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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not me personally as I have never had a fuck buddy or been in this situation
But out if intrest
You see alot of profile with no strings attached fun and FB
If 2 people were fuck buddy's
Is it ever as easy as keeping feelings out of it and having genuine no strings attached fun
Or do people generally develop feelings ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had one a long time back it lasted a few years as it suited both of us but eventually she met someone and it ended nicely even with a fairwell play 
Was really good while it lasted  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not me personally as I have never had a fuck buddy or been in this situation
But out if intrest
You see alot of profile with no strings attached fun and FB
If 2 people were fuck buddy's
Is it ever as easy as keeping feelings out of it and having genuine no strings attached fun
Or do people generally develop feelings ?
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An FB should be treated as such, as in.. I need a fuck, lets meet. If you start socialising then emotions can get the better of you and it either turns into a Bf/Gf relationship or you have to walk away. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had one a long time back it lasted a few years as it suited both of us but eventually she met someone and it ended nicely even with a fairwell play
Was really good while it lasted "
Brill
Glad you enjoyed it
I want one but then don't want get attached xx |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"Not me personally as I have never had a fuck buddy or been in this situation
But out if intrest
You see alot of profile with no strings attached fun and FB
If 2 people were fuck buddy's
Is it ever as easy as keeping feelings out of it and having genuine no strings attached fun
Or do people generally develop feelings ?
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I've never managed to maintain a fuck buddy relationship unless there is a big geographical distance between us and meets are pretty occasional. In other cases one or other of the people always get more emotionally attached and starts wishing for more.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not me personally as I have never had a fuck buddy or been in this situation
But out if intrest
You see alot of profile with no strings attached fun and FB
If 2 people were fuck buddy's
Is it ever as easy as keeping feelings out of it and having genuine no strings attached fun
Or do people generally develop feelings ?
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I have had a few (four to be exact) over the two and half years I have been single ....
Three of them no issues .... However with one we both got a little attached and then had to have the 'talk'... Decision was left with me and I said no to a relationship. I think it was purely because yeah we spent time together like watching films or meals out etc (which I don't think was a problem as I did that with the rest) but we made the fundamental mistake of being there for one another through hard times and spending way too much time with each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My partner on this profile and I are in a really weird place, used to be a couple but that didn't work, now playing together as a couple but do social side as well, guess we are just confused.
Sue x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An FB should be treated as such, as in.. I need a fuck, lets meet. If you start socialising then emotions can get the better of you and it either turns into a Bf/Gf relationship or you have to walk away."
I disagree as I am use to socialising with mine and only had one hiccup |
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
Just where I need to be. |
Communication is the key. Deciding what you want out of the situation. I have a fb/fwb for 2 and half years.We are both honest in telling each other how we feel. I withdraw when I feel it's becoming too close. |
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"My partner on this profile and I are in a really weird place, used to be a couple but that didn't work, now playing together as a couple but do social side as well, guess we are just confused.
Sue x"
Exactly as was my arrangement, we found it worked well. After a couple of years playing together we both met other people and we are all happy. |
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"Not me personally as I have never had a fuck buddy or been in this situation
But out if intrest
You see alot of profile with no strings attached fun and FB
If 2 people were fuck buddy's
Is it ever as easy as keeping feelings out of it and having genuine no strings attached fun
Or do people generally develop feelings ?
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you can develop feelings with a fb, it is a rollercoaster ride, on off whether your a bf/gf or are you just fb's, it can be compicated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had a few but normally choose to be fwb with someone because they are women who I fancy but don't want a relationship with or vice versa. However I am very loving and passionate and if they are the same then the lines become blurred after a while. I'm not doing it anymore. It's a relationship or sex now. That's why I insist on a social first with women who may be partner material. There are enough couples and married women about to keep me going until I meet the one. |
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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago
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It's nice to have a reg fb an it works well for me
No complications. .simple
Easier
What's not to like about that type of arrangement..not everyone likes a full on loving relationship
I don't get jealous either over my fb..he dont get jealous who i see outside of the arrangements both have the freedom to see others outside of the arrangement..an it works very well an im single an a lot happier being in a nsa type
An im contented in life I don't need a bf or a loving relationship. .to be happy or content in life..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your not sure and worry about feelings then its probably not for you... that's the main thing being honest with yourself and your feelings...its defiantly fun though... i had a fuk buddy who would call me when we were out clubbing...we would meet at the end of the night.. get a taxi home and do the darnce lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An FB should be treated as such, as in.. I need a fuck, lets meet. If you start socialising then emotions can get the better of you and it either turns into a Bf/Gf relationship or you have to walk away.
I disagree as I am use to socialising with mine and only had one hiccup "
One hiccup is one too many.. is it not? |
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I had one. It developed into something big. Feelings got in way, not that was either on our agenda. We are still extremely close now even though he is in a relationship and not on fab.
Wouldnt do it again |
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I had one in my teens. We were really good friends first, then had a d*unken session, both embarrassed by it in the morning, did it again a couple of months later (d*unk again!), then became a regularish "I'm d*unk and horny let's do it" thing. There was no shameful feelings, we had fun while it lasted. I'd have never gone out with him but he was worth using to scratch my itch when I needed it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had two fb over the course of the last few years. One was great, we had fun but then she met someone. The other broke my heart.
So, it can go either way. I was never expecting or planning on falling for the one but I did. If you can detach yourself emotionally before you get to involved then it's fine. |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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Had a FB for 6 years. No complains, we both knew what we were doing and what the realities were. Emotional attachment is inevitable if you sleep with someone repeatedly. The distinction is knowing before hand what the facts and realities are. Mine was married and anything beyond sex was never going to happen. But I loved his company, both in and out of bed and there were times we got together for just a cuddle. We parted eventually and it was without any hurt feelings. Sounds to me the OP is afraid of getting hurt which tells me you're very likely to get hurt because you might blur the boundaries between a sex mate and a boyfriend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me, the key is in the word. "fuck buddy". Or in other words - a friend you have sex with.
Do you not have any feelings for your friends? If people are genuinely my friends, I have feelings for them. I don't think this is a problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a lady last week but finished the friendship today as I have been getting feelings. We both have partners. When it gets to that stage easier to finish. A real shame |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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"I met a lady last week but finished the friendship today as I have been getting feelings. We both have partners. When it gets to that stage easier to finish. A real shame"
That shouldn't happen. Feelings may develop over time with a regular FB not after a one week liaison. Unless I'm missing something.
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"If your not sure and worry about feelings then its probably not for you... that's the main thing being honest with yourself and your feelings...its defiantly fun though... i had a fuk buddy who would call me when we were out clubbing...we would meet at the end of the night.. get a taxi home and do the darnce lol "
That's the sort of thing I need |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have never had one, sounds like fun lol.
Actually it can be a pain in the arse especially if you are horny and she is not."
Yes and that is right, as it is hard to time it as you might want it evenings and she afternoons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met a lady last week but finished the friendship today as I have been getting feelings. We both have partners. When it gets to that stage easier to finish. A real shame
That shouldn't happen. Feelings may develop over time with a regular FB not after a one week liaison. Unless I'm missing something.
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Sorry hotgirl we had been texting / messaging / speaking for 3 months prior. Photos/vids etc. Got a bit blown away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first FB (not that I even call it by that term) didn't had a lot of patience and time as we didn't had a place to play so we rented a day time hotel for a few hours and we hit it off wildly and had dinner afterwards, but we did had a previous social meal (which seemed date like) to discuss and arrange, activities, boundaries and plans. Soon after that she gave up on me due to us both living with family and not having anywhere to play much.
Second was a FWB which she was previously in an abusive relationship, she got out of it in one piece but was really shy around men. I showed her my friendly approach and she took it quite warmly and agreed for me to come over to her place for regular sex sessions while chilling and watching TV. (Funny enough first time before i came over, I offered her the chance to meet in a pub or restaurant but she wanted me straight at her place). We was great fun together in all ways and we still keep in touch from time to time but eventually she wanted more then a "friendship and penetration sessions" and I had to end that side of things so it woulden't get more complicated. But we still say hi from time to time only on a pure friendship level.
Now I have a new FB who she's great fun to be with and we're even seeking a second female to join us. We already discuss the boundaries and rules so I'm pretty firm this time that even the slightest bit of affection and it's quits from here on out.
Sorry to those if I may sound harsh but there are too meny people who don't make it clear what they want. Some will even make them selfs believe they just want friendship and sex but when it lingers on then feelings may start to build and the awkwardness starts. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My first FB (not that I even call it by that term) didn't had a lot of patience and time as we didn't had a place to play so we rented a day time hotel for a few hours and we hit it off wildly and had dinner afterwards, but we did had a previous social meal (which seemed date like) to discuss and arrange, activities, boundaries and plans. Soon after that she gave up on me due to us both living with family and not having anywhere to play much.
Second was a FWB which she was previously in an abusive relationship, she got out of it in one piece but was really shy around men. I showed her my friendly approach and she took it quite warmly and agreed for me to come over to her place for regular sex sessions while chilling and watching TV. (Funny enough first time before i came over, I offered her the chance to meet in a pub or restaurant but she wanted me straight at her place). We was great fun together in all ways and we still keep in touch from time to time but eventually she wanted more then a "friendship and penetration sessions" and I had to end that side of things so it woulden't get more complicated. But we still say hi from time to time only on a pure friendship level.
Now I have a new FB who she's great fun to be with and we're even seeking a second female to join us. We already discuss the boundaries and rules so I'm pretty firm this time that even the slightest bit of affection and it's quits from here on out.
Sorry to those if I may sound harsh but there are too meny people who don't make it clear what they want. Some will even make them selfs believe they just want friendship and sex but when it lingers on then feelings may start to build and the awkwardness starts."
Gosh lol
I'd rather the male be upfront xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Male here. Had a few. Always kept them out the area and get in contact with them a few days before needing a meet. Stayed with them for a few hours. 1 lasted 2years which worked really well. 30min drive away. 1 I got involved in a bit too much. Helped them out and was with them through tough times which she wanted more so if you just want a fb just keep it pure sex. Don't let them stay over and contact when needed. Hope this helps. Only talking from my experience but everyone is different and want different things from fb x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Male here. Had a few. Always kept them out the area and get in contact with them a few days before needing a meet. Stayed with them for a few hours. 1 lasted 2years which worked really well. 30min drive away. 1 I got involved in a bit too much. Helped them out and was with them through tough times which she wanted more so if you just want a fb just keep it pure sex. Don't let them stay over and contact when needed. Hope this helps. Only talking from my experience but everyone is different and want different things from fb x"
Yes definitely helped thanks for taking time to reply xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have had a few but normally choose to be fwb with someone because they are women who I fancy but don't want a relationship with or vice versa. However I am very loving and passionate and if they are the same then the lines become blurred after a while. I'm not doing it anymore. It's a relationship or sex now. That's why I insist on a social first with women who may be partner material. There are enough couples and married women about to keep me going until I meet the one. "
I agree but I don't find sex as fulfilling with just randoms who don't know my body as well as a FB might.
I had a great FB last year for a few months and the age gap (he was 22) meant there was no chance of a relationship developing.
But you're right, It's bloody hard! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've known this guy for about 5 years, he was my FB for 2 years, it finished because he met someone & wanted a relationship. We're still friends & meet occasionally, in all that time that's all we have ever been, friends. We share things about our lives, sexually very compatable but we both know it is what it is, nothing more nothing less.
I can imagine though in some circumstances that feelings do get the better of some people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always the chance of feelings with a regular fuck bud but I find you get a better experience with someone you've met beforehand ! Just my opinion "
Yeah if feelings develop then so be it. I'd prefer to not be in a relationship but I'd rather run the risk for having better sex with someone semi-regular. |
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By *ruegent101Man
over a year ago
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"Always the chance of feelings with a regular fuck bud but I find you get a better experience with someone you've met beforehand ! Just my opinion
Yeah if feelings develop then so be it. I'd prefer to not be in a relationship but I'd rather run the risk for having better sex with someone semi-regular."
Great minds think alike n all that! One offs don't do it for me want to feel a connection and once you get that connection the sex becomes mind blowing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive had a fb ive been seeing weekly since november. No feelings only those of being mates. We probably chat more about computer games more than anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always the chance of feelings with a regular fuck bud but I find you get a better experience with someone you've met beforehand ! Just my opinion
Yeah if feelings develop then so be it. I'd prefer to not be in a relationship but I'd rather run the risk for having better sex with someone semi-regular.
Great minds think alike n all that! One offs don't do it for me want to feel a connection and once you get that connection the sex becomes mind blowing "
It sure does! Forgive me, I'm reminiscing now.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met mine 5 months ago.. instant connection. We live over 100 miles apart and meeting requires a bit of planning. Last one was 2 nights away. We are close.. in daily contact. We both know the nature of the thing we have and both of us want long term.
I enjoy our arrangement and I'm sure he does too.
I'd love to find an additional one! |
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All I've ever wanted from Fab is a FWB or two. I want to socialise and then have sex. I want to go to the movies and be able to sit in the back row. I want to snuggle up on a sofa and watch a movie every now and then.
I do not want a relationship. I want the best bits of having man friends but not the aggro and the crap.
I thought I'd found one on here in 2013. We saw each other loads and it was good. Then he wanted a relationship. Well, what he really wanted was for me to not meet people and for him to carry on meeting people 
Dumped him last year and I wouldn't fall for that again |
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By *ruegent101Man
over a year ago
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"All I've ever wanted from Fab is a FWB or two. I want to socialise and then have sex. I want to go to the movies and be able to sit in the back row. I want to snuggle up on a sofa and watch a movie every now and then.
I do not want a relationship. I want the best bits of having man friends but not the aggro and the crap.
I thought I'd found one on here in 2013. We saw each other loads and it was good. Then he wanted a relationship. Well, what he really wanted was for me to not meet people and for him to carry on meeting people
Dumped him last year and I wouldn't fall for that again "
Lol really wonder what goes through some guys heads ! Where is the logic in that one ! Oh yea me and you will be in a relationship but I'll still dick around and your not aloud to lol oh my |
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"Lol really wonder what goes through some guys heads ! Where is the logic in that one ! Oh yea me and you will be in a relationship but I'll still dick around and your not aloud to lol oh my "
I think it's a form of control? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol really wonder what goes through some guys heads ! Where is the logic in that one ! Oh yea me and you will be in a relationship but I'll still dick around and your not aloud to lol oh my
I think it's a form of control?"
It's control and it's abuse. |
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"Lol really wonder what goes through some guys heads ! Where is the logic in that one ! Oh yea me and you will be in a relationship but I'll still dick around and your not aloud to lol oh my
I think it's a form of control?
It's control and it's abuse."
I did think that but thought I might be overreacting.
had been in an abusive relationship for 22 years and have to remind myself not to judge everyone on that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love my FB we both have a good time together every week, normally same time and same day every week, its purely sex but with both tick each others boxes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All I've ever wanted from Fab is a FWB or two. I want to socialise and then have sex. I want to go to the movies and be able to sit in the back row. I want to snuggle up on a sofa and watch a movie every now and then.
I do not want a relationship. I want the best bits of having man
friends but not the aggro and the crap.
Don't blame you not very fair xx
I thought I'd found one on here in 2013. We saw each other loads and it was good. Then he wanted a relationship. Well, what he really wanted was for me to not meet people and for him to carry on meeting people
Dumped him last year and I wouldn't fall for that again "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I met mine 5 months ago.. instant connection. We live over 100 miles apart and meeting requires a bit of planning. Last one was 2 nights away. We are close.. in daily contact. We both know the nature of the thing we have and both of us want long term.
I enjoy our arrangement and I'm sure he does too.
I'd love to find an additional one! "
Distance is probably the key xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my experience a good FB is hard to find. I've been in situations where I have had to end the arrangement as it threatened to become more but that's the risk with spending a lot of intimate time with one person.
Currently I have a very good arrangement with someone and we both agree we couldn't possibly make it any more than just sex. We're just not compatible outside the bedroom. I count myself very lucky! |
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"Currently I have a very good arrangement with someone and we both agree we couldn't possibly make it any more than just sex. We're just not compatible outside the bedroom. I count myself very lucky!"
I did have one of them but then he went and got a gf |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not me personally as I have never had a fuck buddy or been in this situation
But out if intrest
You see alot of profile with no strings attached fun and FB
If 2 people were fuck buddy's
Is it ever as easy as keeping feelings out of it and having genuine no strings attached fun
Or do people generally develop feelings ?
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I met a guy from work on here we started meeting things got a bit intense and we both developed feelings but neither wanted anything to tense so we took a step back set up a couples account on here met some couples which was fun but in the end i couldnt do it i liked him to much to share him.. we decided to end things we still chat and meet up now n then just |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been seeing a guy for almost 3 years now. I have developed feelings but have always known things could never move forward. I do miss him at times. He's completely emotionally unavailable and always has been. It can be difficult at times. But the great sex and excitement keeps me going back...... Or is it my feelings, the hold? Damn it's not easy to switch off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not me personally as I have never had a fuck buddy or been in this situation
But out if intrest
You see alot of profile with no strings attached fun and FB
If 2 people were fuck buddy's
Is it ever as easy as keeping feelings out of it and having genuine no strings attached fun
Or do people generally develop feelings ?
I met a guy from work on here we started meeting things got a bit intense and we both developed feelings but neither wanted anything to tense so we took a step back set up a couples account on here met some couples which was fun but in the end i couldnt do it i liked him to much to share him.. we decided to end things we still chat and meet up now n then just"
That sounds tough! Is it not still painful meeting up now? |
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By *irceWoman
over a year ago
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Feelings for a FB yes and you know it's a dead end in that dept.
I mean to be cold with no emotion is just weird.
Have had a few FBs some still contact for a chat and that is awesome but have had major heartache from FaB at times,still it is another life experience to be absorbed.. |
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I can separate sex from emotion. I need to like the guy of course, but I don't get strong feelings for them.
Plus if I had an FWB or two I would still be on Fab and meet others.
Don't want all my eggs in one basket |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not me personally as I have never had a fuck buddy or been in this situation
But out if intrest
You see alot of profile with no strings attached fun and FB
If 2 people were fuck buddy's
Is it ever as easy as keeping feelings out of it and having genuine no strings attached fun
Or do people generally develop feelings ?
I met a guy from work on here we started meeting things got a bit intense and we both developed feelings but neither wanted anything to tense so we took a step back set up a couples account on here met some couples which was fun but in the end i couldnt do it i liked him to much to share him.. we decided to end things we still chat and meet up now n then just
That sounds tough! Is it not still painful meeting up now?"
It kinda was in the beginning but im over him now lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently I have a very good arrangement with someone and we both agree we couldn't possibly make it any more than just sex. We're just not compatible outside the bedroom. I count myself very lucky!
I did have one of them but then he went and got a gf "
You need someone who is poly - then he can get as many girlfriends as he likes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had one a long time back it lasted a few years as it suited both of us but eventually she met someone and it ended nicely even with a fairwell play
Was really good while it lasted
Brill
Glad you enjoyed it
I want one but then don't want get attached xx"
can l apply |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Currently I have a very good arrangement with someone and we both agree we couldn't possibly make it any more than just sex. We're just not compatible outside the bedroom. I count myself very lucky!
I did have one of them but then he went and got a gf "
That's what happened to me, hence the reason I'm here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it ever as easy as keeping feelings out of it and having genuine no strings attached fun
Or do people generally develop feelings? "
I only meet really nice people i feel "something" for, so I can't keep feelings out completely. Inappropriate feelings are another matter! Compartmentalise and be sensible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not me personally as I have never had a fuck buddy or been in this situation
But out if intrest
You see alot of profile with no strings attached fun and FB
If 2 people were fuck buddy's
Is it ever as easy as keeping feelings
out of it and having genuine no strings attached fun
Or do people generally develop feelings ?
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From experience it's been rare to find someone who doesn't develop feeling unfortunately and you end up feeling alittle shitty |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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I've had both.... I had a 7yr fuck buddy with no strings who we used to talk about each others meets n stuff, but I also had what turned into a ten year 'relationship' after he fell for me and asked me to stop playing with others. We eventually played a bit together but it became a full on relationship where I was planning to leave my husband (until ironically I found out he was swinging with some fucker else! For which I now thank her as she saved me making a HUGE mistake as he'll never change).
Never again though!
It's all about simple fun now and no lines will ever be crossed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An FB should be treated as such, as in.. I need a fuck, lets meet. If you start socialising then emotions can get the better of you and it either turns into a Bf/Gf relationship or you have to walk away.
I disagree as I am use to socialising with mine and only had one hiccup
One hiccup is one too many.. is it not?"
No it was a lesson learnt silver linings and all that x |
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I prefer the term friend with benefits. We are friends and swing as a couple. I like him a lot, I do not want a "normal" relationship with him or anybody else - it suits me. I do care about him - but I also care about other friends it`s just the way I am, but do not get jealous when he fucks someone else. It depends on what you want and how honest you are with the other person and most importantly yourself. |
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