something different exercise wise, go for a walk, replicate something on you tube
Visit somewhere new for a nice lunch / bit of dinner
Go somewhere new and buy yourself some new clothes
Listen.to a new band or new genre of music. ... generally try something new
Positive thing is ive lost weight an need some new clothes.. I feel meh "
It's not always about weight though
I though loosing weight would make me more confidant and happier, it didn't
I still don't like the way I look |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"That's the thing, you need to chill out and rest, take it easy for a while and have a break from FAB and the whole scene, go for a walk in the park, travel to a place with a lot of sunshine, eat more healthier foods and drinks, focus on a different non-sexual activity for a week and you'll be feeling refreshed and super horny for playtime right before you know it. "
The thing is im on a low fat diet already due to gall stones my diet is healthy I can't have any fat in my diet
I eat fruit ..veg an don't eat junk food .. |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"I think it depends how you feel about yourself
Some days I feel really bad about the way I look and the though of getting naked with somebody is a real turn off
I can go months without sex because of this, when I feel down about my looks I have no sex drive at all"
I have to agree it isn't about my weight ..i feel not sexy an even though some fems would love my weight loss an im now 8 stone 5 lbs. .its not about that...
I just don't feel sexy ..despite my weight loss |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"Sometimes if you're in a routine you can lose your moJo. Some suggestions. .
Do something different exercise wise, go for a walk, replicate something on you tube
Visit somewhere new for a nice lunch / bit of dinner
Go somewhere new and buy yourself some new clothes
Listen.to a new band or new genre of music. ... generally try something new
Positive thing is ive lost weight an need some new clothes.. I feel meh
It's not always about weight though
I though loosing weight would make me more confidant and happier, it didn't
I still don't like the way I look "
Same here
Guys tell me on here im nice looking good body
I just don't feel it tbh an feel im good looking or sexy enough |
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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago
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Have you tried looking on the internet for mojos as lots of retro sweet sellers there.....love a good mojo 
Seriously, I just unplug from fab for a while when I'm fed up. If that fails, strip naked and run down your street singing Kylie songs |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Have you tried looking on the internet for mojos as lots of retro sweet sellers there.....love a good mojo
Seriously, I just unplug from fab for a while when I'm fed up. If that fails, strip naked and run down your street singing Kylie songs "
I don't think my neighbours would like that if I did an think I'd lost my marbles if i stripped naked an ran down my street singling Kylie songs |
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I've been flirting with a vegan diet- and it's showing promise re general wellbeing.... There's no getting away from the fact that sometimes we all occasional feel a tad 'meh' , though experience tells us that it will pass in time ( if it doesn't then help should of course be sought)..... Also when ur 'down' advice like 'pull yourself together, go for a walk' and 'there are lots of people worse off than you in the world' really really doesn't help.
You'll get ur mojo back.
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"I've been flirting with a vegan diet- and it's showing promise re general wellbeing.... There's no getting away from the fact that sometimes we all occasional feel a tad 'meh' , though experience tells us that it will pass in time ( if it doesn't then help should of course be sought)..... Also when ur 'down' advice like 'pull yourself together, go for a walk' and 'there are lots of people worse off than you in the world' really really doesn't help.
You'll get ur mojo back.
X"
Thanks babe's. .going for a walk don't help . Sometimes it can make it worse
I hope I get my mojo back Don't know how to get it back i wish I did |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This week ive been tired an out of sorts...taking time out from work an working from home
I havnt been to the gym either
I feel I've lost my mojo I don't know how to get it back
Guys tell me im sexy ive a nice body an good looking but I don't see i have tbh
How do I get my mojo back any suggestions"
I am right here with you on this and as I'm still recovering from a broken leg gym and walking aren't an option for me x |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"This week ive been tired an out of sorts...taking time out from work an working from home
I havnt been to the gym either
I feel I've lost my mojo I don't know how to get it back
Guys tell me im sexy ive a nice body an good looking but I don't see i have tbh
How do I get my mojo back any suggestions
I am right here with you on this and as I'm still recovering from a broken leg gym and walking aren't an option for me x"
Get better soon
I've been in a meh mood all week it's not passing tbh |
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Don't try forcing feeling a certain way if you don't feel great you don't feel great. Give yourself some time out just to relax and within time you'll be back on track. Spring isn't too far away,a bit of warmth makes us feel better |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Don't try forcing feeling a certain way if you don't feel great you don't feel great. Give yourself some time out just to relax and within time you'll be back on track. Spring isn't too far away,a bit of warmth makes us feel better"
It does ..mind u i like autumn winter time I dont like spring an summer
I havnt been sleeping well this week too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sit down and relax,and have a good think about why you are feeling like you do, weigh up the pros and cons, and think about what makes you happiest and what dosent,,new broom sweeps clean,  |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Sit down and relax,and have a good think about why you are feeling like you do, weigh up the pros and cons, and think about what makes you happiest and what dosent,,new broom sweeps clean, "
So true. .maybe a clear out of friends list on fabs..too
Also yes a new broom sweeps clean |
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I've been feeling very much this way too lately...my world has been very difficult with different family issues since October 2015...my mojo has been very up and down and I like you gave up the gym at the start and not been back since. I do try and walk the dog but sometimes that's even hard to be bothered to do that but must admit once I have I do feel a bit better. I hope you feel better soon xx ps winter months don't help me either roll on summer. X  |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"I've been feeling very much this way too lately...my world has been very difficult with different family issues since October 2015...my mojo has been very up and down and I like you gave up the gym at the start and not been back since. I do try and walk the dog but sometimes that's even hard to be bothered to do that but must admit once I have I do feel a bit better. I hope you feel better soon xx ps winter months don't help me either roll on summer. X "
Thanks babe's
I've been feeling like this a week..trying to snap out of it but havnt been able too. .
I've dropped the gym..dropped a friendship too..an not been sleeping either
Made a cpl of decisions like work decision...an it's not easy
Thanks hopefully I will better soon |
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By *atnat85Woman
over a year ago
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Fresh air and make time for you, even its a coffee and a trashy magazine. Sexiness is an inner feeling, so maybe stripping back, concentrating on you(rather than energy on here) , see a friend, book a spa day. Just make time for you.
My mum had been poorly for a long time and I lost my mojo for quite a while. Since she passed away I've taken time off work ( thank goodness for the nhs!) , gone to the gym, gone for walks and sometimes just even watched day time Tele, just for the he'll of it! Mojo is returning : )x |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Fresh air and make time for you, even its a coffee and a trashy magazine. Sexiness is an inner feeling, so maybe stripping back, concentrating on you(rather than energy on here) , see a friend, book a spa day. Just make time for you.
My mum had been poorly for a long time and I lost my mojo for quite a while. Since she passed away I've taken time off work ( thank goodness for the nhs!) , gone to the gym, gone for walks and sometimes just even watched day time Tele, just for the he'll of it! Mojo is returning : )x"
Sorry to hear about your mum
Hugs to you
Glad your moJo is returning back |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
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"It will do , we all need a recharge now and and then ! We dont go a day without having bee pollen tablets in the morning now. Does help mrs has seen a real change in tiredness. X"
It's hard when I can't sleep or have things on my mind
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This week ive been tired an out of sorts...taking time out from work an working from home
I havnt been to the gym either
I feel I've lost my mojo I don't know how to get it back
Guys tell me im sexy ive a nice body an good looking but I don't see i have tbh
How do I get my mojo back any suggestions
I am right here with you on this and as I'm still recovering from a broken leg gym and walking aren't an option for me x"
Thanks and yeah meh pretty much all yearx |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"This week ive been tired an out of sorts...taking time out from work an working from home
I havnt been to the gym either
I feel I've lost my mojo I don't know how to get it back
Guys tell me im sexy ive a nice body an good looking but I don't see i have tbh
How do I get my mojo back any suggestions
I am right here with you on this and as I'm still recovering from a broken leg gym and walking aren't an option for me x
Thanks and yeah meh pretty much all yearx"
Mine has been for a week an im normally happy but this week has been hard .. |
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