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So I'm shallow...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been chatting with a guy for a couple of days, now I've asked to see his face pic I'm apparently shallow. Erm ok  "
I've just had the same thing. ..luckily we'd only exchanged a couple of messages.
Does make me laugh though! I love the block button |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funny. He could be famous and doesn't want his secret swinging desires to be leaked to the press, OR he's just ugly and ashamed.
Nothing wrong with being shallow. You are not having sex with the personality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been chatting with a guy for a couple of days, now I've asked to see his face pic I'm apparently shallow. Erm ok "
Says a lot about his face if anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I relplied "Don't you think attraction is important"? To which he replied, "Speak for yourself".
I bet he's gorgeous too!!! Just my luck  "
I don't think he'll be a miss even if he's gorgeous - if he's not bothered about looks what does it say about him? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wonder what attracted him to your profile in the first place?
Pictures are what attract us all on a swinging site followed by messages. If there is no physical attraction do we really bother? |
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"I must be shallow as fuck then.. Because I won't even talk if I don't see a face pic first   "
I see this a lot more on UK profiles. We Irish are more cagey. It's a small country and a greater chance of bumping into someone you know (or even an extended family member) plus the general public is not that accepting of swingers yet. So a lot of the time it's not face pics first with us.
Works to my advantage as I'm not a good looking man so I rely on my personality!
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"Looks doesnt matter in nsa lol.
It matters more! I'm not fucking the guys personality or looking for a relationship!"
Question if I may, would you fuck a hot guy if his messages were shit/implied a shitty personality? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You notice somebody first because of their looks, that causes a lust that makes you want to get to know them.
Love at first sight is bollocks (In my humble opinion) lust yes, but you have to get to know somebody before you can love them!!
Without attraction, we're just friends that don't want to fuck!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I must be shallow as fuck then.. Because I won't even talk if I don't see a face pic first
I see this a lot more on UK profiles. We Irish are more cagey. It's a small country and a greater chance of bumping into someone you know (or even an extended family member) plus the general public is not that accepting of swingers yet. So a lot of the time it's not face pics first with us.
Works to my advantage as I'm not a good looking man so I rely on my personality!
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I don't want to know what personality is like if I don't physically find them attractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looks doesnt matter in nsa lol.
It matters more! I'm not fucking the guys personality or looking for a relationship!
Question if I may, would you fuck a hot guy if his messages were shit/implied a shitty personality?"
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I wouldn't, no,.. But if I don't find them attractive in the physical sense then what is the point knowing their personality first?.. I could spend weeks talking to someone who has a great personality and them they send me a face pic.. And I don't find them attractive... Both our times wasted.. |
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"I must be shallow as fuck then.. Because I won't even talk if I don't see a face pic first
I see this a lot more on UK profiles. We Irish are more cagey. It's a small country and a greater chance of bumping into someone you know (or even an extended family member) plus the general public is not that accepting of swingers yet. So a lot of the time it's not face pics first with us.
Works to my advantage as I'm not a good looking man so I rely on my personality!
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I don't want to know what personality is like if I don't physically find them attractive "
Seems the UK does it differently. Over in Ireland people seem to want to know each other a bit first.
Not saying either way is correct. It's just interesting. |
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"Looks doesnt matter in nsa lol.
It matters more! I'm not fucking the guys personality or looking for a relationship!
Question if I may, would you fuck a hot guy if his messages were shit/implied a shitty personality?
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I wouldn't, no,.. But if I don't find them attractive in the physical sense then what is the point knowing their personality first?.. I could spend weeks talking to someone who has a great personality and them they send me a face pic.. And I don't find them attractive... Both our times wasted.. "
So then your saying that personality counts for something then? It's not just attractiveness? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I must be shallow as fuck then.. Because I won't even talk if I don't see a face pic first
I see this a lot more on UK profiles. We Irish are more cagey. It's a small country and a greater chance of bumping into someone you know (or even an extended family member) plus the general public is not that accepting of swingers yet. So a lot of the time it's not face pics first with us.
Works to my advantage as I'm not a good looking man so I rely on my personality!
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I don't want to know what personality is like if I don't physically find them attractive
Seems the UK does it differently. Over in Ireland people seem to want to know each other a bit first.
Not saying either way is correct. It's just interesting. "
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Wouldn't say the UK does it differently........ Would say each person uses sight in a way thqt works for them.
Im here too fuck hot people... If I don't think they are hot I won't talk to them because I'd be wasting their time.
If I find them hot.. And then speak for a little while and they are complete cock wombles, then I won't fuck them... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I relplied "Don't you think attraction is important"? To which he replied, "Speak for yourself".
I bet he's gorgeous too!!! Just my luck
I don't think he'll be a miss even if he's gorgeous - if he's not bothered about looks what does it say about him?"
Very true |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looks doesnt matter in nsa lol.
It matters more! I'm not fucking the guys personality or looking for a relationship!
Question if I may, would you fuck a hot guy if his messages were shit/implied a shitty personality?
.. Personality also plays a massive part but to be honest we've had guys mail us who sound great and when you actually meet them we find out our front door as more personality. Looks and body are very important to
I wouldn't, no,.. But if I don't find them attractive in the physical sense then what is the point knowing their personality first?.. I could spend weeks talking to someone who has a great personality and them they send me a face pic.. And I don't find them attractive... Both our times wasted..
So then your saying that personality counts for something then? It's not just attractiveness?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been chatting with a guy for a couple of days, now I've asked to see his face pic I'm apparently shallow. Erm ok "
Your not shallow you just like to see the goods before you try them lol
I'm the same if you can't swap a face pic with someone how could they expect you to meet them and have sex with them!!
Don't worry about it I'm shallow too LMAO |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't "demand" a face pic on first message, it would be a bit rich of me to do so since I don't display mine or send it out with a first message either. I do like to see one fairly early on though. |
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"I must be shallow as fuck then.. Because I won't even talk if I don't see a face pic first
I see this a lot more on UK profiles. We Irish are more cagey. It's a small country and a greater chance of bumping into someone you know (or even an extended family member) plus the general public is not that accepting of swingers yet. So a lot of the time it's not face pics first with us.
Works to my advantage as I'm not a good looking man so I rely on my personality!
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I don't want to know what personality is like if I don't physically find them attractive
Seems the UK does it differently. Over in Ireland people seem to want to know each other a bit first.
Not saying either way is correct. It's just interesting.
..
Wouldn't say the UK does it differently........ Would say each person uses sight in a way thqt works for them.
Im here too fuck hot people... If I don't think they are hot I won't talk to them because I'd be wasting their time.
If I find them hot.. And then speak for a little while and they are complete cock wombles, then I won't fuck them... "
That's what I was getting at. Thanks.
And cock wombles....love it.
By the way, you're hot. I'd do you, but I doubt it's mutual. And that's OK |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I must be shallow as fuck then.. Because I won't even talk if I don't see a face pic first
I see this a lot more on UK profiles. We Irish are more cagey. It's a small country and a greater chance of bumping into someone you know (or even an extended family member) plus the general public is not that accepting of swingers yet. So a lot of the time it's not face pics first with us.
Works to my advantage as I'm not a good looking man so I rely on my personality!
..
I don't want to know what personality is like if I don't physically find them attractive
Seems the UK does it differently. Over in Ireland people seem to want to know each other a bit first.
Not saying either way is correct. It's just interesting.
..
Wouldn't say the UK does it differently........ Would say each person uses sight in a way thqt works for them.
Im here too fuck hot people... If I don't think they are hot I won't talk to them because I'd be wasting their time.
If I find them hot.. And then speak for a little while and they are complete cock wombles, then I won't fuck them...
That's what I was getting at. Thanks.
And cock wombles....love it.
By the way, you're hot. I'd do you, but I doubt it's mutual. And that's OK "
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Thanks ... I don't know..I haven't seen your face... Did you read that but not actually understand it? |
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"I must be shallow as fuck then.. Because I won't even talk if I don't see a face pic first
I see this a lot more on UK profiles. We Irish are more cagey. It's a small country and a greater chance of bumping into someone you know (or even an extended family member) plus the general public is not that accepting of swingers yet. So a lot of the time it's not face pics first with us.
Works to my advantage as I'm not a good looking man so I rely on my personality!
..
I don't want to know what personality is like if I don't physically find them attractive
Seems the UK does it differently. Over in Ireland people seem to want to know each other a bit first.
Not saying either way is correct. It's just interesting.
..
Wouldn't say the UK does it differently........ Would say each person uses sight in a way thqt works for them.
Im here too fuck hot people... If I don't think they are hot I won't talk to them because I'd be wasting their time.
If I find them hot.. And then speak for a little while and they are complete cock wombles, then I won't fuck them...
That's what I was getting at. Thanks.
And cock wombles....love it.
By the way, you're hot. I'd do you, but I doubt it's mutual. And that's OK
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Thanks ... I don't know..I haven't seen your face... Did you read that but not actually understand it? "
At the start no, I had thought that you'd fuck a guy as long as he's hot...even if he had the personality of a dung beetle. Glad to see I was mistaken.
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Ha. The mutual broadsides seem to have made you both forego the quotey thing.
"I must be shallow as fuck then.. Because I won't even talk if I don't see a face pic first
I see this a lot more on UK profiles. We Irish are more cagey. It's a small country and a greater chance of bumping into someone you know (or even an extended family member) plus the general public is not that accepting of swingers yet. So a lot of the time it's not face pics first with us.
Works to my advantage as I'm not a good looking man so I rely on my personality!
..
I don't want to know what personality is like if I don't physically find them attractive
Seems the UK does it differently. Over in Ireland people seem to want to know each other a bit first.
Not saying either way is correct. It's just interesting.
..
Wouldn't say the UK does it differently........ Would say each person uses sight in a way thqt works for them.
Im here too fuck hot people... If I don't think they are hot I won't talk to them because I'd be wasting their time.
If I find them hot.. And then speak for a little while and they are complete cock wombles, then I won't fuck them...
That's what I was getting at. Thanks.
And cock wombles....love it.
By the way, you're hot. I'd do you, but I doubt it's mutual. And that's OK
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Thanks ... I don't know..I haven't seen your face... Did you read that but not actually understand it?
At the start no, I had thought that you'd fuck a guy as long as he's hot...even if he had the personality of a dung beetle. Glad to see I was mistaken.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny. He could be famous and doesn't want his secret swinging desires to be leaked to the press, OR he's just ugly and ashamed.
Nothing wrong with being shallow. You are not having sex with the personality."
You are having sex with the package - including the personality. |
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By *ruegent101Man
over a year ago
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Confusing? Don't know how you can be classed as shallow when everyone on this site would wanto see a face picture before meeting etc  has to be some sort of attraction, Probably just spat his dummy out cause it wasn't going his way |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The whole package matters (which includes aesthetic attraction). If that's what makes people shallow then so be it."
Get this... I was at a party last weekend. Some guy who I'd never met before was trying to touch me. I told him no. So yesterday he messages to ask if I'll go out to dinner. In the nicest possible way I explained that although he seemed like a nice person, the chemistry wasn't there. He Took it ok (ish) by responding "End of conversation"!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been chatting with a guy for a couple of days, now I've asked to see his face pic I'm apparently shallow. Erm ok "
Did he not expect you to want to see him at some stage , if you meet would you have to keep your eyes closed , logic level -175 |
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"Been chatting with a guy for a couple of days, now I've asked to see his face pic I'm apparently shallow. Erm ok
Did he not expect you to want to see him at some stage , if you meet would you have to keep your eyes closed , logic level -175"
I removed 'blindfolds' from my list of interests. You'd think he'd have noticed right?!? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Very interesting post but yes, I'm shallow, I don't mind admitting it. Perhaps I should admit that there's no end to the depths of my shallowness. "
Shallow in what way? |
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