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"No it shouldn't in my opinion. I could name and shame you and there's not a darn thing you could do about it." I agree, too open to abuse. I've had one no show and 2 cancel this weekend. It's how Fab is sometimes. I'm not concerned enough to bother. | |||
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"No. But I will tell my friends not to bother with xxx because they didn't bother turning up, I mean proper friends not ppl on my friends list." This too | |||
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"We are fed up with alleged single guys / couples that message arrange a meet then go offline and come back on 12/24 hours later with the most pathetic excuse, we've had "Fell asleep" "Got called into work" "Forgot" and "Had to babysit for sister". Is it us or should fab have a name and shame list ? " how would it work as you did not turn up last week ok a lie but you see the problem | |||
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"We are fed up with alleged single guys / couples that message arrange a meet then go offline and come back on 12/24 hours later with the most pathetic excuse, we've had "Fell asleep" "Got called into work" "Forgot" and "Had to babysit for sister". Is it us or should fab have a name and shame list ? " A quick forum search for name and shame threads will tell you all you need to know. Possibly the worst idea mooted on the forums. | |||
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"If I had a lot of no shows or whatever I'd look at myself first, there's plenty of ways to establish fakes from real, time wasters from genuine etc. Plus, one version of the same story can differ a lot, I don't think it's fair to have a name and shame. " There is absolutely no way to identify fakes which is 100% reliable. Let's be absolutely clear on that. For sure there are ways to reduce your risks of being messed about by them but it is simply impossible to reduce the risk to zero. | |||
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"I think it's a good idea, but a better idea could be a rating system, which would allow members to redeem themselves. For example everyone starts with a 100% rating, then for every report against that person the percentage drops, but over time of active participation if no bad reports the members score can start to move back up the ranking. Gives everyone the opportunity to have a bad spell yet allow them to make it right. " Who by and how will the bad reports be verified? | |||
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"No it shouldn't in my opinion. I could name and shame you and there's not a darn thing you could do about it." Yep agree with above. Just block em and be done with em ..... Think we've been lucky not had many tbh xxx | |||
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"I think it's a good idea, but a better idea could be a rating system, which would allow members to redeem themselves. For example everyone starts with a 100% rating, then for every report against that person the percentage drops, but over time of active participation if no bad reports the members score can start to move back up the ranking. Gives everyone the opportunity to have a bad spell yet allow them to make it right. Who by and how will the bad reports be verified?" | |||
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"We are fed up with alleged single guys / couples that message arrange a meet then go offline and come back on 12/24 hours later with the most pathetic excuse, we've had "Fell asleep" "Got called into work" "Forgot" and "Had to babysit for sister". Is it us or should fab have a name and shame list ? " No it shouldn't. Too open to abuse. | |||
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"A 'no show' rating, (that does not show) 3 separate ratings from 3 different people blocks the IP address " It might be the same three people giving the no show rating though. | |||
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"I think it's a good idea, but a better idea could be a rating system, which would allow members to redeem themselves. For example everyone starts with a 100% rating, then for every report against that person the percentage drops, but over time of active participation if no bad reports the members score can start to move back up the ranking. Gives everyone the opportunity to have a bad spell yet allow them to make it right. " And say you said somthing on the forums i didnt like or you pissed me off so i think im gona give him a bad report.. yes id be lying but its easily abused | |||
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"We are fed up with alleged single guys / couples that message arrange a meet then go offline and come back on 12/24 hours later with the most pathetic excuse, we've had "Fell asleep" "Got called into work" "Forgot" and "Had to babysit for sister". Is it us or should fab have a name and shame list ? " I arranged a hotel, paid for it, spoke on the phone you both said you were coming, and nothing, you never turned up and I was left our of pocket. I name you as time wasters All completely made up nonsense, but you get the point on how easily open to abuse naming and shaming is | |||
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"I think it's a good idea, but a better idea could be a rating system, which would allow members to redeem themselves. For example everyone starts with a 100% rating, then for every report against that person the percentage drops, but over time of active participation if no bad reports the members score can start to move back up the ranking. Gives everyone the opportunity to have a bad spell yet allow them to make it right. " And how are the reports to be verified ?, only way I can see that working is if you took whoever is validating the reports to the meet. Actually if that's a new job full time job, where do I sign up | |||
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"A 'no show' rating, (that does not show) 3 separate ratings from 3 different people blocks the IP address " if you click on report profile there is a "no show" section to tick | |||
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"We are fed up with alleged single guys / couples that message arrange a meet then go offline and come back on 12/24 hours later with the most pathetic excuse, we've had "Fell asleep" "Got called into work" "Forgot" and "Had to babysit for sister". Is it us or should fab have a name and shame list ? " hey I've had loads and paid out money you just have to live with it eg you as a couple get lots of messages so you can pick the best to meet we as guys don't have that luxury !!!! | |||
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"We are fed up with alleged single guys / couples that message arrange a meet then go offline and come back on 12/24 hours later with the most pathetic excuse, we've had "Fell asleep" "Got called into work" "Forgot" and "Had to babysit for sister". Is it us or should fab have a name and shame list ? " I have thought about this but you would get ppl abuse this to ,put in false stories about you because maybe you didn't fancy them.,how would you police such a thing.,? | |||
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"A 'no show' rating, (that does not show) 3 separate ratings from 3 different people blocks the IP address if you click on report profile there is a "no show" section to tick " Correct: | |||
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"I absolutely agree with the above comments. A name and shame list is open to all sorts of problems. As I said earlier the best option is to develop close and trusting friendships with others on fab and pass around info. We have been warned off crazy people, timewasters and fakes. Equally we have received a number of positive recommendations. Where we know and trust the person providing this info it is invaluable and much better than fab verifications or photo verifications. The trouble is that it takes a long time as members to develop those contacts but we would recommend making the effort." We've never received any info about anyone on Fab from other people. Maybe that means we are the ones people are warning against! | |||
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"A 'no show' rating, (that does not show) 3 separate ratings from 3 different people blocks the IP address " But if, for some reason, someone wanted to screw someone up; it could be easy enough to find 2 other people to put in a false " no show ". So that's easily open to abuse too. But anyway: I am sure - if people used the "no show" button (that already exists ) when reporting a profile, and someone was seen by admin as a " serial offender ", they would do something about it... | |||
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"I absolutely agree with the above comments. A name and shame list is open to all sorts of problems. As I said earlier the best option is to develop close and trusting friendships with others on fab and pass around info. We have been warned off crazy people, timewasters and fakes. Equally we have received a number of positive recommendations. Where we know and trust the person providing this info it is invaluable and much better than fab verifications or photo verifications. The trouble is that it takes a long time as members to develop those contacts but we would recommend making the effort. We've never received any info about anyone on Fab from other people. Maybe that means we are the ones people are warning against! " Lol, neither do we . We're not inclined to listen to gossip anyway. | |||
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"No it shouldn't in my opinion. I could name and shame you and there's not a darn thing you could do about it. I agree, too open to abuse. I've had one no show and 2 cancel this weekend. It's how Fab is sometimes. I'm not concerned enough to bother." Wish I was near Grantham | |||
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