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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you on both?  
No. Fab and clubs fulfil my dating requirements. Why would I date anyone who wasn't already having casual sex?"
Question as I've saw plenty of people on them from here, also I'm on there.... I hardly ever use it though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. Here only. I was on another swinging site before here and tried to login the other day and it threw me out 'user unrecognised' so after a period of inactivity as long as that I'm obviously expunged from the records.
So Fab it is. You're stuck with me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope. Here only. I was on another swinging site before here and tried to login the other day and it threw me out 'user unrecognised' so after a period of inactivity as long as that I'm obviously expunged from the records.
So Fab it is. You're stuck with me."
Ah I didn't know of any other swinging sites ire fab |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope. Here only. I was on another swinging site before here and tried to login the other day and it threw me out 'user unrecognised' so after a period of inactivity as long as that I'm obviously expunged from the records.
So Fab it is. You're stuck with me.
Ah I didn't know of any other swinging sites ire fab "
^like fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you on both?
No. Fab and clubs fulfil my dating requirements. Why would I date anyone who wasn't already having casual sex?
Question as I've saw plenty of people on them from here, also I'm on there.... I hardly ever use it though. "
If you have seen "plenty" on both then you have already answered your question....! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was on pof but came here to take a break from all the sex.... 
Any tips u wanna share lol"
On pof? The number one tip for casual sex on pof is to have profile set to looking for relationship.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was on pof but came here to take a break from all the sex....
Any tips u wanna share lol
On pof? The number one tip for casual sex on pof is to have profile set to looking for relationship...."
There you go. How to mug off women. What a tool |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was on pof but came here to take a break from all the sex....
Any tips u wanna share lol
On pof? The number one tip for casual sex on pof is to have profile set to looking for relationship....
There you go. How to mug off women. What a tool"
Number two tip....upload a sense of humour....number three impress the ladies with your white knight skills... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not knowingly on any other site.... But I did have 3 profiles on the fish site that someone kindly (sarcasm) set up for me.. I hope I had lots of fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, never would try online dating personally. I don't really use Fab as a lot of other single guys do, but it works for me and I enjoy the forums mainly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not knowingly on any other site.... But I did have 3 profiles on the fish site that someone kindly (sarcasm) set up for me.. I hope I had lots of fun "
Ah god damn picture stealers |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I'm on the fishy site as well as here,... I'm looking for something more permanent in my life,
In the mean time I'm having fun whilst I find that, where ever that might be,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not knowingly on any other site.... But I did have 3 profiles on the fish site that someone kindly (sarcasm) set up for me.. I hope I had lots of fun
Ah god damn picture stealers "
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It happens.. *shrug* |
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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
I prefer fabswingers this site to a dating site tbh
Esp nsa .no pressure to be in a relationship on here. An ive met some nice guys on here for a social ...an had a laugh
An im a lot happier on fabs as it gives me the freedom to express myself sexually too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the dating sites i'm on are fuck sites anyway. Pretty sure everything on the internet is fuck sites now, game sites, chat apps and the random adds, fb, idk about twitter? |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
Ashton Under Lyne |
Honestly - I signed up for the dating site in question and went on a few dates to see how things would turn out. My GOD ! After 3 dates with an otherwise nice man, all this talk-talk stuff drove me nuts, I couldn't take it any more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was on a dating site, but most of the guys were only after sex and there are better filters on here to out the ones im not interested in plus i like fab better so deleted the other site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was on pof but came here to take a break from all the sex....
Any tips u wanna share lol
On pof? The number one tip for casual sex on pof is to have profile set to looking for relationship...."
Kind of a shitty thing to do though.
never understand guys like that. Be honest and let someone make a choice instead of leading them to think there could be more. Argh!!! Makes me mad. |
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Both, but you know no one just wants to date anymore, they just want to evaluate you for a "serious relationship". I prefer to date and get to know someone over time, not pass a relationship test.
So for now it's more fun here, plus would love to find a sexy partner in crime to have fun with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On pof? The number one tip for casual sex on pof is to have profile set to looking for relationship...."
Haha this may work for some but that's why I'm on FAB.... I make the POF ones wait lol and get my sexual needs met from here  if they wanted a one off they ent getting it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I found out about this site from someone on POF, so that was a win.
TBH I get more action from there than I do here, including kink.
I think I need to take a break though... POF is now offering me matches from hundreds of miles away. Need to let the local pot refill |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On pof? The number one tip for casual sex on pof is to have profile set to looking for relationship....
Haha this may work for some but that's why I'm on FAB.... I make the POF ones wait lol and get my sexual needs met from here if they wanted a one off they ent getting it!! "
Exactly. When it comes to dating you implement all sorts or rules.
2nd date for kissing
4th date for sex.
you end up semi celibate which led me here. |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
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What I don't get is how can you be here just for fun and on a dating site to just date? So the women on here aren't good to date either? I'm saying this because a lot of women, including myself are on dating sites too. I have had this happen to me numerous times where a guy is happy to see me regularly for sex and we get on, but doesn't see me as dating material, then goes off fab as he's found someone to date on a dating site... like this girl is great to fuck, nothing more. What happens when the girl you decide to date is actually on a swingers or casual sex site? What then?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I found out about this site from someone on POF, so that was a win.
TBH I get more action from there than I do here, including kink.
I think I need to take a break though... POF is now offering me matches from hundreds of miles away. Need to let the local pot refill "
I found a lot of people say they get more off POF and tinder .... Which I just naturally assumed they would get the most from here? Guess I'm wrong lol
I barely use POF though purely cos I use it for dating purposes only and not into that right now ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On pof? The number one tip for casual sex on pof is to have profile set to looking for relationship....
Haha this may work for some but that's why I'm on FAB.... I make the POF ones wait lol and get my sexual needs met from here if they wanted a one off they ent getting it!!
Exactly. When it comes to dating you implement all sorts or rules.
2nd date for kissing
4th date for sex.
you end up semi celibate which led me here. "
Haha I have that In mind like at least a 5 date rule for sex but to filter the crap ones out I tell them 10 dates like I could wait that long haha!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What I don't get is how can you be here just for fun and on a dating site to just date? So the women on here aren't good to date either? I'm saying this because a lot of women, including myself are on dating sites too. I have had this happen to me numerous times where a guy is happy to see me regularly for sex and we get on, but doesn't see me as dating material, then goes off fab as he's found someone to date on a dating site... like this girl is great to fuck, nothing more. What happens when the girl you decide to date is actually on a swingers or casual sex site? What then? "
I found that.... Most only want me for bedroom purposes and at first I thought something was wrong with me and soon realised it was them not me....
When I date and I think it's promising I tell them and have this awkward conversation.... If it puts them off so be it but most are fine with it....
I have found it normally fizzles out from my side due to vanilla sex lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What I don't get is how can you be here just for fun and on a dating site to just date? So the women on here aren't good to date either? I'm saying this because a lot of women, including myself are on dating sites too. I have had this happen to me numerous times where a guy is happy to see me regularly for sex and we get on, but doesn't see me as dating material, then goes off fab as he's found someone to date on a dating site... like this girl is great to fuck, nothing more. What happens when the girl you decide to date is actually on a swingers or casual sex site? What then? "
If they compartmentalise people there's not a lot you can do about it. Best not to get into a relationship with them.
Many people do tend to have lower standards for a sexual NSA relationship than they would for someone they're planning to spend the rest of their life with and introduce to other people.
It is a bit sad, but it also makes some sense because if you're using someone and enjoy that usage then you're gonna be happy with things the way they are there and not want to take it any further because you don't have to and have no inclination. I don't think we're naturally inclined to be this way but society pressured us to devalue sexually promiscuous people or people who just don't mess about AND are overt about it, but it does allow people to be used and left feeling confused about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I found that men on dating sites either just wanted sex or some mug to do their laundry.
On here there's a much better chance of me finding someone compatible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was on pof but came here to take a break from all the sex....
Any tips u wanna share lol
On pof? The number one tip for casual sex on pof is to have profile set to looking for relationship....
Kind of a shitty thing to do though.
never understand guys like that. Be honest and let someone make a choice instead of leading them to think there could be more. Argh!!! Makes me mad. "
It was more a tongue in cheek reference to the number of women on pof saying that they want relationships but actually just looking for sex.
I found tinder, pof and badoo all the same and it's why I ended up here - here people are genuinely honest and open about their intent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't look for sex on pof badoo or tinder"
Just my personal experience, I actually think theiron use differs from area to area, again, my personal experience though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Recently joined a dating one, but forget I'm in it and logged in about 3 times. Joined it hoping to find someone local and they shoe face pics so makes it a lot easier. But I can barely be bothered withthis at the minute let alone tthat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on Pof but rarely use it now. They're so strict in trying to stamp out people just looking for a shag that you can't discuss sexual compatibility at all on there, something I consider to be a fundamental part of a relationship.
I now use OKC. It's much better for seeing if you're suited before you waste your time dating someone, only to find out they're not right for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have noticed that if a guy trys to send a girl a message containing any kind of sexual word, the message doesn't send (it says it is sent though) and is automatically deleted from sent messages list. Messages from a lady can contain sexual words though. |
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